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They all work fine. Depends on your budget and what you're looking for. Want an expensive but smart-phone like experience? Ledger. Want a simple cheap experience? Trezor. Ledger also has cheaper options like the nano x (which I use) that work perfectly fine. It looks like a USB stick and is easy to hide. I'm sure Trezor has expensive options too. I like the wearable ring, but I don't want to spend the funds right now as I'm satisfied with what I have.
Just buy directly from the providers and use fake names / po boxes. Not Amazon, etc. Is it overkill? Absolutely. But you'll be glad when your info is eventually hacked. I'd use emails and stuff you don't plan on keeping, or use for spam, so if they get hacked, and your spam email gets emails, you know it's compromised.
The reason it's overkill for stuff like ledger is because it does a validity check before giving you a seed phrase, so if people fucked with it, it would flag it, but I don't take anything for granted.