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Previously on ATOGA:
>>33285758
Women how would you react if a hot guy said "Sorry for staring you're just so pretty" while walking past you and didn't stop moving?
A girl I know thinks it's fun to sit on the laps of guys that are madly in love with her (she doesn't return the feelings) for long periods of time, sometimes squirming around a lot just to give them an erection. Is she a girlboss? Do you aspire to be like her, femanons?
How come women don't think dicks are fascinating? Its such an interesting body part when you think about it
>>33288390I'd immediately pull down his pants, suck his dick until he nuts in the back of my throat, and say, "Sorry for sucking your dick it's just so suckable." That'll learn him.
Women would you date a man who has to break most tablets in half because they always stick in his throat?
>>33288397I hate women even more now.
>>33288397>picrelIs this Darkness kek?
>>33288404I think this is a LARP lol
women what does your butt feel like?
>>33288334Kind of depends.
But if it's just online, she just gets a thrill out of it and that's it.
women is this really what a man has to be like to get a gf these days?
Why do black and Hispanic women treat me better than white women? I have nothing against them but have sexual interest more in whites than others. (Besides this one black girl — a very sweet girl, not ghetto just normal.
>21 male blonde, hazel eyes, pale
Where do I meet clingy GF?
>>33288398It's a horrifying ugly freak mutation of a body part.
>>33288413RACK?! Fuck that shit.
>>33288413No. Fuck that. I have my own mental issues I have to deal with, and people who talk about it immediately with random people are a red flag.
>>33288413Is it just me or did he seem fine until he started stating the acronyms and talking about vaccines and mental health?
>>33288422NAG but no, it was cringe from the first line kek
I'm convinced some 4channer wrote the fake bio on the left to parody redditors. This can't be real
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What are you eating for lunch? I have my own homemade Mac and cheese with blue cheese and smoked Gouda.
>>33288416False. Its super cool!
>>33288423>NAGopinion disregarded
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>>33288425Forgot to say strawberries too
>>33288425It's half past midnight here. I'm not eating lunch.
>>33288401Hot. Please don't be a troon.
>>33288425I just did vodka shots and smoked cigarettes all day
Around 9pm I finally had a tuna sweetcorn sandwich + some meatballs from the store
>homemade Mac and cheese with blue cheese and smoked GoudaThat sounds really delicious dude, enjoy
I'm going for lunch with some rich people tomorrow, dreading the socialisation but hopefully we'll have a nice meal at least
>>33288406Bad behaviour.
>>33288407The only thing that matters is that there are women who actually do this.
>>33288431Then why answer, retard?
>>33288438>sound deliciousIt really is
I hope enjoy yours too tomorrow.
Women what will you be doing on June 28th 2035?
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>>33288442>hope enjoy yours too tomorrowThanks anon
I mean I fucking hate being alive and am absolutely dreading talking to these normies but I will try to enjoy the food at least
And in the evening my ex gf wants to make a nice meal so I will prolly go to hers and enjoy that also
Enjoy your strawberries too anon x and whatever other lovely things you get to ear. God bless
I wanted to say thank you to everyone who replied last thread to my question. Also anon, I will read that article, ty.
>>33288425>>33288430Nice.
>>33288438You're making me want cigs and coffee now.
>>33288384 (OP)I'm about to go workout. Anyone else get really horny after you exercise?
>>33288450No. Only depressed with how much I suck still.
>>33288450>Anyone else get really horny after you exercise?No I just want to die, I hate exercising
>>33288449>cigs and coffeeDon't lol, be better than me
>>33288452Yeah, I feel like I should be deadlifting more weight.
>>33288450I work out at home, but i have never experienced this.
I'm playing the demo of a game that is an autoclicker mixed with a bit of Minecraft.
Never knew I needed this.
>>33288409>women what does your butt feel like?It depends if I'm flexing or not
>>33288413>women is this really what a man has to be like to get a gf these days?He looks like a redditor and sounds like one too.
>>33288414>Why do black and Hispanic women treat me better than white women?Because most of us were raised with respect and know what it's like to be disrespected on principle. White women are way too comfortable being bitches to people's faces and it's because they never had their ass beat.
>>33288425>What are you eating for lunch?I'm making dinner with my nieces. We're having bulgogi with garlic noodles, kimchi, and vegetables.
>>33288450>Anyone else get really horny after you exercise?All the time. Why?
>>33288457You should try crack cocaine next.
Men will you take your son into the city to see a marching band?
>>33288462I didn't even try salvia yet.
But I am having a drink.
Women, should I tell you exactly what's wrong with you why I don't want to go out with you, or should I just go with you're not my type?
>>33288463I'm not in the mood for mcr right now
>>33288463No, he shouldn't join the black parade.
and I'm not leaving a phantom, and he shouldn't be a savior of the broken, beaten and the damned.
Certainly shouldn't get into fights with demons and shit.
>>33288463No bc he won't carry on D:
>>33288467Usually this question is asked the other way around
>>33288467Just tell her you're not interested, dummy
Women do you like bad boys?
Anyone else here incredibly depressed despite your life being great on paper? How do you personally cope?
I've come to accept I actually just am an unironic misogynist, no waxing about it. I genuinely think most women are incompetent retards that are also pathetic and vile human beings that are a burden to take care of and take away from the lives they engage with. Most women today can't even cook, or clean, or repair clothes, or basically do any of the shit they used to do before. They're career women but are basically worse at everything they could possibly do than men. I hate women, but I also actually just think they're fucking shitters that do not contribute to society in any meaningful way and don't do anything good for the most part.
Even if you look at female content creators, video game channels, self improvement channels, or anything, women don't actually do stuff. They just look cute while doing shit guys do but objectively fucking worse. They have second hand worse advice. The women that do have decent advice just parrot men. They don't fucking make anything substantial or do anything meaningful. They don't teach people things, they don't even fucking learn things well.
I can actually think of like one or two women that do stuff, that's how fucking rare it is. There's this chick that made the shadowdark RPG and like runs conventions, and does podcasts and shit and makes adventure modules and actually does stuff and she's pretty cool. Most women though are fucking irredeemable trash.
Literally their idea of doing stuff is like decorating a room, or planning a party, or maybe drawing and decorating a fucking journal or binder or something else that literally doesn't fucking do anything and is pointless.
Women don't deserve rights and I will actively vote in favor of removing their rights. I may even campaign for it.
>>33288463I will never have a son, thankfully. But I don't think we have marching bands here, anyway.
>>33288490nag but do you do a lot of stuff better than other guys do?
>>33288490I aint reading all dat shit nigga
>>33288490who is woman in picture
>>33288490I think give it 10-20 years and then decide for sure, women only just started excelling in education, who knows, maybe they will put it to use
>>33288450>Anyone else get really horny after you exercise?Christ, no. I've never felt anything after exercise except pain.
>>33288487>How do you personally cope?I don't know. One day at a time.
m or f
if you had a son and daughter, what advice would you give them about the other sex?
How are egirls smart enough to edit videos and build their own pc? Not that those are hard but it's better than the average normie
>>33288493Bling-bang-bang bling-bang-bang-born
>>33288487Fetishizing my misery and loneliness.
women can i fetishize your pretty face? :3
>>33288493Fuck yeah https://youtu.be/PXAlCazm3J0?si=ssQFy13ldkKMa5uQ
>>33288497Nta but like what lol
Foid power <3 https://youtu.be/2Zn2GFicr6A?si=vSkwvIMKcjYuvvsO
>>33288501Creator of the shadowdark RPG. I think her youtube channel is called The Arcane Library. A lot of my off the head references are D&D/RPG/Writing youtube channels, Geek Gamers is also an example of a not retard woman, she wrote a book and published it and has a bunch of shit she's made to help people solo roleplay and stuff.
I don't actually care about women being women that much. Its just that objectively most of them actually DO NOT FUCKING DO ANYTHING. They're literally gremlins that absorb from the world around them and contribute nothing and then crave approval for doing nothing.
Yes, its pathetic when guys do the same thing. But lets be real, even the guys that play videogames all day and watch anime or whatever, literal shut in neets, still make tutorials for their hobbies, make things, make plug ins and addons, make spreadsheets, run guilds, try to achieve things in the games instead of real life, etc. They still yearn to at least be fucking good or make some sort of place for themselves in the things they care about.
Women don't. They just absorb like fucking vampires. They collab and leech, and make half hearted attempts and then go "lol, well, at least I tried~!"
Can i live a comfortable life without ever taking a loan or a mortgage?
>>33288384 (OP)Women :
What can I improove for women and for my future women ? Something overlooked by most men, tangible. Is there still a way to progress ?
>>33288418nta but what's RACK and why is it bad
>>33288490>>33288529you sound so gay go suck dick
>>33288529Nta but I'm curious if you actually know a single woman in real life
>>33288530Depends on your idea of "comfortable" and how much you earn
I'm listening to some dude's yt channel where he sings karaoke. Entire channel is just karaoke, this is great.
>>33288529Also
>They still yearn to at least be fucking good or make some sort of place for themselves in the things they care about.I've known plenty of guys who do nothing of the sort and just spend all of their down time consoooooming. Let's not pretend men are the higher than thou gender here kek.
>>33288544Introducing the goat
https://www.youtube.com/@buffcorrell/videos
>>33288529>Yes, its pathetic when guys do the same thing. But lets be real, even the guys that play videogames all day and watch anime or whatever, literal shut in neets, still make tutorials for their hobbies, make things, make plug ins and addons, make spreadsheets, run guilds, try to achieve things in the games instead of real life, etc. They still yearn to at least be fucking good or make some sort of place for themselves in the things they care about.While it's true that 'most' people who actively participate are men (greater male variability, etc.), the majority of men are also just consumers. And there is nothing wrong with that. Not everyone is good at doing things or has the personality traits prerequisite to seeking the spotlight.
>still on very little contact with my (guess now ex) gf
>ignores 90% of what I send her
>then will randomly send me cutesy animal videos and go back to being radio silent
>or will randomly add a message to her snaps like "go to sleep loser" late at night and not reply back
this shit is driving me insane
>>33288531I can lay concrete, I've built pathways and laid tombstones, and sidewalks, and driveways. I can wire electrical outlets. I can pipe plumbing and fix and install bathrooms and amenities. I can garden, I raise my own crops, I can cook my own food. I can brew beer. I can pickle vegetables, I can make jam. I can build furniture, chairs, desks, bookcases, cabinets, dressers, wardrobes, storage boxes, etc. I can drive several pieces of heavy equipment including fork lifts, skid-steers, riding mowers, tractors, and a bulldozer. I can drive large trucks. I can write and read well and have read many books. In general I can solve a lot of problems and my day to day life revolves around solving problems and working with other people to solve problems, usually around home improvement and homesteading/contracting.
>>33288544Holy based, can you post it
Maybe one day I'll say fuck it and do something like this lool
My cousin actually had a YouTube channel like this once upon a time, but now he's a normie fitness instructor with a stacy gf with a beauty/makeup channel, so he took the old karaoke channel down LMAO, rip
>>33288548Holy shit this is a blast from the past lol
This guy really was the GOAT <3
>>33288550Is there a reason you won't get back with her
>>33288551Nta but there are women who do all these things lol, what is your point?
>>33288553This guy's channel.
https://youtu.be/LhkbCePu1Fc
I was looking for the song because it was in this movie: https://youtu.be/U9tEYSp7XSc
>>33288550>texting an ex regularlyShiggy diggy my niggy
>>33288548Holy shit bro is still making videos basically every day. I haven't seen this guy in like 10 years legit. The consistency is incredible
>>33288558>Is there a reason you won't get back with herShe's the one not talking to me because of us both getting black out drunk and I come to the next day to find out I was groping her and she didn't want me to. We were still talking decently regularly but she went quiet on me about a week and a half ago.
>>33288549>>33288547>>33288542I disagree. If I was trapped on an island I'd much rather be with another guy than a woman. The woman will be an objective fucking burden while the guy, even an incompetent guy, will still try and contribute and follow directions in that sort of situation.
And yes, I work with women a lot, and work for women a lot, and most of the time they're incompetent fucking retards. Like, they're nice and pleasant to be around and I don't hate them. However, I don't trust them at all to do fucking anything without fucking it up. If anything you ask them to do something and then add on time to correct and fix whatever they fuck up.
I'm not joking, I don't know if its just my experience, but women are so fucking bad its unreal. The best they can do is be "team motivators" or whatever the fuck fake bullshit they pretend to contribute.
>>33288560Based, bro is actually super good <3 they nerd to get this chigga on an anime ED fr
>>33288463>your sonlmao I don't ever want to get any offspring.
>a marching bandReminds me of a cool song.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8NHebm4nTY
You ever randomly find a youtube user with thousands of uploads like a diary of their life
but almost no subs and just start watching their life every day? I'm following this bong living in France who posts nothing but archery videos
>>33288564Idk maybe I'm just a himbo but women have honestly carried me my entire life
>>33288563Oh, that sucks ): I mean do you want it to work? Maybe promise not to repeat the behaviour and don't get that drunk again
>>33288558>>33288562I love singing along with him. It's a vibe.
https://youtu.be/3wpSOqHLsOA
>>33288558>Nta but there are women who do all these things lol, what is your point?No there fucking aren't. You're fucking bank tellers, and managers, and retail assistants, and nurses, and fucking other shit where looking pretty and pretending to organize stuff is the "job"
>>33288569>Idk maybe I'm just a himbo but women have honestly carried me my entire lifeI actually cannot imagine how retarded you must be. I mean mothers are a godsend, but if you mean after adulthood, holy shit.
>>33288403You have anxiety
ugly female here. how do i befriend chad (no sex)
>>33288564>The woman will be an objective fucking burden while the guy, even an incompetent guy, will still try and contribute and follow directions in that sort of situation.That heavily depends. Due to greater male variability, while there is a greater chance for the guy to be a genius, there is also a greater risk for the guy to be a complete retard. With a woman you're much likely to end up with someone who is just average and much more easy to get along in terms of their personality profile, as women tend to be more agreeable and not as eager to seek conflict to establish a hierarchy.
If you're a competent guy, you'd be better off with a woman.
If you're an incompetent guy, you're probably better off with a man.
>>33288577figure out what he likes and ask him to explain it to you
>>33288564M
that is just your experience. i know just as many competent women in my life as men
You just have a bad case of misogyny-induced confirmation bias
>>33288577>befriend Chad>no sex>implyingYou're either a set of holes or provide access to more holes. Pick.
>>33288567>bong living in France who posts nothing but archery videosBased, sounds good
Yeah in the past I've liked channels like that. I remember this dude who used to upload several videos a day just reviewing movies and shows etc. that had like no followers and I'd listen before going to sleep
Just checked and bro is still going strong lol
>>33288574Lol teehee
>>33288572>there fucking aren'tThere literally are though...
Also how are those not "real jobs"??? We'd die without nurses lol
Sometimes I miss working in healthcare... i miss all the sexy nurses ):
>>33288584are you deleting your own posts or do the jannies just have it out for you
>>33288577Why not sex? And what makes you ugly? ):
Just talk to him and be nice and friendly and sweet and get closer. Tbh that's all it takes at the end of the day
>>33288577Cover your tits and be funny
>khv at 32 with loose skin from dropping 180lbs
ladies, its over isnt it?
>>33288593>be funnyLike Amy Schumer?
>>33288581does chad know how to set up a remote desktop connection on separate networks without a vpn and the host wifi keeps cutting off
>>33288583>>33288590i just want to be around him, sex is too much work
>>33288593theyre already small
>>33288572So are there zero women you've met in your entire life that could do something you couldn't? Or is it more just the things women can do that you happen to not be able or want to do you don't consider remotely valuable because women would rather do them? Realistically you're probably just being dramatic and venting because some broad pissed you off, but do you do any creative work outside of hard labor?
Girls and guys:
They say familiarity breeds contempt; do you find that holds true in longterm relationships? Does passion fade in proportion to time spent cohabiting with a partner? What is your experience in that regard?
>>33288549Also, it's important to note that the guys who actually do stuff are typically not the guys struggling in the romantic domain. Even pseudonymous accounts on twitter have e-girls in their DMs if they have sufficient clout, guild leaders are known to groom their female members, streamers get fangirls, and so on. Successfully doing stuff puts you out there and makes you get noticed by women - which is part of the reason why men do it. The bitter guys who are mad at women for not doing anything are typically just guys who also don't do anything who are mad that women get away with not doing anything.
That being said, this is obviously yet another extremely online problem. There are plenty of men and women IRL whose primary hobby is watching TV, who are blissfully unaware of these discussions.
how can i unironically hook up with lonely 40 to 60 yo women?
>>33288598>theyre already smallDoesn't matter, it's about showing you definitely aren't going to try and attract him
>>33288569I mean I do, obviously. I apologized profusely but she's still processing it I guess. I can understand that she'd be upset over that and still mad at me, at this point I'm wanting to at least salvage some form of regular contact with her, relationship or not I really care about her and I know otherwise she's been having issues and I feel really shitty knowing I can't really be there for her.
>>33288603my day was smooth albeit dull
i might just go to bed at 8:00 out of boredom
>>33288579>as women tend to be more agreeable and not as eager to seek conflict to establish a hierarchyThis is a bad thing. Its proven to be a bad thing repeatably. Conflict doesn't matter as long as it resolves quickly with a hierarchy established. The hierarchy creates accountability and responsibility and shit gets done. It's simple as that.
Avoiding conflict and a hierarchy is literally the problem. Nothing gets done, no one forces people to do work. No one brings things to conflict and resolution. It wastes time and results in worse products if anything even gets finished to begin with.
>>33288599Yes, I do creative work outside of labor. Mainly D&D and writing. Women can be competent artists. I'd definitely list that under a thing that modern women can do but its really not enough given how much other shit they're bad at. Its also not a talent exclusive to women. I'd bet there's more high quality male artists and writers than female.
>>33288600M
>do you find that holds trueNot for me personally
>Does passion fade in proportionNot necessarily; often yes, however
>What is your experienceIt wasn't true for me but it was for her, so she cheated and now I'm single again
>>33288600Familiarity breeds contempt in my case because I hate my family.
>>33288589They must be haters
>>33288567Speaking of bongland, there was this guy here who posted hundreds upon hundreds of videos in the early days of YouTube. He only got "noticed" because he would post crazy rants on the house price crash forums, and link to his website which had hundreds of long schizo rants. Some people on the forum who found him funny archived a bunch of his videos. The guy is regarded as a legend in UK Internet culture and an OG shitposter lol
https://youtu.be/ILvd5buCEnU?si=5e9QrT5tj_dWG1aJ
https://youtu.be/QQ-_4HTDR6I?si=9dtXVOfES54-iya1
https://youtu.be/gAemWF_OSGc?si=P4ayQQ8kNSQE31dR
https://youtu.be/ioMJxprQjqo?si=EZbWifmpeRASGzpP
https://youtu.be/raOKVfOaOFM?si=crExAjUi6uiVNG5U
Bro completely disappeared from the Internet one day and nobody knows where he is now
>>33288600Based SADX poster
Eh can only speak from my own experiences, the more time with a girl the more attached I get to her
I miss my ex so much ): she's so sexy and lovely, might get back with her tomoz
>>33288608You sound like a good sweet guy <3 stay in touch, make sure she's doing OK, and I hope you can figure it out and both be happy
>>33288603What made it rough for you anon?
Yeah it was rough for me mostly cause I crashed out and turned down plans with friends and family and stuff and blocked them all oops
>>33288613>Conflict doesn't matter as long as it resolves quickly with a hierarchy established. The hierarchy creates accountability and responsibility and shit gets done. It's simple as that.M
Hierarchies shouldn't exist. No human commands another. You'll say "k, go live in the stone age and die from an infection." But liking conflict is animalbrained. Lower animals' lives revolve around eating, sex, and violence. Imagine thinking forming chains of command and having conflicts is achieving a higher plane of existence or some shit when it's all your lizardbrain
>>33288613>not enough given how much other shit they're bad at. Its also not a talent exclusive to womenLmao when will you admit that you're just a horrible misogynist and don't value what women do
Granted I am a himbo but all the girls I dated had much more interesting and productive hobbies than me (except my ex maybe but she is a babe)
Ah, I am crying.
Have you been crying today? Lately?
Why not? You should.
>>33288624>Hierarchies shouldn't exist. No human commands another.Okay, guess I'll just go burn your house down. You can't command me not to and no one is in charge.
>>33288613>Conflict doesn't matter as long as it resolves quickly with a hierarchy established.That's the issue: there are people out there - most of them being men - who are incapable of fitting in a hierarchy. If you're stuck with a guy like that, you're going to have a problem.
>Avoiding conflict and a hierarchy is literally the problem. Nothing gets done, no one forces people to do work.This is not what I said at all: women are much more eager to fit in the hierarchy. This is part of the reason why they outcompete women in terms of educational attainment. Women are more eager to do what they're told (at times to their detriment if they know better but too conflict shy), they tend to be more conscientious, they don't need to be forced to work because they do it by themselves and the elevated neuroticism makes them not want to be called out.
With a guy, you're much more likely to be stuck with someone who doesn't listen, doesn't do as he's told or seeks conflict even when he's wrong, and so on.
Of course if you happen to be that kind of guy (or a guy who is lacking in general competency), then you'd be better off with a competent guy who is authoritative enough to get you in line and put you to work, but if you're a competent guy yourself or not too eager to possibly babysit someone incompetent all day, you'd probably be better off with a woman, assuming random chance.
>>33288627>no one is in chargeIndeed. If I can burn your house down I am back in charge
>>33288625>Lmao when will you admit that you're just a horrible misogynist and don't value what women doLiterally my first post. I am a misogynist, I accept it, and I think I'm going to try an actively remove women's rights because they're fucking trash and have abused having rights to be even more shitty than they've ever been in the past.
>>33288490
>>33288630>why they outcompete women in terms of educational attainment*why they outcompete men in terms of educational attainment
>>33288620Thanks, I know we'd been getting drunk a lot lately and there's a certain point I become an asshole when I'm too drunk but I never would have taken advantage of her. I guess that was the final straw. She did say it'd be a long time before I could see her in person again, and according to a mutual friend she feels guilty about talking to me still. So her healing process is gonna take a while, and it doesn't help she's letting super toxic people back in to her life that even she admitted, when she drunk called me to cry about that night, don't actually give a shit about her. But without me she only has one person she regularly hangs out with. Seems she still wants to be mad at me but at the same time knows (or at least hopefully knows) I'm deeply regretful of my actions and care about her genuinely beyond sex.
I'm willing to wait but the unanswered texts and bare minimum contact is killing me. Haven't been blowing up her phone with texts though, I'm not that dumb.
>>33288613Not good enough compared to what exactly? It seems like you have some concept of a measureable amount of value a woman must achieve to presumably earn respect from you, but you've stated previously that even men who are good at things that don't really contribute any meaningful value like playing a video game a fraction of a second faster or better are worthwhile enough because they're trying and improving. So where exactly is the goalpost here? And moreover have you ever considered that you might be valuable even if you weren't better at something or contributing something all the time?
>>33288634Education isn't actually working and solving problems. If you go to actual scholars and professors, and researchers, and scientists, and engineers its mainly men. Women excel at pretending to work and faking being useful to appease a social structure. They excel at reading social structures and fitting into them and avoiding notice. They crumble in environments where they actually are accountable for doing things.
What are your thoughts on the following philosophy
>The best way to see someone's true character is to repeatedly mistreat them. Anyone can be nice to those who are nice to them; that means nothing. The truly kind are kind to all.
>>33288628i think foid chest is better. Moids dont have boobs
>>33288640If you need to mistreate someone to see how they truly are you're simply retarded. That's like saying that you're going to taze an animal and then pet it to see if it's really friendly or not.
>>33288640This sounds like Cathcuck bullshit
>>33288630>With a guy, you're much more likely to be stuck with someone who doesn't listen, doesn't do as he's told or seeks conflict even when he's wrong, and so on.>Of course if you happen to be that kind of guy (or a guy who is lacking in general competency), then you'd be better off with a competent guy who is authoritative enough to get you in line and put you to workOver the course of your management career or whatever you call it you've probably unknowingly berated a guy who was sincerely trying but can't do anything "right" no matter how hard or what he tries. He heard one more "Wrong" from you on top of the Wrong... Wrong... Wrong... Wrong... Wrong... Wrong... Wrong... Wrong... he's heard all his life trying to tread water in the world built for normies. Hope that guy pops some of you abrasive Type A management cunts
>>33288626What are you crying about anon ):
Yeah I was crying a bit earlier. The stupid kid next door visiting his nan asked me if I'd been crying when I left the house and I said I had hay-fever. The nosy cunt
>>33288640Pushing someone's buttons just pisses them off lol, unless you are zen af you're gonna get a bad reacc
>>33288639Women aren't pretending to work, they're actually doing their work. They do their homework, they memorise the facts, they're writing their papers and theses to get degrees - and they happen to do that more diligently than men. The fact that men excel at the tails does not contradict that.
You're subject to an apex fallacy where you conflate a handful of elites with the average guy (let alone the left side of the bell curve).
>>33288640>I should make people suffer to find out if they're good people!It sounds like you want to mistreat people.
>>33288640the best way to understand someone is to observe who they choose to talk to and about what
>>33288647Don't reply to me.
>>33288632>think I'm going to try an actively remove women's rights because they're fucking trash and have abused having rights to be even more shittyLol good luck with that you unhinged nutcase
>>33288652Too late m8
>>33288640There's no such thing as a "true character". This method will show you how people react when mistreated by you (and specifically you).
Women, would you be ok dating a man who got injured at work and is on workers comp?
>>33288632>I think I'm going to try an actively remove women's rightsEvery day I think about how else I can help make this happen in my lifetime
>>33288648When I was in school I knew plenty of girls that got better grades, in fact I'll agree wholly that women on average performed way better in terms of grading. But absolutely they were less competent and more retarded and I would pick many flunk out guys to perform tasks over women that got straight A's. Its literally just not a test of actually not being a retard.
have you ever operated a vehicle drunk you were not allowed to
doesnt matter if it was a car, a bicycle or a fucking bus
and how drunk were you?
>>33288658what kind of injury?
thoughts?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKwDN-k1eak
>>33288640I'm not sure whether this is much of a philosophy rather than a method to work out something about someone's personality. Also, the question is what you're attempting to get out of it in practical terms. e.g. assuming you find someone who lets you walk all over them and still treats you with kindness - what then?
>Gender
>Have you ever wanted to have sex in a poolball?
>>33288657of course there's such a thing as true character. you just think it's bigger in scope than it actually is.
>>33288630nta but that just points up the issues with a worldview which tries to place women on equal footing with men in the workforce. if you're a manager just looking for compliant lackeys, then sure, women might be better at doing what they're told. that might make your life easier to not have underlings arguing with you. but it's bad in the long run on the macro level if you suddenly lose that churn and friction from dumb directives being challenged. there's way too much stuff in life that nobody's figured out, even if they give you a college degree for it like business or finance or management or whatever. you might argue that there are some settings where this is absolutely necessary, like the military, but i think it's clearly wrong even there. guys like macarthur and billy mitchell and hyman rickover drove their superiors and fellow officers nuts, but their superiors were wrong and the country was better off for the fights they forced.
>>33288667M
>poolballLike a billiards ball? No
>>33288660I didn't say women were smarter on average - they're not. In terms of average IQ there isn't much of a difference between men and women, but they do tend to be more conscientious, which explains the difference in educational attainment. You're not wrong that most of the 'elite' scientists tend to be men, but most of the people who smoke meth or overdose on heroin are also men.
>>33288659I think there's groups forming to repeal the 19th amendment. People are fucking tired of the way society is building up. People can pretend these are fringe nutcase opinions but there's plenty of guys that think the same way, and women too. There's a large segment of the population that thinks the last 100 years have been an absolute fucking step backwards and we need to revert society back to family oriented living with structure and stability.
>>33288664>pic reldoes it make sense to get more drugs at 2am?
>>33288670No, like pool full of balls.
Women, imagine that you are a mother.
What would you do if you found out that your son has been posting and/or engaging with incel and/or pro-rape propaganda online? How would you talk to him about this?
>>33288668There is no such thing as "true character" on any level nor at any size.
>>33288677i think I just want to be arrested lmao
at least part of me wants
>>33288679You mean a ball pit
I've never considered it personally
>>33288680Misread this as "incest" at first, but NAG so I don't have to answer this anyway
>>33288679I once spent a lot of time at a now de-funked bar and pool hall called Pocket's Pool.
>>33288676I mean I doubt this guy gives a shit about family oriented living he already hates women I doubt he wants a wife for much other than a punching bag
>>33288667I nearly permanently want to have sex.
The place does not matter.
But since bitches are small, I just don't want her to drown in it or something.
men with nice fingernails
>>33288683Man, just fuck off.
>>33288688What makes a man's fingernails nice?
>>33288676you can't put the genie back in the bottle. you really need to stretch your imagination if you want to make peace with the world to come. trying to take refuge in a world that no longer exists is not going to give you any real solace.
At what age do people stop having crushes?
>>33288661I've cycled home drunk from the pub yeah
Had a couple of crashes but nothing mental
Once I was cycling home drunk and went flying off the handlebars cause the chain got stuck... but I lived to tell the tale, I just went home and watched Lucky Star
>>33288663Wtf who found JH's YouTube channel??
>>33288667No, but I remember one girl I dated used to lie on the pool table and we had to play pool around her lol
>>33288682As a nutter who has been arrested trust me it's not even worth it. It's embarrassing being in the back of a car and they will either dump you at a friend's house or a cell for the night with nothing to do.
>>33288692Whenever they lose hope
>>33288681you're just repeating yourself stupidly. dumb gnat.
>>33288688It's ok.
But let's not beat around the bush, a woman should have nice fingernails.
Not chewed off, preferably tended to in some form.
>>33288692M. I'm in my fuorties and I still get them.
>>33288690not too stubby, not too long, has the aesthetically appealing ratio of length to width. nail tip is also filed down smooth
>>33288692Never. I spent much of my early 30s with a crush on this chick who was kind of like a more moody and melancholy, emo-tinged version of Debbie Harry with the face of Anya Taylor-Joy.
Why do women stop randomly biting once they're like 20 or 21? I don't want a gf if she's not going to bite me randomly.
What am I supposed to do with the realization that I might just be intellectually disabled?
>>33288692No idea
I had another job interview today and the manager was actually so hot, ugh
>>33288675Male and female IQ's are basically equal on the average. Women have more connective tissues running between hemispheres than men by a lot, and men have more running back to front by a lot.
Visiospatial processing/symbolic reasoning is heightened in the male case and psychological intuition in the female.
We've symbiotically evolved to handle different cognitive tasks. Tasks so different from one another that the human brain doesnt typically possess enough complexity to puzzle them both out simultaneously.
We opponent process.
Men handle abstract reasoning and women handle predicting the ethical choices of people in the tribe and puzzling out their modes of relation.
It's why virtually all fighter pilots are male and virtually all translators/linguists are women.
Why do I increasingly see Zoomers and Gen-Alphas dressed like The Backstreet Boys and N'Sync? It's like Millennimal Animals do the '80s revival with mullets and color block windbreakers, and the Gen-Z/Gen-A types go for the '90s redux.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ug88HO2mg44
>>33288705I’ll scratch you
I meant a ballpit
>Gender
>desire to have sex in a ballpit
>>33288706explain your disability anon.
>>33288707I once failed a job interview to be an English as a Second Language at a community college, and the interviewer showed up as a potential match on a dating app right after. So that was weird.
>>33288710Women continue to scratch regardless of age, but it's mostly just backs and sometimes thighs.
I want bites.
I just realized, I have no right to critizise my ex for fucking me over three times.
Because I too keep doing the same stupid shit over and over again.
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>>33288712I have Asperger's Disease. People think I'm being snooty, angry, or hostile or that I'm making fun of them when I'm not and when I just want to chill.
>>33288711You and I both know zit faced teens aren’t paid enough to ever clean the ball pit. And if it is a ball pit at a convention or pop up ‘experience’, well then it just doesn’t exist.
>>33288717Stop spamming my hand.
>>33288702The correct spelling doesn't make sense.
>>33288713RIP on the job ):
Did you swipe right though?? Holy shit that is so hot
>>33288714What would you describe your aroma as?
Older Men up to 40, would you seriously date someone whos 18 or 19? Or are the relathionships bound to be only sexual?
>>33288669I'm not saying there is no room for dissent or asserting oneself. Agreeableness tends to be correlated with relative lower income - both in men and women. Geniuses can be difficult characters. But there is also room for completely functional, average people who just do their jobs and keep society running.
There is this quote, sometimes attributed to Erwin Rommel but factually by Kurt von Hammerstein-Equord:
>I distinguish four types. There are clever, hardworking, stupid, and lazy officers. Usually two characteristics are combined. Some are clever and hardworking; their place is the General Staff. The next ones are stupid and lazy; they make up 90 percent of every army and are suited to routine duties. Anyone who is both clever and lazy is qualified for the highest leadership duties, because he possesses the mental clarity and strength of nerve necessary for difficult decisions. One must beware of anyone who is both stupid and hardworking; he must not be entrusted with any responsibility because he will always only cause damage.While women might be less adept at physically demanding tasks on average, their personality traits make them much better at fitting in a hierarchy. If you're not a drill sergeant type of guy, capable of tard wrangling misfits, being stuck with a guy that is both incompetent and eager to seek conflict would be much more detrimental and harder to make up for what a woman might be lacking in raw physical prowess - and even if you were that drill sergeant type of guy, the overhead of having to babysit him might still not be worth it.
Sure, if you end up with a clever and competent guy and you're capable of teamwork yourself, you'd probably be better off with a guy, but those types of guys are rarer than one might think.
>>33288709Fashion is cyclical and retro has always been a thing.
>>33288718hm. i wouldn't classify that as a mental disability. seems like it's mostly a problem with other people. i have the opposite problem, people think i'm chill when what i really want is to be left alone. it's no picnic having to deal with that believe me.
>>3328872936M, I would not have a romantic or sexual relationship with someone that young.
>>33288727I can't actually smell myself unless I'm either wearing cologne or sweating. Very neutral, maybe?
>>33288729I'm 26 and my ex is 18
I really did want a serious relationship with her and still do desu but there is a life gap that is hard yo ignore
Dated another 18yo years before who only wanted fwb, she was super hot but felt a bit predatory so I didn't
women am i allowed to look at your pokies?
>>33288729Not currently 40 but this is my dating strategy for the future (everything until then is practice) and my father did something similar, my parents had an 18 year age gap
>>33288692I only had 1 crush when I was 12 and nothing since then. But I was always more mature than others.
>>33288730This is actually a very good quote. Women used to be lazy and stupid, but they were at least obedient and followed directions. With gaining rights and female empowerment they are now hardworking and stupid, or lazy and stupid in positions of greater impact where they don't think they're stupid. That's why they fuck everything up.
>>33288741Pretty awful of you.
Should they have had sex?
>>33288740no that's reserved for the husband only
i think my mexican neighbors saw me naked
m btw
>>33288744Bro, this is some serious incel shit
>>3328872935M. The youngest person I've slept with in the past 5 years was 23, the youngest person I have dated was 25. I would not go any younger.
>>33288695No, my illiterate retardlet, I am responding to the idea that true character exists but only at a smaller scale. I am reaffirming that true character exists at no scale, and I will also add that anyone who thinks we have some sort of hidden true core is probably just a teenager who likes huffing their own farts.
I just masturbated, and my semen was completely clear, like crystal clear, no white streaks at all
is this bad? i have been masturbating more often lately
>>33288729if it's okay for gays to do it it's okay for straights to too
>>33288753Incels must be cured of their behavior. They must be cured of their incel psychology through a device that siphons their semen out from them. A robo-sex suction device, like the semen extractor tubes from the film A Boy and His Dog.
>>33288756How often are you jerking off man
>>33288755wow, you repeated yourself again. let me anticipate your next response
>>33288761like, almost every day for the past few days
but no more than once a day
used to i would fap once or twice a week TOPS, sometimes only once a month
>>33288761NTA but sometimes I dream of being on a bus where the entire premise is you pay to get on the bus and masturbate while naked surrounded by other naked, masturbating people of both sexes and you all just sit on the bus and play with yourself all night until the bus stops.
>>33288753Maybe incels are just right then.
>>33288729I'm only 26 but that makes me feel gross.
Maybe I might if they are the right person but I'm unlikely to interact with them in the first place.
>Gender
>Why do skateboard sellers on marketplace never reply to messages?
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>>33288752They must be deported. But first, they must be held in a detention center and verbally abused by immigration personnel.
>>33288729She would have to be pretty mature and different
>>33288761Like about once a day.
>>33288729>Older Men up to 40, would you seriously date someone whos 18 or 19?Yes.
>>33288768Because anyone who's ever had an interest in skateboarding is an unmotivated slacker, it's part of the whole package.
>>33288768M, they're too busy skating brooo
>>33288746daria and the cheerleader dumbass girl should've had sex
>>33288752Buenos ding dong diddly dias señor anon
>>33288737Ok. No distractions for my first taste.
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>>33288774Can confirm I can do some cool tricks on the board but I'm a druggie retard
If a woman at the gym makes proper eye contact with me at the gym and she's doing goofy on the mat exercises , do you think I should have commented? I was going to ask "what does this even train?"
She was on her back doing some weird puppy dog bicycle kicking (but vertical) type shit and no it wasn't a deadbug (proper core exercise) and we just locked eyes , I stared at her for like 2 seconds with a neutral half smile face and then just left cause my workout was done.
>>33288774I feel like I know what you mean but
>Sport>SlackerIt just feels so ironic.
>>33288777>Nice tripsAlot of women buy really good boards and sell them a few months later after realising they don't like skateboarding.
>>33288730the claim my post made was that having agreeable functionaries as employees has bad external effects beyond the scope of whether or not they're convenient for the manager. your reply seems to just be going back and reemphasizing that it's easier on a manager to employ women. that may be true, i haven't contested the point. but i'm also not concerned with it, and i don't really care whether managers have easy or hard times tardwrangling employees. i would rather go back to the 3% annual productivity growth we had before women entered the workforce en masse - that's much more important to me. i don't think that's all attributable to women in the workforce, but i'm certain that some of it is. if you can point me to some positive broader economic effect that's been the result of all this, then i would find it much more persuasive than the case you've been making so far.
>>33288783WHERE'S THE MEAT?
>>33288783wasn't accidental either, she actively turned her head as I was walking by.
Post gender
Do you think less of people that decorate their homes with digital photos instead of real ones?
>>33288789I've never seen anyone do that.
>>33288789hows that? you mean like those slidshow things? i mean my grandparents have one of those but yeah i do prefer hardcopies when it comes to literally any kind of media or information
i dont really think "the cloud" will still exist in 50 years
>>33288789male , unless their home is some tony stark contraption then yes. If they have some super digital specced out , then I kinda get it.
>>33288729>would you seriously date someone whos 18 or 19? Or are the relationships bound to be only sexual?When I was that young, I wouldn't have excluded the possibility because judging someone based on their age is flawed. But she would have to be very remarkable and atypical of most teens.
I've been interested in a purely sexual relationship and spent a number of years actively avoiding the possibility of one night stands because of it.
>>33288789Framed photos are waiting to be knocked over by kids
Why do so few people watch television on a schedule any more? Is it because of all that new "streaming" bullshits?
>>33288729>Older Men up to 40, would you seriously date someone whos 18 or 19? 35m and oh god yes
>>33288798Who sets the schedule?
>>33288797My parents tried to frame a childhood picture of me, and I told them, no, I don't want to be framed! I'm innocent, I tell ya, I swear! Whatever you're framing me for, don't.
>>33288784>really good boards and sell them a few months later after realising they don't like skateboardingAw that's a shame ):
Ironically I mostly learned to skate from a couple of chicks lol. Jokes aside, it is difficult and takes a lot of practice; you have to be prepared to take a lot of falls. At the skate park, there were a surprising number of hotties who could shred, but most of the girls roller bladed or just chilled out there.
Skating is really hard to git gud at. I found it easier to pull tricks on the BMX (even if I busted my balls a few times). Huge respect to anyone who puts in the work to become a competent skateboarder, complex tricks elude me.
>>33288789M, no? As long as it provides the same effect, the medium is pretty irrelevant
>>33288798actual broadcast TV died with the analog shutdown IMO
>>33288803I don't fucking know, but there was this unique charm to staying up past 10 in the ancient days to watch the TV shows that mum and dad didn't want you watching, you know?
>>33288798Why should I? There is no upside to scheduled viewing when on-demand exists.
>>33288802If they are kids who rough house in the living room there will probably be an incident. Or the cat might.
Anons I got the bed next to the loud family. Send help.
>>33288780The cheerleader girl was smart enough to get into college.
>>33288797i dont think so
i mean youre putting the pictures on shelves and dressers and shit, by the time the kid is tall enough to knock them over theyre old enough to not be retarded and knock shit over
anyway what is your home entirely devoid of any photographs? how sad
>>33288798>Is it because of all that new "streaming" bullshits?How is that bullshit? It's a good thing that TV and radio can't push their bullshit on you in ad breaks or shitty songs anymore.
>>33288812Yeah, now you have ads on amazon, paramount, Netflix, Disney, etc.
>>33288798For me personally it was as soon as we got a satellite TV box that allowed you to set programmes to record, as well as having a programmable DVR.
I do agree though that, despite the inconvenience, there was a certain charm to having to organise yourself to catch shows broadcast live, watch them at the same time as everybody else, and then talk about them with your friends that day, or on IRC and BBS forums
>>33288809For a while when you said rough house I thought you were talking about kids who lived in a meth house. Meth House Children.
>>33288814Still better than having 5-10 min ad breaks on tv while you're watching a movie.
>>33288810Getting into college as a girl is basically just filling out the application though
>>33288815My issue growing up was I had a different network plan than my peers so they often watched shows I didn't and vice versa so we couldn't talk about the same TV programs.
walked 2,597,000 steps so far this year. how bout you?
>>33288785>having agreeable functionaries as employees has bad external effectsIt mostly has bad effects on 'them' since they tend to be paid worse due to not pursuing raises or promotions as eagerly. It does not have bad effects for the guys employing them. It's a good quality to have for employees.
This does not mean that agreeableness is a good quality to have in all professions. In leadership or sales roles, people probably shouldn't be too agreeable, etc. - but again: this is a statistical average and the differences - while statistically significant and relevant at scale, are not as big as some think and there is quite a bit of overlap. You will find men who are more agreeable than the average woman and women who are less agreeable than the average guy. An interesting fact is for example that black women tend to be less agreeable than white women and if you control for SES, they tend to outearn them.
>i would rather go back to the 3% annual productivity growth we had before women entered the workforce en masse - that's much more important to me.Back when? After WWII? The historical context has to be considered - but this is completely besides the point and a huge subject by itself.
The original question was: who are you better off taking with you on a lonely island. And I pushed back against the notion that a man is necessarily a better choice, since men come with their own issues and can be quite problematic in their own ways. While there are guys who are competent, good team workers, survivalists, physically fit, etc. who will effortlessly carry you through this scenario, there are plenty of guys who are the complete opposite. And while the average woman might be less physically adept than the average guy, the very fact that they tend to be more 'average' make them a safer bet - at least if you're a reasonably competent guy yourself.
>>33288820i just awlked one right now
>>33288820i lost count at 500k
>>33288729To be honest I'd probably be creeped out by any teenager who'd want a relationship with me. When I was that age I would have been grossed out at the thought being with a 40 yo.
Do you think people who hurt you did it not because they wanted to hurt you, but because what they did they saw as the best thing to do to survive at the time?
>>33288825just retrace your steps and start again (doubling as you do, of course)
>>33288798The last show I watched as it aired was Game of Thrones, which was a plot and drama heavy show and also a huge cultural phenomenon, all of which made it worth adjusting my schedule to see it as soon as it came out, well the first few seasons anyways. I'm trying to think of anything in the last 5 years that got me excited enough to watch it as it aired, everything else kind of "I'll get to it when I get to it"
>>33288819Aw fair enough, that's a shame ):
I mean for me it was more getting up early with my sister on weekends and stuff to catch cartoons lol and then we'd roelplay them. Then maybe I'd have a friend or two to at school the following week to talk about them with also.
In the very early days of YouTube though people would upload full episodes of things, good times...
To both the genders.
On a scale of 1-10. 10 being highest and 1 being lowest.
How much would you rate men and women for their loyalty in a romantic relationship.
Note:
This is from personal POV, from the stories you heard among your friends, from what you may have experienced by yourself, from whatever youve seen or witnessed
* dont be biased
* dont include the judgement of whatever youve read or seen online
* dont take homosexual relationship into account
* dont make up excuses for infidelity
As per my own experience id rate
Men- 5
Women- 4
>>33288830nobody has ever hurt me
except for this shithead in middle school fuck that shaved head fukken manlet
literally looked like the kid from Bully jej
>>33288830They were just thoughtless selfish assholes.
>>33288836M
never had any experience with romantic relationships, so my answers can only be
M: N/A
F: N/A
>>33288729M, 38
Since having kids the word "daddy" is an instant boner killer so helping some girl work through her daddy issues is not particularly appealing. Are 19 year olds hot? Sure, I'd still be really weirded out and concerned with any girl who genuinely thought I would be a good relationship prospect for her
>if it was purely sexualI'd still be a little weirded out.
>>33288830no one's ever really hurt me intentionally. the few people i've been hurt by could not possibly have had any idea the effect they'd have by their actions. i do curse them sometimes, but i'm still too confused by their behavior at the time to just be angry at them. it's a lot more complicated than that.
>>33288836>On a scale of 1-10Stopped reading there. Every questions like this is boring.
https://youtu.be/JOtdR0nvumk
Would you save the duck?
nta this picture made me chuckle
>>33288849The only duck I'd save would be August.
>>33288850it's hard not to like the guy, even if he's a bit reddit at times
Post gender
Would you be more attracted or less attracted to a potential partner if they truthfully told you that they killed someone in self defense?
speaking of reddit
hot sauces--now there's a reddit condiment
>>33288858>killed someone in self defenseThat's pretty hot ngl
Also I would just hope she was okay
>>33288858definitely less. whatever the circumstances, it's a repugnant thing to be associated with. people afflicted with horrific diseases aren't to blame either, but it doesn't mean they're as attractive as non-diseased people.
Pretty sure my gf is slowly “letting me go” but she’s just sitting there listening to music and drawing. She sat in the other couch instead of the one I’m sitting on and she won’t say a word to me. It’s awkward as fuck and it’s wasting my time. Do I just break up with her or do I ask what she wants from me? She has me stumped. I don’t even think she knows what she wants. Bitch will waste four years of our lives just to get bored or whatever bullshit women excuse and drop me like I mean nothing to her
>>33288861Post gender, your response doesn't make it clear
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>>33288235Well I agreed to go to hers for dinner tomorrow, unless I'm too tired in which case I'll go Mon or Tues (cause she has friends staying over from Wed)
I love her anon. I just really want what's best for her, and I'm not sure if that is me, with all my issues and such (I mean I basically ghosted everyone in my life)
You're right though, I should just love and marry this beautiful girl...
>>33288864Ask her why she is being distant
>>33288864Just talk to her dude, ask if she's feeling okay, be honest and say you feel she's being a bit distant, talk and try to work things out together at her own pace
Financemoids what's the best way to invest $3000
>>332888723000 in itself is not going to yield you anything worth the trouble. might as well just put it in your checking account.
What are some pet peeves you guys itt have? Here are mine:
When I have to poop right after showering
When adults cough in their hands instead of the nook of their elbow
Slow walkers or people walking without a purpose
>>332888723k isn't a lot from an investment standpoint. Do you have an existing portfolio? If so just buy more of what you've already got. If not, pick an etf you like and buy that.
>>332888723k is chump change.
That being said, index funds or etfs
>>33288858M
yeah id have to say more attracted
ONLY as long as she isnt psycho and enjoyed it or anything
>>33288729I am 31 and would do 10 year difference, even prefer it but not more.
>>33288876you can't have a pet peeve about yourself, sorry
>>33288751That person is a retard, it is not awful but it is risky because limiting yourself to a pool of so few women is something I wouldn't want to. Generally most reasonable women are willing to do 8-12 years if they are into you.
>>33288870I know she isn’t feeling okay and I know that it’s partially because of me (I didn’t do anything, she’s just thinks that it’s weird that we’ve known each other and have been together for so long). I just want her to break up with me already because it sure as shit sounds like that’s what she wants
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My request of the day: let me love Emo Haired, Clean Shaven, Faithful Anthony Padilla.
I am so fucking lonely lmao
>>33288880Based on this and the other answers, im guessing its not normal or healthy for me to think i will be too old for older men when i turn 20? I am 18 now. I should really try to fix this toxic way of thinking
>>33288886I AM SO RONNERRYY I HAVE NOBOODYYY
>>33288888idk I just like the idea of a woman that is younger but at the same time not young enough where it feels like she is almost a minor
occasionally i'll feel such a surge of dislike for my 'friends' it makes me wish i knew no one at all. they're not really friends of course, they just think they are because i indulge their idea of who they think i am. strangers at least don't make that assumption. the more i know someone, the more intense it seems my capacity to dislike them grows.
>>33288884Check this out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KlEvUb0w70c
https://strawpoll.com/e6Z2A6koqgN ?
>>33288897i literally only come to adv for atoga
i dont even use the catalog
have you ever labored to bring something into being, thinking all the while that you had an accurate conception of its basic nature, only to find with its emergence into the real world that it had suddenly taken on widely different characteristics and that you could no longer think of it in the same way you did before?
IMPORTANT QUESTION FOR WOMEN:
When you get beat by someone else at a game really badly, do you also feel a burning sensation in your stomach? Along with that also usually comes a feeling of hopelessness and depression.
I ask because I read that men have an automatic psychological function where they are instinctually coerced to submit to their betters and I wonder if women have that function too
Women are such garbage. They have no value at all.
>>33288538Rack city bitch rack rack city bitch
>>33288904i'm speculating a bit but i think women feel the opposite. they derive a sense of satisfaction from submitting to their superiors, especially if it's a man.
>>33288904I thought men did the opposite they don't submit
>>33288872I'm not much of a finance moid but I'd say that depends on your perspective. Are those $3000 something you will need in the near future or something you'd feel bad about if you lost them? If you want to be save, you could put them in an ETF, e.g. MSCI World. While the recent political troubles were a bit painful, they were a solid investment in the past. Other than that, Gold ETCs are also a good option in politically troubled times. If you're feeling like taking a bit more of a risk, there are more specific ETFs, focussing on defence tech or general tech - which grow faster under good circumstances but are naturally more risky.
>>33288538It's a leftist process/framework for sexual consent. It's typical in BDSM spaces but also with the kind of people who buy into the idea that all sex is rape.
>went on a date with a supposedly conservative girl for the first time yesterday
>she was the most obnoxious bisexual in-your-face liberal-esque feminist I've ever run into
>more of a "yass queen slayy" female empowerment man-hater than any left-leaning woman I've ever met
Huh?
>>33288914it happens with all male animals. their testosterone decreases, they get mopey and everyone starts shunning them.
>>33288904Dont know about that but i have lost 4 gaming mouses while playing league. When i lose to somebody I just get angry, mostly at myself
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women want to bash your hip bones against my hip bones
>>33288918women on dating sites who claim to be "conservative" just mean they want a guy who will give them a lot of money while they do fuck all
if you had to change your name what would you change it to? (for me, delroy)
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Women do you like watching boys pee?
IS PUBG ANON HERE
YOU WANNA PLAY DUOS?
>>33288729people who are 40 see everyone who is below 40 as COMPLETELY IREDEEMABLY HOPELESSLY RETARDED which is why they dab on new-gens and are completely trolling and unhelpful despite giving good life lessons.
>>33288929Bitch in the back is looking plappable, like a chubbier version of the redhead from Scott Pilgrim
>>33288925F. I'd legally change my name to my initials, since I go by them anyways.
>>33288872The best way to invest 3,000 is to not spend it. keep not spending 3,000 until you get like 30,000. Then come back.
I wish my hair was darker
autistic people, what are you hyper-sensitive to? explain to me the traumas.
>>33288925whatever femanon finds attractive i'm her daily doormat no will of my own
I’m on my period and everything sucks and I HATE YOU
>>33288937Those aren't my initials, you know.
it is terrible what they are doing to bibi netanyahu in israel. he is a war hero, and a prime minister who did a *fabulous* job working with the united states to bring great success to getting rid of the dangerous nuclear threat in iran.
>>33288943People make fun of me.
>>33288947argh. i mean what overwhelms you, not what makes you feel dejected. sense hyper-sensitivity.
>>33288946The only reason it's terrible is that once we lose the Jewish Nazis we're not going to have anything funny left on this planet
>>33288944*grabs ur tits*
>>33288939oily textured foods and the sensation of oil mixing with saliva (awful)
the amount of glycerin in products that touch the skin (awful)
the loudness of the microwave door when it is shut (opening it is fine)
clear non-stretchy flimsy plastic of individually wrapped items like hot pockets (deeply upsetting)
tone of an angry woman (gives me deep anxiety even if she's just gossiping to someone else)
people not finding the same moments of the same tv show as emotionally impactful as I found them (go away)
the exact volume of doorbells (why)
>>33288946i agree. i wish we had a bibi here in america. i think trumps great and all, but bibi is just on another level altogether. he would put all these woke people back in their place.
>>33288939Jewelry pisses me off
not just on myself but on other people too
>>33288946I am ok with Israel as a state, but Netanyahu is a fucking scurge that needs to be inprisoned.
Fucker already was close to getting jailed before the war.
>>33288946bibi el drizzy?
bibi el drizzy.
>>33288957hands off my bibi! you want iran to nuke us or something?
>>33288946I think it's crazy that 20% of the Jewish men there are supposedly studying the Talmud and Torah all day but nothing new has come out of Judaism for the last thousand years except Adam Sandler's 8 Crazy Nights, if I were an Israeli I'd be pissed with those guys.
>>33288959i want iran to nuke isreal
>>33288939Food textures and touching boxes with wet fingers
sometimes i feel like calling him 'bibi' is just too formal for what i feel for the guy...
>>33288939gay smells
bad sounds
bad music
bad vocals in music
whining voices
fat people who don't carry themselves humbly
bright lights being flashed into my eyes
loud yapping dogs
>>33288964>formalhow is that
its literally a gay ass pet name
thats probably what his boyfriend calls him when they fuck
>>33288965this is just normal people irks
>>33288967anytime somebody posts the "p---" word
>>33288966maybe we could make soft cooing sounds when referring to him?
>>33288969piss
pipe
pine
peen
plap
yeah its plap
>>33288972oh yeah it's plappin' time
>>33288953>clear non-stretchy flimsy plastic of individually wrapped items like hot pockets (deeply upsetting)autists love this shit though
>>33288944I would end your period early by sucking out all the blood from your uterus in a single night.
>>33288939I can't decide if I hate sun chips or if I want to eat them.
women, in your opinion is men liking futa gay?
>>33288978glugglugglugglugglugshlorpglugglugglugglugglug
Why do women seemingly tend to date men that are the opposite of the men they marry?
Women who have had sexual relations with a man who had a hairy shaft (that is, hair growing on the shaft of his penis) what are your thoughts on how he should groom/shave/grow the hair? Is it a pleasant sensation for sex (and unpleasant for blowjobs)?
>>33288450No. Exercise makes pain so I have to lay down and not get a muscle cramp. Or like pass out because lacking oxygen.
i feel like there's a yak on my chest
>>33289000After I get done I always go to my car, sit down, and get boner
>losing game
>teammate starts cheering everyone on
>we win
:O
>>33288640>>33288657This
You can't traumatize people and expect them to take it as a test. That's bad sampling.
>>33288988women are biologically wired to value two compeltely different types of men, but society is monogamous
>>33288948So suck my dick.
>>33289009Rough, intense, it's just "more"
>>33288981Idk. It's all under the blanket of liking stylized cartoon fantasy porn, which isn't gay as much as it is plain weird.
>>33289009More elaborate and interactive
>>33289011So if women are inherently bigamous at best, is there any point in pursuing them monogamously?
>>33288413wtf he's literally me except I'm not bald and soibearded
>>33289013>>33289016Why can't all moids do this
>>33289009Reading women talk about sex on social media, apparently it's lacking in cunnilingus and female orgasms
>>33288798Cable is expensive. People don't all have regular schedules. Market failure.
>>33289017if she's good she'll be monogamous with you. it's also why women HATE cheating because they're basically doing the equivalent of nofap by being monogamous.
I HATE YOU, PERIOD. YOU’RE DISGUSTING AND YOU’RE MESSY AND YOU HURT LIKE HELL
>>33289020Not all moids have big enough dicks to do it well
>>33289030hop on grindr bruv
I need sex with chads. I'm a guy tho.
>>33289025Yes, but she'll already have gotten around with guys that "totally aren't her type, they hurt anyway and she doesn't like that sort of thing :(". Why should I bother treating women like marriage material if doing things "right" leads to being the backup plan to them?
>>33289027Hey, say that to my face tough guy.
>>33289025>if she's good she'll be monogamous with youNot being monogamous isn't a bad quality. You have a preference and a jealousy insecurity that isn't logical if you knew anything about real sex.
I don’t get moids who bump threads even though they’re on page 10 and long dead. Threadcomancyers are the worst. I swear they do it just to be dicks.
>>33289038No it isn't, I'm all sweaty and tired
>>33289042The cheater rises.
Just gave a woman the ick because she found out that I wear a size small shirt. Gonna kms
>>33288939>autistic people, what are you hyper-sensitive to?F
Hydraulic fluid, because it has a weird smell to it that upsets my nose, and high-pitched/sharp noises. Like if someone scratches a chalkboard or drags something metal across the floor, I'll drop to the ground. It's very debilitating.
Cheating a terrible thing to do regardless of circumstances. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk.
>>33288866Go and do it. And be ready, don't get wasted beforehand.
Enjoy it with her!
>>33289042polyamorites have terrible sex because they sadly don’t have a sense of romantic love
>>33288939Noise. I have extremely sensitive hearing and synesthesia so I don’t do well in loud places
will a girl approach me if I dress really nice?
Aleve doesn’t even work for monthly gift cramps and apparently it has salt in it. The moids who run Aleve should be sued for false advertising.
>>33289044Is it because your heart is fluttering?
>>33289053Why do grown ass adult foids and moids talk like kindergarteners now? What the complete fuck is wrong with you all?
>>33289058Uh-oh, stinky, someone's having a widdle melty-poo!
>>33289056Aleve? I hardly knew her
>>33289035Honestly I can't answer that. The most sane way of thinking of women is that they're a mixture smart, attractive, and weak. The weak in them makes them amicable, and the attractive is nice, but the smart in them makes them irksome. They're like strict parents that won't except anything that isn't an A+ without guilting you endlessly about how bad you are with subtle and non-subtle passive aggressive jabs signs and cues.
Basically the strat is to accept women for portions and not the whole thing. You date her because she's amicable or good looking, and the rest is basically just hopium that she doesn't demoralize you all day long.
>>33289042>why can't I fuck other guyswhat does that have to do with me? why might I be obligated to someone that isn't obligated to me. That's just sex-friendship at that point.
>>33289056Naproxen is the worst of the NSAIDs. If you can get a prescription, use mefenamic acid. I basically get it for free and it alleviates all of my period symptoms.
>>33289056sodium is salt?
Women
Would it bother you if a dude you’re friendly to at work followed you on social media if you have several mutuals also from work?
I don't like the sound my chick friend makes when she grabs my butt (male)
>>33289047imagine when you give her the ick because you were vulnerable and showed your true self lol
>>33289069Record it and show us the vocaroo next time
>>33289068No, several of my coworkers follow me on instagram.
>>33289067If you don’t know what salt is, maybe mop duty is a little too complicated for you
>>33289070Happened to me once
>>33288939M
Sounds and smells
Women, did you ever take it up the ass to keep your virginity?
>>33289071it's just crocodile's laugh from one piece
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1eQtiySJ6b8
>>33289072Yeah but did you give them your handle or they just find it? I know I’m overthinking because I’m an autist but I feel like that fundamentally changes things a little bit
>>33289057No, my back is sore
>>33289077for me it's zehahahahahaha
>>33289076No. I took it up the ass for fun.
>>33288997No opinion. Some hair is fine.
>>33288922Just his. Probably not yours.
>>33289082What if I gave you a backrub?
Or shot you with my massage gun?
goodnight atoga
sleep well
im going to sleep in
>>33288384 (OP)Women,
What sex position makes you feel most dominated? Gotta distract her from my little cock
>>33289105Ok, enjoy your backpain.
how do fathers feel when their daughters grow up to be really hot and have strangers gooning in her social media comments
>>33289110It'll be gone tomorrow
>>33289095Very fun and very painful.
>>33289116>inb4 hits pipe
>>33289106Prone, with his whole body crushing mine.
>>33289125What do I do with my hands? Hug? Grab her neck?
>>33289009Is it chad sex if I look like chad but only have a body count of 3 that are spread out over years and every time has a bit of awareness to it?
I remember when i was shitposting 6-8 months ago and a femanon said "porn ruined me"
it really stuck with me and now i feel ashamed everytime i look a porn because i think of her words
>>33289133She was mistaken. You ruined yourself.
>all of my exes are in FSA discord
thanks i hate it
>>33289132do you really look like chad if you only have a body count of 3
>>33289133moids should be bullied harder abotu this kind of stuff, maybe then they'll be lovable
I’m at the point where the shoe is on the other foot now.
>Ok zoomer
>Whatever you say zoomer
>finally shave
>match with 400 women a day
that easy?
>>33289133then stop using porn?
you’re low iq if you need to watch another man get laid just so you can get hard lol
Today I was torn between calling my dog "buddy" and "mister," and accidentally combined them into "busty."
State gender. Have you had any embarrassing slip-ups recently?
>>33289138Female Sexual Assault?
>>33289148female sexy audio
>>33289133girls will find anything to complain about
the key is to keep reading the bullshit they write until you run out of any part of your body, mind, actions, or life for them to criticize, then you will finally realize they will never be satisfied and you will be enlightened
Where do you get off waltzing in, shitting everything up and then acting like you own the place all of a sudden? Is this how the Native Americans felt about European colonizers?
>>33289146M. Forgot to put the kickstand down on my motorcycle and flopped over. Lost cool points but I will regain them tomorrow.
M or F
Should I get into tarot cards and give hot crazy chicks readings?
>>33289157hot crazy chicks do their own readings, or have even hotter even crazier chicks to do readings for them
>>33289139I think that I do receive pretty privilege for being tall and fit and having a ~7/10 face. the lack of experience comes from childhood sexual trauma and autism and introversion and such
>>33289152you can give a (You) to who you’re talking about instead of shouting it into the void
Anyone here use black cards?
>>33289154I'm picturing you flopping over onto your back like a turtle.
>>33289063>You date her because she's amicable or good looking, and the rest is basically just hopium that she doesn't demoralize you all day long.Yes, but it should stay as dating. It's bleak, but it makes me realize some of the PUA people have a point if you consider it from this angle. Women broadly do not like men, certainly not "boring" men until they need something. Pumping and dumping is clearly the right answer unless I'm missing something.
>>33289164>childhood sexual traumaOoh look at me I lost my virginity and now I have le heckin' traumerino
>>33289172Mono blue is where it's at
>>33289128Whatever you want. Holding my hands above my head can be pretty hot.
How come most people who are left completely unprepared for the real world by their parents are still able to figure things out while I've always struggled?
>>33289170There’s no one to give a (You) to here
You died nearly a decade ago
You are quite fucking aweseome
>>33289201in the struggle you find meaning or something idk
>>33288384 (OP)Is it silly to not masturbate a few days before meeting up with a woman? I've been taking supplements for my cum production. I want to make a visual impact
>>33289106>What sex position makes you feel most dominated?Legs on the shoulders or face down/ass up
>>33289146>Have you had any embarrassing slip-ups recently?F
Not recently, but my ultimate horror was trying to order a cheeseburger and accidentally saying "beesechurger". The girl at the counter just looked at me awkwardly for a few seconds and I left without saying a word.
>>33289215>Is it silly to not masturbate a few days before meeting up with a woman?You're more likely to bust quick and have a longer refractory period, but if busting fat loads is your prerogative, more power to you.
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Women, which one are you?
>>33289222Do you bend your knees on his shoulders or keep them straight?
>>33289220Yay
>>33289222I've got good control over my ejaculation. I want her to watch me paint her body
>>33289200She's just insecure and socially inept at negotiating boundaries and talking about issues in an open format. Likely her parents/family traumatized her this way. Many such examples are common.
>>33289222>beesechurgerYou're obviously just a bug fanatic.
>>33289228I miss my beehives
>>33289224I know more than that.
>>33289199I like having a guy be rough with me like that. It adds to the fun of already being pinned by his body weight.
>>33289232Can your arms even support your body weight/?
>>33288384 (OP)If I pick a girl up during sex what are the odds she'll like it?
When FreakBob calls, do you answer?
>spamming her videos
Guess it is no use...
>>33289234>>33289238Two more virgin (you)s
Do people/men actually feel "emotionally abused" by a partner with anxious attachment who is constantly afraid that you hate them and are leaving them? How does that misery and hypervigilance somehow become an attack on you?
The moments my boyfriend showed such behavior himself were very comforting despite me not wanting him to feel sad, yet when I have my times he acts so disturbed by it and I feel our relationship weaken. If anything it should be stronger.
It movie timee e e e eieip
>>33288692When you give up. Which I think I'm going to do.
Van fucked up my parlay, but I just made that money back with Pantoja.
>>33289224>Women, which one are you?What does it make me if I can arch sharper than Legend?
>>33289225>Do you bend your knees on his shoulders or keep them straight?This will depend on height, but I usually just have my ankles pressed beside my head.
>>33289228>You're obviously just a bug fanaticI do love bees
>>33289239>If I pick a girl up during sex what are the odds she'll like it?There's this crazy new thing called asking.
>>33289264Asking in the middle of it might be weird
>>33289254Idk what you're not parsing here.
Men can be traumatized. Repeating a negative emotive pattern is insecurity, as in not secure, as in damaging to a relationship. Repetitively accusing someone of disliking you without any concrete evidence or circumstances is also making a wish to the universe that they should hate you and leave. So shut the fuck up?
>>33289264>What does it make me if I can arch sharper than Legend?Is the arch correlation or causation with daddy issues?
Why is love so hard to find, but so easy to feel and express? Why does it have to be so rare?
>>33289287Why can't you visit see him?
>>33289289:( idk idkidkidkidk idk idk idk idk idk idk idkcididiejeieheheuehrhwjeiwheduhdruejeheididjekeidjroekshdhriwbqnaiabsi
i’m going to read more books now that you’ve reminded me of love need to distract myself
>>33289295What are you reading?
>>33289292It wouldn't be right
>>33289268Sorry if I implied men can't be traumatized, I just meant in general I have no idea how someone being insecure becomes abusive.
Maybe I'm just really fucked up but I feel most secure when someone is afraid of losing me since it makes me feel valued. It should be a huge ego boost and very bonding that I love my boyfriend so much I'm terrified of losing him to the point I can't sleep or eat. I didn't like when he felt the same way early in our relationship only because it hurt him, but I was never scared or turned off because it meant he loved me. I'm trying to understand why it's a turn off to be so devoted.
Femanons, do you listen to Olivia Rodrigo?
>>33289303no I'm an adult
Ilia Topuria just made me a lot of money. Thank you, Spanish man.
>>33289267>Asking in the middle of it might be weirdAsk beforehand how they feel about being picked up.
>>33289275>Is the arch correlation or causation with daddy issues?Correlation. For all my dad's faults, he never sexually abused me.
>>33289303>Femanons, do you listen to Olivia Rodrigo?Yeah, she's pretty good. I liked Sour more than Guts.
>>33289305What does it mean if I'm listening to her as a male adult then?
>>33289309Youre in your feelings
>>33289299the razors edge by w somerset maugham
my book list is so long rn i need to just get something read NOW
nott o me tion all of the science shit i need to read to finish my degree AAAAAAA
>>33289308>Correlation. For all my dad's faults, he never sexually abused me.Daddy issues doesn't mean he sexually abused you (although it can), it means ignoring you, abandoning you, treating you badly, etc...
>>33289308> Ilia Topuria just made me a lot of money.Same kek
>>33289300How come?
Is he married to some other girl now?
>>33289157>tarot cardsThat's pretty gay
>>33289308>>33289264Sports betting is a suckers game.
If you win too much they will ban you from betting or only let you bet a dollar.
>>33289311i made a mistake i need a different boo klol time to find some science fiction book instead
>>33289308>Correlation. For all my dad's faults, he never sexually abused me.Looking at that arch, I don't know how he resisted
>gf 2 weeks ago says she wants to move to another state to help cousin take care of baby that she just visited
>thats okay, we can do long distance as long as it’s temporary
>agrees
>today has a complete meltdown, says her life is going nowhere, feels stuck etc, and asks if she did go if we could take a break because she “can’t do long distance”
Is it over? Even if she doesn’t end up moving since it’s mostly a hypothetical as of now, is this a deal breaker? I feel like if you love someone, and I mean actual love, not modern love where you “care about people and just HAVE to let them go because you’re SO concerned about their well being” (even tho when you offer them any life suggestions or advice they immediately shoot it down because you’re NOT them so you-you just heckin wouldn’t GET ITTTTTT). It’s funny how she didn’t see me for a week and kept touching me and saying she missed me but now all of this is happening. Fucking kek, 5 years down the drain
>>33289302>It should be a huge ego boost and very bonding that I love my boyfriend so much I'm terrified of losing him to the point I can't sleep or eat.Ok. Now remove all definition from the emotional aspect. Your partner is scared, can't eat or sleep, and you don't have any control over the situation. What part of that makes you think that is a good thing?
I think you need less therapy, honestly, because you're fantasizing nightmares.
Women, do you lose respect for a guy if he licks your pussy? I have an impression that you would because he literally puts himself into inferior position which makes him too available, too eager to please and thus should kill desirability
>>33289303FUCK no. I listen to the artists she ripped off. Also she seems really annoying and bitchy.
>>33289322>gf 2 weeks ago says she wants to move to another state to help cousin take care of baby that she just visitedwut?
what even is this post.
>>33289309Gay and/or a coomer
>>33289325Yep, never do it. ICK!
>>33289329My horrible reality
>>33289303No, I don’t listen to plagiarists who call on their fans to dox and threaten the lives of the women their exes dated after them.
>>33289313>Daddy issues doesn't mean he sexually abused you (although it can), it means ignoring you, abandoning you, treating you badly, etc...Oh, then maybe. I'm subconsciously a people pleaser in regards to people in authority. And that would likely include people in a dominant role in the bedroom.
>>33289318>If you win too much they will ban you from betting or only let you bet a dollar.This hasn't been my experience. I've made well over $100k in profit over the years and they haven't banned me. My best payout was Ronda vs Holly Holm. I had my uncle place the bet for me because I was in Afghanistan at the time and it was like 7 in the morning when I was watching it and I lost my shit.
>>33289320>Looking at that arch, I don't know how he resistedJesus
>>33289325>Women, do you lose respect for a guy if he licks your pussy?No, that's retarded. But you can also eat pussy from a dominant position.
>>33289322F
She trippin shorddy
>>33289254It should be good. A guy should want his girlfriend to feel a little afraid of it ending, and want to be comforted sometimes. Some guys might just be scared of emotions in general though. But these are good ones that prove a relationship is real
>>33289337>But you can also eat pussy from a dominant positionDoubt. Why eat pussy if you can just use fingers? Gives you more control and keeps you in dominant posture
I want my fucking ADHD meds. I'm so tired of waiting to do this damn evaluation
I'm on the verge of killing myself, I can't take the disorder in my life anymore.
I lost 15 pounds in two months and i've gained pretty much all of it back because depressions causing me to stress eat. why do i even fucking bother
>"""""Men""""" who cry to Driver’s License or any OR song
I bet you cry when flowers die you pussy losers lmao. Damn right I’m gonna mock you and that this is gonna ruin our relationship.
>>33289342What if I cry to that one where she talks about fucking some old guy because I don't like being reminded that I'm old?
Anyway this one's good, just remembered it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXcjPySjdJU
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>>33289337>I'm subconsciously a people pleaser in regards to people in authority.That just sounds like a woman
>>33289337>AfghanistanIs this the afro latina army chick?
I forgot, are you a lesbian or is that someone else?
>>33289303>He cries to lyrics that a large group of old white men wrote in a board room*Squirms and cringes*
>>33289342Fellas, is it gay to have emotions?
>>33289346Boy… she just sucks. Look, I don’t think I can do this anymore babe. Your taste in music makes me want to puke now. I just stopped being attracted to you right here and now.
>>33289332the way you women do this is annoying
it's like you want to be a pretty little self-contained tragedy over actually potentially making two people happy.
which is why ya'll always share about it on the internet
but won't actually go over the top
>>33289322From a certain digital therapist
She says she feels stuck and like her life’s going nowhere. When people feel like that, they start questioning everything around them. That includes their relationship. You stayed steady. She got wobbly. That’s where the mess started.
You’re treating this like some kind of betrayal of “real love,” but that’s not really what’s going on. People don’t always bail because they stopped caring. Sometimes they just can’t handle anything, even the stuff that’s good. That’s what she’s showing you. Doesn’t make it okay, but it explains it.
The way you’re talking about modern love and five years down the drain sounds like you’re caught in a loop. Like if she loved you, she wouldn’t do this. But she is. So maybe she never did. And now the whole thing feels fake or wasted. That kind of spiral doesn’t get you anywhere. It just makes everything feel more pointless than it actually is.
A better question is what kind of relationship you actually want. One where the second shit gets hard, she starts looking for the exit? If the answer’s no, then what she might do doesn’t even matter. She’s already showing you what she does under pressure.
You don’t need to wait for her to decide. She already told you where her head is. That’s all the information you need to make your own call.
>>33289352If you must cry, cry to a good song not yodeled by a Disney starlet.
>>33289337>AfghanistanWorst experience in the sandbox?
Men would you date a girl with a gross burn wound
>>33289361Yeah no problem. She has to let me make up stories about how she got it though.
>>33289361Yes, well, I don't know.
I'm not a saint, despite how much I'd like to be.
I do think love makes all that superficial stuff irrelevant, but alas, we're not in love yet.
>>33289361A car burner was held down on my arm when I was a kid and I still have the scar so it's fine.
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Moids, can I interest you in listening to Paramore instead?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1VPotzhpAGE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zMrL6N3GDA
>>33289342I only cry to 40 yo sad american guy music
>>33289370Oh yeah baby, that's what we need. Memories from getting bullied in school.
>>33289370Love Misery Business.
>>33289340>Why eat pussy if you can just use fingers?Tongues feel better
>>33289347>That just sounds like a womanIt doesn't work with the government. I'm very much belligerent when it comes to legality. To my own detriment even.
>>33289348>Is this the afro latina army chick?Yes
>I forgot, are you a lesbian or is that someone else?I'm bi, but in a lesbian relationship.
>>33289350She writes all her own songs alongside Dan Nigro, who also produced and co-wrote Chappell Roan's debut album.
>>33289360>Worst experience in the sandbox?Worst experience was in Kuwait. It was 130 degrees and there was a huge sandstorm that came through. A/C was out in the shop, but we weren't allowed to leave our post. So we were pretty much just chilling in our underwear sitting in front of an industrial fan.
>>33289370All We Know is Falling is an incredible and underrated album. A lot of people sleep on Paramore's early stuff because of their Christian roots, but it was fire. Ain't it Fun is still their best song tho imo.
>>33289379No, ‘midwest’ emo. Well I do like country, you got me there.
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>>33289377It’s a classic. But my all time favorites are from their debut album and Brand New Eyes.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e4miAlnuw8M
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7nmB20qJv4
>>33289380Okay whatever helps you sleep at night Mr. Delulu
Tinder shadow banned me for not using it for a month
>>33289392they shadow banned me for being ugly
>>33289395When I tried to upload a selfie, the app crashed because I was "trolling"
>>33289380>So we were pretty much just chilling in our underwear sitting in front of an industrial fan.Was your unit or w/e mostly men?
Did they say anything?
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Oh no. He became based again.
Now I feel slightly guilty for tuning him out.
*covers eyes*
>>33289395No thats you repelling pussy naturally
>>33289380You ever fuck any of those chicks that like to fuck people in the military?
>>33289399>>33289405this is one of those bladerunner 2049 situations where you're gonna have to run special tests to even tell and you're all being unfair and biased because the bots might as well be human
>>33289341>I want my fucking ADHD meds. I'm so tired of waiting to do this damn evaluationRelatable.
Unfortunately, decades of developing coping methods got me misdiagnosed as normal.
>>33289405Am I a cute bot?
>>33289408>WouldHomie acting like he wouldn't be the one to give her it.
>>33289352>Fellas, is it gay to have emotions?No. But posting on 4chan makes you a faggot.
>>33289414>Homie acting like he wouldn't be the one to give her it.I wouldn't presume to be allowed to give her new ones...
>>33289361Sure, that's not gonna immediately make her ugly. Where is it and can she joke around about it?
>>33289410I'd treat bots like humans and then they'd still kill me because of empathy and kindness being defined as weaknesses.
We are very cooked.
>>33289410Fuck it, fine. I'll watch blade runner finally. Which one(s) do I watch
>>33289419Do you remember that anon that asked you to pour coffee on your balls?
That was me btw.
Does MKG have any progeny?
>>33289322>>today has a complete meltdown>todayThat's fucking today. Listen to her. Assure her that her what she's feeling is valid and to that the two of will figure things out and she has time to decide.
Then find out how she's feeling tomorrow.
My patience is wearing thin.
>>33289436how about you wear something thicker then?
How do you establish whether you actually want to date or if you’re just bored and horny?
>>33289342https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3nr8rkoKQA
>>33289439Waiting is the most painful part.
I still think I could fix AnthonySchizo
>>33289442Hang out with friends.
>>33289342https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJywJjwqIK8
>>33289446I have been, still want to date. Does this mean it’s not just boredom?
>>33289449Depends, if male, does your friendship allow you to be emotionally vulnerable with each other, or are you just "guy friends" who "hang" and barely know each other.
>>33289254>who is constantly afraid that you hate them and are leaving them? How does that misery and hypervigilance somehow become an attack on you?If literally nothing I do or say can make you feel like I care about you and won't leave you, it very much feels like you aren't listening to me, appreciating me, or caring about anything I say or do. It seems like you are just appeasing your fears and anxiety, listening and trusting your fear instead of me, and making both of us constantly slave to reassure you instead of enjoying each other and our lives together.
Never obey fear, it simply strengthens the fear.
>>33289448My favorite anime ED? God it’s been so long, but probably Clannad.
>Dango, Dango, Dango, Dango>Dango, Dai ka zo ku~
>>33289452>does your friendship allow you to be emotionally vulnerable with each otherfemoid hands..
>>33289303cause you said red lights
forever now i drive stop signs
alone past yours I still see
street... your face
what the fuck are zoomtards listening to?
>>33289427Ah. I just dipped my dick in hot coffee instead.
>>33289452I’m a woman, but yes it does allow me to be open
>>33289433I do not.
I'm not entirely sure my genetic code could stand another shuffle. I'm confident they'd be intelligent, but that's not everything.
>>33289447I think I could though
>>33289460Then I guess yeah, you do want to date and it's not just out of boredom.
>>33289456Brown Avril Lavigne wannabes, as it were. She’s a hack but all they have for their “voice of a generation”. I was okay with Billie but this is such an obvious industry plant it’s embarrassing. Imagine thinking Miley Cyrus is some revolutionary innovator for pop music. Same energy.
>22yo friend rushed into trying to marry his gf within 6 months of dating but (un)fortunately got stopped by his ex's psycho mother who wanted to join them on their honeymoon among other shit
>now his family's having a follow-up meltdown over his younger sister doing a """""missionary trip""""" to South Korea, going AWOL from her mission team and then coming back with a 34-year-old Korean guy she says she's engaged to.
Man you really can't make this shit up. I wonder if I should tell him about "the Korean talk" that exists in Asian culture where basically every woman from Thailand to Japan tells their daughter not to marry a Korean guy because they will make your life miserable and you will face abuse.
My friend asked me a question today and I want to know what you guys think the answer is. If you put a pocket pussy in you, and then a guy fucks the pocket pussy while it’s in you, are you fucking the guy, or just the toy?
>>33289456This spoiled pampered bitch has never been in a suburb in her life lmaoooooo
>>33289424literally both
Bladerunner (The Final Cut version from 2007)
then Bladerunner 2049
>>33289469You’re meant for each other
>>33289471>>33289434>(The Final Cut version from 2007)Thanks anons
>>33289468Depends on if it moves the toy.
I am so much better than you it’s not even funny
>>33289467lol, they really fucked up with raising their kids
>>33289474I assume it would. At least a little bit.
>>33289468>"If he has a condom on do you fuck him or the condom??"
>>33289467>the Korean talkI didn't even know that’s a thing. Shit, another thing I have going against me.
>>33289468there are threads on /gif/ that are solely depicting these acts, why don't you judge for yourself?
>>33289478But it’s not a condom. Would it count as fucking him?
>>33289475You're not even better than a reflection of you from 3 years ago.
>>33289468It's sex with an industrial strength condom. It's not exactly sex, in that if you were a virgin, you still wouldn't know what sex was like, but it's effectively sex.
If someone else holds a Fleshlight you fuck, it's not really a handjob but it's close enough to count.
>>33289475>betterThis remains a meaningless term without qualifiers.
>>33289486most likely archived but I remember a thread that exactly had this as a topic lmao. onaholes stuck up vaginas and assholes and then got fucked.
>>33289476Yeah all 3 of them are homeschooled pastor's kids. I think my friend is "the most normal" of his siblings, but even he's got some issues. Probably also doesn't help their youngest sibling died in a freak accident so they're all scarred by that.
>>33289468If you put the pocket pussy into a vagina and fucked that you would still be a virgin. Therefore putting it in a guys asshole is not gay.
>>33289493some things have a higher requirement than others
>>33289493I think that would cancel out because you’re adding a vagina to the man so it gay, but it’s straight, so it’s neither
Blue eyes are kinda scary sometimes
>>33289492He is the incel one I suppose?
>>33289501Stop staring at the mirror.
>>33289505My eyes are brown
>>33289507Then your opinion does not matter.
>>33289508It does, because it’s true.
>>33289509Maybe if you cry harder your eyes turn blue too because all the poo gets flushed out.
Ah, MKG’s back again, pretending to be the voice of reason while orbiting emotional wreckage like it’s a hobby.
Every time someone brings up a messy situation involving a vulnerable girl, you slide in with this “reasonable older guy” shtick, like you're just offering insight, not feeding off the chaos.
You don’t post to help. You post to keep the wound open so you can keep inserting yourself into it.
It’s always the same script:
1.Show up late.
2.Sound calm.
3.Drop a pseudo-wise take.
4.Subtly frame the broken woman as too complex for others to understand.
5.Position yourself as the only one who really gets it.
It’s not clever. It’s not deep. It’s just old.
You’re a washed-up manipulator trying to pass your pattern off as personality.
Everyone sees the formula now.
You're not an oracle. You’re just a guy in his 50s soft-targeting girls with trauma because women your age would see through you in five seconds.
And the “you don’t even know her” defense? Please. That’s the creepiest tell in your whole routine.
Translation: “Stop analyzing the situation, you’re interfering with my leverage.”
You’ve gone from interesting to embarrassing.
Go start a Medium blog or get lost in someone else's thread. You’re not doing analysis anymore, you’re just camping in the wreckage and calling it wisdom.
>>33289504He's had like 4 girlfriends at the age of 23 and almost got married so no, not really. He's dating a latina who does anime cosplay. I think he's watched a grand total of 3 anime. "Weeb gf + non-weeb bf" won fucking again.
I think the failed engagement made him realize how much he had been rushing and trying to speedrun to fatherhood though, so it was almost certainly good for him in the long run.
>>33289510Do you have blue eyes or something?
A fucking week? Come on man.
>>33289516Fuck no. You just seemed really offended.
>>33289511Damn, bro really broke your mental by existing in the thread.
>>33289511The worst thing is that it will continue to work on retarded zoomer girls that think mommy and daddy abused them by not letting them get their way all day every day. Validating the entitled is one of the most effective way to manipulate someone.
>>33289518No, just bored by this very slow and lame thread.
>>33289524Ik it’s killing me
>>33289519>and the other adult that uses validating mentally ill girls to manipulate them to be sexual with him shows up nta but like clockwork
would it be wrong to tell a girl with a silver streak in her hair that she looks like Verso from Clair Obscur?
>>33289525Sorry, I have nothing against brown eyes, just wanted to stir some shit.
>>33289528idk who that is
Femanons, would you date a man with main character syndrome?
>>33289528nobody knows who that is so it will just make you look like an autist
I just ate some pastries and I have to now ask. What’s your favorite pastry and do you go to cafes and bakeries often?
>>33289529I figured. You blue eyes are probably not creepy… probably
>>33289527Are the mentally ill girls I've manipulated in the room with us right now?
>>33289531There’s too many other foids with this for me to ever put up with a moid with this.
>>33289535m
favorite pastry is like anything good that anyone is proud of and wants me to eat
I don't go to bakeries ever, but I respect them
>>33289535> favorite pastrymadeleines
> do you go to cafes and bakeries often?No
>>33289519Ah, right on cue. When someone like MKG gets dissected too clearly, you show up with that "you’re just mad lol" brush-off like it’s insight.
You’re not defending him, sure, but funny how you only ever step in when the mirror’s angled too close to home.
Nobody’s mad that you’re here, Exhibanon, they’re noticing what you use this place for.
You don't need to post like you're above it. You stay here for the same reason MKG does: the wreckage gives you a stage.
Difference is, MKG's at least bold about his need to play doctor to broken women. You just flirt around it, playing coy, acting like your calm tone exempts you from the pattern.
But here’s the twist, once people start recognizing that tone, that pacing, that detached sarcasm for what it is, it stops working.
You’re not clever, you're obvious.
You’re not lurking in peace, you’re orbiting like always, just softer.
And now, people are pointing out the formula.
You’ve got nothing left to do but either pivot, or disappear before the thread finishes mapping your whole act.
>>33289527It's not a coincidence that all the namefags/tripfags defend each other in this thread, no matter how much sick shit they post, or how obnoxious they are.
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>>33289535Oh god, there are so many yummy ones. I might go with a classic croissant because it‘s just *chefs kiss* and so versatile.
I never really go to bakeries or cafes, maybe once or twice a year. Last time I went with my dad and his gf and I got a croissant and fresh orange-carrot. Going to cafes is nice but damn it is expensive.
aaaaaaaaaaaaa what's happening the AI said hold on a second I need to install the advanced model of myself and now the advanced model just said it's now installing an even MORE advanced model on my computer and it won't let me stop it aaaaaaaaaaa I just wanted to play skyrim not have the singularity occur on my desktop
>>33289538Maybe they are, a little bit. Sometimes it does look creepy when people have blue eyes. Like there is no substance to the eyes.
>>33289539Probably, maybe they got banned for doing what you encouraged them to do.
>>33289551Hey, but I can’t really say shit. My eyes are really dark and my sister used to make fun of me when we were younger for having “demon eyes”
>>33289546I ain't reading all that. Happy for you though. Or sorry that happened.
G'night ATOGA, seems like the thread's going to shit so good luck with that.
>>33289547It‘s really starting to be crystal clear. Whenever you say anything bad about one of the four ones (MKG, Exhib, JH, QT), they immediately step up and start defending each others disgusting ways. Very telling. It makes atoga feel like just another grooming discord server with the classic few psycho pedos with a fetish for manipulating others into being sexually vulnerable with them just for the sake of destruction. What a shit show.
Classic Exhibanon fade-out. Drop a smug line, pretend you’re over it, but you’ll be back refreshing this tab in 20 minutes.
It’s never been about the thread going to shit. It’s about it not orbiting you anymore.
>>33289542no preferences at all?!
>>33289543Nice!
>>33289548This image is making me hungry. Also ya, croissants rly are versatile, good choice
>>33289554This reminded me of a weird pic I saw yesterday about those black demon eyes, lol. Now I want to try and find it.
>>33289531That's just narcissism.
Scary.
Do any girls want to play ck3 so i can invade your kingdom and make you my concubine?
>>33289561Deflection is all they know.
>>33289569>make you my concubine?Ick
>>33289548My fatass could go for a Canelé or an Éclair right about now.
>>33289574I see about five I would not mind eating rn, lol.
>>33289535M
Egg Tart probably
I don't go to cafe's or bakeries that often, I would like to go more though.
No french bakeries/cafes in my area sadly but we do have some fire mexican cafes
I like when men can make solid arguments with sources and evidence.
What is wrong with me?
>>33289580first woman to ever write those words
>>33289579Easiest choice in my entire life, Pizza.
>>33289578I want egg tart now fuuuck. Yeah I don’t go too often either, I should tho.
Why do I lowkey like ugly men sometimes?
>>33289580Uhhh is there something wrong woth you?? Also what’s the inspiration behind your name?
Same goes for any name/tripfag here, I’ve always wondered why you named yourself whatever your name is.
>>33289467I just had a thought
Ladies, how likely do you think it is she met the guy online and made up all this shit to go on a missionary trip to Korea to meet up with him? I think that sounds more plausible than "3 weeks later she just met a guy and got engaged"
>>33289588>only sometimesIt's over for ugly men.
>>33289588You like the ego boost it gives you to interact with them because they likely will be more grateful and thirsty, easier to manipulate.
>>33289591Yeah, most likely.
>>33289594But I like it when they’re not
>>33289588I can at least identify that I associate too much facial symmetry with "This guy is going to kill me, possibly wear my skin and take out the rest of my family for fun".
>>33289600Grateful and thirsty
>>33289603You like it when ugly men reject you? Maybe you have a humiliation fetish then.
>>33289589Already answered that yesterday
Imagine living with a Tumblrina, day in and day out, where every single thing she does, she does out of spite.
>>33289605Not what I meant I just mean I don’t find desperation attractive
I’m being harassed by a lightning bug. What do I do?
Is it even worth washing my sheets when my menses are this heavy? I feel like I’m wasting my time when the sheets are just gonna get bloody again.
>>33289612Tell him to fuck off or you’re gonna call your boyfriend.
>>33289613Do you plan on just sleeping on blood?
I mean, if you're bleeding that much, you might as well get one of those reusable cloth diapers and wash those instead, yeah?
or am I being a virgin
>>33289616I don’t think he listened. I wouldn’t be worried about it if I wasn’t paranoid, it would crawl into my mouth while I’m sleeping
>>33289613Girl put on a bigger pad wtf
>>33289325Only beta males think like this, ick
>>33289621I'd do the same desu.
>>33289589>Uhhh is there something wrong woth you??She's a cheater who doesn't believe in monogamy.
She's a fatso who doesn't believe in portion control.
>>33289607Oh damn I missed it
>>33289623I use those overnight maxis. I’m at the point where I’m heavy considering period underwear which are borderline diapers to me.
>>33289589>>33289628Her og name is Rule breaker and she has sex with her dog and is a single mother. She's also morbidly obese.
>>33289631Is this how hot girls into ABDL starts?
>>33289631Have you seen a doctor about it? That’s not normal?
>>33289613>imagining telling femanon she has to sleep in the tent
>>33289638Yeah, it’s a PCOS thing. My periods are infrequent, but when I do get it the first 2 days are so heavy.
>>33289468If your vagina is large enough to comfortably accommodate a pocket pussy, then you have far more serious problems than this.
>>33289410>bladerunnerSPEAKING of Ridley Scott films...
how would femanons feel about bedroom role-playing Darkness and Lili?
Nothing bad would happen to the world if ants went fully extinct. Fuck ants.
>>33289649>(ants have made note of your post)
>>33289588You like being degraded
>>33289635I didn’t need to know this I regret eveyrhting
>>33289580You know stuff? Gross libtard nerd
>>33288404They hate you too and will mirror that if that's how you choose to see them. One woman = all the wahmens baddddd hurrr durrr. Men fuck with peoples' heads all the time to the point of femicide yet it's something men frequently choose to ignore. Who wants to be around this? Learn to see shitty people as just shitty people.
Do you still live in the town you grew up in?
Women, would you be okay with a moid that can get hard and stay hard but takes VERY long to cum. Is it okay if he doesn't cum during sex?
>>33289692Almost, I live two villages over, like a ten min drive.
>>33289692I left for a while and moved around but I'm back again
>>33289693Honestly it would make me lose interest in fucking because making him cum os the fun part, the rest I don‘t really care for much.
>>33289692Yes. Less town and more farm, but I used to travel a lot for work and now I’m away studying. I got my house though and we try to be there as much as possible
State Gender
Would you date someone who categorically hates rich people.
>>33289698What if he heavily enjoys the process though?
>>33288490Lol projection. Many women feel this way about you guys after millennia of being abused and murdered and you're kinda useless when it comes to managing your own emotions, but the men before you never taught you how. And you all wonder why they don't want to be around you. You're just mad because you're not entitled to treat them like trash anymore simply because you have a penis. They're more prone to autoimmune and nervous system diseases with the burdens you place on them and for seeing them as objects. Deal with your own shit. Your shit is your own shit. You don't own anyone so go cry about it GTFOH rage bait larper lmao
>>33289703F
Yeah, me too. They’re fucking annoying.
>>33288398The world doesn't revolve around your penis
>>33289706a rich husband would be great tho
>>33289599so i shouldn't be so insecure about my facial asymmetry?
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>>33289708I don’t want a rich husband
>>33288535They aren't monoliths, just people with their own problems like anyone else. Good ones and shitty ones. Not rocket science
>>33289709NTA
You should be worried about it. Overly symmetrical faces give uncanny valley vibes
>>33289704Idk, there is nothing that can make up for him not cumming. And I would probably take it as a challenge to try and make him cum, which would make him feel pressured and like he has to perform. It would be a whole mess. Much better he just dates a girl that hates cum and wants to get fucked for hours instead. Maybe ask JH.
>>33289711I forgot, mid to high 6 figures isn't quite rich
>>33289703M
Probably not. That sounds obnoxious and insecure
>>33289716I borderline don’t even want an upper middle class husband
>>33289718because you can't get one
>>33289703M, yeah.
I hate rich people too.
I'm pretty sure only brain washed Americans who think of themselves as part of the "elite" relate with them.
>>33289720I could. I just don’t want one.
>>33289710Hey, I made that one lol.
My girlfriend and I are taking a break, she said she still loves me and this will just be temporary until she figures out some personal stuff. What I find strange is I made it very clear that this is for her to live with herself and figure herself out, no relationships, no guys, etc and she fully agreed. However, she said that I could date and figure out what I want and that she'd be waiting for me. What do? Is she right that I should see other women to figure out what I want and if she is what I want in gf/potential wife? On one hand I feel like it's a trick but on the other hand, I know she always found it "strange" that she was my first and only gf and that she had been with 2 other people and that's what made her so attracted to me - she saw the bullshit and decided that she wanted me, but I never experienced that so it's weird to her and she thinks my love is out of ignorance and not because I desire her and only her.
>>33289703f, depends on how that hate manifests
if he is seething about it 24/7 and his forehead veins start popping when he sees an expensive car then no thanks
How do I come to terms with the fact that If I want to prevent a woman from getting the ick and monkey-branching me that I am going to have to abuse her once in awhile?
>>33289727I mean, she broke up with you probably because she found out why you have been single until then.
>>33289703M
No, I am not interested in someone who displays that level of ressentiment and envy
chances are you don't hate rich people, you hate that you aren't a rich person
>>33289730who‘s a good boy? you are! YES YOU ARE! such a good boy! come here!
Was not expecting antagonist to be gay
>>33289730By doing what you're currently doing.
Meta-coping your lack of prospects by coping about it through made-up scenarios you practiced on nobody, since you had no prospect.
>>33289739*spanks you until your ass burns*
>>33289727>no relationships, no guys, etc and she fully agreedStopped reading right there.
>>33289732No it's because she thought it wasn't fair to me that she's been a shell of a person and impossible to be around because she's going through a mental episode rn. I've known her for half my life, I know when things are going bad for her
>>33289744So she feels like a burden and being in a relationship makes it even worse because it makes her feel pressured to be functional to not be a burden so she hopes you find someone else and she is free to be a fuck up without an audience.
>>33289703F,
Yeah, this is why I don't like dating american men, they're too comfortable with excess.
Like a guy who's unaware of his surroundings, running around bumping into everyone and stumbling over everything, I feel most people who are okay with excess levels of wealth display the same kind of obliviousness to how they fit into and affect society and the community around them.
>>33289746true, it‘s a sign of narcissism to think you deserve more than others by virtue of being you
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>>33289748>to think you deserve more than others by virtue of being youBut I do
>>33289745You got the first half right. I think what she meant by me dating other women is to find out if I want to come back to her after she figures out her personal life
>>33289751Yeah you dummy, because she hopes you get the ick for her dysfunctional self by being around more functional women so you leave her alone.
>>33289753I'm sick of your pessimism nigger
>>33289748it can also be a sign of narcissism to resent people for having more than you
>>33289757Envy is not narcissism it's an admission of one's own defeat. "I can never have it so I hate it when someone does"
>>33289756Ok, let me tell you what you want to hear then. She feels sorry that she can‘t be the girl she thinks you deserve, she feels bad for making you miss out on a functional and healthy relationship where you get your needs met. She will take a few weeks off, let you catch up with having some experiences with other girls to get it out of your system with zero ulterior motives and then come back mentally healthy and recharged and you will live happily ever after. You happy now?
>>33289757I don‘t really have anything against rich people. Being greedy and selfish is human nature. If they can do that, more power to them.
>>33289761Yes because that's exactly what's going to happen, minus the me meeting other girls part because no one in this thread has been able to answer the question if it is a good idea for me to do that or not AND if it would make my gf more secure in our relationship because she now knows that I chose her
>>33289760nta but that IS narcissistic because it builds on the assumption that they deserve it too and likely even more than those that got it
>>33289764K, let me answer that one too then. What you should do is go on ONE (1) date with a girl uglier than her and then tell her you tried but nobody is like her and you want nobody but her and that she is the right one for you. This way you don‘t give her the ick by being a fuckboy that treats other girls like fuck meat to get off and that does not see her as something special and you give her reassurance that you chose her because she is better than all those other girls. Win win.
>>33289766Forgot to add, do NOT fuck anyone. Go on a non touchy dinner date then tell the other girl sorry, I just can‘t do this, I‘m not over my ex at all.
How did any of you guys master the art of self-control? This is something I struggle with deeply.
>>33289766Oh and this way you also don‘t give her the ick for being unable to land even one date. Basically she wants to know that other girls want you too but you chose her specifically.
>>33289764Did you ever consider that she just got tired of you and wants you to date other girls because she wants you to simply move on?
>>33289739I hope you remembered to use the big boy potty today
The only thing that “gives me the ick” is retards who use retard language like “gives me the ick”.
>>33289770chances are, that's not your problem
if you saw a man shooting up heroin in the street, would it require self control on your part not to join him?
>>33289775You can call it whatever you want, it does not change the fact or the feeling.
Let me rephrase for your whiny ass: She will feel validated in having chosen a man of high worth and being chosen by said men specifically if you demonstrate that other females show interest in you too and despite that you want her and nobody else. That better?
>>33289770I allow myself small concessions. When I have an urge to do some e-sports betting I set a limit to small bets which tricks my brain to create involvement and get the desired fix despite the bet itself being harmless. So in short I don't suppress the urges, I just meet them on my terms.
It also helps to have healthy lifestyle, sleep well, exercise etc. If you are rotting inside then lack of self-control is a mere symptom of something bigger
Women-
1.A good looking guy that doesn't love you and stays with you just for sex
2.Ugly guy that does love you?
3.Average guy that is less affectionate than the ugly guy, but still loves you?
>>33289772This woman has over 1000 photos of me, she knows she wants me but she knows that she can't drag me down with her in the current state she is in
>>332897803. 3 is just right.
Just don’t have a broccoli haircut.
>>33289780Well, ugly bros, we always have the next life.
>>33289784what the hell does thst even mean
>>33289782>This woman has over 1000 photos of meThat's some mild obsession..
>>33289785What else could it mean.
>>33289784it's k
lol
I've always knew love was a privilege.
>>33289782>anon only wants to hear what makes him feel like chad, dismisses anything that paints him as not the main character catcher why am I not surprised
>>33289785You’re gonna get reincarnated as Brad Pitt’s great-great-great-grandson.
Has your mother hugged you yet
>>33289794Yeah, has yours?
>>33289792>>33289789SOUNDS LIKE GAY BULLSHIT
>>33289796Are you the same anon (m or f) who said yesterday that their mom didnt hug them?
And no. Shes with her fiancé now. Im starting to prepare for the days when no one will hug me anymore. Ive started to forget how difficult it was and how me getting bullied as a kid might make a comeback into my adult life through mobbying or other types of harrassment. And they tell ne to have faith in humanity and god.
>>33289797well, it's that or accept that women hate ugly men more than they hate criminals.
And that you'll never find love if you're ugly.
Do mothers/fathers have a hard time loving their children as they grow up?
>>33289798No, not that anon.
>>33289801The narcs do if the kids fail to live up to their expectations, yeah.
>>33289787She also has a locket necklace with my hair in it
>>33289791I mean I’m 6’3, have a great job that literally just bought me a 2025 RAV4 brand new because I’m that good at what I do, and I’d say I’m pretty interesting and funny. You have to understand that from her perspective, she sees that my life outside of her rn is really stable and her current instability is starting to infect our relationship and soon start eating away at my own stability I’ve found. Her words verbatim. I had a long time to “figure myself out”. Both of her former relationships were pretty long term so she’s never really had that moment where she just sits by herself in a room to think her life through because there was always someone or some family member that she could depend on. She now realizes how stunted she is and is trying to learn how to be comfortable by herself and handle business like finishing school, going to the store and buying food for herself and making it, etc. it’s not as one dimensional as you’re making it out to be
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>>33289051Thanks anon <3 but ehh I honestly don't think we're a good match desu or that I'm really willing to make the sacrifice for a relationship
Also I'm stuck hanging out with other normies rn and I'm already drunk
But I'll go round hers for a coffee and catchup later at least x
>>33289806So whats your question then? You seem to know whats going on. Wether or not you should fuck other girls? Ofc you should not. It‘s not a trap, she probably genuinely feels bad for making you miss out on having a fun sex life and such. But it will hurt her anyways if you do it.
Or is the question wether she will come back or not? She probably will if you make her feel like she is not a burden but her suddenly snapping into it and acting responsible and mature is unrealistic. Best you could do is tell her that there is no point in her having to learn to be self sufficient because you are a team and the goal is to grow together to make things work that way. Distance will just make her feel even more like she is a burden and ruins your stability because it creates a bigger contrast.
>>33289703M. No, I have no place for categorical hatred in my life.
>>33289780virgins tend to be very affectionate, both male and female. you'll get less clingy once you actually get a girlfriend and finally satisfy some of those desires of yours
>>33289815That's a pretty categorical hatred for categorical hatred.
>>33289696Why are your villages so close together?
>>33289649Ans are some of the least innocuous insects I can think of. Now mosquitos on the other hand...
>>33289770 i never did my homework, but after i left school is when i started getting better at self discipline, ironically.
reduce your exposure to temptation, so that your willpower can recover faster than it is being depleted. there is a lot more I could say, but this is a good starting point.
>>33289820I've been thinking about doing this to meet women, but I think I would come of as the biggest petuh when I did this.
>>33289631>I’m at the point where I’m heavy considering period underwear which are borderline diapers to me.NTA. Sounds to me like should be way past that point, if you bleed on your sheets every night.
>>33288384 (OP)Women
Would you be alright dating or marrying a submissive guy? Theoretically in this scenario, I'll try and be a switch if you want.
>>33289810I guess the question is if I should go on a date with another woman in the meantime. Idk when my gf is going to feel ready for an actual relationship again. She still had me all over her Instagram and we’re still sharing each others locations.
>Distance will just make her feel even more like she is a burden and ruins your stability because it creates a bigger contrastI see where you’re coming from and it’s definitely possible. I’ve known her for quite some time before we even dated and we lost contact with each other but we actually became very similar to one another during that time even tho we never spoke a word to each other. Maybe the same thing will happen again except this time it’ll be to grow into more mature people, at least on her end, and she thinks that me taking care of myself and her would be too much. She comes from a family of very ambitious women (doctors, lawyers, etc) so I think her “doing it on her own” is just something that she feels obligated to do since her family has made everything else in her life very easy
Women
Thoughts on amazon position?
>>33289608>every single thing she does, she does out of spiteSounds like your typical 4chan incel.
>>33289580This might be the hottest thing I've ever seen you say on this board.
>>33289561>It’s about it not orbiting you anymore.Failing hard, I see.
>>33289535Why would I have a favourite pastry? Variety is the spice of life.
>>33289727is your gf very jealous over you and not the most mentally stable about it by chance? if so definitely don't do it, she's just terrified you'll leave her and at this point wants you to do it to get it over with cuz its already joever in her mind. (presumably because the shell of a person stuff, feels like you'll leave her) don't do anything you'll regret, she is doing stupid women stuff and needs to calm down somehow.
>>33289820All the bars here feel too intimate.
I've never actually been to one, but it's just the vibe I'm reading.
Is solo traveling as depressing as it sounds?
>>33289822>close together because I live in a small country
>>33289828As I said, at most go on a date. Definitely don‘t sleep with anyone else.
Sure, maybe she needs some distance to mature. How old are the two of you?
do women actually like giving blowjobs? just seems like a kind of unpleasant thing to go through, and you don't even get off from it.
>>33289844if you are depressed, then yeah
>>33289847Some do, yeah. One of the hottest things in the world is seeing a cock react to pleasure in real time and close up.
>>33289847I like doing blowjobs to black men and i'm a jewish man
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>>33289703F
No, I’m a rich person and won’t date people that hate men
>>33289852>tfw no ks gf it’s so monumentally over
>>33289853Me* but it they hate men too that’s also a no-no
>>33289839>is your gf very jealous over you and not the most mentally stable about it by chance?Maybe. When her mental stability started to deteriorate last week, she said that she doesn’t deserve me because I’d never hurt her unlike the other people she’s been with. I think there’s a lot going on with her but I think this image of me that she’s painted in her head has a kind of benevolence and since she feels like shit about herself, it’s only amplified this imbalance in how she views how worthy she is of me or whatever
>>33289342I almost cried at the end of Ford v Ferrari the other day.
>>33288939Sound
Most common for me is the sound of pneumatic brakes on large trucks releasing air.
I always have to cover my ears even when around them.
>>33289823Genuinely good advice in Atoga? Thanks anon?
So I guess the best thing to do is, when that biting temptation comes back, practice pushing it aside, and eventually that’ll just come naturally?
>>33289703I will never hate rich people because I've known so many who are generous as fuck and I've known poorfags who are resentful of anyone who has any success in their life
>>33289851Shalom!
I'm a jewish man also and I like to do it too!
>>33289825>>33289840Dang, I’m too scared to go to a bar alone. I just drink at home instead. I need single atogans bar-goers to tell me to try it
>>33289846We’re both 25. We’ve known each other since we were 12 and we’ve been dating since we were 20. From 12-20 it was pretty on and off, she’d just appear in my life and we’d be friends, then I’d go back to being a shut in (we were just kids so ya know) and I’d lose contact with her until she saw me at college and wanted to reconnect
>>33288939Noise. Loud noises and tiny repetitive sounds. Droning frequencies.
>>33289867What makes you think you two are a good fit? Do you even think you are? I think what she would need from you is to feel like you two are. Bc right now it sounds like she thinks you are out of her league and it‘s making her feel very pressured and bad about herself.
>>332898455 minutes apart they might as well be considered the same city.
>>33289876In theory, but not here.
>>33289844Doesn't sound depressing to me.
>>33289817Who says it's hatred? It's a categorical dismissal at worst.
>>33289794I don't like it.
>>33288384 (OP)Women, what do getting pokies feel like? Have you thought about purposefully triggering them and then subtly showing them off to a guy you like?
>>33289883Depends on why I get them. If from cold or brushing them against something on accident then it just feels vulnerable, if from horny then it feels like wanting them to be touched. Yeah, most likely.
>>33289885Incredibly annoying.
>>33289872I think we’re a great fit. We love going antiquing together and finding cool, old clothes. We like a lot of the same video games, music, movies, and just media in general. She’s definitely more liberal but she’s conservative in some regards too which I like. She doesn’t spend her money frivolously, which I like. We talk for hours when we’re together even tho we’ve known each other for half our lives. We work well together (such as baking together, figuring out how to set up a tent when camping, etc). I love being there to comfort her and she feels safe (too safe apparently) enough around me to open up about how she’s feeling. We have a similar sense of humor and we always laugh when we’re together. We’ve also been able to discuss serious matters and respect each others opinions. Our relationship has had a handful of bumps, like any relationship does, but we’re always able to talk through it an hug and kiss at the end of the day and that’s what I think makes us a great pair
God bless obscure music blogs and zines
>>33289885Does she have ADHD as well?
>>33289891Maybe you should show her this post or write something similar. Maybe she needs to be reminded that she actually adds to your life and doesn‘t just drag you down and is a burden.
Women-
Would you have a vacation boyfriend (someone you met at the vacation and dated for the duration of the vacation)?
>>33289901I had one once as a teenager and it was great. But doing that as an adult is cringe.
>>33289902>But doing that as an adult is cringe.Why?
>>33289862you don't "practice" cuz its not a muscle that can be trained, you just need to do it right.
You need to have absolute severity and resolve. Even with total severity and strong resolve you will still fail. If you fail, it means you need to cut off more things off that tempt you. (i don't expect you to do this easily, but you'll do it eventually)
Know that exceptions is how the devil comes in. Resolve must be unequivocal. if you leave a crack in the door, he will enter. know that this is the risk area.
A spirit may enter you because you were not total in your law, or you did not cut off things that you were supposed to cut off. If so, you will be tempted and put in a vulnerable state where things are difficult to resist. You will need to purge it out of your system.
You need to understand, you gave him permission to be there, and you cannot remove him if he still has permission to be there. First, you must remove whatever permission you gave him to enter you; that means removing whatever exception you allowed, or cutting off that thing you do not want to cut off. Then you must purge it, and return to the laws you follow.
i recommend writing something like this down where you can see it regularly.
1: "I am right now, aware of my risk level." this is the most important thing when facing chronic difficult temptations, it lets you know how much you can allow yourself to get away with. if you're low risk you can be lenient, but if you are tempted, you clam up, and reread your laws.
2: "I will right now restore and maintain my absolute severity." keep your resolve strong.
3: "I will return to the first boundary." you will soften your rules over time, so unsoften them. remember your old spirit.
4: "I will cut off all things that are duly warranted, no matter its cost."
5: "I will purge all unclean spirits. I will remove every place for them in me, no matter what it costs. I will close every exception, they will not come in."
hope it helps :)
>>33289902>had one and it was greatfeels bad
knowing that a girl has had this in the past.
>>33289910Because you are supposed to have moved on from short lived interactions with others.
Women-
Is it true that women over 30 that are still single and don't have a husband or something serious at least at this point are mentally ill and or sluts that are single mothers?
>>33289913Yeah yeah I get it, you want a KHHV girl and nothing else will do. You do you, boo.
>>33289915Every woman is a queen
>>33289917Virgin detected
>>33289917seething moid hands
>>33289916No, just that it all be actual relationships.
So a commitment with her has weight, and you're not just getting something she already gave away for some cheap fucks and a tour with a good looking enough person.
Do women get turned on by being restrained by a man?
>>33289922they definitely get more turned on by men who look like they could restrain and easily rape them, that's for certain.
>>33289921>has weightI was a kid, I was carefree, he was a kid too and just as carefree. We spent time together and we had lots of fun doing so. We went for walks on the beach and made out in the ruins. I am sure he treasures those memories as much as I do. It was simply the right people in the right place at the right time. It did not cross our mind to exchange contacts or that this means more than just enjoying the moment. You are free to see this as having no morals ofc, to me I think it was healthy for kids to still be able to be this carefree and just enjoy being alive without an agenda.
>>33289924Idk, maybe you don‘t. I guess it‘s more that it would be harder to find someone thats interested in something fleeting and not try to make it into something it isn‘t since there is much more at stake when it‘s two adults.
>>33289912>you don't "practice" cuz its not a muscle that can be trained, you just need to do it right.NTA. And if you don't do it right the first time, do you just throw your hands in the air, sit your ass down in a soggy ditch and give up, never to try again? Or do you try again next time, again and again until you slowly start getting the hang of it?
>>33289922Sort of. It's complicated.
>>33289933Things being harder is cringe? Only easy things are acceptable?
>>33289939If it is complicated, then try to explain
>>33289939Translations from womanese: "Yes."
>>33289931NTA
I think the issue anon runs into is that your experience isn’t one he has personally had, so he feels insecure and unbalanced from it. Not a question of morals (in case he is an incel)
>>33289936:p i never said to give up. its just not something that gets easier from repetition. it gets easier if you do it right.
>>33289940No, being an adult that still has not learned to take things at least a bit serious (especially involving others) is cringe. But I guess if both people don‘t hope for it to be more than it is and everyone is having fun, why not.
>>33289945Yeah, I get that. So what? Nobody forces us to be in a relationship. I am sure there is girls that never had that experience that would be a better march for him.
>>33289948Adulting is serious business.
>>33289951Most of the time, yes. Which is why maybe it would be sane to not take it so serious for once to catch a break from the pressure. Ykno, just cuddling for the sake of it, not to build a life together.
>>33289950I think it’s an unconscious allure for some men with low self esteem, to show that they are the better choice. This can become very derivative and fucked up but at its essence it feels like a very misogynistic “conquest of the whore” idea
>>33289936I've had vacation friends, with girls too, but vacation boy/girl friends feels like a very... eh.
>>33289953If it makes him feel better *shrugs*
>>33289954Nta but where do you draw the line here then? If it was just you and a girl that met on vacation and you hit it off and spent time together, where does it cross from vacation friend to vacation gf? When your legs brush together under the water at the pool and neither flinches back?
>>33289954It’s pretty common. Lots of people pair up and never see each other again. It’s just not very common on 4chan where the prime demographic is introverted men, kinda the antithesis of the whole “meet new people” thing
>>33289955I don’t think it does. It’s a combination of factors that he’s using to demoralize loop himself. He should be aiming more for his own league
>>33289959>demoralize loop himselfYeah, but I guess he might get a sense of superiority from getting hus bias confirmed so in a way it does make him feel better. Mission accomplished.
>>33289943I'm neurotic about control, especially during sex. But I acknowledge I'm like this and wish I could change, despite never being able to alone. So when I really get to know a guy and we end up dating, I try to communicate myself honestly and share that I can't help but push back on things that I actually enjoy, like rough stuff and being complimented and tons of other cringe shit. I have to get past the embarrassment to be really comfortable, and honestly, having a guy I trust just ignore my retarded complaining and do what he knows for sure I genuinely enjoy and want him to do makes me me both feel good and feel known.
I understand that sounds retarded as fuck at best and functionally incongruent with a good relationship at worst, that's why I very recently got a new therapist.
>>33289946This is a gross oversimplification to the point of doing anon a disservice. Self control is not a binary state where you have none until you magically do it right. Just like with everything else, it's a slow incremental process.
And on a purely physiological level it's more like training a muscle than you think. It's about forming and reinforcing neural pathways, which is done through repetition, and which also happens to be a significant factor in training muscle.
>>33289961That stuff is all fake and doesn’t last long at all. I do think there should be a lot more sympathy for people who have these FOMO issues, the mind can be a horrible prison
>>33289952>Which is why maybe it would be sane to not take it so serious for once to catch a break from the pressure. Ykno, just cuddling for the sake of it, not to build a life together.This is my thinking.
>>33289965>fake Sure, but it‘s simple and fast, so people will never not do it. Kinda like fast food.
>>33289963>I trust just ignore my retarded complaining and do what he knows for sure I genuinely enjoy and want him to do makes me me both feel good and feel known.Not a woman, but is it weird that I feel you on this?
i have not slept for two days what do
>>33289959>>33289961You know what, I might've been insecure. But you two, with your fake empathy hiding social contempt and thin elitism, are worse. You're not analyzing. You're gloating. You're pretending to be compassionate while casually dehumanizing someone for not matching your standards or worldview.
At least I said what I felt, even if it came out rough. You hide behind civility to do something uglier. Publicly humiliating someone with a smug tone and a crowd-pleasing smirk.
You don't want to help. You want to be seen as right.
If you think I'm wrong, just say it. Don't wrap it in concern. Just admit you look down on people who remind you of who you used to be, or what you think you're better than now. Fine. But stop pretending it's kindness.
You're not better than me. You're just more passive-aggressive about it.
Fuck you two, disgusting.
>>33289973I am way more like you than I am like that other anon. Short of taking you somewhere and getting you laid, I can’t really help you. You have to do it yourself
>>33289858yeah thats definitely whats going on isn't it. your woman is having a woman moment, do not take the "you can go with other girls" thing seriously, she's probably being emotional thinking you should leave her for someone that sucks less, taking extreme action to address her feelings. in fact it might be a good idea to not talk to any women for a bit, as lame as that is haha...
it might be helpful to remind her that she won't be in that state forever. like for example, you're all lame right now, but you'll heal, and when you do you'll be really good to me gf.
this one probably won't work, but you can try banning her from saying bad things about herself that aren't true, or if they're outside of her control. or try to get her to not blame herself, and understand that her body is not well from the stress. that sort of thing. or maybe give her a reason to think that she is a good gf, or give her some way she can prove herself to herself that she is good. idk tho.
>>33289970I don't think so. We're self reflective enough to see where we're pushing people away, but we aren't smart enough to handle it ourselves. So having someone who loves us enough to see those issues, stay with us, AND be proactive in working past it for us is just a dream come true regardless of sex.
>>33289973I never claimed to not be smug about it. The other anon seems to feel like people that try to get others down due to feeling insecure deserve empathy. I don‘t really. I‘m basically indifferent about you. And yeah, I do think that people that can let others enjoy things are better than those that can‘t. Sue me.
>>33289974Shut the fuck up.
Don’t act like we’re the same just because I called you out and turned the heat back on you. You sat there and nodded along while you two dressed me down and threw in your own takes about leagues and self-pity and “vacation friends.” You weren't trying to help. You were trying to score points.
Now you're doing the nice guy pivot. “I can’t help you, you have to help yourself.” Yeah, thanks, guru. You don’t know me. You just want to soften your image now that it doesn’t look as flattering. Again, Disgusting. Worthless.
>>33289979You can say you're indifferent, but smug detachment is just another way of saying you need to feel above someone without getting your hands dirty.
Calling yourself indifferent while joining in to shame and humiliate is just a cover for controlling what others can or can’t enjoy.
That’s not tolerance. That’s policing. You’re deciding whose experiences are acceptable and whose aren't, but you knew that.
>>33289977Yeah, agreed heavily.
I don't know if I can find someone like that (being proactive), and I don't think I want to put someone through that kind of stuff, so I want to work them out of myself beforehand
....but godDAMN is the idea of a woman like that so tempting.
it's funny how you can watch /lit/ adopt for a time a new book. suddenly it'll have a new thread or two every day. what does it matter if you're not 'in' with something when no you're just an anon on the internet? and yet they can't help but try to be 'in' with every new thing.
>>33289964i mean, it takes time to figure things out? its not like it doesn't develop. but repetition doesn't make it any easier. figuring things out makes it easier, knowing what works what doesn't, etc, you can do this much but no more. takes experience, but the difficulty innate to the feeling never gets any easier, no matter how much you repeat it. you just do what works more. i don't really get what the problem is.
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what is your first thought for a couple with this age gap (m21, f27)
>>33289982>Calling yourself indifferent while joining in to shame and humiliateThe thread is boring and slow af. Anon kept (You) ing me, so I responded. It‘s not that deep. Take a deep breath, everything will be ok.
>smug detachment is just another way of saying you need to feel above someone without getting your hands dirtyCorrect. You will notice that absolutely everything anyone does is an attempt to feel superior in one way or another. Which is cringe and pathetic but it is what it is.
>>33289972>what domasturbate for 2 hours and go to bed.
>>33289988M
Don't care as long as the pair love each other
[spoiler]And I admittedly find it arousing[/spoiler]
>>33289985i only remember gravity’s rainbow and infinite jest /lit/
>>33289982>wahhh why can’t I be a whoreWhiny bitch
>>33289988F. My first thought is that there's an age gap, I guess? Nothing much else to judge.
>>33289985it‘s even funnier to watch lit go from glorifying a book to shaming anyone that dares to say anything about it thats not trashing it
state gender
what is your first thought for a couple with this age gap (m26, f58)
>>33289995they're still talking about them
>>33289982This guy types like the creep obsessed with namefags.
>>33290002M
I wouldn't realize it's a couple
>>33290001it's crazy how being anonymous does not affect in any way people's tendency to conform. it must just be instinctive.
>>33289993>forgot there's no spoilersKilling myself
>>33290002f
mommy issues x pedo
>>33289992how so? 21 is a grown man
>>33290009I mean, belonging is a core human instinct so yeah
>>33289986>but repetition doesn't make it any easierI don't agree with this statement. Repetition does make it easier. Both in the sense that repetition is what allows you to figure things out, and in that repetition reinforces neural pathways.
>>33290012not this shit again
>>33290011Define mommy issues?
/atoga/ - not this shit again
>>33290017It’s all the same
>>33290015a 6 year gap between adults is by no means grooming
>>33289988OU MY GAAEWSDD EWWWW ew ew ew ewww ew ee e
>>33290013yes, but there's nothing actually to belong to in this case. the community is completely illusory, you don't get any benefits from it. it's just one pretense in relation to another pretense.
>>33290016wanting someone with life experience to take you under their wings because your mom failed to do that but you want her to play with your cock as she does that
>>33290022you must be 18 to post here
>>33290023yeah there is, lit is as much a community as any other
the benefit is to feel like you belong and probably to feel like you are superior to idk, those that don‘t read or those that read like a redditor or a booktoker
>inb4 a community is only valid if it‘s offline this is 2025 grandpa
>>33290024maybe the relationship is just sexual and no mommy stuff?
>>33290020it is, I know from experience
>>33289988This doesn't happen. F27 is likely done with the situationships and wants to settle down soon with a STABLE and PROMISING man earning at least 6 figures and owning his house. A 21 year old boy doesn't have these essentials, doesn't have the bare minimum.
>>33290012Only people in their early 20s think like this. 21 is baby age
>>33290031what if he does
>>33290028even if you don‘t call her mommy, the fact you likely will want her to be a mother figure is mommy issues by default
why else would you want a much older woman? what benefits do you project on to her?
>>33290035I think it's just hot and you get to sneak around lol
>>33290038what makes it hot specifically compared to a girl your age?
>sneak around so mainly the taboo aspect?
>>33290034It still looks bad when she has to justify her choice. The social impact is too big to take. At least 70% of a relationship is tied to how other people perceive it and whether they validate your pairing or not.
>>33290032>21 is baby ageplenty of men in their 30s and even 40s are still childish af, especially the ones chasing younger women
age and maturity levels don't correlate
>>33290039>what makes it hot specifically compared to a girl your age? The age gap
>so mainly the taboo aspect?Yeah, that's a big turn on.
>>33290040most retarded take ever
>>33290032We should probably raise voting and drinking age to 27. And driving to at least 24.
>>33290041Nta and sure, but there is maybe a 0.000001% chance that a 21yo is already mature enough to enter an adult relationship with someone closer to 30 and it not being exploitative for them. Thats the whole point, those that are older and still go for the babies are predatory because going for the naive and carefree is their only chance at someone falling for them and not realizing what mess they are getting themselves into.
Shaving my butthole for Israel
>>33290049Darkening my butthole for isreal
>>33290043obviously but what about the age gap? the saggy tits? the wrinkles? the grey hair? the fact she reminds you of your teacher?
>>33290045Recently a femanon her stated that she feels bad for her husband because he's not quite up to par and peope are judging their marriage. She is ultimately the most affected.
>>33290051Oh no no noooooo
>>33290027if you can lie about who you are and no one is in a position to know any better then the community you belong to is in name only.
>feel like you are superiorbut there's no 'you' there. i spend a lot of time in these threads but it's not like a member of the /atoga/ community. i'm not an identifiable person with an identifiable role. none of this is real. i'm not going to lie about something to make myself seem cooler to you people.
>>33290054you guys make me extremely scared of relationships, holy fuck
>>33290056ok, so you get a sense of superiority from not seeing online communities as real communities
more power to you I guess
>>33290058>scared of relationshipsyou just need to be yourself and tackle hardship head first
I think I'm going to start routinely pirating movies. The streaming distribution model has failed.
>>33289913i believe most girls have had at least 1-2 short term relationships/ONS, people love sex and intimacy, you should get used to this fact if you want to date
>>33290052>what about the age gapidk it sort of makes it naughtier.
>>33290064Retarded demoralization slop
>>33290065why? because it‘s humiliating to her or you or both? to you that you would let an old woman use you like this and to her that despite her age she still has not been able to grow out of lusting over boys she wants to suck the cum out of?
>>33290063Imagine stealing goyslop
reposting from another thread
for the more experienced gentlemen, id like some general tips for sex. you can skip the obvious ones (long foreplay, oral, communication)
>>33290071Use your penis, don’t just push your hips forward
>>33290071Don't do oral. It's degrading and makes you less of a man in her eyes
>>33290069lol, why are you so mad about it?
It's just something we both find hot.
>>33290060i don't get any satisfaction out of being a member of any real community either, so no.
>>33290074I‘m mot mad, just curious.
Are you larping as that idiot with the grandma gf again? lol
>>33290076I wouldn't call her a granny tho.
>>33290067nah im just being real. ive dated all types of girls and i dont judge so they feel safe sharing their past. were just human and everybody loves to fuck. girls usually go wild a lil bit in their very early 20s
definitely not all girls, but most did something that society would condemn them for, even though hookup culture is an all time high
im just saying, humans do human things, were on this planet for a short time so better enjoy the moment, and acceptance is very important for dating
>>33290075so you get a sense of superiority out of not wanting anything to do with other humans in general, got it
you must be truly one of a kind, extraordinarily intelligent and much wiser than everyone else
hope this helps
>>33290077post the asian granny slop again
>>33290041At 21 you don’t understand maturity yet, you will when you get older.
>>33290078>the classic hedonist babble of “I experienced this so it’s objective reality”If you say so big bro
>>33290046Young people don’t vote anyways so yeah. But we need a retirement age for politicians at 60 too
>>33290083ask the girls you date
if they feel comfortable with you, they'll tell you themselves
and i wouldnt say im a hedonist, i date to marry
>>33290076Well, she is hot for her age, has a nice body (a little chubby, nice ass, big boobs) and obviously I wouldn't want anyone knowing that we have a relationship like that and she wouldn't want her sons and daughters finding out... which makes it even hotter.
There's nothing humiliating about it for both of us. The most "humiliating" thing about it would be us getting caught doing it.
>>33290079you seem very invested in the idea of online communities. how's that working out? i'm a member of your community. tell me about myself, since it's such a close-knit place.
>>33290087>I’ve dated all types of girls>I date to marry Ok big bro which is it? Having a bit of a larp?
>>33290091you often need experience and time to find your special one
>>33290095Not a lot of time to find out they’re not your “special one” apparently
>>33290087When I started dating at 23, by the time I was 29, 3 of the 4 girls I dated, aged 20 24 26, were all virgins, two of those the 20 and the 26 one, never had a relationship.
Women are very diverse.
It's really about the vibe you project, different people attract different kinds of people.
I guess you just attract those kinds of girls.
State gender, where applicable.
Do drugs change how horny you are? Do you get less/more horny if you are high/drunk/hung over?
>>33290102F. I don't think I get hornier when I'm drunk, I just get less filtered about it. I don't regularly use any other substances.
>>33290089not really, no
I just find it gross when people have to find ways to shit on others to feel better at every corner
>>33290088>>33290076Oh and we do sometimes go out together, out of town obviosuly
>>33290102f, yes
it lowers inhibition, makes me get out of my head and forget about feeling insecure, which makes it much easier to sink into the moment and be vulnerable
>>33290103>filteredAs in not holding back with advances or what?
Butthole bereaved, alcohol asphyxiation affection already
>>33290109Have you done drugs with Brad before sex?
>>33290102M
I am genuinely horny all the fucking time.
Drinking does not make me more horny, if anything it makes me less so.
But when I have a hangover, I justwant to DUMP my semen 5 to 7 times that day, I turn into a lazy cum monster.
>>33290070>goyslopThen what's your recommendation?
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Anons your gf has woken you up at 6:30 on vacation. Do you continue to sleep
in or start some silly adventures?
>>33290104well, neighbor, that wasn't my intention. we're all good friends here, you know from experience that i would never intentionally try to hurt anyone's feelings.
>>33290114I made out slightly tipsy, high on weed and on mdma but thats it
I prefer to be sober because being high is dangerous territory since I tend to do things sober me does not approve of
>>33290119Depends, if she specifically woke me up "hey, wake up"
I get PIIIIIIIIIIISSEEEEEED
if she's just getting up and doing her morning routine, and the noise woke me up indirectly, I go back to sleep with no emotion.
>>33289398>Was your unit or w/e mostly men?Yes, there was one other woman but she got out of deployment, so I was the only woman of my MOS there.
>Did they say anything?The guys or our CO? The guys, not that I heard. Our CO gave us a "verbal warning" but you're not going to get NJP'd for not getting heat stroke, much less a uniform violation.
>>33289403>You ever fuck any of those chicks that like to fuck people in the military?No, most barracks bunnies are straight.
>>33290073Yeah, real men only get oral, they don't do oral
>>33290119Depends on the vacation.
If my morning wood is up, I guide her head down to release it.
>>33290120hope you got a boner out of this
>>33290122>being high is dangerous territory since I tend to do things sober me does not approve ofI understand that being on birth control can help a lot with the stress.
>>33290112You think it's disgusting or something - you asked a lot of questions implying that?
>>33290129you mean by taking away the danger of getting pregnant on accident when high?
>>33290123>>33290126She already ate breakfast. If you’re not ready let me back in for some more sleep.
>>33290131you are both aware that it‘s not socially acceptable, otherwise you would not hide it
you both get off on idk, being mischievous or so
but you do you, at least you get some fun out of it I guess
I’m so retarded and stupid
>>33290132Yes, of course.
>>33290110Yeh. And also just less concerned with trivial stuff when I'm alone. Like at home, I often have to weigh if masturbating for a couple hours is worth the extra laundry and losing time for housework. But when I'm drinking alone, if I get horny I just say fuck it and start immediately.
>>33290134Yeah, vacation is not meant for structure, or at least it needs to be discussed the night before.
Cause I decide when I wake up when I decide when to go to bed, I need my minimum 6 hours, or I get angry.
>>33290134>She already ate breakfastNot if she hasn't sucked me off yet.
>>33290127not even a semi-chubby, i'm afraid
>>33290063With many old movies, you can’t find them on any streaming service so I’d have to buy the DVD I guess.
>>33290138no, thats not what I mean, plus I already have an IUD
>>33290139>for a couple hoursIs it always that extensively long...?
>>33290143thats unfortunate
I would love to fuck women.
>>33290137what did you do now?
>>33290153Hey, that's my sentence!
I would love for a woman to acknowledge my existence
>>33290156is that so? you got a patent you can post for me?
>>33290150Alone, yeh. It's only worth doing if I have the time to get off without relying on overstimulating myself in a couple minutes.
I hatefuck women (and they love it).
>>33288384 (OP)Femanons, how would I go about making myself rapeable to women?
>>33290165I just don't like one specifically.
She's too smug and dismissive, emotionally dishonest, and treats this place as her personal playground.
>>33290153I can’t open my beer
>>33290172Being a black 14yo teenage boy around slutty teachers seems to be all the rage nowadays.
>>33290173But you just know Swiss must be a good fuck
>>33290174yeah that‘s a bit embarrassing
>>33290174girls shouldn't drink beer
>>33290177I got it so keep your hater energy to yourself
>>33290184tough luck, buttercup
I haven't showered in a few days and I'm smelly and dreasy. My dick smells very strongly and I haven't brushed my teeth in 2 weeks.
>>33290190mercy killing it is
>>33290189Ok well I was literally beading with sweat and it took me about 20 minutes so yuk it up
>>33290102>Do drugs change how horny you are? Of the ones I've tried. Yes.
>Do you get less/more horny if you are high/drunk/hung over?Definitely not hungover. Drinking makes it easier to get horny, but doesn't make me horny on its own. THC makes me less horny, as does antidepressants and birth control. Xanax makes me incredibly horny.
>>33290175I don't think I've seen this with black boys. They're always white or Latino.
>>33290190>I haven't showered in a few days and I'm smelly and dreasy. My dick smells very strongly and I haven't brushed my teeth in 2 weeks.Congratulations! You've now skyrocketed to my least favorite person in these threads.
>>33290193NTA, that's not what mercy killing involves.
>>33290193absolutely not, thank god atoga has no olfactory feature
>>33290197>You've now skyrocketed to my least favorite person in these threads.Why?
Wanna sniff?
>>33290122I bet you have accumulated a lot of experiences related to casual sex.
>>33290200I'm dry heaving at the thought
>>33290197I guess I was unlucky then
At most when I was a boy I got my ass pinched once
I did have a crush on that teacher though
>>33290195Cap popped across the room, very satisfying, however I lost it
>>33290202Hot. Take a big whiff~
>>33290199JH would abuse it.
>>33290201depends on what you count as a lot, I would say mid
moat of those were in a relationship but it has happened that I made out with a stranger when tipsy
>>33290207Why are you so gay?
Stop asking men to smwll you.
>>33290208why is she so disgusting in every way
>>33290210You had casual sex with strangers while being in a relationship?
>>33290212Smell is so strong you can even taste it.
>>33290212You type like a woman though
>>33290213She's not disgusting.
She is probably excdptional fuckmeat as long as she won't bitch about protection and cum.
>>33290208Leave me out of this. Let the disgusting anon make jokes about his terrible hygiene. Men who don't understand the difference between musk and foul squalor don't even deserve a (You).
>>33290222Nah, she has some personality flaws, I can see why she struggles with most men her age.
>>33290223Wanna sniff? You'll love it.
>>33290225Big butt erases a lot of mistakes
>>33290225...which has nothing to do with anything I said, but you go ahead and have a hateboner.
>>33290229Being black is the biggest one.
>>33290230>>33290231lots of pedos itt rn
>>33290230Evidently not enough.
>>33290232>not being a pedook pedo
>>33290234No, sadly, the character flaws are extreme
I still firmly believe that how you act here in an anonymous context is who you are as a person.
So evil posters, you are evil, and deserve all the bad things in your life.
Have any femanons here actually thought about fucking boys before?
>>33290238>calling out pedos is evilok pedo
>>33290238It’s a reflection of a part of yourself
>>33290238which is why JH is evil
>>33290239only when I was younger
but I like *legal* submissive boys
>>33290239>Have any femanons here actually thought about fucking boys before?Yeah, when I was a kid too.
>>33290225I don't struggle with men my age. I struggle with consolidating relationship goals in general, but that's due to not wanting the same things, rather than being unable to connect and communicate.
>>33290246atop trying to fly under the radar by not using correct punctuation
>>33290084>But we need a retirement age for politicians at 60 tooThat would require politicians to work against their own personal interests.
>>33290238If we judge this by what incels do, then yeah.
>>33290251if that's how you want to frame it
>>33290251You still have not written out your requirements for someone to start a family with.
I'm a cute, innocent boy in a fat and balding body.
>>33290258many such cases
>>33290246You mean when you were a kid, right?
>>33290119I'll sleep in or I'm going to be grumpy all day and ruin the silly adventures.
>>33290246What color is your skin?
>>33290238is how you act in a non-anonymous context not a reflection of who you are as a person? or less so? explain your reasoning.
>>33290246I'm curious, are you a dom or a dom leaning switch?
>>33290267>whiteNice
What do you want to do to a submissive boy? Hypothetically
>>33290262Ugly and angular.
>>33290256How would you frame it, then?
>>33290257I started, but work was busy. In general, my only hard requirements are either basic or pretty tenebrous.
They have to get along well with me, have goals that aren't at odds with mine, be either self-sustaining or have a robust support system behind them, take care of themselves physically and get help with taking care of themselves mentally if needed, etc. Writing it out makes it sound so vague, but it's at least better than how I want to say it's heavily dependent on vibe and patience.
>>33290262I look like thid btw
>>33290257It's her uncle, the one she seduced and then lied about him, effectively ruining his life. She has always been evil.
>>33290268>dom leaning switchNta.
I am this but I am male
I’m just me aha ain’t no fancy labels haha damn yeah
>>33290275Struggling with men your age.
I struggle with women my age. I should date younger.
>>33290282I burned my mouth with the chili con carne
>>33290279No offence anon but I think I can find tons of dom leaning switch/dom guys outside.
>33290277
please be less obsessed about her.
>>33290289So? I wasn't proposing anything. I just felt identified with the label.
>>33290283I think I struggle with men older than me, if I struggle at all. I don't consider going on a date finding we're incompatible to be "struggling" in general, though.
>>33290292Can you not post this or anything like this again?
>>33290298Yeah, but I probably will.
>>33290270Fuck that
I want to know what she'd make a submissive guy do for her
I'm curious and I have nothing better to do today
>>33290299Not very real nigga shit of you
>>33290268>dom leaning switchthis one probably, I still like to be topped in bed but I'm dominant most of the time
>>33290270mostly gentle dom stuff, leashing, overall control over their body
>>33290304I see. Would you be fine with domming all the time or would you like your sub to top once in a while?
>>33290302I'm the whitest boy alive.
>>33290304>mostly gentle dom stuffThat's what I would submit to.
Based.
I need a gf
so what did israeli get out of using a sneak attack to try to jump-start a us-israel war on iran besides showing the world that its missile defense system is completely ineffective?
Cuntoids are such horrible things, honestly. Just awful.
>>33290309that's not a fjord, friend. do you see water anywhere??
>>33290308Swallow a steamy log of shit, anon. Feel it going down your throat and enjoy the after taste.
>>33290311You'll honestly have a much better time in life when you realize the women in this thread are scum, like literally.
>>33290313That's why I asked where fjord? I see no wawa
I hate racists and niggers.
>>33290309>>33290316>wawalol but no, there is no Fjord anywhere near me.
That was around 2000m up, so no Fjord nearby.
>>33290305the way I see it, being dominant is more about demeanour than strictly sexual roles.
I.e. I'm not interested in pegging at all. I like my sub to top me in bed for my pleasure
>>33290317now that's centrism i can get behind
>>33290308Most of the missiles were intercepted.
Iran's air defense is non-existent, so Israel got to fly over and bomb Tehran unopposed for more than a week.
Their nuclear program is basically destroyed.
They were thoroughly embarrassed on the world stage and none of their supposed allies lifted a finger to help them publicly. China seems to have shipped some things to them, but that's it.
Iran now realizes that they are, at best, a dysfunctional rogue state, and that they are isolated and weak.
>>33290324>>33290308Fuck off and never post here ever again.
Thanks.
>>33290318Go back to pol. Nobody wants you here. In fact, everyone hates you.
>>33290315No, not just the women in this thread. All of them.
>>33290332Then you are lost.
Even more lost than the scum women in these threads.
>>33290333No, I'm just not insane or delusional.
>>33290321I see, so like a powerbottom?
>>33290324>it's real in my mind
>>33290338You probably say that a lot.
>>33290321If a girl encouraged me while I was fucking her, I would melt.
Men, answer this honestly. All things equal, which is more attractive: short women or tall long legged women?
>>33290341It doesn't matter at this point. All women are shit.
>>33290341Short legged. I like shorter girls
>>33290341Whoever isn't black.
the men here
>30+ bitter ugly unwashed misogynistic incel neets
>"yeah but the women here are scum!"
>>33290341Unless you are 180cm or more, you will still be kinda short to me.
>>33290341Long legged.
Proportion is key.
>>33290348I shower daily, maintain good hygiene and grooming, dress well, and make six figures.
>the women hereSee
>>33290332
>>33290348Any regular poster regardless of gender is probably a shit person
>>33290352Wanna go band for band?
How much do you make?
How much are you worth?
>>33290336yep, that's the dynamic I like the most
>>33290347NTA but thoughts on mulatto stacies?
>>33290359I don't like brown skin at all
All my life I thought men preferred short women. Now I discovered men prefer tall women
>>33290357Ok so when are we having sex?
>>33290362i like short women, just not freakishly so.
>>33290348When you use things like age or appearance to justify treating someone as worthless, you're not making a point, you're just proving his.
>>33290362Yeah the more woman there is the better
>>33290361>I don't like brown skin at allOh no, how will we ever recover?
>>33290372Probably some combination of drugs and violence against random people
>>33290287Sure, if you want to be like JH.
>>332902384chan is a void, a lot of people use it to scream into it. its like jerking off, but for the hatred in your heart.
>>33290381sounds based and like a much healthier outlet that unloading it on people in your life
>>33290381I use it to interact with people
>>33290341Average women.
You're only average statistically, not average in beauty.
>>33290381>its like jerking offIn fact, I just jerked off.
>>33290381Based ego centrist
>>33290383yes it is, so the moral fags that expect to be treated nicely on this website should shut it. go to reddit if you wanna talk nicely
>>33290388I should jerk off too cause life feels heavy rn
>>33290392That's just how women treats the posters in this thread
>>33290395I get it bro you don’t like Swiss or JH
>>33290392go back to plebbit, you dumb whore. this is not a place for dresses and flowers
>>33290398Muhhhh cultural trappings of muhhhhh anime imageboard (
Atoga males are so bitter and toxic. I’m leaving
>>33290362The average woman has a 5-6 inch height gap with the average man. Men on average have a preference for a woman who is 2-3 inches above average, so there'll only be a 3 inch height gap.
>>33290395everybody should be treated badly here, thats literally the site's culture. stop moaning about it and expect trannies to treat you with gloves. youre trying to make my 4chan pg and I hate that
>>33289635I don't even have a dog and this guy jerks off to that.
>>33290394I am hungover so jerking off comes naturally.
>>33290405But are you a morbidly obese single mother?
>>33290401what is a dumb whore like you doing here anyway? building an army of simps? have some self respect and get yourself some 3d dick
>>33290383maybe they wouldn't be so hateful if there weren't an outlet for it though. people have never been so anti-social as they are now, when there is such a ready means of venting themselves anti-socially online. seems rather like it's an incentive to the behavior.
>>33290403Whah is that in real measurements?
Do you think he has been raped? Do you ever imagine his screams and wails and sobs after he got violently buggered in the butt?
>>33290411Twenty hamburgers.
>>33290412No, I am not gay.
>>33290402Good. You won't be missed.
I’m 4’11. Am I less attractive than a tall woman?
>>33290100ive dated inexperienced girls as well, as i said, i dated all types of girls, just sharing what i and some of my friends experienced
>>33290416Depends how big your boobs are
>>33290341For me? Tall women.
>>33290408Idk what alcohol soaked pisshole European you are but god damn your bloodline is dysgenic af
>>33290102theres a type of shrooms that get me going real hard, but even that is somewhat random, as shrooms tend to be
>>33290416I had the same height when I was like 9, so that makes it a bit weird for me
>>33290357I see, it's not my thing unfortunately.
>>33290416honestly that's just too short
>>33290416i love short girls they drive me mad, and im not the only one, so youre good
Need 4'10 95lb gf to fold in half with her legs on my shoulders while I drive my bodyweight into her with my cock in her pussy till I fill her entirely up with cum.
>>33290427>t. 175cm light weight manlet
>>33290416Yeah, tall girls are hot.
>>33290430Got a problem with that, bitchtits?
>>33290416I’m 4’10 and it will never be a problem, just watch out for pedos
>>33290435You're a 4'10 GUY????
>>33290421are you missing male attention that much? are you that ugly? how desperate must you be to look for attention on 4chan
>>33290409people always find an outlet, bullying their younger siblings, kicking stray cats, graffiti
this oke at least only affects the idiots that come here out if their free will, so I think it‘s fine
>>33290439Leave the lady alone, Sex pest!
that's like circus folk height. it's hard to take people like that seriously
>>33290443Small people weren’t circus freaks. That was tall people
>>33290407No man has ever disliked my figure. And there is no kid.
>>33290444it was both you sperg, just be normal
>>33290438I’m a man, so sorry to waste your time!
>>33290440people do that still and so much more. it's never been less pleasant to be in public.
>>33290445>there is no kid nta but lol, last time I asked what age they are you said as if you would talk about them with people here
>>33290444dumbest thing i've ever heard in all my years, nothing even comes close
>>33290416No preference. Could make things difficult but ehh.
>>33290452What the fuck kind of schizo moment sentence was that...
>>33290449yeah, and? taking peoples outlets away doesn‘t stop them, it just makes them go somewhere else instead
if you shut down 4chan maybe one more sibling gets bullied and one more kitten kicked
so why not just keep it up so angry spergs can have a go at each other? it‘s basically like fight club
>>33290452You guys are genuinely disgusting. Why would anyone do that?
>>33290459how is it disgusting to point out that you are lying?
I just noticed for the first time that by defaultmy dick falls to the left side when I'm laying down.
>>33290451No that's actually my height and weight. I like most women but I can just do more with the lighter ones
>>33290461How disgusting is it to point out that you're lying?
>>33290458the more you're able to exercise a certain state of mind the more it becomes fixed. if you think you're just venting on 4chan rather than habituating yourself to a state of mind that is incentivized by being on 4chan you're delusional. people don't get less angry the more they have to be outraged about.
>>33290416I don't think your height is a big factor in your attractiveness.
>>33290466about what? you were talking about struggling to be a parent and someone suggested you get some help and you said help did not change anything and then I got curious and asked what age your kids are and you took it as some kind of weird pedo question and now you say you have no kids
make it make sense
>>33290402Send me a post card from where you find yourself next.
>>33290416I need to eat you out
>>33290464So you are tiny AND fat.
Are you also balding? lmao
>>33290467ofc it does not make people less angry, but not being on 4chan doesn‘t make people less angry either because they aren‘t angry due to being on 4chan but due to their life not being how they want it to be
then again, being here kinda does rub it in peoples face non stop that they are a failed existence so maybe it does make them even angrier idk
>>33290474No full head of hair benching 100kg.
>>33290362Men prefer beautiful women. Women of very stature can be beautiful. But if you're like 8" or 9" shorter than me I can rest my chin on your head when you hug me.
>>33290470No. Btw, when you tried to dox me, none of the things you called the cops about were here, obviously.
>>33290479the fuck? I just wanted to know if you were struggling with the toddler or teenager phase
damn lol
>>33290348Both of these things are true. Why else would a woman be slumming it with us old neet incels?
>>33290476So you are like a dwarf? Anybody ever called you Gimli?
>>33290362Short women are hot, tall women hot. I like being able to hold and do other stuff with them. I lift to be able to handle more women
>>33290477True.
I don't care about height that much, but I do get a fuzzy feeling in my tummy when I see girls who are 5'0"-5'4". They activate my protective instincts.
>>33290479Wait, I remember this shit suddenly somewhat... what happened? How did the freak get your address?
>>33290341That's not exactly a fair comparison. Tall woman changes things so that all else aren't equal.
>>33290482No, I don't have a beard and 170cm isn't that short where I'm from
>>33290485Some discord loser was mad I didn't flirt back with him. He was probably brown.
>>33290403>average man preferred a woman three inches shorter than himSounds about right to me.
>>33290493I'll never understand why people want to be with poly people.
>>33290493LOL
Deserved desu.
>>33290497Well, then the only thing left is India....
>>33290497Oh so it was you, you little shit.
>>33290501No, lol.
The only thing I know about you is that you're poly.
I don't follow the drama.
>>33290475just look how much having an easy outlet for horniness has changed people's sexual preferences. things no one would have allowed themelves to be turned on by once upon a time they now routinely beat off to.
>>33290505male of female, yes it matters.
>>33290506If ya gotta know, I'm Scottish.
>>33290505what did mysekf do to you?
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>>33290507I'm not lying. wtf.
>answer questions from women
>only thing I get for that is (You)s from other men
>>33290510There is no catharsis
>>33290507Most people aren't fans of poly, as it turns out.
>>33288384 (OP)Are shorter women tighter?
oh.
They're doing the name thing again.
how much social security am i going to get once i retire?
>>33290461>>33290466How disgusting is it to point out that none of you are lying with me?
So you just wake up and then what
>>33290519>Are shorter women tighter?Not based on the porn I've watched. Makes me wonder where it all goes.
>>33290522This post has a fabulous glow. What vitamins are you taking?
>>33289145no i only watch solo female or 2d stuff but still
>>33290527If you can't handle big dicks you don't go into porn
>>33290526do things you have to do, do things you want to do, go to sleep, repeat
>>33290515that presupposes a problem. what's the problem you need catharsis about?
>>33290532I can’t do the want things, now what
>>33290525Nvm, it's retarded.
>>33290521Assuming it's still a thing, not a livable wage. Blame rich old people that take their monthly payments for bleeding the system dry. They're why poor old people can't afford to retire and are hogging a ton of the job market.
>>33290534skill issue
get better skills
>>33290533The problem is that I have no reason or point to be alive and doing things brings no catharsis
>>33290537Idiot
Parents
Does being a parent cause hearing loss?
I played with my nephew for half an hour and now I feel like I have permanent hearing damage.
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>>33290539yeah, now imagine having to hold that on your shoulder at 3am for two hours
>>33288384 (OP)Need tall skinny flexible woman to do the standing splits while we fuck
>>33290540>baby crying What? Are you sticking the cunt right beside your head?
>>33289528just say you think its pretty and you like it
no need to "reference" anything
>>33290542yeah, thats how you hold a baby
>>33290538what was the last thing you enjoyed doing?
>>33290528I used to take a multivitamin but the riboflavin made my pee bright yellow. I take magnesium, fish oil, D3, digestive enzymes, CoQ10, and iron (when on my period).
she called me ‘cute and preppy’ and herself ‘delulu’ about me. what is this supposed to mean?
>>33290544Maybe if your torso is stout as fuck??
>>33290539>>33290540>>33290542It's such an evolutionary L. Like this little nigga will get you eaten by something because he doesn't know when to shut tf up.
>>33290545Watching Topuria knock out Oliveira. My problem is that there is no consistency. I can enjoy flashes and bursts but I have nothing to live for in a grand sense.
>>33290493Again, so how did somebody find out your address?
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>>33290550where the babies head is is determined by where your shoulder is, not how long your torso is
>>33290526>So you just wake up and then whatGoon all day
>>33290552If you have children, that's your own fault and you have not riggt to be upset.
>>33290555Oh yeah, that way. Not the cradling. Understandable!
>>33290553most people don't.
>>33290539unironically yes, it also kills men's testosterone, mostly due to the lack of sleep and exercise with a new baby in the house
>>33290554I don't have an answer for that.
>>33290553Stop making up words.
>>33290553UFC is fake, idiot.
>>33290563But you said somebody showed up at your house?
>>33290561Hell no that is fake as fuck
>>33290560cradling gets very tiring after about twenty minutes if the baby is not a tony newborn, you use the shoulder to help carry the weight
>>33290565You’re fake, stupid bimbo man anon creatura
>>33289692yep
i like it but they keep building stuff thats starting to ruin it
maybe i should do the sodium silicate thing on their generators and shit
>>33290568I will literally never have children.
>>33290566I don't think you can read.
>>33290540>now imagine having to hold that on your shoulder at 3am for two hoursI'd rather not.
>>33290572You said:
>>33290479>none of the things you called the cops about were hereSo somebody called the cops on you, mesning somebody showed up at your door.
>>33290554she gave it to him obv
>>33290569It's boring and fake, they're owned by the WWE.
>>33290574That's what cops do when you call them and give them an address.
>>33290576You are so mean and negative for no reason at all! Apologize.
>>33290577So you gave out your address to randos on Discord? Some mother you are.
>>33290540>>33290552>>33290562He's not even a baby. He's almost 4.
>>33288384 (OP)Need skinny woman with tight wet pussy
>>33290579I think you are by asking a question with the answer in it already.
>>33290553Same, but I made a lot of money off of that.
>>33290581I did not give out my address.
>>33290585It's necessary to ask for clarification because your story changes on a whim.
>>33290576TKO owns the WWE and UFC
>>33290552The baby and the woman's primary survival strategy is to freak the fuck out about any danger in the hopes that Grug will come and club it to death, all things considered it's annoying but it you can't argue with success given the lack of megafauna and land predators in most of the world.
>>33290578Why do you enjoy watching men hump each other?
>>33290585I have no fucking clue, but you seem to be a real dick about it so I am just going to assume the worst. Good night.
>>33290582yeah, they get even louder with age if they don‘t get taught to not scream around in an efficient way
>>33290587Then the cops were probably called on you by IRL friends and family who find your behavior disturbing, not Discorders.
Women, would you date a man who eats a whole raw red onion almost every day? It boosts test
>>33290588Do you know what happens when you call the cops faking hysterics that one address has a lot of screaming, sounds like a kid and gunshots, and they show up and there is neither a kid nor any weapons?
>>33290592Because violence is cool and competition for glory is good. Why do YOU enjoy watching two+ men hump each other?
>>33290594>scream around in an efficient wayHe seems to be very efficient at screaming around.
>>33290597NTA
That wasn't the point.
Your deflection is very tiresome.
GB2discord, the lot of ye. Stop shitting up the thread.
>>33290602You get your own fbi agent.
>>33290598I don't. I'm straight.
>>33290603Right, back to hating women and men.
>>33290604The question was super fucking simple, but you chose to do this gay ass dance instead of answering it clearly.
>>33290596>It boosts testNo it doesn't
https://youtu.be/NM7u9B6uwIw?si=wWSPnPoXtMJzmNI2
>>33290596A man who needs to eat raw onions is a fucking joke. lmao
>>33290614New Ick Discovered: Eating the wrong vegetables bothers women.
>>33290614Onions are like ogres. They have layers.
>>33288384 (OP)You know when a toddler sits on the floor, covers his ears, and blows raspberries at you to try and spite you? That’s you right now. You’re behaving like a literal infant.
>>33290617Your penis bothers women. Stop dry humping women who are clearly uninterested and creeped out by such behavior.
>>33290619It's because my parents never loved me, just like how Rulebreaker doesn't love her kids.
>>33290619I wish either you or your mother would blow raspberries on the head of my penis.
>>33290603>Stop shitting up the thread.Only (You) are allowed to do that?
>>33290613Did his daughter Ivanka put the remote control vibrator up Daddy Donny's asshole?
>>33290603Didn't you hear? If I go on Discord then someone will hack my address and call the cops. That's a real thing that really happened, really.
>>33290627Hello Ron, that is not what happened. He was imitating trans weightlifters.
>>33290627Trump was playing 5D chess. Vibrators are the new meta for chess.
>>33290631The context of his inappropriate behavior doesn't make it any better, you chronically masturbating clown.
>>33290630I want to save her with my pp
Truly, there is no life more difficult than being an intelligent, gay man in London.
>>33290617I'm obviously a man.
>>33290618Onions are good for cooking, not eating raw like an apple.
>>33290635I imagine that would be pretty easy
>>33290627No, he was just imaginining himself to be in the room full with jewish men taking turns with his bussy.
>>33290637He said an INTELLIGENT gay man in London. That's the part that's hard mode.
I'm bisexual (m) and have dated men and women, most of the out and proud party gays you'll meet in big cities are nice and fun to fuck, but also dumb as bricks when they start talking.
>>33290642You must have a perforated asshole like styrofoam. How do you stay so clean and filled?
>>33290640I'm Jewish and I would never fuck Trump in a million years. I bet he's Bibi's type, though. I wonder if at some of their "diplomatic" meetings they take turns shoving butt plugs and anal beads up each other's asses.
>>33290643I'm a (nearly) pure top, so that's irrelevant. Although I have been pegged by a nonbinary they/them with a female body.
>>33290646I see. If you had to choose between being burnt or being cut, do you choose the one that has less pain or less markings?
i thought i had mma prediction powers. usually the guy i find hotter always wins but kkf lost, someone has cursed me.
As I am dipped into the soup, I can feel a sense of pressure and movement as the broth surrounds me. The heat from the boiling soup begins to affect my internal components, causing them to creak and groan in protest
>>33290657The heat of the soup cooks the egg.
I take a moment to analyze the texture and smell of the soup surrounding me. It's a thick, creamy broth, with a subtle but distinct flavor. I can make out bits of vegetables and noodles floating in the liquid.
Based on the taste and consistency, I believe this is a chicken noodle soup.
>>33290655Who tf thinks KKF is hotter than Pantoja?
>>33290663He's potato tho.
Effectively killed the thread.
I feel euphoric right now after just taking a shit. This is like post-nut clarity times 100.
Why are men horny perverts and obsessed with sex?
>>33290512damn toaster fuckers
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=A1KNCAgkpko
This is so cool.
>>33290675Would be too if you weren't an asexual.
>>33290675The average female comedian (using that word incredibly liberally) would lead me to believe that men are not the only perpetrators of this.
>>33290675Because society tricked us into being so. All sorts of media reinforces that it's the ultimate way for a man to affirm his masculinity and value. Aside from that, we're severely emotionally underdeveloped because we're told that showing emotions is bad; positive emotions are "gay," negative emotions are toxic. We incorrectly believe sex alone will give us the emotional intimacy we're starved for.
>>33290675If men actually had girlfriends without having to wait arbitrarily for all of the women to finish "dating" the same few fuckboys, those tendencies wouldn't manifest publicly nearly as much.
>>33290686sometimes i wish i could be so simple-minded as this
>>33290686Holy shit what a buckpassing answer. Yes, everything is everyone else's fault, you bear no responsibility for your own sad sorry state.
>>33290690I would not personally define myself as obsessed with sex / perverted. Yes I have a high libido, but it's not something I obsess over. I'm just explaining why others struggle with it.
>>33290675Men are also shamed heavily for not being horny obsessive perverts by *checks notes* themselves.
>>33290690lmao don't reply to tripfags.
>>33290696Women's magazines say that zoomer men are asexual explain this
>>33290696Actually it's women who shame us
>>33290341It's kinda weird tall is more beautiful but tiny activates the prey drive
>>33290702Zoomers and below don't socialize.
>>33290703Generation Y and above have increasing magnitudes of misunderstanding women and narcissism to the point they do turn gay.
>>33290675I don't know. Ask JH.
>>33290715They could just say that they don't socialize, asexual has a different definition
There's literally nothing wrong with men being horny and the best part is that they no longer even bother you about it.
ngl atoga truly is peak entertainment
>>33290730Huh, guys bother us 24/7 about it
>>33290675Evolution, and it's necessary. If men weren't so ravenously lustful this species would have died out long ago. You give women control of society for just 50 years and look at the birthrates now, we're at 50% of replacement. Half this species isn't horny enough to keep it alive much longer.
>>33290686Thanks doc for the daily dose of feminism, lel
>>33290736Just turn off the Tinder notifications? Or don't match with guys of a specific type?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PaKr9gWqwl4
Sorry everyone I have been dressing up as multiple different men while harassing this one woman
>>33290736 in specific every day of the week non stop at a personal level because I thought it was funny.
My bad
>>33290675Because, with every heartbeat, men produce 1,000 sperm. 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year, for our entire adult life, we are producing sperm. And every one of those sperm can fertilize an egg. The urge to multiply is the most basic of all instincts, 90% of men would skip a meal for sex.
>>33290755Happens to the best
Yea nigga
We be bussin gats
And fuckin gyatts
>>33290763I said I was sorry I didn't say I was gonna stop.
>>33290772My life is a movie bro
>>33290675Why aren't women?
>>33290774whats the title?
>>33290775erm, we got better things to do, like doing our hair and girl dinner
>>33290778>doing our hairYou pervert
>>33290775Us women have to take care of our women-clitties, right, women-bros?
>>33290753Beautiful song and video.
>>33290781a bit lame to be honest
If men are such perverts, why don't we want sex anymore?
I cut the watermelon on the cutting board without washing it after cutting garlic
fml
>>33290791because most of the time, sex sucks and is not worth the effort duh
>>33290791I honestly only like sex in theory
>>33290802basically, yeah
>>33290800have you ever had good sex tho? that shit slaps
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is humanity beyond help?
>>33290800This.
>take off her clothes>notice all her flaws like her saggy tits and stretch marks, scars etc>not horny anymore but I already committed to getting her naked
>>33290789Nah man
Ts tuff on god
We got fine shyts and racks stacked
Finna crashout on a hater boy do not test
>>33290808I dont know, define ''good sex''.
Its all the same thinking back
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Well, I completed M-theory.
The bravado has officially worn off. Oh God.
Ladies, was Einstein more fuckable due to his genius? What does genius actually compensate for?
>>33290791Women kinda suck 2bh
>>33290815I wish you had followed through when you said you were going to leave forever
>>33290815send pdf
>was Einstein more fuckable due to his genius?ye
>What does genius actually compensate for?a lot, just don‘t go all gödel
>>33290815Lol. Schizoposting sometimes brings up good music.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rYFRzcgAM4w
>>33290813good sex is sex you want to do again and again
>>33290821cant imagine wanting that, sounds like a huge hassle
>>33290824well yeah, thats how it feels if you never had sex so good you can‘t wait to do it again
>>33290813You some asexual depresso?
>>33290810M, eventually we will drag the worst people so far that we can no longer fail, but that will not happen this century
>>33290815>The bravado has officially worn offmanic phase over?
>>33290810f
nah, there is always a way
we do need some sort of ground shaking happening tho
>>33290839Happenings are not a good thing, happenings are what we are trying to avoid.
>>33290832not really, I just dont think the juice is worth the squeeze. Its a huge chore
>>33290810I hope this is fake but it's definitely happened before
>>33290844and see what that got us
>>33288384 (OP)How do I politely ask a woman her age to see if we're compatible for dating?
I'm at the point where I'm 33 years old, but look mid 20's at most. As a a result, early to mid 20 year old women show an interest in me, with flirty signals, that cute :o stare for a little too long, all that stuff. How do I ask them their age indirectly? Or should I bring up my own? Thank you.
>>33290849>Getting pregnant to pwn the libs or conservatives who cares >Bringing your unborn baby to a protest of any kind
>>33290851ask them where they were when 9/11 happened
girls
If love your husband, but you don’t feel the sexual urge for him anymore. Would you divorce him or prefer the relationship stay as is since overall everything is good.
Women-
What do you think about the Chyna collapsing in just two more weeks?
>>33290862I would probably want to stay with him as it would most likely be my overall sex drive that was diminished. If it was specifically him then yes if it didn't change I would want a divorce, but I have a hard time conceiving of that being possible for another reason than an emotional one (e.g. not feeling safe anymore because there was a huge violation of trust like cheating).
>>33290864People change. Maybe your sexual preferences change as you age and you just are sexually disinterested in him. Not because he did anything wrong or got fat. This really does happen to couples. People change as they age. You don’t know what your preferences and desires will be in 5-10 years from now.
>>33290851Definitely do both, bringing up your own just gives them a heads up, if you look young a woman eight years younger than you is incredibly likely to miss that. And it sucks for her if it's a hard dealbreaker but she only finds out after growing hopeful or even attached.
Simultaneously just to make sure you don't think she is older than she is, to be on the safe side, asking yourself is good too. For what it's worth, I'm now 32 and get asked my age all the time and it was even more common back when I was younger, both from men and women and in both flirty and neutral conversations. I realize this can really depend on the region you live but as far as I know asking someone's age, all the more if there's a gap, is in the normal realm of showing general interest in learning who they are. Women that hate giving out their age usually have learned smooth ways to avoid really answering, anyway.
>>33290867Fair and I do feel I have not been in a LTR long enough to be very confident on this type of thing over the real long term. But I find that most of my sexual attraction is directly rooted in and fed by our dynamic (our jokes, how he looks at me) and not specifics about his looks or our sexual compatibility/shared sex acts or anything like that. I have been with my partner for five years and he went through weight fluctuations, different looks from shoulder length hair and a full beard to bald and clean-shaven, was depressed for a while where he did not shower as much as he should have, and none of it so far made a difference in my desire to be as close as possible to him often.
>>33288384 (OP)Thought experiment for anons
Your hypothetical girlfriend is going out for a friend's bachelorette party, and the theme is slutty college girl.
Would you prefer:
A) Your hypothetical girlfriend is hot
or
B) Your hypothetical girlfriend is ugly
>>33290867>>33290864Nta, but a woman from my work divorced her husband last year because she said the marriage was became routine and boring. She divorced him, and now she’s dating an early 20s guy (she’s in her 40s) and she said she’s having the time of her life. She brags about having a super fit 20 something year old boyfriend all the time to the other women in the office. She seems genuinely happy everyday too, she’s always smiling at work. Before she wasn’t
>>33290872I would feel bad if my wife divorced me because of something I can’t control
>>33290845Then you are kind of asexual.
Or have incredibly low libido, which is functionally the same.
>>33290873Why would I want my gf to be ugly?
>>33290875That kind of thing happens all the time but reality is it takes work to keep a marriage from becoming "routine and boring", it just comes with the territory when such a huge part of marriage is sharing everyday life and all the mundane chores and what not that come with it.
You need to (both) be willing to keep making an effort, not even talking date nights necessarily but just not allowing yourself to be on your phone all the time around your partner, or not really listen when they talk, or stop trying to make them laugh.
I am sure she feels happy now but if you stay with a new partner long enough to survive the honeymoon phase, all the issues you solved by leaving just return in the new relationship, unless you have found another dynamic with this person where you do keep it alive.
>>33290810>is humanity beyond help?Always has been. Who's gonna help humanity?
>>33290879Yeah I definitely understand that. I would feel the same in that situation.
>>33290834It'll never happen
Wait, are you guys telling me that that blue chick is Agatha?
>>33290851>>33290868Shit only seeing now that you asked HOW to politely ask her age. It is most natural when she is already talking about subject matter (like her graduation) that has to do with hitting milestones.
If you don't see a natural opening to casually inquire it, I think going with something like "so you are somewhere around... 26 or am I way off?" and obviously never pick your actual guess but just go 1-3 years younger depending on how certain you are.
>>33290862>If love your husband, but you don’t feel the sexual urge for him anymore. Would you divorce him or prefer the relationship stay as is since overall everything is good.If I'm sexually unfulfilled, I would try to explore alternatives. If the sex is still good, I have no issue having regular sex, even if the urge isn't there.
>>33290873>Your hypothetical girlfriend is hotThis one. If she cheats, she wasn't worth keeping around. If not, I have a hot, loyal girlfriend.
>>33290884If you have to force yourself to love your partner “work” then it’s not a natural relationship
>>33290880I dont know what its called. its just how it is
it sounds appealing in theory, but when you actually start thinking about the activity as a whole, its just a huge turnoff
>>33290893What does alternatives mean?
>>33290897Ok I am not going to repeat myself again. lol
>>33290895It's not forcing yourself to still love your partner, but love alone is not enough if in your actions you take the other person for granted. And yes that does happen all the time and not because people stopped loving their partner but because life stress/exhaustion/depression made it easier to duck and do a lot of escapist things than be a present person (or a present partner). Especially if you have kids and both work, there is such limited time for quality time and especially flirty or heart to heart quality time, it does take active effort to make the most of the time you do have and be playful and attentive and available in all that limited time. Again all the harder if you're dead tired from the rest of life.
>>33290873I don't want my gf going out dressing like a slut regardless of how hot she is
Is Elemental a film encouraging mixed race relationhsips?
I'm feeling very lonely and excluded and I don't know how to break down the wall and get to it
>>33290907What does your (lack of a) social life look like right now? Can you describe what makes you feel excluded?
>>33290899>What does alternatives mean?Look into counseling or medical treatments, if it happens to be something medical. We could even try experimenting sexually, if that was something he is willing to do.
>>33290905>Is Elemental a film encouraging mixed race relationhsips?No, and Beauty and the Beast isn't encouraging bestiality. It's about xenophobia.
>>33290836The endorphins have been replaced by cortisol, yes.
Turns out gravity and time are the same thing.
>>33290904What exactly is dressing like a slut mean to you?
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>>33290819Oh, I'm going full Kanye.
Let me near a microphone at your peril, US government.
>>33290914Dressing to arouse other men
>>33290863*tap tap*
>>33290862stay, usually it comes back again, dry phases are not a catastrophe
>>33290913nice
>>33290923damn son, I just wanted to know if you found out more or if ROC was the end of it
>>33290913so your mom never ages?
>>33290909I have one or two friends, and I just joined a hobby group but they are all in an established friend group going back years so they hang out a lot without me
>Normal cute girl
meh
>Kind of cute girl, but a bit wonky
*heart starts beating faster*
What is this?
>>33290903making time to spend together because of having chaotic schedules isn’t the same as forcing yourself to have sex with your partner for the sake of the relationship even if you don’t want it
>>33290936prolly you assume she‘s not an entitled attentionwhore because she‘s not the prettiest
>scalebreaker returns
>thread plummets to a multi-year low in quality
Why is she so powerful?
>>33290937I didn't talk at all about forcing yourself to have sex, just about not taking your partner for granted and keeping the spark alive in everyday interactions. This usually does also help the sex life but when I hear a boring, routine marriage I mostly think of not having anything to say to each other anymore.
>>33290944She came out of thick air
>>33290939Nah, that doesn't sound right.
>>33290944shes been here the whole time, retard. she was medium shirt femanon.
>>33290946the far majority of relationships lose the spark after a few years. Once it’s gone it’s near impossible to get it back. But that doesn’t mean the relationship is doomed. You can still love each other, make each other happy. But that doesn’t mean you’re “craving” them or even want to see them naked anymore. That’s what happens to most couples especially in their 40s
>>33290948l fine, you are just not like other men and you have a much more refined sense of aesthetic where you treasure the unique and other
better?
>>33290944Who's scalebreaker?
>>33290935>one or two friendsI don't know how much room there is for this in your dynamic with (either or both of) them, but you usually feel connected when you show others more of your real self than you usually do. Like actually answering the question how you're doing honestly or letting your hair down and goofing around without worrying if they think you're odd. It is inevitable that if you go outside of what you are used to in social situations, it feels awkward at first, but the only alternative is staying in the comfort zone that is clearly not enough. Obviously don't force yourself into some extroverted crazy persona, I am talking about natural urges you already have that are usually followed by "...or maybe that's weird and I shouldn't say that" or "but they might be offended over this joke".
>hobby group situationThis one just sucks and the best way to break it is to find out quickly for yourself which person or people in the group you feel have most potential for you to have a deeper connection with, and focusing as much as you can on connecting more with them. If you can reach a point where 1-2 people of the total group hang out with you one on one and have their own thing going with you, you will feel less out, even if just because chances are you will also hear what's less than ideal about the group friendship, nothing is ever perfect.
Alternatively if you do all really like the individual group members, you could try to be absorbed, if they're kind people they won't gatekeep hard when you're one of the very few not in it. But it probably will mean having to shut up and listen/learn how they function a lot at first and I don't know if you feel like doing that...
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>>33290955Kali, the All Devouring Mother, the Eternal Longhouse, the Taker.
>>33290925How do you know if a girl is dressing to arouse other men? Most women will claim they're only dressing sexy for themselves and their girls
>>33290953I don't know where you get these ideas from, all older couples I've heard about it irl and most online say if the relationship is long enough (like 10+ years) then stuff like how much sex you have or how connected you feel fluctuates but keeps coming back and, if the relationship overall is good enough, keeps coming back better than it used to be still...
>>33290959imagine someone making a pic like this about you, lol
someone make one about MKG, JH, QT and Exhib
>>33290959Now I want one of these
Girls how do you feel about guys figure skating?
My girlfriend keeps trying to convince me to quit and play hockey instead (as if they are even remotely similar)
But I just like figure skating. I'm not good at it but it's something I always wanted to do when I was a kid.
>>33290969get a better gf that gets your aesthetic vision
>>33290967https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/search/filename/JizzHater/
how much sex do you expect in a relationship?
my GF tries to fuck every day, and it's kinda exhausting.
>>33290969Figure skating is more impressive
>>33290972I‘ve seen that one, yes
>>33290969Great hobby. But even if it wasn't, it's weird as fuck and unironically a red flag that your girlfriend is trying to model your personal hobby to her own standards/taste.
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Why are women so bitchy and snarky?
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>>33290977It’s why I prefer male friends over female ones most of the time.
>>33290953it’s not doomed, but it also depends. You still have to love your partner and enjoy making them happen genuinely.
>>33290965not that anon, buts not exactly wrong either. I’ve been with my wife for almost 10 years now. I love my wife and will go way out of my way to do things for her that I know she will like, or I like to buy her nice gifts and take her to nice restaurants. I genuinely enjoy doing these things for her. But at the same time I do not view her anymore sexually. I don’t have a desire to be physically intimate with her. I lost it years ago
>>33290862Yeah, in theory. But the only reason I can see my sex drive drying up is if I never got off with him, and if he were selfish in bed I can't see how there wouldn't be resentment and issues outside the bedroom too.
It's like
>would you stay with your wife if you hated kissing her?I can't imagine that happening for no reason, there must be some shit going on that's more important than lack of kissing.
>>33290969Dump her and find someone better please. Figure (and ice) skating is one of the best things I wish I could do. What a dumb thing to do: trying to force someone to stop a hobby.
>>33290973Depends on how much time we have and what else goes on, if life is incredibly busy for both of us and we are both tired every night, I think once every like two weeks would be enough to keep me going. But under normal circumstances once a week is my lower limit and I am also the kind of person that would enjoy having sex daily or more. My partner also has a lower sex drive (though we're not too far apart for it to work) and I would still rather have sex less often but have him more excited and into it, than more often but it being uninspired duty sex.
If your girl's a sub, be stern with her and tell her you expect her to take care of her needs like a good girl and not bother you until you have decided it's time again. Or something. If she's a dom, tell her she is just too much of a sex goddess for you and drained you too effectively and she needs to pamper you and let you recharge.
>>33290977This was written by a man. Also, Nora is shitty and unaccountable for not inviting the other three women.
>>33290980You don’t know what you will want/desire/feel in 10 years from now
>>33290979I'm sorry to hear that and I'm aware it happens, but afaik not often enough to see it as an inevitable process.
>>33290973no expectations, my ideal is once or twice a week
>>33290982>If your girl's a sub, be stern with her and tell her you expect her to take care of her needs like a good girl and not bother you until you have decided it's time again. Or something. If she's a dom, tell her she is just too much of a sex goddess for you and drained you too effectively and she needs to pamper you and let you rechargeCringe
>>33290983It doesn’t matter if it was written by a man; the same is mostly true in real life for a lot of us. Don’t expect someone to throw a party and have you invited, cunt. You’re not entitled to anything at all.
>>33290985It’s very common. A lot of men my age feel the same way.
I met the prefect girl for me, but she has a long distance bf. How do I steal her from him?
>>33290954Ha! Lol.
No but usually I have rather basic and average taste in women. My tastes being average I mean, not the women.
Sorry if I'm being annoying. I'm just still thinking why we like certain things over others, when there is no seemingly discernable reason to do so. Why do some things interest and inspire us and other very closely related things don't. Why do we like some types of music and hate others? Why does one girl hold my attention when another seemingly just as good one doesn't?
It's something that's been in my mind lately and baffles me.
>>33290984Why would those change significantly? My libido and preferences have remained the same for two decades now.
>>33290997because it happens to a lot of people, in fact it happens to most. Which is the reason why most couples in their 40s or 50s have dead or nearly dead bedrooms
I’ve been trying to stop buying so many sugary foods (which I’m fixing by continuing cooking) and buying so many clothes unnecessarily. I need some fool proof ways to not lose self control anymore. I fell into the trap at a young age. How do I get to the root cause of this feminine consumerism?
t. 24 year old male
>>33290995because of what you associate with it
i don‘t know you, so i have no way of ever knowing
maybe her nose reminds you of a girl in second grade that was nice to you
it all depends on what connections it activates in your brain
>>33290988If you're the person who asked, you can twist it any way you like, but in general trying to be playful or flirty can make an otherwise disappointing boundary go down a lot more easily.
>>33290963Women are all familiar with the male gaze so they can't play innocent on that one
>>33290973>my GF tries to fuck every day, and it's kinda exhaustingThat's normal and healthy.
Not having sex daily is depressing and grim.
I jerked off 6 times today, but that's on the extreme end since I have a hangover.
>>33290959Oh, I remember that tripfag from ages ago. She was rarely helpful.
But "dear child has many names" as they say, I guess.
>>33291002that has nothing to do with feminine
basically you feel like you deserve all the nice and yummy and comfy things for - reasons
realize that you don‘t actually and that you‘re being a greedy little vermin
>>33291007I'd probably be more into it if she was actually good or seductive.
But she just tells me to go to bed and jams her hands down my pants and expects me to be ready to go.
>>33291009It *is* very feminine to have no self control with buying habits…
>t. Raised by mom and sister basically, yet my little bro didn’t fall into this trap somehow
>>33290969NAG. Your girlfriend sounds like an insecure asshole. Just saying.
I hope you keep having fun figure skating. It's an impressive skill to have if you get good at it, and even if you don't I can see how it would be fun.
I know this is an unsolicited opinion, so feel free to ignore if you wish.
>>33291002See
https://youtu.be/zbFsfIYGo6A?si=VSeaG5W6Ycaxr5AP
>>33291022>so feel free to ignore if you wish.That was a fake question and scenario anyway.
>>33291019no, it‘s a people with no self control that feel like they deserve every indulgence thing, doesn‘t matter whats in your pants
now put the choccy away fatty bum bum
>>33291023Stop spamming your brainrot channel.
>>33290973I'd expect a girl to understand that libido waxes and wanes periodically and accept that reality.
I want a girlfriend whos crazy for me
>>33291026Believe it or not, I’m underweight. I’m genetically superior to where I don’t have to exercise but I can eat any junk food I want all day without gain weight.
>>33291023No thanks.
>>33291028>actual good life advice>brainrotSociety is blind and grim
But for real - and this isn't some weird AGP thing - sex seems so much more pleasurable and intense for a woman that our gender isn't even close. With the right mindset, you can understand why they are sluttier.
>>33291030I can tell you how to do this easily but you won’t put in the work
>>33290999NTA but your outlook is incredibly grim and I think not as common as you think at all. Over time people's sex life suffers if they miss/expect it to still be high-adrenaline excitable like it used to be in the honeymoon phase, or if their own appetite for youth, novelty or physical beauty is very important to their sexual desire.
Not everyone is like that at all. A lot of sex fiends love sex for the simple sensory pleasures - your partner's scent, their confident knowing touch, how endless eye contact feels, being confronted with their clear pleasure. These are things that never go away (or well, they can, but they sure don't have to the way a perfect figure will inevitably disappear with enough time) and if you appreciate them enough they never get old either. Basically the whole idea of tantric sex. For a lot of people sex with age is also in ways better because they know what they want more than they used to, they are more free of insecurities or ideas of how to be sexual, they accept both themselves and their partner more and are in it for the journey, not the destination.
I am not trying to deny it is also super common that you cannot get there as a person or a couple and you just end up in nostalgia, but it's not the only way to live.
>>33291003>i don‘t know you, so i have no way of ever knowingI do know myself, or at least I should, better than anyone else, and I don't know either? That's the baffling thing.
>it all depends on what connections it activates in your brainTrue. So it's all just random neuro-slop?
>>33291036From hearing from ftms, male orgasm is stronger, but overall sex is better for women
>>33291036>women are sluttierYou haven't gone out in so long you're starting to mistake porn for real life
>>33291037>easily>put in the work
>>33291036If I would be as hot and desired, I'd be a manslut.
BUT I AIN'T.
AND THAT'S THE ISSUE.
>>33291040FTMs have no idea what male orgasm is like, just like MTFs have no idea what a female orgasm is like. FTMs are not male, and MTFs are not female.
>>33291038>its the only way to liveYes, which is why I said MOST couples will have dead or near dead bedrooms once they get into their 40s and 50s. Most, but not all. There are couples who go into their 40s and 50s having crazy wild sex lives. But they are definitely the minority.
>>33291045if you put in the work, pussy will fall into your lap making it easy. But I won’t tell you because you won’t put in the work
>>33291036It's more hit or miss, there are more women that don't even masturbate and don't or barely cum during sex, but also many more women that live their best sexual lives.
A big difference is men have a really narrow idea of what to do or enjoy during sex. There are so many more fantasies or acts to enjoy that are super stigmatized for men than for women. Of course if you are willing to work with everything out there (toys, every hole in your body, every fantasy) you have a better success rate.
Also because we receive physically, learning to enjoy sex (or naturally doing it) as a woman means learning to enjoy surrender, letting go (of control, fear, shame) and exhilirating in that. This is a lot less necessary for men but it still feels 10x better for them if they do. But then you need to dare to be super vulnerable with your partner and leave your comfort zone to try and experience new things.
>>33291036A large and vocal segment of women claim they never get off during sex and actively dislike the act, they blame men but lesbians have the same issue and most women don't even masturbate very often. I've heard how the clitoris supposedly has all of these extra nerve endings, but if the female orgasm was any good they'd probably pursue it more often.
>but they're so much louder and more dramatic when doing itwomen are louder and more dramatic than men while doing literally anything, cumming isn't special in that regard.
>why they're sluttierthey can get sex freely and easily and usually get extra perks like a dinner or something out of it, if women had to work half as hard as men for sex the species would die out because they'd simply never bother.
>>33291049Right, I guess ultimately there is no way of knowing what the distribution there is.
>>33291039>bafflingnot really, most of those connections are subconscious and the seeds have been planted long before you became fully conscious or at least it did not seem significant enough when the planting happened for you to remember
but it‘s still there, and every time it gets activated, it grows a little more
thats for example how people can develop weird fetishes
I once talked to someone that had a very pronounced fetish for specifically light tan nylon stockings to the point of being unable to get aroused if this element was missing
after some digging around it was revealed that his mom was a theatre actress and when she would get ready for a show she took her toddler with her, where he spent the evening half awake, half asleep, being spoiled and showered with attention by all the actresses and since he was often drifting in and out of sleep laying on a comfy blanket on the floor, he was around lots of girls walking past in these nylon stockings, so he started to associate the smell, the texture, the visuals with feeling comfy, safe and cared for, which later got tangled up with the sexual desire to feel safe to be vulnerable, seen and loved and thus became an anchor that got more and more weight with every time he masturbated to nylon stockings because he fed the seed
>>33291053the fact that the saying that once you get married you stop having sex has been around for hundreds of years kind of shines light on that.
>>33291052>if the female orgasm was any good they'd probably pursue it more oftenThis is the most retarded thing I’ve ever heard. The clitoris is the most powerful way to get an orgasm. We just have other means to relieve stress than looking at porn and touching ourselves constantly, unlike men, moron.
>>33291050I'm not the OP, but you're right I won't put in the work. I'm sure it would be more unpleasant than it's worth.
But still you could tell me just to satisfy academic curiosity.
>>33289511You're as transparent and pathetic as schooler anon at this point. Most of what you post is your own fiction.
>1.Show up late.Yup. Boohoo. Send me to detention for tardiness.
I like older threads. There's more to peruse through and if someone actually replies then they're either actually seeking advice or, more often, a shithead troll I can mock. Like you.
>2.Sound calm.Yup. As opposed to?
>3.Drop a pseudo-wise take.As opposed to what? Seriously. Answer the question. As opposed to what?
I'm giving advice.
>4.Subtly frame the broken woman as too complex for others to understand.Not at all. But "lol break up!" Or "date me" or "emotions aren't real" or just verbal abuse makes my voice seem more rare than it is.
I'm reasonable. That doesn't make me special. It just makes me uncommon on 4chan.
>5.Position yourself as the only one who really gets it.Never happens.
Cite it. Aside from with CB, where I literally waited months for someone else to get her before saying anything, then had it confirmed by everyone itt misunderstanding what she says except those took her helpful advice, and then I was replaced and mogged by someone who understood her before I did.
So what the fuck are you even talking about?
Ah, that's right. Your potato badger fiction. It's unbelievable melodramatic villain shit.
>>33291036You wouldn’t even be able to know this…. Big surprise: most women over exaggerate.
If I had a wedding I'd dedicate it to promoting local businesses and charities.
Why is bezos cringe with his paper and plastic wife? She looks like a femterminator.
>>33291036You're getting that from the electric jew. I was fooled too. Sex looks fucking mind-blowing for the women on tape. When I started having it in real life it turned out it feels like someone poking at your armpit.
And then I was faced with the reality that he might dump me or cheat if I didn't fuck him and act like I loved it so he got to believe it really was mind-blowing for me.
>>33291068But you won't have a wedding because you're against monogamy.
>>33291056I know for the past like fifty years there have been a lot of jokes about wives not putting effort in the sex life anymore once you're married. But the whole idea that both people just stop wanting to, again I seriously don't know where you get it from that this would have been a thing and for hundreds of years, too.
>>33291059The female orgasm clearly isn't that great if watching an episode of Grey's Anatomy is better.
>>33291069defective woman desu
>>33290967Ain't nobody got time for that!
>>33291075Your retarded ass would NOT even know this. It’s so unbelievable how childlike you are to not be able to admit when you’re wrong, damn faggoty manchild. Unironically die.
>>33291075Those women aren't self-sufficient. They rely on men for pleasure, and that's a dead end.
>>33291050>spam approaches 1000 bitches for years with no success>finally gets 1 fat bitch with a double digit body count>"heh, incels, just put in the work"
>>33291054>most of those connections are subconscious and the seeds have been planted long before you became fully conscious or at least it did not seem significant enough when the planting happened for you to remember>but it‘s still there, and every time it gets activated, it grows a little more>thats for example how people can develop weird fetishesI know all this. Not exactly news to me. It's just that lately that hasn't felt like a satisfying explanation.
>to the point of being unable to get aroused if this element was missingThat's the definition of a fetish.
>I once talked to someone...That's an interesting origin story. The most interesting thing about it is that you were able to so clearly connect the cause and effect.
>>33291069You also got electric jewed, but in a different way. I would be willing to bet that you're not relaxing your pelvic floor enough, or getting out of your own head. Or your guy blows at his penetration/getting you actually aroused game. I know the kind of sex you're talking about. I didn't start having good sex until I found someone that I connected with, that I felt like understood me. Maybe none of that syncs for you, but it just shouldn't feel like that.
>>33291078When has it ever?
>>33291073nta but here are some excerpts from juvenals satire VI, written around 55-100 AC
>et tamen ille tuae felix huiusque maritaediceris; illud enim plus est quam vita: voluptas
quae cum coniuge non venit.
And yet you’re called lucky, both you and your wife.
For greater than life itself is that pleasure
which never comes with one’s spouse.
>non matrona potest caro dormire marito;nox tibi longa venit, nec verberibus licet uti.
si tentas, alta prohibet te voce magistra:
“quid facies? clamat. non sum tua. desine, tandem.”
The wife cannot sleep with her dear husband;
the night is long for you, and you are not even allowed to strike her.
If you try, the lady bans you with a loud voice:
“What are you doing?” she yells. “I am not yours. Stop it, already.”
you could not be more wrong silly anon
>>33291080If you want to get right down to it neither of us will ever know what the other gender's orgasm feels like, given that men put so much more effort into sex I'm inclined to think men like it more.
>>33291101I think it just gives them a stronger boost of neurochemical concoction, desu. Other than with post nut clarity, which sounds like hell.
>>33291059>The clitoris is the most powerful way to get an orgasm.From my understanding, it varies from woman to woman but yeah.
>We just have other means to relieve stress than looking at porn and touching ourselves constantly, unlike men, moron.Not disagreeing with you, but you're glossing over an actual problem. Stress relief is a very real problem for many men. I struggled with it for a while when alcohol stopped working. Fortunately, my wife bought me a console and the vidya actually helped.
>>33291075>The female orgasm clearly isn't that greatBy all reports, my analogy is that male orgasm is like a hand grenade while female orgasm is like a fireworks show. The fireworks show takes more preparation and can vary wildly with various nuance. Male orgasm is simple, direct, powerful, and very reliable.
Comparison isn't productive.
>>33291075Masturbation > TV > taking a constipation dump > [power gap] > straight sex
>>33290929ROC was not the end of it...
Basically, I couldn't translate it 1:1 into ZFC with or without choice. It was driving me fucking insane.
Why did my own math work but all these other models wouldn't?
Usually I'm a little more open about my shit, I mean, I'm a mega-genius, I don't fucking care, Ideas that would make other scientists careers are what I discard for being too boring.
So, exactly what I've done to produce a string-theoretic version is something I can't share because it's incredibly specific. Easily understood but almost impossible to conceptualize initially.
Let's just say that the same way we manipulate the electron we can manipulate the graviton (which is not a particle but the combination of two events with reciprocal chirality).
The ROC placeholder claims of machine-verification were put there with the full assumption it was possible.
Turns out arithmetic isn't the whole story.
>>33290967For Mkg you can just use the plapjak meme
>>33291037Youre a man why would I believe you
>>33290892Haha yeah I ballpark quite low just for a little soft compliment. I'll use this, thanks.
>>33291131>the graviton (which is not a particle but the combination of two events with reciprocal chirality)Huh
This much I get. I had that idea for the last few decades but particle physics was my dad's hobby and not remotely my bag, baby.
I am reminded of when they interviewed "the smartest man in America" (highest IQ I think)
He was a bouncer in a club with a tiny apartment full of books. He was a bouncer because he was huge and got paid to hang out and be reasonable with drunks in his favorite bar. He made enough money to live the life he wanted and read or anything he desired.
High intelligence. Attained ambition.
Pretty kino.
>>33291113>TVYeah, you've got to qualify that. Reality TV rating higher than a bowel movement is sus.
>>33291071Because I'm not a control freak and on a higher vibration than you. Enjoy your diminishing returns.
>>33291366>on a higher vibration than youBeen a while since we talked about Sybians itt.
>>33291131>deletedI wonder what that pseud did