>>719058556
It's not about "being stereotypical." A relationship is not "heteronormative" just because it could be described as involving a feminine person and masculine person. Susie hypothetically being a butch lesbian in a relationship with Noelle is not "heteronormative."
"Heteronormative" in this context means that heterosexual norms - traditional gender roles and heterosexual relationships - are being actively enforced on the people involved. The label is being applied to Kris and Noelle in the Weird Route specifically because how the "romance" in that route is playing out, as a result of (You) and possibly Carol's meddling to push Kris and Noelle into something they clearly weren't comfortable with.
This is not a "your ship is too woke/based" competition, it's basic literary analysis, no sane person is criticizing you for how you want to smash your virtual dolls together or thinks Toby Fox has done something wrong here by writing this very good story.
>>719058660
I don't think it's much of a problem for a they/them character to clearly lean one way or another. Every person was born and raised a boy or girl. Kris is still androgynous enough that people who want to interpret them as a girl can do that, it's just more fanfiction-y than getting deep into stuff like "Kris's deepest childhood memories are locked away in a place called "MANCOUNTRY""