Thread 34267881

Only 30+ virgins post here and tell the class how you fucked up and got here.

>>34267881 (OP)
an introvert.
right before covid i lost both my grandpas in the same year, which as you can imagine kinda didn't put me in the mood for relationships.
then, of course, covid.
issues happening during covid ended in me being part of a riot.
i then spent two and a half years dealing with being prosecuted by the federal government, then 4 months in prison.
needless to say that was 5+ years leading up to me being 30 earlier this year that it just simply wasn't gonna happen.

>>34267887
You fought the good fight and sacrificed much. I was just jacking off and working out.

34 year old virgin. Too many mental issues, 0 self-esteem, body dysmorphia, 5'5 manlet. I tried getting professional help for over a decade and nothing seemed to work to fix my issues

>>34267881 (OP)
I'm 32. I don't go outside for anything other than work. I haven't talked to a woman about anything outside of work-related things in 14 years.
I'm decent looking (according to /soc/), I can hold a conversation just fine. But I am very boring. Like I said, I don't go outside. All my interests involve things on my computer or on the internet. I enjoy my life, however, so I have zero interest in finding new interests/hobbies for the sake of getting some pussy.

>>34274630
I'm interested in you as you are. What's your discord? I would love to talk to you

31f

>>34275891
Sure, why not?
zenithalecho

>>34275968
ID is different since I'm on mobile.

Nevr tell you coworkers you are a virgin.

>>34267881 (OP)
I'll be thirty in a couple months. Got no prospects so I'll be joining the club. I'm a very well trained introvert. I have no problems navigating social stuff, but I have very little capacity for it. As such I have absolutely zero interest in hookups. I have always sought a special connection with someone who I am attracted to. I'm the kind of person who mates for life.
I am apparently a very attractive guy, seeing as I have now had to beat five different women off with a stick to get them to leave me alone. I'm actually in the process of breaking off contact with my former best friend because he sees no issue with his girlfriend sending me suicidal love letters for over two years.
Female attention has never been the problem. It's that it has never been good female attention from someone I'm attracted to and like.
It has been a lifetime of shit experiences that made me say "why am I doing this?" I ended my first relationship because her jealous friends managed to convince me she was cheating. My prom date said yes, then proceeded to ignore me the whole night. The first girl I showed my cock to was so freaked out by it being uncircumsized that she just up and left.
It's funny I know, but like... how do I recover from this? I don't actually care about my virginity, that's for normies. I just want to find my person.
I don't even know how to start with people when the topic comes up. The last girl I briefly dated asked about previous relationships and I told her honestly this would be my first real one. Looking back I'm sure that was the moment when she decided not to continue things. If women are so skeeved by a nearly 30 year old man never having a relationship, how would they feel about him never having sex?

>33m
>spent high school and college obsessing over vidya and comics and other gay shit
>spent post-college years working as much as possible to escape wagie life
>now I have money and my own place but don't feel like chasing
I'm way more interested in getting fit and trying to curb my drinking problem at this point and I feel having a woman would be another distraction from those goals

>>34267881 (OP)
32m turning 33 this year.

In high school I got along with everyone but instinctively avoided meeting people out of school even when invited because I was scared it was a trap of some sort or I'd make a fool of myself.
After that all those relationships disappeared once I finished school. College was the same I made friends in class but never anything real.

I've had a lot of internet relationships over the years but with internet relationships the girl will always disappear or crash out and abandon you the moment she has a bad day irl or finds someone she finds more interesting. I've always been obsessively loyal and idk, casually clingy(?) so I think that makes women less interested as they find out they're the most important thing in your life. Like it's really easy to make friends for me or get along with girls but I seem to consistently fail at making them develop long-term romantic feelings for me. They'll develop a short term crush, or at least say they do, maybe just from receiving attention and affection that they don't normally get, and then it fades as she gets busier in real life I guess I'm too boring idk.

Now I'm a hikkiNEET with plenty of money and no social circle being a NEET in your 30's fucking sucks ass no one ever wants to talk even online because they're always at work or school.

On top of all that 4chan my internet home has been taken over by chuds and normalfags that ruined every board so even making fellow weirdo weeb friends is really hard. /soc/ basically just exists for normies to find hookups, anyone that actually enjoys the things 4chan was made for(anime, games, weird hentai, japanese culture, touhou) is seen as an outcast. especially if you're not obsessed with right-wing /pol/tard culture wars. /v/ hasn't been about video games since the 00's. /jp/ is just a board for gooners these days. It's all so sad.

Thanks for reading my blog.

if any femanons want to take pity on this socially isolated neet my discord is: mewstech

>>34267881 (OP)
is that spaceghostpurrp

>>34267887
>>34274630
>>34280689
>>34280754
>>34280845
Didn't read. Lol

>>34275891
a woman actually approaching a man (on 4chan). fucking wild

Turning 32 soon.
I come back here every 6 months maybe and look for new friends or people to talk to. As I get more spiritual, I get more unsettled and offput by the pictures I see posted.

>>34281370
I read them all :)

>>34280689
>If women are so skeeved by a nearly 30 year old man never having a relationship, how would they feel about him never having sex?
If I ever meet a girl I want her to know. I don't want to deprive a girl of the experience of being a guy's first.

imagine if this is the thread some anons finally get laid on

are you ready to carry such a responsability OP?

>>34267881 (OP)
41...

In some sense I'm a virgin by choice - I've been orbiting my high school sweetheart for 22 years and we got together again seven years ago. We do all sorts of couple stuff including making out and heavy petting etc., but she has a hard line at anything having to do with genitals or my seeing her naked breasts (although she is sometimes into me groping her under her clothes if i can get her excited enough with sexy talk.) Why don't we have sex? I'm not a Christian, and to her sex shouldn't happen outside of marriage and marriage is a pact taken under God. But also..

Today she was voraciously squeezing and groping my huge belly and pulling my shirt up to marvel at it, telling me how it's so hot how much weight I've gained in the last few weeks, and I reached to try to grab her breasts and she really shut me down. She is attracted to me and wants to molest and tease me and get her hands all over me, but my desire for her is something she has to put up with - she can sometimes get into "being a huge titty bimbo" or "a hot skinny buxom girl who is magically turned into a fatty lover" as a naughty conceptual thing, but is generally turned off by the idea that I want the same kind of interaction with her body that she gets with mine regularly. It is a shame because her body is incredible.

I don't think I'll ever find someone who is as attracted to me as she is, or someone as beautiful, and I care for her very much. But I wish sometimes I could find someone who wanted _me_ to be hungry for _them_ and reacted to my advances with honest, not-feigned interest, and maybe wanted to have sex with me? I don't know if that's possible.

>>34267881 (OP)
32, 6+ feet and better looking than average.
I had some occurrences of girls being interested in me but I was not interested in them and I didn't want to be part of the problem by pretending to love them just to have sex.
People suck, hypocritical and mentally ill. I gave up on normal life as there is nothing normal in this sick society.
I had dreams and the means to realize them, but if you want to do things right instead of just obeying, then society will go after you with all the violence it is known for.

>>34267881 (OP)
Sup Ike how was DragonCon?

I passed you in the halls at Momo and didn't talk to you because I thought I would see you in the courtyard that night and then couldn't find you again

>>34267881 (OP)
35 in a few weeks. I am not even ugly I just never leave my basement.

>>34284458
What? Never been to DC or Momo. My first con was actually a month ago at Galaxy.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JuWtfIvoQGg

30m from canada
slow mental growth growing up and 0 social skills until the past 5 years has left me a hyper sexual 0 rizz loser who games and jerks off to cope with being a failure

>>34267881 (OP)

I just turned 37 and I have no idea. I am not a virgin but only because I paid because I have dozens of both men and women pressure me into it even though none of them would have done and after ward I was pretty angry I did it at all. I don’t even have anything against sex work just didn’t think it should be necessary. I don’t really understand how this sort of stuff works, have been rejected a couple thousand times and haven’t bothered in years. I would be happy to even just be able to talk to people but I can’t get that to happen even when people say they want to be my friends or like me and I don’t know why people keep lying about that but I try my best and I just don’t really enjoy human interaction me thinks


I am just focusing on taking care of my recently handicapped mom. I will likely kms after she dies(her request before I get asked for the hundredth time which is making me start to want to fucking stab someone) and planned on this anyway so there is likely no point in pursuing this kind of interaction and I also do not like people touching me at all and it tends to make me angry so I have no idea what it would look like even given the opportunity

I also have autism, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder and a traumatic brain injury

>>34267881 (OP)
i turned down easy opportunities when i was younger because i was waiting for a marriage that never came

>>34286601
I turned down easy opportunities because they were fat or men.

>>34267881 (OP)
I never tried and I'm a deathnic

>>34267881 (OP)
>how you fucked up and got here
i just assumed i'd be dead by now, i guess you can't die unless you try

I’m 41 and bi only had sex with men even though want women. Gay secks doesn’t count so I’m a wizard. I still kind of think homosexuality is a mental illness and isn’t real sex.

Never tried. It hurts so much to see a picture of me at 20. I really wasn't that ugly. If only I had tried.

>>34289673
>Never tried. It hurts so much to see a picture of me at 20. I really wasn't that ugly. If only I had tried.
Reaching the upper ages is kind of interesting, it really starts to set in that its over for you. But its nice too because the part of your brain that clings to hope gets smaller with every passing year. One day you wake up and realize you're too old for any woman that's attractive and doesn't have kids.

I'm exactly 30 and I have never even kissed anyone. I'm really hoping that I'll be able to keep it that way for the rest of my life.

>>34267881 (OP)
I was always a nerd. When puberty hit, I was woefully unprepared for dealing with girls in social or sexual ways and didn't even bother to try. Instead, I doubled down on my women-repelling hobbies like Warhammer and MMOs. I had no friends in school and was actively disliked by many due to my habit of skipping showers and my refusal to even pretend to be normal, so when Wrath of the Lich King released when I was 15, it felt like a natural and eminently sensible decision to drop out with no qualifications so I'd have more time to raid and hunt for my Time-Lost Proto-Drake. That didn't pan out, for obvious reasons, and when I was 17 I decided to try again, going to college in an attempt to salvage what remained of my teenage years. To that end, I made the decision to become a stoner, and it worked to some degree. For half a year I was content smoking weed with the other stoners and never attending class, but then my family moved to the other end of the country and that too was over. I had grown dependent on weed at this point and metaphorically delved into the gutters in order to maintain the increasingly expensive and unsatisfying habit. Before I knew it, I had spent ten years sitting in my room doing nothing but getting ripped off every month for bad weed from a man who knew full well I was too depressed and lazy to ever complain about it. I finally quit weed just before turning 30, but the damage was done. I am 32 now, I have no friends or acquaintances, and I haven't interacted socially with a woman since I was a teenager. I feel like the ship of life has sailed and that there is nothing left to do but sit at my computer and wait to die of old age or NEET-related decrepitude.

>>34289886
Why don't you want to kiss anyone?

>>34289953

I don't even have any friends, and I don't want to have any. I can't stand any kind of intimacy or affection and I'm absolutely repulsed by the thought of anyone caring about me.

>>34290143
so why are you on this board?

>>34267881 (OP)
Short, pale, babyfaced to fuck (this disappeared as I hit late 30s, great job genetics, fuck you god)

I have fucked prostitutes though (did it before I hit 40 so I didn't become "that" meme) Still a virgin though, but not pure virgin. I'd have barebacked a prostitute if I could find one who did it though.

>>34267881 (OP)
Not 30 (27) but I feel like I'll be reaching it soon, in spite of what picrel says.

The Last 5 years I've been trying to fix my life after my parents separated while also caught between two consecutive mid-life crises. 20-22 I wound up working a lot to get my sister through college. 22 onward to present I've worked part time after part time until I got myself fired to collect unemployment which worked in my favor. Now I'm currently awaiting an interview for a possible assistant manager position before I go back to college myself to get my CS degree to go into Cybersecurity. Especially after managing to luck out with getting a mentor.

On a personal note, I've grappled with intimacy issues in terms of looking or trying to look attractive and also suffered severe social isolation by going to a catholic school. In short, a lot of bullshit forced me to grow up fast and make me too self-aware for my own good. I feel like my impression on relationships have soured to the point where I can't just make myself horny or imagine being riled up. Being in NY or NYC also doesn't help out of a cosmic stroke of bad luck being next to a hodgepodge of an elitist bougie and immigrant pigsty when people aren't one of the same mine.

former 30 y.o. virgin here been in all types of relationships since with hot and ugly women and i can tell you that women are all trash you won't feel better getting ur dick wet trust

srsly they're all petty, lying, boring garbage subhumans (not even mad here, objective facts) and "getting to know them" only will confirm all the incel redpill shit u have read online.

sex is pretty good though, just be careful cause they all have std's as well

>>34292595
Truth nuke

Are there any hookup guides that aren't like pickup artist bullshit? I just need to know how to conduct myself in case something happens spontaneously.

>>34292595
Feels a bit like cope?

>>34267881 (OP)
>tell the class how you fucked up and got here.
I didn't go out (reps to failure).
I am not quite retarded, I simply preferred staying inside or going on dual walks with a friend over the far too noisy, smelly, boring affair that is young partying.
This went on for several years and having no friends besides a guy that ended up being a gigadrama queen meant I was left building a social circle in my late twenties. No big story, just vidya and shitposting and kinda throwing my life away.
It's getting on track but I don't feel ready for a relationship yet as I've a lot of catching up to do before I start feeling like an (emotional) adult.
Socializing is going well at least, as far as it can go in my area.

>>34293601
>in case something happens spontaneously.
That's some grade A hopium you must be on, anon. I almost envy you

>>34267900
>0 self-esteem, body dysmorphia, 5'5 manlet.
Literally, unironically me

I don't suppose you also thought seriously about trooning out in your 20s did you?

chad marco check your discord friend requests you lazy fuck

>>34292595
>it's not funny anymore when 99% of the userbase doesn't get the joke

>>34295623
Never did. The idea of being feminine instead of masculine was always repulsive to me. Even as a manlet I still try to be as masculine as possible because that's what's appealing to me

>>34289855
you seem like you're chilling and fit based from your video.
How did you just accept you would never get a gf or hoes?

>>34296410
I might (probably).

>>34297641
>How did you just accept you would never get a gf or hoes?
Being a virgin never bothered me much so I didn't try very hard to lose it, and really I hate the humiliation ritual of modern dating. So I'm waiting to see if fate will bestow pussy upon me or allow me to die a virgin.

>>34298697
Type shit, take this dap real quick my nigga.
i guess i'm the same outside of being super horny...what do you think about the racist niggas on here? they are a little annoying when i'm just trying to talk to people and make connections with fellow weirdos and losers but outside of that their just kinda lame to me

29 year old virgin here. I am totally normal (not tranny or a freak). Hikikomori with education in social isolation basically. Covid made me loose 3 potential years of socialization (age 24-27)

44 yo virgin from France here, at the beginning I wanted to wait to have a stable income and my own place before trying to find someone, but this was the idea I had 20 years ago, being a little bit chubby, introvert, super shy, and wearing diapers don't help. I don't go outside, I go to work, then come back home, so meeting someone is impossible as I don't do what I need to do for that. I start to believe I will die a virgin, alone.

>>34298773
>what do you think about the racist niggas on here?
Most of them wouldn't talk any of that racist stuff irl, so why take them seriously? They are just venting online because they can't anywhere else.

>>34298814
>at the beginning I wanted to wait to have a stable income and my own place before trying to find someone, but this was the idea I had 20 years ago
Did you even put in any effort? Waiting for pussy to just happen is a classic mistake. Its amazing how the entire world of sex and relationships will pass you by if you let it.

>>34298928
No, I didn't put any effort into finding someone, as I don't try anything outside my comfort zone. And if I want to find someone like me, then she don't do any effort either so, we can't meet.

>>34298928
Makes sense, i've always seen it as them just venting relentlessly because their lives are shit, i never took it seriously because again to me its lame.
its just intrusive at times, you'll be talking about some shit then before you know it, its nigger this, kike that.
like my nigga i get it bruh but we're trying to talk about bad bitches in anime right now lmao