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Slowly. I've succeeded with my wife. Start slow. Engage them when something like the Ukraine girls death - women are stupid, so make it relevant to them "babe imagine if you ever rode a bus now" or what about your friends "XYZ"
Make FUNNY, not funny to us, but funny to normie racial comments. I started with Basketball Americans. After a year or two I started saying Future Engineers, etc.
You have to wait until a pivotal moment happens and then lay out the argument PURELY on their safety.
Also, it helps greatly if you've make them a mother - she basically has no choice but to follow your lead in any and all things.
Oh and last, make sure you every so often throw in "not all of them....but this dude on the news etc etc" give their feeble mind the "out" it needs to keep going.