>>216149039
i find many black women hot, very hot even.
my problem with them is that romantically i am attracted to girls with something intrinsically sweet about them. not just kindness or politeness in the conventional sense, but a gentleness that feels unforced, like warmth that seeps out naturally rather than being performed. a tenderness, an emoitional sincerity, an infectious warmth that brightens the day of everyone they meet. i have liked a lot of girls in my time, but i have only ever felt actual love for girls with this quality.
i have met girls of all different races with this quality; white girls, asian girls, arab girls, latin girls, but i have never ever found this quality in a black girl. it feels like everything they do is tinged with a heavy cynicism, an anti-social tendency. i think their culture valorises hostility, hypermaterialism (all women view relationships as transactional to some extent but black female perception of it is extreme) and masculine traits in women. even in educated, attractive non-ghetto types, i have observed this, an idea that real love is weakness, that gentleness is submission, that being combative is the highest value and shows self-respect.
maybe black women are just more honestly about their real intentions, but real or fake, their personalities make me avoid them for anything more than sex sex sex.