>>712870165 (OP)XIV is good if you want no RPG-like mechanics and are fine with the boss just shooting circles/squares on the ground
Also the story is just visual novel tier most of the time
I switched to FFXI a few years back and have been enjoying it much more ever since
Despite the age, it's still very in depth and there's a metric fuckton to do with individual pieces of content being quite unique
Not really an MMO until the endgame though, unfortunately
Basically if you think you like looking up wikis on where to go and what to gear, you'll love it
I still have tons of fun looking up gearsets for XYZ reasons, figuring out how to get certain pieces of said sets, and then trying to go and get them from whatever monster or dungeon or questline or whatever that drops them
Very comfy adventure feel even if its mostly solo (for retail at least, don't know about the private servers)