Thread 719090934

What did she mean by this?

It is weird, yes.

>>719090934 (OP)
See its things like this that are the reason you have no relationship experience

>>719090934 (OP)
So Kiryu is truly a virgin huh? I thought that was just a meme.

>>719090934 (OP)
h-haha, t-true

>>719090934 (OP)
I've just never seriously tried or put myself out there.

>>719090934 (OP)
It is quite strange.

>>719090934 (OP)
Seriously how does that even happen though?
You'd have to actively avoid women during your school/college years.

>>719090934 (OP)
>Loved Star Trek, Gundam and Dune as a young teen
>Read a book a week, one wall in my bedroom was just billy bookcases
>Massively into warhammer, vidya and amateur electronics projects
>Worked as a mop jockey to afford my toys and hobbies
>Still managed to get laid in HS

My big brothers used to take me paintballing every saturday and sunday morning as part of a league we were in and I got up to run with them every morning before school. I hated them at the time but now I thank them for it. Fatness including skinnyfat and not taking care of your body guarantees virginity. A muscular body is like honey to girls.

>>719090934 (OP)
I'm 25 and khv

>>719090934 (OP)
Haha 28 with zero relationship experience its over for me though...

>>719091343
Have you tried being autistic

>>719092021
>>719093857
Amateurs.

>>719091343
I'm a Kraut and basically all the chicks I went to school with were muslim. No, I'm not joking btw, I was literally the only person without a background of immigration in my entire class. Anyway, that's one way of how that can happen.

>>719090934 (OP)
Aren't you the woman that wears teddy bear panties? Be quiet and entertain the losers, we've got bills to pay.

>>719091343
For me, I'm overly ugly and deathnic. Some people are just dealt a shit hand.

Last year I gave in and embraced the hooker pill. Turned out I hadn't missed out on much. Sex is nice but overrated. Still worth trying out at least once.

>relationship experience
This is an entirely woman coded thing, btw. Being in a relationship as a man changes absolutely nothing about you. Women have the relationship happen to them so for them its a life changing experience, but for men its really only work. Your woman will model herself to your preferences, but you already are her model man. Theres no changing needed and if you do change than she'll resent you.

Incels and the like need to understand that, as men, youre active players of life, not passive. Sex and relationships dont happen to you, youre the one who makes them happen. So many of them bemoan the fact that they haven't had sex but the person you already before and after is the same, it wont change you, doesn't matter how great or mid it is. The change needs to cone insofar as that you need to become the kind of man that makes sex happen (if thats what you want), but a lot of you already are equipped with this potential.

>>719094508
>I'm overly ugly
Chances are youre not. And even if you really are you'd be better served to be delusionally self confident that youre not.

You can still pick up ugly women. Ugly, not fat. If a woman is simply ugly to a point thats really beyond her choice, then she still has the capacity to respect you. A fat woman doesnt respect her man. If she did she'd lose weight. But an uggo woman might genuinely desire you. Pretty women are overrated. Banging a model is only good for the ego, but its an objective truth that an uggo who adores you will add more to your life than a pretty girl who is high maintenence.

>>719091343
Same goes to you. I don't understand how people get into relationships and have all kinds of drama. Or how people "accidentally" have children.

My life is a still puddle.

What did he mean by this?

>>719091343
I don't know about other people, but in high school I was so shy and insecure I didn't even TRY to approach girls because I was 100% sure they would just reject me and I wanted to spare myself the embarrassment. What having no strong father figure does to a mf

>>719091343
>You'd have to actively avoid women during your school/college years.
i was extremely depressed in high school and avoided most people

>>719095815
The thing is I've seen literal trench goblins walk around with delusional self confidence/arrogance and it gives me secondhand embarrassment. It'd be like boasting you're the world's strongest swordsman when your bones break from holding a plastic butter knife
Most of the time I see people like that they just get (rightfully) laughed at

>>719091343
Trying being fat.

>>719091343
>Seriously how does that even happen though?

1. Interacting with people feels like diffusing a bomb.
2. I have a scary appearance, not simply ugly.
3. I grew up poor and a nerd.
4. I'm not a social retard, so I can tell what women like and what they don't.

>>719091343
>You'd have to actively avoid women during your school/college years.
avoidant personality disorder is a funny thing

>>719090934 (OP)
She's calling you out, OP

>>719096625
literally me

>>719091343
During highschool I was a mental patient psychosis'd out of my mind due to facing physical and emotional parental abuse. By the time I got ahold myself at college I attended a male only course (IT).
The autism didn't help but seeing a dysfunctional family first hand has caused a deep instinctual reversion to female companionship. Even if a women showed interest in me I think I'd just have a nervous breakdown. No idea if this is common but I have noted a sharp increase of single male friends so I guess its just not me

>>719091343
I am extremely shy. I got better and talked to some girls towards the end of college it was actually kinda fun, but that was nearly ten years ago I'm a NEET now.
Unless a cute girl falls into my lap I am probably never going to get a girlfriend.

>>719094390
Why couldn't you date a muslim chick

>>719097068
>avoidant personality disorder
huh. I think I have this.

>>719091343
>how does that even happen though?
Too many second hand experiences from people in my personal life, basically all got fucked badly by women in their lives so I just decided not to engage at all

>>719097591
The majority of muslim families would never allow it. Males going for chicks of other cultures is fine, other way around is rarely accepted.

>>719097630
That kind of seems like lot of people if not everyone. Same goes for all of these things. All of those are me, but how do you seriously know if you have a disorder like this?

>>719097630
fml

>>719096458
>1. Interacting with people feels like diffusing a bomb.
>4. I'm not a social retard
Choose one.

>>719097813
>how do you seriously know if you have a disorder like this?
Get a diagnosis from a professional. And no, most people are not like this.

>>719095502
Trvke

>>719098129
I hate interacting with other people. I understand them perfectly fine, but I hate it.

>>719091343
I really tried during high school but had no luck.
Tried again during college but was only able to hold a relationship for a month before she went back to her ex. I was basically the rebound guy.
I am deathly afraid of women after many friends and relatives got fucked over by them or the law that protects them so I avoid relationships like a plague. I can talk to them and work with them just fine but I just shut down any type of advance or just act indifferent.

Jacking off thankfully has been enough for me but idk how long it will last.

>>719091343
Yes, because i had nothing im common with girls in school, so i had no reason to interact with them. This was also in an era where geek/gamer gurls were not a trendy thing, so i had even less reason to strike up a conversation with one.

>>719091343
When you're invisible you don't have to avoid anyone, they avoid you.

>>719098251
>get a diagnosis for extreme anxiety and self isolation

>>719091343
>Ugly
>socially awkward so no one wanted to hang out with me
>Anxiety with talking with other people
>small pp further killing any self esteem that I had
some things aren't meant to happen I guess

>>719096119
Same.

>>719097630
What if i have all of those except the bottom right one?

I never met a woman actually worth spending time with beyond sex.

>>719091343
i basically did. i had really fucked up teeth and skin and was overweight so i sat in the back of the class and never talked to anybody. now i'm 34 and have never been on a date.

I don't have the patience to deal with unintelligent beings.

>>719090934 (OP)
try 24 kek

>>719091343
born to a 16 yro
so obv i have mental and physical disability's(adhd upgraded to asperger now upgraded to high functioning autist, how much of my mind is true genetic failure or nature vs nurture shit? eh?)
never knew my dad so no male influence
she clearly has anger issue because she wanted a girl instead and she either regreted fucking him or she was raped
we moved every 3-5 years growing up, no one wants to be friends with the new kid
after the third move i knew trying to make friends was pointless since they didnt want to be friends and we were just gonna move again, killing and social skills
by age ten i knew there was something wrong with me mentally and i was ugly and knew i was never gonna have a spouse so i filled my time with tv and games, humans are easy to figure out yet none of you npcs can grasp actual truths
i learned aboot feminism at a young age of the bare minimum that males and females are equal so if a female was interested in me they can approach instead, thats never happened proving that my 40+years feminism is fake and a sham. and people these days are even stupider then the 90's. hows that dei woring out for society, oh yea i knew since '91 it was never gonna work so im just a parasite living off your taxes, thx retards

final fantasy 9 is the best FF

>>719096313
So you're either ceirtainly seen as mortally ugly and people see you as such, or you risk being cringe.

Are you a zoomer by any chance? Being "cringe" really isnt the worst thing in the world. An ugly guy with confidence at least has something going for him. If youre ugly and defeated then really there is no path for you.

Who dont you join a boxing gym?

does it count as being laid if your slightly older cousin convinced you to fuck her when your a teen?
I feel like I would've been better off if i didn't honestly.

>>719091343
I was that guy no one talked to back there

>>719091343
>go to class
>eat alone
>go to gym
>go home
its not that hard

>>719091343
it wasn't me who did the avoiding

>>719095502
>put in ten times the work your grandfather did and in exchange get a girl who isn't half the woman your grandmother was
how about no? we live in the enlightened age of gender equality and feminism. it's time women step up to the plate and take charge in the dating game. they need to start approaching men and asking them out, and lowering their standards+expectations.