>>722893885
>Kris Is Two Niggas
Nobody knows this except Ralsei and Carol and it probably didn't happen until recently, and you and Kris are still not the same person, anyone could address Kris individually. This is not a serious explanation.
>plus his whole thing about wanting to be a monster and not a human
Most monsters are boys or girls and Kris was raised by Toriel as her own child, there's no reason they couldn't have been Asriel's brother or sister.
The simple answer is that Toby wants as many people as possible to be able to identify with Kris, just like Frisk and Chara. Unlike with Undertale writing around their identity was impossible, so he just faced it head-on and it works out.
>>722894417
>So a character needs to either have your gender or no gender at all for you to relate to them
You have not had the life experiences of a 16-year-old tumblr lesbian and would not relate to them. Those girls who play this game can relate to Kris, because Kris is not explicitly a boy and therefore their experiences and relationships are not viewed as gendered experiences. Many young men on here relate to Kris's relationships with Susie and Noelle (and Ralsei) in ways that they would not if Kris were a girl and those relationships were explicitly lesbian ones (as others perceive them to be). We relate other people's experiences to our own and view them through our own lens, seeing what we know and want to see, that's how people work.