>>33387769
>Can you give us a couple tips?
I shall assist, since I'm in my "not hating moids" arc.
Firstly, it's highly dependent on the woman and the type of sex you're having, especially if it is counterintuitive to some other facet of her beliefs and personality. Example, I'm a very dominant person in my daily life and have a hard time giving control to others and trusting others' decision-making. But when my fiancée and I have sex, I often surrender to her and this conflicts with my identity outside of the bedroom. It's her responsibility to make me feel secure and comfortable after the fact. So it starts even before sex, building that trust for someone to be completely vulnerable, and carries through to after sex when you reassure them both emotionally and physically.
Secondly, orgasms can be very intense for us. On both a physiological and emotional level. That's not including any sort of overstimulation like the other person was talking about. Think of it like an adrenaline rush, where after the fact you are all nerves, your stomach is in knots, and you don't know what to do with all those feelings. It's your responsibility to bring your partner back down, and there are various soothing techniques you can learn like how to touch them or what words of affirmation to provide. Shit, some even like being lazily stimulated as they ease down from their orgasm.
Thirdly, time. I think one thing about sex men don't really get is time. Whereas for women, and lesbians especially, we understand the important of time and patience. I used to joke about how lesbian sex is two hours long because it's 50 minutes of foreplay, 10 minutes of sex, and an hour of aftercare. It can take time, even if the sex itself is short.
Lastly, learn her body language. Sometimes we don't know our own selves, and what we think we want isn't always what we need. I'm guilty of this myself.
>>33387788
>So was boondocks
Riley is my motherfuckin nigga. I'd adopt him in a heartbeat.
