Thread 33250956

What's the appeal of a girlfriend?
Don't give me vague answers like love or companionship.
Yes I am autistic.

There's nothing vague about love and companionship.

>>33250966
OP is too autistic to realize this

>>33250956 (OP)
>Yes I am autistic.
No, you're a totally retarded subhuman. GF/bf is to evaluate the other person for marriage. There you go; easy, wasn't it? Except that you're too retarded to ever absorb the lesson, and absolutely will continue to treat it as an elaborate way to play with your dick.

>>33250956 (OP)
for autistic people there is 0 appeal of having a gf because they lack understanding on a whole dimension of human interaction, like subtlety and community.

>>33250956 (OP)
The appeal is trying to cultivate a really special bond with another person that is built on trust, compassion, and mutual understanding of one another, a person you can share your life with, a person you can adore and lust over, a person you can build your life with and maybe one day start a family with.
Or having exclusive coitus, depends

having sex every day, making jokes, going places, having an excuse to go new places, sharing someone elses world, having sex, having a buddy to rely on and talk to about everything.

>>33250956 (OP)
Since your autistic I'll try to be as accommodating to it as possible:

Married couples usually get certain financial tax brakes from the government compared to single couples.

If you rent or own a house, $1k in rent can now be $500 due to a partner paying the other half

When you have kids, they can take care of you when you get older. Retirement homes have a high abuse rate.

Your less likely to get in feuds with the opposite gender since your girlfriend will usually ward them off. Essentially, no woman will fight you with your girlfriend around. It's basically a shield.

Also, sex is good for your health and stress relief.

Need more reasons?

>>33250998
thats a real problem, if true.

>>33251863
these are true generally speaking of a decent GF who's personal qualities don't interfere with these things.

its up to you to not have a GF that interferes with the ones you care about.

>>33251455
When someone mentions they have a mental problem like some sort of social retardation they seem to attract even more retarded people who will condescend them while being flat out wrong.

>>33250956 (OP)
Well, you're asking a general question and are therefore likely to get a general answer. Everyone defines and experiences love and companionship in different ways that they could detail for you. Maybe your question would be better phrased as a more personal one like, "What do you value in a sexual or romantic relationship" or "how do you experience love and companionship?"

>>33250956 (OP)
>things cost half
>send girl to get thing when sleepy
>send girl find food
>don't want buy taxi girl drop off instead

>>33251532
>a really special bond with another person that is built on trust, compassion, and mutual understanding of one another
this I get, it's basically just friends, bonds that formed on common interests / situation that grew beyond the reason of their forming
>a person you can share your life with
>a person you can adore
>a person you can build your life with
what do these things mean though, like what do they entail? How is losing freedom in your life to collaborate with someone else indefinitely something you want, isn't that basically a job / doing work with coworkers?

>>33250956 (OP)
idk. I know the appeal of friends though. I'd much rather have a few amazing friends than a partner desu

I don't think I would personally date a cis woman.

>>33253054
>How is losing freedom in your life to collaborate with someone else indefinitely something you want, is
Yes in that it allows specialization and division of labor so you all achieve higher highs than possible with everyone as selfish generalists

>>33250956 (OP)
ppl here are so trad, this person said “girlfriend” not “wife”

to have fun and being take care of and viceversa. it’s just nice to share experiences with an other person a d create a bond and grow together. i like commitment in relationships but you can just vibe with a person and see the outcome