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It was such a delight to read your response. I'm so glad I could do something meaningful for you and that I opened this thread. It's very touching how you used to have such an innocent and fun friendship in childhood. I remember befriending the ones that got picked on and I got some very good friendships out of it, even though I would drift apart at times from them, resparking was always so meaningful.
All cards aside, you can really only give yourself in a relationship, the more interesting and passionate the more you can give. Can't share your life if you don't have one. I'm sure that at cons, you will find your people. I've also never seen an anime con without trans people. To chase souls is one of the most sincere and pure things.
Just something I'm throwing in the air because I've seen it a lot - but a lot of "chasers" that feel close connection to trans people end up GNC, liminal in gender roles, or trans themselves.