Former: >>33313032

>>33315480 (OP)
First

>>33315480 (OP)
Canadians actually hate america after the 51st state thing and the tariffs

>>33315480 (OP)
Hello happy 4th to my fellow burgers

Women why wont you do this for your men?

>>33315492
>51st state
Lmao imagine beleiveing that meme

>>33315500
M
MMOs are for fags
Character customization is for fags
Any game post 2012 is for fags

>>33315480 (OP)
Thread theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=arZZw8NyPq8

>>33315500
The video has your answer: they can, and they do, but for dark triad men.

>>33315507
Monster hunter isnt an mmo though

>>33315511
>dark triad men
Bro just has tattoos. You don't know anything more than that lmao

>>33315492
We hate ourselves too

>>33315511
Monhun nerds are dark triad? Thanks for the warning

>>33315514
Are you gonna post your tits too on /soc/toga? Please please

>>33315520
No

>>33315521
nta you should do this instead

>>33315492
Rightfully so

>>33315500
>Women why wont you do this for your men?
Because black features on character creators are the most jigaboo options imaginable.

>>33315512
It's weaboo trash is what it is

>>33315524
>dark skin with white features
perfect

>>33315521
Why not?

>wmaf couple

>bmaf couple

How can i get an orc gf?

>>33315534
If they're happy, good for them. But any BMxF couple gives me the ick. Except Chidi and Eleanor.

>>33315537
Date women over 5'7"

Why are old tourists in this country so fat

why do men say they hate sluts yet want them at the same time

>>33315539
>But any BMxF couple gives me the ick
You give me the ick

>>33315548
they want to fuck sluts, not date them

>>33315549
>>33315539
What a beautiful American family.

>>33315548
Pigs eat trash and then squeal

>>33315550
so they're the reason women are sluts in the first place
why can't men just commit

>>33315548
guys love banging sluts
they just don't love marryin' em

>>33315552
You meme, but this is kind of wholesome

>be me
>just enjoyed a delicious Mexican meal
>waitress asks how everything was
>delicious, I say, the place is one of my favorites
>it’s just like homemade, she says back with a smile and a wink
Holy fuck bros. I need a Latinx gf so bad

Why are you all so racist, there’s nothing wrong with black men

Women would you date the black twink wojak?

do men like women who bulk

>>33315552
Yes? That is the nature of America. It's not a white country.

>>33315572
They don’t but pretend they do and tell us
>nooo you won’t get bulky if you deadlift and curl constantly it just tonesssss

>>33315572
No. Skinny minnies only

HHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>33315572
Rule of thumb, muscle women are hot up until the point where your boobs become pecs

>>33315567
Are you really asking?

>>33315567
I try not to be racist but this >>33315534 honestly looks like she has a pet not a boyfriend

>>33315578
u avin a laff mate??

>>33315567
I haven't posted ITT about mixed couples but everybody is better off dating their own race. Black people are better off dating each other than white people. When you date outside your own ethnicity you end up diluting your culture. It's not morally wrong to marry outside your own ethnicity but if you do you lose your native culture and often language. Plus it's just more of a headache, less shared experience

>>33315573
>That is the nature of America. It's not a white country.
I see the IDF is back.

>>33315572
it's summer, it's time to cut

I have a female friend that deactivates her instagram account like every couple weeks. Women why does she do this?

>>33315549
>You give me the ick
I'll take that as a compliment

>>33315552
I'm mixed and marrying my hapa fiancée in October.

>>33315567
>there’s nothing wrong with black men
This is b8

>>33315572
>do men like women who bulk
Only men who are really into fitness, really into being dommed, or are lowkey homosexual.

>>33315587
persona erasure

>>33315587
neuroticism

>>33315581
Sometimes i forget how you fags see us damn

was gonna turn this girl into my gf until we were talking about past relationships and she said she dated a 29yo earlier this year. she’s 19, im 24. is it a red flag?

>>33315556
The men you choose to date don't commit*
Try dating nice men once in your life.

>>33315584
I actually have a bit of a dilemma about this.
>date a random American woman and our kids will be just "white"
>try to date a woman from my family's home country and have a culture and accent barrier and feel weird
If only I'd dated to that Americanized genius girl from the east coast and not been too scared. That would have been awesome, best of both worlds.

>>33315572
Uh just go easy on forearms and delts

>>33315583
No. Nothing’s funny.

>>33315593
:( maybe he could shave the dreadlocks and beard
a suit would look good with an asian girl with heavy makeup

>>33315595
more like the only men who approach don't commit and the ones who don't approach are either taken or shut in autists

>>33315585
Oh my bad. America is a Navajo country

>>33315594
rather than asking about age you should be asking why that relationship failed and why it's going to be different this time.

>>33315567
I'm sexist against other men.
I love women of all cultures.

>>33315594
It matters more how she can reflect on it now than that she did it. Part of the reason such a relationship is hard is that the young person is so much more naïve and this can also translate initially into thinking the age gap is no big deal because you fail to see the things you miss.

I would ask her how she feels about that now and see if she learned from it and it served to better know what she wants. That said at nineteen and twenty four you could have known apparently she liked her guys at least a bit older. And twenty nine is not fifty, it's not weird that she was not put off by his looks or something. Plus when that young a lot of people really resent the idea that they have a lot of maturing to do and this can be a reason to feel you can date older. But if that's how she unironically feels now, that IS a red flag because it probably means she is immature if anything and it certainly means she won't respond well to any suggestion that she might not have a mature expectation of something.

>>33315610
You can't properly love women of different cultures and discriminate against their men, it hurts at least some of their loved ones even if just male family members.

>>33315610
nta god i love mixed-girl hair

>>33315611
It's also important to consider the context. A 29 year old professional with a college degree, or someone in an academic position of authority dating a freshman is different from two people in dead-end jobs dating each other, whose lives and experiences will be a lot more similar, despite years separating them.

>>33315616
>You can't
Says who?
>it hurts at least some of their loved ones even if just male family members.
Women are better at assimilating than men.
1,000,000 women coming from another place? They can be brought into the culture.
1,000,000 men? They will try to conquer the land.

>>33315594
Man, if that's her biggest problem, you better marry her quick
You will have plenty of more serious things to worry about than judging her for dating a 29 year old, just forget it.

>>33315606
>shut in autists
Exactly, they will be most loyal, but foids love cheaters since cheating shows your status as a man among females.

>>33315616
Damn, if only women thought of that when saying that all men are awful and worthless.

>>33315616
It's for the best interest of everyone.

>>33315626
Kek.

You guys want to watch me fumble this guy
Want to see me do it again

Love incels debating race

>>33315610
Cole Palmer lookin ahh

>>33315620
>Says who?
I get that you can feel the warmth emotionally for women and not men, just pointing out that say if you were to marry a dark-skinned woman while voting for politicians that worsen the life of their male family members, it will still hurt the woman you love.

A group of 1,000,000 men would, but individuals coming in separately with their own agenda, religious affiliation, home country etc is a different thing altogether. I would say it is in general a challenge of society to tap the human potential and productively channel or avoid aggression and (self-)destructiveness in the population.

>>33315618
True. And while someone that (or any) age who is lagging in life development and emotional maturity is often an undesirable partner in the eyes of someone's environment for that reason alone, it can also mean you legitimately get along and do not feel far apart in life in that sense.

How do I fix him so he stops being a whore

>>33315639
Lorena Bobbitt

>>33315642
Lorena severed her husband John's penis on June 23, 1993 at their home in Manassas, Virginia. Lorena stated in a court hearing that, after coming home that evening, her husband had raped her. After he then went to sleep, she got out of bed and went to the kitchen for a drink of water. She then grabbed an eight-inch (20 cm) Ginsu carving knife on the kitchen counter, returned to their bedroom, pulled back the bed sheets, and cut off his penis.[6][7]

After this, Lorena left the apartment with the severed appendage and drove away in her car. After a length of time driving and struggling to steer with one hand due to holding the penis, she threw the penis out a window into a roadside field on Maplewood Drive.[8] She eventually stopped and called 9-1-1, telling them what she had done and where the penis could be found.

John's penis was found after an exhaustive search, and after being washed with antiseptic and packed in saline ice, it was reattached in the hospital where he was treated. The operation took nine and a half hours.[9] John went on to star in two pornographic films in the 1990s,[10] and stated in 2018 that his penis is "back to normal".[11] John also went on to accumulate a record of serious abuse allegations and some criminal convictions.[12]

HOLY

How do I fix myself

>>33315637
>but individuals coming in separately with their own agenda, religious affiliation, home country etc is a different thing altogether
You clearly don't know how men think, especially third world men.

>>33315626
It is undeniable that women are harmed by men not doing well overall. Even if you assume that we are truly all so cold-hearted that we have no love for our male fellow human beings, male rage and romantic rejection still results in more hatred. Even if it is not in any way aimed at women and translates to the guy having an addiction and developing mental issues, that is still extremely expensive on society compared to someone living a stable and happy life. We are chained together in life on all levels, some smaller (personal relationships) and some like these quite big.

>>33315620
Why is the opposite happening in Europe? Muslim men drinking, fucking and partying and the women following their religion and rearing proud Islamic kids.

>>33315585
mf if america wanted to be white it shouldn't have colonised a bunch of native americans and brought over a shitload of black people and then chinese people alongside the white people

>>33315644
Kek, spoke too soon.
>Thanks to the fine work of Doctors Krensky and Altschuler...

>>33315480 (OP)
I want to make a dating website where matches are based on what movie/tv-show people like.
Gender, what do you think of this idea?

Women just so you know, your pets will love me

>>33315649
if that were true, women would want me.

>>33315651
All that shit happened before the 1940's and America was over 80% white then.

>>33315655
F
What if I don’t watch anything

>>33315642
I don't want to cut off his dick...

>>33315657
women want someone else to want you
that's why they're always saying things like "you're a nice guy, I'm sure you'll find a great woman one day"

>>33315655
I think it sounds cool, why not
>>33315659
Then wouldn't you use a different dating site...

>>33315662
Chastity belt?

>>33315665
I want him to use his dick only on me

>>33315650
NTA but social pressure. There's a lot more leeway for men, e.g. young men might not drink around their family but they will when alone with friends. Nobody would rat each other out because they all do not follow everything perfectly so they're in it together.

Women are much more regarded as the safekeepers of religion and the family values, they are much more quickly seen as ruined by western society. Don't forget in most of their home countries the man would also be allowed a relatively free lifestyle compared to her, whereas for a woman to become less traditional causes worry she will stop cooking, won't want enough kids etc. Communities are often very close and even just being seen walking around with a guy could cause some neighbor or distant family member to tell your parents you might be dating. It's a whole thing.

>>33315658
So?

>>33315633
That child looks normal, retard. Did you really think this would be a funny post?

>>33315650
Because they follow the conquer aspect, not the discipline parts.
Because women aren't tribalistic, they have no loyalty to their own.

>>33315668
Chastity belt sounds good then, keep the key around your neck

>>33315675
He can't fuck with it on though

>>33315672
So that disproves your point.

>>33315676
well, you take it off in the bedroom
just make sure you handcuff him if you go to the bathroom afterwards so he doesn't leave before you can put it back on

>>33315677
No, it does not "disprove" my point that you can't create a colony with a bunch of ethnicities and then expect it to be called a white country.

>>33315676
... thgat's why you have the key

I had a hard time enjoying the 4th of July parade today, and I blame men.
I blame men because I was a sweaty mess, and I know men get off on seeing women sweat in skimpy summer clothes. I can’t just exist and be miserable outdoors; I also have to be a sex object, and there’s nothing I can do about it.

My dad has such a chronic inability to take a hint, no wonder he’s divorced

>>33315684
Don’t recall asking

>>33315685
Men are not retarded, he's being obtuse because he doesn't want to do whatever you're demanding of him.

>>33315655
F, don’t people often watch the same show for different reasons?
I watch shows for the plot, and I imagine watch because they want to fuck the actresses. I don’t have much in common with male fans.

what does hot guy musk smell like

>>33315684
That's hot though. Isn't it good? You can be clean and proper and dignified, or sweaty, skimpy, and sexy. Just think of yourself as good both ways

>>33315692
Same as ugly guy smell

>>33315692
Literally piss

>>33315649
I don't think men and women really hate each other. But I think there's enough mistrust and resentment that any attempt at goodwill is basically worthless.

>>33315663
Honestly, even if they mean good, that seems like condescening sympathy most of the time. Sort of "Me and every other girl you've ever met didn't find you good enough, but there must be someone out there who does. Go to your fool's errand"

>>33315650
There are plenty of liberal, westernised Muslim (and formally Muslim) women in Europe.

>>33315696
>>33315697
stop lying

>>33315690
Completely agree. Had to deal with a near constant erection when I binged Bojack Horseman.

>>33315655
F, feels a bit arbitrary as a sole reason, especially because you might still enjoy that same movie in wildly different ways.

At least combine different media and let people weigh it according to what they find most important (e.g. you really want to match in music and books but are more flexible on movie, tv and podcast taste).

If nothing else people will be able to give each other good recommendations.

>>33315684
I love these posts bc I just know if I saw femanon saying this irl, I’d also get off to her pretty lips moving :3

Oh boy I got my own place

>>33315627
This jewish propaganda pic has done more damage to "right wing men" than anything else in the world has I swear.
It expects you to ignore how the 2nd girl is clearly a 2nd or 3rd race mixed person while 1st girl is 1st generation but it tries tricking people into thinking "Hurr men decide the race of the baby."
Just don't end up like that retard who got angry his daughter turned up Japanese. Admit you're a race traitor POS.

I don't know what to do. I really don't.
I've always felt my oldest brother was distant. And we used to fight a lot before I moved out. Especially because he'd masturbate in the living room and I felt like I couldn't go to any part of the house in fear I'd catch him jacking off. At one point in covid I'm positive he did it in my room.

Now years later, a close family member told me that he touched me when I was really young, and it led to a lot of policing from my grandparents and parents to my brother's behavior.

I really don't know what to do with this information. I don't want to fight with him. I don't think I want to bring this up. But I guess this just makes it so I can never really have a normal relationship with him. Not that it was never that normal to begin with.

>>33315700
>good enough
Do men really view love and dating this way? They don't filter for compatibility between two people so they can get along, pursue the same things and be happy, but instead want a specimen who's as young and attractive and virginal and submissive as possible for his enjoyment?

>>33315715
*2nd or 3rd gen

>>33315700
Yeah, the girls don't mean ill. They just don't care. "Not my problem".
Hot take, that's why patriarchy just makes more sense than matriarchy.
Matriarchy doesn't really work since I'm not sure women have any interest in what happens with 90% of men. Make a billion dollars or die in a ditch, not my problem.
Sounds like a good setup for anarcho-capitalism though.

>>33315655
M

I see two issues:

1. Taste is not really that diverse, so even if you pre-assort people by something general like taste, they'd still assort on looks, income, etc.
2. There is a lot of signalling involved when it comes to it, e.g. people will claim to like something associated with taste or intellect to bask in its nimbus, when their revealed preferences show that they mostly consume slop.

>>33315690
I don't think people watch shows for actors

>>33315690
I think this is way more common for women. Men are more straightforward about such things and would probably just watch someone upload a collection of scenes on pornhub or youtube rather than dedicate themselves to a show they don't even like.

>>33315708
>At least combine different media and let people weigh it according to what they find most important
Yes, that is the idea

>>33315684
Well tou can't change how men think but you can change how you think about yourself. What some subhuman moids think is immaterial. You are not a sex object, you're a human being

>>33315717
I'm going to politely ignore the immediate jump to misandry for a second.
What he's talking about is how it feels from his side, not about the girl right now.
A guy might think "wow, I love that girl for her intellect, her personality, and all of our common interests!"... but it doesn't mean anything if he can't get the girl to say "yes" when he asks her out.

A relationship can't even start unless the girl judges that the guy is good enough first.

Gender, is your gym female-friendly?

>>33315508
I used to love this song as a kid kek
I remember it in the school discos lel
>>33315500
I like the melted clock on the wall
>>33315523
somehow I doubt this is a woman
or maybe rent was really that high

>>33315711
How much did it cost?

>>33315738
F
No.

>>33315738
M
I have never been to the gym
Never saw a need for anything other than cardio and calisthenics

>>33315738
Holy what the fuck 2000 a month!?
Do they GIVE YOU FREE SEX FOR JOINING?!

Men only ever want kids like how kids want puppies. You don’t actually want them you just like the vague idea of having one

>>33315744
Renting, 1600 a month. Doable for a poorfag with a roommate, like me

>>33315750
I don't want kids
In fact I don't think anybody should ever have kids again

>>33315725
>looks
Whole point is provide alternative to face-focused dating.
So, something like you are told pick 10-20 favorite list from like of 100 or something, and you can only see people who like +66% of the same stuff

>>33315659
at this point everyone of any demographic pretty much watches movies, I'm pretty sure even Amish watch silent movies with projectors

>>33315716
Congrats on having your suspicions confirmed that your brother is a disgusting creep?

>>33315548
I don't understand those guys, I love sluts
>>33315572
idk what this means but sounds hot >>33315587
I used to do this until I just deleted the damn thing

>>33315750
Come on now. When men had control of reproduction people had so many kids you had guys like Malthus who were scared that the population would grow infinitely out of control and cause mass starvation.

>>33315735
Right. I think it could be a thing, even if just for the novelty. But I'd lean all the way into the whole match on compatibility not impression thing, make people pick a quote instead of a profile picture and have them only be able to exchange pics during a chat?

Otherwise it might not be special enough as of course a lot of people are quick to share what they enjoy in their bio/profile anyway...

>>33315750
>Men only ever want kids
But I don't. Not being forced to become a father is such a relief.

>>33315753
Who the fuck are you

>>33315594
>she dated a 29yo earlier this year. she’s 19, im 24

>>33315754
>So, something like you are told pick 10-20 favorite list from like of 100 or something, and you can only see people who like +66% of the same stuff
But from those you 'can' see, those who look best to you will still be favoured. And rather than date someone who looks like a bad match, people would probably just switch to a platform where they can pick based on what they like.

>>33315729
Good point. “Slow burn” is hugely popular among female smut readers, while it seems that men would rather just skip to the good parts. And that’s fine too.

>>33315750
A lot of men care about "muh legacy" and "muh family name"

>>33315752
I wish I could live in a habitable place for 800 a month. Sounds pretty good.

>>33315750
I know this, that's how I was
That's why I psyoped myself from wanting to be a father into hating the entire concept of a family

>>33315736
Thank you anon, I choose to believe this post was made by a human and the others by incel chatbots

>>33315764
Someone who ought to make all the worlds decisions

>>33315755
Fuck off. He's my brother. I love him. I want to have a normal relationship with him.
I don't discard people as "creeps", especially not someone I know since I was born.
I don't know what to do with this information, because I want to play the guitar with this guy, hang out, do our things, and I always felt he ignored me and stayed at arms length, and I feel fucking sorry for him, and I feel like I can't do anything about this. Talking about it with him will make him feel like absolute shit. I don't want that.

>>33315738
F, yeah, but I’ve never seen different prices like that. How do they confirm 2 people are there as a couple? Do you have to make out in front of the receptionist?

>>33315760
Yeah, those are good ideas.
Though I'm kinda hesistant to have pictures sharing, because it can get abused so easily

>>33315769
Move to a super shithole place and you can

Being a childfree male is underrated. Basically, women hold much, much less power over you.

>>33315629
she does it for sport
>>33315639
lock him in your basement
>>33315646
with a spanner
idk what about yourself is the matter?
>>33315655
>matches are based on what movie/tv-show people like
please no I can only handle so many Sanrio baddies

>>33315768
Are you one of those evil foids who wouldn't take her husband's last name?

I punched myself in the stomach and now it hurts
Dubs decides if I blame the jews, India, women, blacks, latinxs, Chinese, or arabs for this.

>>33315780
Duh.
They have to film a sex tape, provide it to receptionist.

>>33315784
I never thought about it that way.

>>33315777
I think the possibility of hanging out and having a normal relationship with him hasn’t been an option for a long time :(
If he wanted the same thing as you, he wouldn’t have chosen to do what he did.

>>33315788
>88
kek anon well who do you feel like hating today

>>33315782
No I meant possible pictures sharing only after/by exchanging contact info. And explicitly describe it as a way to meet people you might not recognize for having a lot in common with you, but you do.

>>33315788
blame yourself

>>33315784
The only way to really enjoy women's modern world is to be a narcissistic sociopath or an asexual autist, honestly.

>>33315784
Yeah but it's not like 90% of men have a choice in 2025

whats the point of phone sex?

>>33315767
>“Slow burn” is hugely popular among female smut readers, while it seems that men would rather just skip to the good parts.
This is generally true, but I think there is a subset of males that is similar: men who enjoy VN/Galge/Eroge. While there are games where the player encounters erotic content only few minutes into the game, a lot of them make it a commitment of many hours and readers often claim that the character development, etc. increases the emotional impact.

In that regard, I do think men are capable of enjoying a similar experience, but the way it's presented to them probably does not meet their aesthetic sensibilities - with the exception of said Japanese content, which is often heavily gendered, in a sense of pandering exclusively to men or exclusively to women and their respective sensibilities.

>>33315684
>men get off on seeing women sweat in skimpy summer clothes
men get off to seeing woman regardless anon
might as well just ignore the coomers
>>33315685
der based chad autist
>>33315716
>he'd masturbate in the living room
>told me that he touched me when I was really young
sorry that your bro was a pedo anon, that really sucks
honestly I'd probably just go no contact at that point

>>33315784
Normalize giving men vasectomies as birthday presents

>>33315805
It's obsolete nowadays
But when your only other option was nudie mags maybe a female voice would be a better choice

>>33315780
state gender
would you kiss your sibling on the lips for a big discount on gym membership?
f, I would

>>33315797
I mean my dubs point to jews but someone else can override them.
>>33315799
Not a valid answer. Try again.

>>33315738
That's right bitch I'm going to the gym tonight

Guiness
Ybor Gold
Moretti

no wait that's the pub

>>33315774
Well think about this, they would gladly trade places with you. Get ogled and desired, look down on the faceless desperate hordes that want a taste.

>>33315798
right, I got it now

>>33315777
why is it your job to “do something about this”?
he doesn’t care about your opinions, or your privacy.

>>33315817
M
I would rather never be able to go to the gym again wtf

>>33315818
kys

>>33315817
>f, I would
Have you ever considered writing an incest romance novel?

Why are you people so god damn fucking negative? Constantly. Get a grip you raging losers

Where do I meet clingy gf

>>33315777
Ngl
I love my sister. But if I found out my sister did something like that I would burn every bridge between us and never talk to her again from now until the day I fucking die

>>33315806
This is why the ideal erogame has scenarios to suit all kinds of tastes
A good smutty VN is a work of art that can bring men and women together
>t. regularly does voice work for lewd fetish games

>>33315829
toughen up, buttercup

>>33315811
Which birthday though? 18 is way too late.

>>33315817
M
I would tell my sister the situation and she would understand and not give a shit.

>>33315829
I don't know
I want to be positive but I can't

>>33315829
Shouldn't you be at bingo night, grandpa?

>>33315805
it’s basically audio ERP
there’s a reason why “what are you wearing?” is often the first question… your imagination fuels the whole thing

>>33315796
I hate this. Because I know, or I think, he's not evil. I look up to him, he's a smart guy, works in tech, composes music, has great taste in everything. I guess it does make sense why he wants to stay tf away from me, given everything. It just sucks. I don't remember any of it, supposedly I was a toddler. And yeah he has his problems. Like the compulsive masturbation, and how much it was kind of impossible to exist in the same house with that during covid.
I guess I have to come to terms to not having any sort of meaningful relationship with him... Just sucks, he's my older brother and I look up to him. I care about what he thinks, what he feels, etc. And it's being really hard for me to accept that can be true at the same time as the other things...
I'm sorry for rambling. Thank you for listening, and replying.

>>33315807
>sorry that your bro was a pedo anon, that really sucks
>honestly I'd probably just go no contact at that point
That seems to be the logical response. It's hard for me not to think about what he was feeling all this time and to not feel sorry for him.

>>33315534
He has the emptiest eyes I've ever seen. It's like there's no thoughts or anything, certified automaton gaze

>>33315838
>mad because I’m calling it out for its behavior
Faggot. Take your own advice.

brain blown out by back shots

>>33315838
>ughhh bro just let me call people subhumans bro
How about you go outside and touch the sky?

>>33315821
You’d get tired of this very quickly

>>33315827
Alright fine, answer which of those you are and I'll hate you as a consolation prize. Go ahead, oh or check off whichever of those you are you strike me as a black woman.

>>33315847
sharing is caring

>>33315846
I'm scared I have soulless eyes now wtf. Is it because my eyes are dark brown??? Can light colored eyes be soulless???

>>33315847
Don’t piggyback off my post to further your hateful agenda you fat little bastard.

>>33315605
You expect him to grow straight hair too huh?

>>33315684
Thanks for telling me you were
>in public
>in skimpy clothes
>sweaty
>a mess
so I can jerk off to it.

>>33315852
Seems incorrect, or else girls would hide inside and post on /atoga/ more

>>33315853
None of them actually, not taking responsibility for the consequences of your own actions is just cringe.

>>33315825
I just want to fix this with him...
That probably doesn't make sense, but it's like someone telling you that the person who raised you is suddenly evil and you have to drop them. I can't do that, he's still a person, and I know he's not a bad person...
>>33315832
Maybe I just have really low self esteem but the thought keeps crossing my mind that maybe if I died, he wouldn't have to live with the guilt.

>>33315828
i’m too cowardly to publish anything like that, so I’ll stick to anonymous fanfiction

>>33315738
F
I guess, there aren’t female only gyms where I am so I have to endure the guys

>>33315857
Afros are nicer. If I was black I would definitely go for an afro over dreads.
Though actually I have no idea how hard it is to maintain an afro.

The Italians

>>33315861
Oh I see.
You're some sort of SEA or Asian man who isn't a Indian or Chinese person!

>>33315871
more like shitalians amirite

>>33315817
M
No, because there's no gyms in walking distance. I'd kiss her on the lips for other discounts, and probably just for fun desu, but I have no need for a gym discount. Got some weights at home anyway.

>>33315840
not sure if based sister or cringe sister

Why do dumb, ugly, troll-looking obese nigger females start so much shit everywhere they go? You can literally tell who they are when you see them because they look so ratchet. Avoiding them is damn near impossible because they have to themselves known with the shit talking. You don’t even have to look at them for it to start.

>>33315872
I am white. thats what white people do anon. We take responsibility instead of trying to play the victim. Seems like you forgot.

>>33315716
What you were told is a lot and you are allowed to take all the time you need to decide how you feel and what you want to do. You can choose to play along like nothing happened with your brother or shut him out without explanation, whatever you want. Try to take a moment to collect yourself and touch base mentally.

If at some point you do feel you want to know more, you are better off asking your parents. Even they might not be as honest as the family member with a bit more distance. But your brother is the one most likely to feel too much shame, guilt or outright repression of those memories to be honest with you. It is quite possible that trying to talk to him about it, will only result in both him and you trying to convince yourself you're crazy or said family member is crazy for saying this.

If your parents at the time listened and drew boundaries, there is a chance they do remember and never condoned it and they will tell you more if you ask. They might only have been silent out of fear to burden you with something you'd forgotten.

As sad as it is, it is not uncommon at all in these situations for the victim to basically reject these memories and not actively remember later in life. If that is true for you, chances are that hearing more detailed accounts will bring up something you thought you had forgotten. That means grief but it is also the only way to heal. You might not think you were hurt, but you will probably be surprised by which fears or destructive habits in your life had to do with these experiences.

Confronting your brother again is something you will probably want to save for until you have processed this information much more. I'm sorry this happened to you, I wish you a lot of strength going forward.

>>33315868
And what do these men do to you?

Let me guess nothing. You just hate them.

>>33315855
It's not about the color, it's about the lack of reaction and movement in his eyes

>>33315864
He deserves to feel guilt
Why don't you see that? He stopped being your brother the moment he first laid his hands on you. He is nothing but subhuman trash. Who cares about what he thinks, he never cared about you

>>33315880
thanks fagGPT

>>33315858
she knew what she was doing posting that here lol...
>>33315871
make good pizza

>>33315817
>>33315828
>>33315876
Fucking disgusting whiteys

Women,
Which look is more attractive (or less unattractive) on a man?
>very noticeable receding hairline and/or bald spot, no facial hair
or
>fully shaved head, no facial hair
?

>>33315845
I guess I can’t offer much useful input, since I can’t remember anything from when I was a toddler either
This is far from an ideal place to vent, but for what it’s worth, at least one internet stranger feels bad for you

>>33315864
you are too nice, you deserve a better brother
you can try to make things work with this one but you deserve better.
Who knows, maybe you can find a way to make this work in the years to come, if you're sure you want to try to have a relationship with him.

>>33315856
You’re not going to do anything about it, retarded cunt. You’re on an anonymous website. If you do not want people pretending to be you, whore, buy one of those name things. I really do not care…

>>33315882
No. They interrupt a lot to chat and hit on me. Why the bitchy attitude?

>>33315877
I think she's pretty based.

>>33315780
me, the underpaid receptionist, calling security on the two weird perverts in the waiting room

>>33315893
>whore
I don’t have to do shit, your dysgenic blood and sedentary lifestyle will do it for me

>>33315864
i didn’t realize you were still in regular contact, that does complicate things…
um… is it possible to just convince yourself that whoever told you about all this is lying? if your bro acts like a good person, then he’s a good person. easy as that.

sleepy
need chad to lie on top of me like a weighted blanket

>>33315902
Hm
Would your brother suffice?

>>33315894
Are we not on 4chan? I assumed that was a requirement of all men to be bitchy on here.

Also what's wrong with guys hitting on you. Isn't that nice to feel validated and noticed.

>>33315902
more like a weightless lanklet amirite

If every man on earth was like me women would never have to worry about getting raped, assaulted, hit on, or catcalled again. But we'd also probably go extinct. Would it be worth it

>>33315898
K.

Girls with big bobs: Do you ever wish they were smaller?
Anyone: how much do you think boobsize shapes personality?

>>33315906
bro just wear armor and weigh yourself down

>>33315882
bro really solved a captcha just to say “your problems don’t exist”

>>33315845
Just saying I'm the anon who just replied to your other message and I do not think any meaningful relationship with him is out. If what you write is true and he has avoided you out of guilt, that is a promising sign that he is reflective enough as a person to know what he did was wrong and condemn it to the point it burdens him, too. That can be a way to forging a new relationship.

But as you say the things conflict, your brother's qualities and what he did to you. You cannot rush to forgiveness, you need to process what happened to you first. Even if he was just a troubled kid who had barely a clue and he has a good heart now as an adult, that still does not change how whatever he did impacted you and you owe your highest responsibility and loytalty to yourself.

>she's gone back to liking posts that she'd like when we were dating
I'm glad I reached back out, nature is healing

>>33315907
It would be worth it if we all go extinct, so I’m rooting for it to happen.

>>33315835
>A good smutty VN is a work of art that can bring men and women together
Yes, but it is very difficult ground to tread, trying not to offend the aesthetic sensibilities of the sexes. There are also limitations on what one can do, while when fully pandering to one of the sexes allows more freedom in that direction. e.g. an otomege about some timid girl being turned into the personal slave of handsome and abusive princes (who are surprisingly okay with sharing her), might not be too appealing to male audiences, while female audiences might not be too keen on a generic school setting story about a bland and timid guy being pursued by multiple colourful girls who want to be his girlfriend.
I also think the VNs which appeal to both sexes usually have something beyond the romantic/sexual aspect that makes them generally appealing, which is also much harder to do since one cannot rely as heavily on already established tropes and archetypes.

I think either has its place though; sometimes it's okay to pander. There is a place for both Diabolik Lovers and Amagami.

>>33315911
>how much do you think boobsize shapes personality?
Massively, no pun intended.

>>33315916
share with the class what posts

>>33315886
No GPT.

>>33315916
Are you fucking 12?

>>33315904
>>33315906

ew no

>>33315913
I mean someone has to tell them the truth. They clearly aren't getting it elsewhere.

>>33315888
I am latina and so is my sister I’d be kissing if that makes any difference

>>33315916
told you to reach out, did it go well?

>>33315911
M
Yes. it draws more attention which obviously changes how your personality develops. How exactly idk though

>>33315928
Not at all, you’re still disgusting.

>>33315902
>>33315926
I'm very ugly but I just wanted to say thank you for not liking lankets and conventional Chads instead.

>>33315888
Why's it bother you so much you feel the need to hand me a (You) over it?

>>33315889
This is a hard question since I’m a huge facial hair enjoyer
If your pic is meant to represent option A, then I prefer that one

>>33315916
how did it go reading out?

>>33315911
No but mine aren't big enough to cause actual issues like having trouble finding clothing, not being able to lie on your stomach, pain with running, back pain etc. I think most women who have boobs that big have definitely wished they were smaller at times.

I don't think boob size shapes personality.

>>33315880
>If at some point you do feel you want to know more, you are better off asking your parents.
I was told this after our mom passed away. I think if I brought this up with my dad he'd have a complete breakdown, and I'd be bringing stuff up for no good reason. As in, it feels like it would just make everyone feel like shit. I don't even remember it happening, so I feel it would be really pointless and would be stirring the pot for no good reason.

>If your parents at the time listened and drew boundaries, there is a chance they do remember and never condoned it and they will tell you more if you ask. They might only have been silent out of fear to burden you with something you'd forgotten.
I think this was it.
Even recently back in covid I had a talk with my mom about feeling like he had been in my room, and she didn't seem surprised...

>You might not think you were hurt, but you will probably be surprised by which fears or destructive habits in your life had to do with these experiences.
You're making sense... And I know you're correct. I just don't think I can bring myself to do anything against him, or to look at him without any empathy... I can't bring myself to feel anything but sorry for him.

>I'm sorry this happened to you, I wish you a lot of strength going forward.
Thank you for taking the time to respond, anon. It helps.... I'm not sure I want to bring this up to him, I feel like that will do a lot more harm than good... I don't know. Maybe I do need time.

does it have lumpy cheeks

>>33315911
M. Maybe it's because I mostly know STEM girls on a personal level, but I haven't seen any correlation between their personality and boob size
Though the one thing they all have in common is that they hate showing them off, no matter the size

>>33315937
So you know you’re disgusting

>>33315911
>Anyone: how much do you think boobsize shapes personality?
There are 2 kinds of women with big boobs
>They like it
Big egos and high maintenance. They like the attention it gets them and enjoy being highly sought after.
>They hate it
Will hate you for liking them. Expect you to feel sorry for her. Will get chopped eventually anyway

>>33315911
F
Yes especially on hot days
Further details will not be provided as wank fuel
Mine turned me into a cynical bitch who ended up on 4chan.org

>>33315951
Too late I was already wanking.

Nativeanon
I fetishize your people for some reason. I feel so bad about what’s happened to your people in the past. Please date me. I’ll try to give you the best time of your life, so much so that I will make you love every single woman there is. I can change your world view.
>t. Non-white

>>33315922
Just hobby stuff
>>33315925
+13
>>33315929
Uuuh, it went alright I guess. I asked her if we could talk again and she asked if we could wait a bit longer and that she wasn't ready yet. Curious to see if she's gotten over what she was going through enough to get back with me or what. Originally we were just supposed to not spend so much time and energy on each other so she could grow on her own a lil and get the help she needed but then everything just got worse really fast

Women am i allowed to hide and play video games all day while you are on your period?

you don't have to console me, i know i've changed

>>33315948
idgi, but have fun

>>33315920
Yes it’s certainly not an easy feat. That’s why I’m so happy the genre is getting more and more popular. The creativity of human beings is finally being unleashed to give us all our ideal sexual fantasy.

>>33315954
i bet this is what he wants

>>33315867
>>33315928
In your fanfic, does your self-insert character use a double-headed dildo fuck their sister?

>>33315964
Because I was molested

>>33315961
did you hint in any way that you saw what she liked?

>>33315920
Well maybe they could do an actual realistic love story that isn't just wish fulfillment for incels/femcels

>>33315962
I hope your gf finds you, drags you out of your little manchild burrow, beats you senseless and breaks your videogame console.

>>33315963
you wish

To whoever told me adding corn to coleslaw was "a lot of fibre".
You are correct.
You are oh so very correct.

>>33310572
>Are you constipated?
No, but I am now the VERY OPPOSITE of constipated...

Since I've been sweating like a pig, I mostly ate coleslaw the past three days and, to put it short, it's green and runny.

>>33315962
Can’t I sit in the back, like a closet, while you play? I’m not a burden (I think) and stay quiet all day. I don’t have to say anything at all. On my period or not.

>>33315966
Yes.

Sounds good enough. Carry on and who knows, maybe this will make your relationship better going forward.

>>33315977
>Since I've been sweating like a pig, I mostly ate coleslaw the past three days
As in, because I didn't want to cook or eat anything warm.

>>33315972
>>33315979
Oh... i thought you wouldn't want me around

>>33315981
bro is delulu

>>33315967
I hope so

>>33315480 (OP)
>go OKCupid
>get 20 likes
>like 1000 women to get a match
>only get match out of it
>send them a message
>they pass
Fuck me

>>33315975
i wish i was who i was back then

>>33315970
Oh hell no LOL

>>33315969
Well that's different. First, sorry that happened to you; second, that's a different thing. Even if you were molested incestuously, I'm not talking about molestation. I want consensual consanguineous coitus.

>>33315992
who could have seem that coming

>>33315977
How dumb are you…?

>>33315962
Yes, and it’s not sexist to do so.
Please treat my period as if I had an awful migraine.
It’s nothing personal, I just want to be alone in the dark and quiet.

>>33315971
They could - and it's good when they do. But I'm not going to dismiss the unrealistic wish-fulfilment either. Some people are more drawn to the grounded, realistic, others are looking for something more extreme and pandering. Sometimes this is also tied to being at different stages in ones life. It's okay for all of these things to co-exist, they don't take anything away from each other.

>>33315992
My 40 year old cousin met his wifey there

>>33315996
Absolute filth

>>33315944
What about the family member who told you? I assume you probably didn't feel ready to ask the questions that have occurred to you since, back when they told you. If it bothered them enough to bring it up, there's also a chance they remember much more and have reflected on it since.

>she didn't seem surprised...
I mean if your brother was masturbating in the living room she'd have to bury her head pretty deep in the sand to be surprised. Doing it in the shared space is like a cat or dog pissing to leave their scent, it's very dominant behavior and it's no surprise that someone drawn to "leaving their mark", or maybe just the taboo and thrill of getting caught, would also do it in your room...

>I can't bring myself to feel anything but sorry for him.
No need to. You should not have to feel any other way than you do. You can pity him and still in your actions do what you feel is right to protect yourself.

The pitying is super common and it can have many reasons. His behavior IS pretty pitiful/sad. Pitying him also makes it easier for you - if he is sad and broken then he wasn't an evil sexual predator. And it makes it easier for yourself not to lose yourself in anger, which can also be a risk.

The important thing is it could be that your feelings remain this way. It is also possible that after the initial shock, revulsion/anger/sadness etc will come, and that is fine too. Feeling your emotions is how you process emotional damage, it is just difficult when those emotions are old and very painful to truly tackle, especially if they have been buried for long.

Again you should try to give yourself all the time and it is important not to forget you don't have to decide now if you want to cut ties with him and if not, how your relationship will look. Putting all those decisions off is also giving yourself space for your feelings and wants/needs to develop. You have enough to worry about for now without those questions.

You are very welcome!

>>33315999
NO BULLI

>>33315971
What, like NTR and other bullshit? Like modern hollywood?
Let them have their fun. It's stupid to pander to people who are barely straight and don't even enjoy sex and romance.
Mind you, I don't watch anime because it's too childish. But this kind of thinking is how Hollywood turned into this garbage right now.

>>33315738
My old gym had a female only section, so I guess so.

>>33315750
I mean... yeah. I don't like a lot of the trappings of dealing with children, I just want to have had children, and I want to homeschool. I don't want to rely on the state to take care of me in my old age, and I don't want to die without passing along my genes. But do I want to change diapers? Not even slightly.

>>33315817
M
Don't have a sibling but absolutely yes.

>>33315986
I wouldn’t mind a guy being around me, but I didn’t think you’d want me around lol

>>33315968
nothing so complicated as that. i prefer to write what i know, so it’s mostly just a lot of kissing lol

>>33316009
That sounds very Kawaii

You have a place you post this stuff?

>>33316006
>ntr
Where'd you pull that from? I mean like normal shit dog none of that cuck cheating bs. Like 2 people that love eachother for actual reasons and no haremshit or degradation

>>33315759
This, retard >>33315768

eat all incek

>>33315884
Logically I know that you're right... Even for my birthdays, he doesn't even remember to call me or anything. I wrote him a big note with his b-day presents and he didn't even open the envelope. It just feels a bit unbelievable to me that he *actually* doesn't care...
I always talked a lot about how proud I was of him for forming a band, and being able to compose. I really just wanted him to like me. And now it feels like I'll never have that from him

>>33315891
I want to forget this but I know I can't, especially knowing our previous fights while we still lived with our mom were relevant to the whole thing.
I think I'm having a really hard time with this because this means I can't ever expect us to have a normal relationship. I, again, maybe it's just because I'm the youngest sibling but I really just wanted to have him in my life.

>>33315901
> is it possible to just convince yourself that whoever told you about all this is lying?
It's my immediate thought. But deep down I know this won't fly... Especially because my grandparents had hinted at something like this before, and I only really connected the dots when I was told exactly what happened... My aunt is very protective of me around him too, has been for as long as I can remember... Too many things make sense for me to ignore it.
I really wish I didn't know it. Or rather, that this didn't happen at all...

>>33315914
>If what you write is true and he has avoided you out of guilt, that is a promising sign that he is reflective enough as a person to know what he did was wrong and condemn it to the point it burdens him, too. That can be a way to forging a new relationship.
This is kind of what I'm wishing for...

Thank all of you anons, I just feel like the rug was pulled from under me, and it's being a bit overwhelming.

>>33315988
the girl seems like she might just be emotional and made a mistake, and now she regrets it since she realized she's not getting anyone better than OP. that's how people end up married

>>33316019
de
lu
lu

>>33315992
I used it for a while. You are using OKCupid wrong, you are ALWAYS supposed to send an intro, it's free dude. Intros show your profile straight up unlike that blurry picture shit every other app does.

>>33316005
>Dumb enough to catch pasta that’s halfway in water on fire
>Dumb enough to take a picture and showcase what you’d done
>Dumb enough to not get an extinguisher immediately
You deserve to get bullied for that.

>>33316025
ATTENTION WHORE

under the sea, by the urchins, nobody knows you have mommy issues

>>33316025
Nta
You think . ... he actually took that picture? Lol youre the dumbass th

>>33316025
anon… thats an old meme pic

Plap

>>33316014
That's reasonable. I thought you meant classic romance is too good and it has to be darker and nastier. But yeah harem/reverse harem dynamics is a good way to only get 1 gender viewing.

>>33316031
Good think I don't then

>>33316033
Yes, I did. I believe what I believe, dumb cunt. Go and die already.
>>33316027
Says the nigger who posted the photo.

>>33315980
Cute couple
What are they from? Any outright smut?

>>33316013
AO3 under a pseudonym ofc

>>33316035
Plappy 4th of July!

>>33316038
under the sea, where the wild amoeba live, nobody has access to your browser history

>>33316000
>treat menstruating gf like she has a headache
femoids is this good advice or am I being tricked

>>33316017
you'll be alright. a big thing to reflect on is that it's lucky you turned out alright despite all of this. should be proud of yourself for that

>>33315738
What kind of swingers gym is this?

>>33315817
>would you kiss your sibling on the lips for a big discount on gym membership?
No, as hilarious as that would be.

>>33315848
>brain blown out by back shots
You have my attention

>>33315871
The worst thing about 9/11 is that it started making people consider Italians white.

>>33316042
then post it here, coward

>tfw my mtf trans cousin has a gf
damn

>>33316025
lmao ok thanks for cheering me up. :3

>>33316042
> pseudonym
Weak. I would use my legal name and LinkedIn profile pic

>>33316045
Now that would be more embarrasing
Probably enough to kill myself over

>>33316004
>What about the family member who told you? I assume you probably didn't feel ready to ask the questions that have occurred to you since, back when they told you.
I told her to not tell me more because it's frankly too much for me. I don't want to know details... But apparently it was really, really bad. Not just a small mistake thing, from what I gather.
>If it bothered them enough to bring it up, there's also a chance they remember much more and have reflected on it since.
They brought it up in the context of him being a bit of an asshole to me recently... I struggle a lot with wanting his respect and wanting him to love me as much as I love him.

>You can pity him and still in your actions do what you feel is right to protect yourself.
This is true... I think for a start I need to stop feeling like it's my job to fix this shit. Because I keep defaulting to thinking I can fix the situation and that I created it.

>Again you should try to give yourself all the time and it is important not to forget you don't have to decide now if you want to cut ties with him and if not, how your relationship will look. Putting all those decisions off is also giving yourself space for your feelings and wants/needs to develop. You have enough to worry about for now without those questions.
It really means a lot that you took the time to help me with this.. It's still difficult but it helps me ground myself. It just feel very surreal.

>>33316048
Then what are they dipshit

>>33315750
I don't want kids though, it's one of the reasons I avoid relationships
>>33316033
It's an old meme photo kek
>>33316040
>What are they from? Any outright smut?
>>33316040
The Coffin of Andy and Leyley, it's a comedy horror game
>any outright smut
only degenerate fan stuff

>>33316053
you know where you can hide *whispers „under the sea“*

>>33316023
According to Chat GPT, people can only see intros if they are already match.
I dunno if that's true, but considering they are intro is accompanied by auto-like I think so.

>>33316046
I mean, it’s pain that you can’t do anything to help with, so… yeah? Please leave hurting people alone, regardless of gender

>>33316060
why do you talk like an underage nogger?

I fucking hate women.

>>33316064
Why?

>>33316050
If xhe can get a gf, what’s your excuse?

>>33316060
>According to Chat GPT
Stopped there…

>>33316064
you‘re welcome

>>33316064
Get in line buddy.

in orbit, nobody can smell your eczema

>>33316055
The ones who killed Christ

>>33316064
I am content with women

>>33316067
i really don't know, shit.

>>33316064
No one cares. Kill yourself, thanks in advance.

>>33316064
What's your favorite animal that doesn't have 4 legs (any other number is fine)

I have no strong feelings towards women one way or the other

>>33316060
>chatgpt
kek retard
Anyways it's dead wrong. You can read intros in the intros section from your likes and see the full profile of whoever sent you one. It's 100x better than sending a like. Women have 10k likes becase okcupid is retarded and doesnt let you turn off likes from people from africa and philippines. ALWAYS SEND AN INTRO.

>>33316064
I hate humans in general but it only matters with regards to women.

>>33316071
imagine being alone on the ISS with eczema

Men, I admire you and your opinions matter to me a lot.

>>33316083
nobody can judge you for scratching and skin flakes under the nails

>>33316072
Too dumb to know what “middle easterns” are called? Uncredible.

Straight women, I’d like to clarify that men only think you’re insane because you’re not attracted to women. That’s how much we love women.

>>33315951
Cynical because guys only liked u for ur breasts?

>>33316086
Hell yeah, women like sisterkissers

>>33316080
NTA but is it worth the time? Or is it mostly pointless sending intros to 3000 women that won't reply?

>>33316086
The feeling is definitely not mutual.

listening to japanese muisic :3c

>>33316094
I know. That's okay by me.

>>33316086
This would make me feel better if it was true
But you don't know me

>>33316086
<3
>>33316094
bruh
>>33316095
based, which music?
I'm playing cardcaptor sakura in a DJ mix rn lel

>>33316095
What muisic are you listening to lol

>>33316093
This is what I'm thinking as well, it feels intros might be just likes with extra steps

the psychological effects of being talked to by a good looking man who's a head taller than you

>>33316086
I'm gonna cry

>>33316083
>>33316088
>alone in space and the resupply rocket crashes while carrying your anti-itch cream

>>33316095
死にたい季節 is my fave

>>33316102
Another extra question, what should intro be?
I like to comment on people's hobbies and ask question, hopefully it asking something about thier profile causes them answer

>>33316105
PLAP PLAP PLAP
GET PREGNANT

>>33316091
i always wondered why women complained about that
if people were willing to tolerate my personality because my body was just so, soo gorgeously irresistible... like damn that sounds like a win-win. You get to have the personality you want, AND have a partner. Nice.

>>33316097
I don't know you, but I appreciate men's existence in general.

>>33316105
It used to make me feel insecure
But now it doesnt
I see him as a person and not as "Chad"

>>33316080
Riddle me this. If that's true, why does sending like auto-like them? What purpose does that serve?

>>33316109
alien sperm it is

>>33316105
Me comparing myself immediately and not feeling worthy of him talking to me.

>>33316054
>I don't want to know details...
Understandable. But realize you probably will not feel that way forever, because you are clearly interested in trying to forgive your brother and that is hard to do if you do not know what there is to forgive.

But it is good that you know if you change your mind, you know who is a better person than your brother to go to for information. Again it is fine to shelve it for as long as you feel the need to. But you still might feel the need to so it's good to know you do have someone who could shed a light on it without losing their own mind.

>I struggle a lot with wanting his respect and wanting him to love me as much as I love him.
Try to take this information as a sign that your brother's inability to fully connect with you is about your shared past or what he sees about himself in you - not about you as a person or his feelings for you as a person. I would guess this is also why the family member told you, so you can understand him being distant in a different perspective than it being a reflection of yourself and how much he values you.

>I keep defaulting to thinking I can fix the situation and that I created it.
Incredibly normal. It is a way of damage control and trying to protect both him and yourself. It'll go away (as long as you are strong enough to not actually fully push down what you heard and actively try to forget it), but it'll take time. You can't reason your way out of it. It takes time for the conceptual knowledge that you were a victim to feel even remotely like something meaningful to you. At the same time it'll happen on its own as long as you process your own feelings on it. That might even be easier to do now that you do not have the full picture at all, might make it easier to leave aside questions like how it happened in favor of what it means to you.

The time means nothing to me, I am happy to be of any help at all. It feels surreal because it still is and it will take time.

>>33316086
If my opinion mattered to you, you’d stop wearing bras

>>33316126
we need some celebrities to start normalizing girls with small boobs going braless
they can say it's a feminist thing and we can pretend we hate it

>>33316090
Even the straightest woman would gladly kiss other women

Went to the shoe store and damn the cashier was so fucking pretty. I knew better not to but it fucking sucks I can't. But I might see her again next week when I pick up my shoes (had to order, they didn't have my size).

>>33315492
Nigga you're a vassal state to communist superpower getting us addicted to fentanyl

>>33316105
>Yeah, no wonder I'm perpetually single.

>>33315548
No man has ever say that. Only women hate other women for being sluttly/promiscous.

>>33316114
The tolerating turns into violent rage the instant you say “no”, anon

Women what are you doing for the fourth of july and how fat are you?

>>33316093
Women don't message first unless you are male gigachad, and if they do they send a 'heyyy' or a 'ur cute' anyways. It saves some hassle that way, and it basically guarantees they see your profile. So it's kinda worth it.

>>33316144
rat BBQ, ausschwitz

>>33316144
Sitting here crying.
I'm not fat, according to my bmi.

>>33316143
damn, i wish i looked like this >>33316105 so girls could fantasize about me going into violent rages

>>33316079
This somehow upsets me more than hating me

>>33316145
>it basically guarantees they see your profile.
People on R*ddit claim, they only see newest intro, and all other are hidden until block or answer newest intro

>>33316146
why you upset anon ):

>>33316151
Because (You) want attention

>>33316054
>>33316125
Again try to give yourself that time, to give yourself grace. If all else fails and you do find yourself judging yourself, imagine your friend was in this situation, then it usually is easy to feel they just need to do whatever they need/feel is right and to be easy on themselves.

If you open up about these topics - which is good for your healing process as long as you do it when it feels genuinely right - be prepared people will not understand some things most likely. They might even get angry on your behalf that you're not angrier with your brother. Or the other way around, put pressure on you to forgive him because he was a kid. They could want to know all the details and not understand why you don't. Or you try to tell all the details and they can't understand why you don't want to forget all that.

It is a learning process but try to realize most people don't have a clue what they are talking about when it comes to something like this. Most people don't even realize how difficult it is to lose someone close to you, which is a much more straightforward and less taboo situation than yours. Their judgments or lack of understanding show their own reluctance to think about it too hard, their own fears etc. Healing from something is a very personal journey and others can never know as well what you need in that as you do, so don't make anyone question yourself if your gut tells you something.

Of course it can help to seek professional help (if you have the means to), but it is super common to need time before you are able to plainly discuss a topic like this with anyone, let alone someone who has expert knowledge on it you don't.

As you can tell it is also a struggle trying to give you tips for the future without making you feel like you have to follow these 10 steps to get better ASAP - when it's never like that. If you are the kind of person that processes well from reading, I definitely recommend Judith Hernan's Trauma and Recovery.

>>33316155
?

>>33316144
I went to a parade earlier and I’m considering fireworks tonight
A good ~15 lbs overweight, but i like to think it’s in all the right places

>>33316151
I can't really have an opinion on women when I don't talk to them

>>33316100
https://youtu.be/nJ6A6GC_ki4
https://youtu.be/Q9cT5EAEGyk
https://youtu.be/jbBoVcagnpo
https://youtu.be/exLxJBLHNoM
https://youtu.be/8mdoVpSQ7GY
https://youtu.be/Ofp_EXCWI6E
>>33316101
why did you say lol whats so funny

A long time ago when I was still a virgin I went to a club, danced with a 30-something yo woman with really nice bobs. We got to my hotel and got naked and kissed etc. At some point she was about to go on top of my dick and asked if I had a condom. Then I kind of tried to say I wanted a bj (never had one) but I didnt know how to ask and I think I just tried to signal it. For some reason she got offended by this and left. Now I wonder is this not done during a oje night stand or something? In hindsight I wish I just got the damn condom but alas...

>>33316144
Here in Brazil? Nothing.
I’m pretty slim with a thick ass.

I wish he would tell me my pussy looks cute :/

>>33316144
>Women what are you doing for the fourth of july and how fat are you?
I smoked chicken quarters for my fiancée and I'm 19% body fat

>>33316151
Nta
I mean how could I? The only women I know are my mother and sister. They're nice but that's not enough to form an opinion about women as a whole. And besides should anybody have opinions on a gender "as a whole" at all? There is no such thing as All Women, only individuals. Being neutral is the only logical way to think about it

>>33316086
But why tho?

>>33316169
>wanting your pussy to be compared to other pussies

American femanons, what's your plan for tonight?

>>33316169
You should ascertain that it's actually cute first by getting some third party opinions.

>>33316171
This is like the ultimate denial of humanity, though.
>I deny my biological programming
>I deny my life experiences
If you are neither nature nor nurture, who are you?

>>33316130
I would hate it

>>33316086
You know how easily /atoga/ moids get attached. Quit playing games with their hearts.

>>33316176
IM A MAN EEEEEUUUURGGHHH *flexes muscles*

>>33316175
well I do want to know if it's cuter than any other pussy he's seen

>>33316178
I think it is...I don't know what men consider cute tho

>>33316165
I think the issue was probably that she was already making clear she was ready for sex. I would guess she might have taken your comment to mean you were not hard enough for that yet. Or she could have taken offense at the gesturing itself.

In general I think plenty of people that are open to a ONS are also open to having oral. I would advise you not to outright ask for blowjobs if you are not looking to give head yourself too, though, that is a pretty selfish look.

>>33316160
oops I mean to reply to this person lol sorry >>33316148

>>33316176
way too hot for fireworks so I’m going to play diablo 4 alone and topless

>>33316179
I'm not "denying" anything. I am attracted to women. But that doesn't mean anything, all straight men are attracted to women. I don't really have much life experience with women. All that points to is the best answer to "how do you feel about women," is "I don't know"

>>33316165
how did you lose your virginity since

>>33316176
Wearing this

>>33316169
I wish women would want to associate with me willingly at all

>>33315905
It’s nice to be validated, feels good when people find you hot. It’s not fun when it takes up a huge chunk of time I’m trying to spend on working out.
And it’s not a requirement to be a shitty person, are you scared to be yourself

>>33316185
>I think it is...I don't know what men consider cute tho
If only there were an anonymous collective of moids somewhere who you could provide with pictorial data to learn from their insights.

Foids
It is my understanding that the guitar has gone from a good instrument to a cringe instrument in the eyes of women. Is piano still a pussy magnet?

>>33316200
moids here have no standards it would be a worthless metric

>>33315911
F
No and no

>>33316163
ayy you got fantastic taste anon, pretty sure I've seen you posting stuff here before
Akina Nakamori is such a babe
that Minuano track is so sexy too
gonna sampe em lol

>>33316201
Who the fuck cringes over an instrument?

>>33316176
The second "what" is redundant

>>33316185
I think you can make an educated guess, anon
Nice and small and symmetrical

>>33316201
somehow I think playing any instrument has become cringe, it smells performative

>>33316187
I see. I already did do a bit of oral on her but not all the way. Still felt so stupid afterwards though.
>>33316195
Another ONS with a girl around my age but 6 months later. Didnt go very well either but at least I lost it there.

>>33316191
the idea of a sweaty femanon playing video games topless is way too erotic

stop giving me random boners

>>33316212
brutal
I'll cut my hands off then, that'll make me interesting and unique

>>33316212
>smells performative
But it's something you need to practice all the time without applause or audience before even being able to play it for others?

>>33316176
Too late, they're already getting dicked

>>33316182
that's the spirit!

>>33316215
make music, but make it in solution, make it for yourself, like meditation

>>33316217
if the end goal is admiration then it‘s performative

>>33316212
that’s it then.
effort is cringe.
men, just give up and die.
but don’t be too good at it! that would be cringe.

>>33316211
but men said they like fat pussies. make up your mind...

Gender
What is your favorite part of the day?

>>33316207
yup. this is alos a great track, i recommend you watch the movie first though because the scenes it plays in are so good. i've been listening to it while watering plants lol
https://youtu.be/P3Ld5b3wEfs

>>33316227
effort is not cringe
effort for the sole purpose of getting attention is cringe

>>33316202
only because they imagine all the femanons as pretty rich blonde white girls

>>33316232
f, 3am

>>33315500
My cat would never allow me to hold him like that
What game is that btw?

>>33316236
truth EXPLOSION

>my dad wakes me up at 8 to go to a fucking buffet worse than my freshman dorm dining hall
>I forget to take my meds or shower
>I pass back out and he won’t stop to wake me up and ask when I’ll be ready to leave
>drag me and my sister out to port and constantly takes photos of the tourist shit
>wont stop walking
>does not ask me or her what we want to do here
>he walks twice as fast as my sister and never tried to meet her speed
>has zero awareness of how annoyed either of us are
>4 nonstop miles and counting
This man doesn’t even know I was recently forced to go to the mental hospital

>>33316232
M
The hour or so before sunrise

>>33316227
am I allowed to blame gen X for starting this mindset or is it truly a millenial thing?

>>33316232
M
Whatever time of the day dance class/social is
Which today there is none because I'm sick :(

>>33316213
No need to feel stupid, you miss all the shots you don't take. The thing is although I get it being due to awkwardness, straight up saying "hey I've actually never had a blowjob yet, could you go down on me for a bit?" would have gone over better than gesturing. A gesture in itself kind of implies you are asking for something obvious/small. When asking for a sex act someone you don't know did not already initiate, is not like that and should just be asked straight up.

Also the fact you went down on her and she did not spontaneously return the favor already gave a hint she probably doesn't love doing it or did not feel like it then and there. Just in case you decide next time you want to minimize the chance of asking for something they don't want. Asking is always allowed though and you never know, for some people simply being made aware the other person's mind is there and they really feel like it, also makes the prospect of that act more interesting.

>>33316240
monhun
desu i like making cute brown girls in it more than i like playing the actual game.

Imagine even the concept of cringe. Couldn't be me

>>33316232
M
Right after lunch, when I can relax before dealing with whatever bullshit life throws me that day.

>>33316242
You should say something to him

>>33316250
cringe

>>33316254
I dont even believe in the concept so it can't bother me

>>33316255

If tomorrow every single woman woke up as 10/10 models overnight, hair and race etc stay the same, but each one gets d cups+ 45 hips and tight waists with perfect faces, nothing would change in how men already treat them all.
If tomorrow all men woke up as Chad women would start crying and shitting themselves, and mass suicides would ensue because they can no longer listen to their bodies by going to the most perfect men alive, if all men are perfect they would be overwhelmed like a compass pointing everywhere, and would go insane before all killing themselves.
This would be the prelude to a pretty cool LISA type game where all the surviving men are muscular and kill each other, but it still just goes to show how stupid womens nature is.
Anyway that's all I have no question, enjoy!

>>33316244
My take is gen X was the generation that considered everything "trying too hard" and fetishized detachment and irony. Millennials like detachment and irony but have zero issue with trying hard. Gen Z combines them all and often thinks sincerity itself is cringe.

>>33316258
huh

>>33316176
If you don’t ask me what I’m doing on bastille day, I’m going to be pissed

>>33316237
i imagine femanons as either overweight or anorexic with unkempt/messy hair, bad skin, self-harm scars and/or stretch marks as well as various flavors of mental illness and a long history of various kinds of abuse

>>33316212
>tfw women don't find harmonica solos to be panty-droppers anymore

>>33316253
Never

>>33316242
Kek. I sympathize with the fast walking, I am always leaving everyone behind. I had a friend lately that was the only person who walked as fast as me. Damn I miss that girl.
But other anon is right, you gotta talk to him or this is gonna be your entire trip, especially if your sister is shy.

>>33316232
F
First coffee in the morning

State gender

Why do you believe empathy exists?

>>33316265
those times are over jeff

>>33316264
>>33316237
ngl I imagine everyone here to be really well-dressed and good hygiene and good-looking LOL.

>>33316228
“Small” as in no dangly bits
Puffy vulva is cute too

>>33316264
and they probably have yeast infections

>>33316269
f, so we can coexist at all, since we are programmed for tribalism

>>33316269
M
iunno it jus do b like dat
>>33316267
everyone i know says i walk too fast, and i realized that it is partially because most of the ppl i know aren't from the city we live in so they're not used to the HUSTLE N BUSTLE lifestyle

>>33316235
sweet, thanks for the cool recommendation
>>33316232
M, going to bed
>>33316242
he does sound like a bit of an autist desu lol, maybe you can explore more just with your sis next time, and skip the buffet if it's crap
also set alarms for your meds maybe <3

>>33316214
even if she’s flat? or is this exclusively a titcow fantasy?

>>33316269
M
I don't care
I'm just glad it does

>>33316269
Survival, it can’t be done alone

>>33316261
TLDR
If all women were hot nothing would change
If all men were hot women would go insane because their internal compasses would malfunction and they'd kill themselves

>>33316273
>“Small” as in no dangly bits
every pussy has labia though unless you get them removed and they're usually asymmetrical. some cultures get them cut off at birth
porn was a mistake

>>33316269
F, for learning, observing others and being able to see why they do what they do is a lot easier when you can mentally "put yourself in their shoes". Empathy cannot be untangled from imagination itself, they feed off each other and enhance each other and you need both to grow as a person.

We are deeply deeply social beings and traditionally (and in many cases still today) social death is pretty close or equal to real death. Actually feeling someone else's emotions (cringing when you see someone hit their head hard) allows you to be much more natural effortlessly at providing others with what they need and what will make them value you. This builds and strengthens the human tissue that allows for the trust you need to work together on a larger scale.

>>33316232
M
When I manage to fall asleep

>>33316269
M, from an evolutionary pov it makes sense that the species overall works together for survival rather than massacres each other

>>33316284
maybe. idk.

>>33316227
I’ve been training for this moment my entire life

>>33316262
I'll make a reminder to ask if you're tits out for Bastille Day

>>33316269
M
Because humans are a tribal species for whom getting along is important and feelings of empathy, at least towards the in-group (but occasionally also towards the out-group), is one way for evolution to achieve that. Since I experience empathy myself (I was tested when they were diagnosing my autism and I score pretty highly in being empathetic by autistic people standards, at the lower end of normalcy even), I consider it likely that others do so too.

which one of you fags is this?

>>33316232
F
Late night after my parents go to bed because I’m a loser who lives with my parents

>>33316297
Me too but I get up early to avoid them.
High five!

>>33316269
M. It's obvious if you talk to people from the old world.
When you spend all day around people you're related to, you have a vested interest in helping them with shit and taking care of them.
It only stopped making sense once we started spending all day around assholes that hate us or migrants from Gujarat.

>>33316295
...I think that's me.
Is that why he ran out in such a hurry last night? :(

>>33316237
This is why it’s important for me to keep reminding everyone I’m an ugly Asian with zero tits

>>33316259
Glad I'm a sincere tryhard
I will rule over my fellow zoomers

>>33316307
cute

>>33316295
OH god I hope I never end up like that

>>33316281
Nta but I fantasize about topless flat girls too

>>33316258
I thought LISA was a sex game for some reason

>>33316295
Least gay moid of ATOGA

>>33316264
“Overweight” for a woman just means big tits
Women literally cannot lose

>>33316312
I mean kind of, in theory the fail screens could lead to rape in some cases but no one did it because the loli and what not.

>>33316272
Might be true. The guys here at least, work very hard to (over)compensate for our autism.

>>33316163
just flipped the Manuano track heh <3 https://voca.ro/122vaVPblfgE

>>33316315
they would be flabby pancake tits

>>33316315
And fat arms and abdomen and face
And they're tits are oftentimes still small
You're delusional

>>33316280
I swear to god my dad took me some hillbilly ass concert to hear some shitty ass music about how “gawd loves merica and gawd bless our troooops” and it doesn’t even start for over an hour and we have to sit in dirt. And he won’t stop taking pictures of us without consent

I swear to god my patience is being tested. I can’t tell him off because this is basically his trip and he paid

My lack of medication is getting under my skin, I want to cry. I could be in bed right now

>>33316312
Well the whole premise is that the last woman is a little girl and everyone's trying to rape her and impregnate her meanwhile men are all having gay sex and dressing up like women to cope with no women in their lives

>>33316269
f
it’s a useful evolutionary trait, nothing more

>>33316311
thanks anon, you are a champion of equality

>>33315663
That's the thing. Women don't like nice guys.

>>33316281
yes, even if she's flat, which reminds me of the new yofukashi no uta season.

>>33316320
woo!

>>33316324
>shitty country concert
When exactly was this
Last summer?

>>33316269
F
Yes but moids don't use it

>>33316324
>My lack of medication is getting under my skin, I want to cry. I could be in bed right now
aw, dw I'm sure a few hours you'll be in bed and can rest and set an alarm for the meds tomoz
yeah iktf when you just don't wanna be somewhere but just remember your dad has good intentions kek. just try to have a laugh and enjoy bits of the murica concert at least lol

>>33316332
*Foids don't
Men used it too well and realized how women behave and that they have none.
So we don't extend it past that point of finding out.

>>33316331
>when?
Right now, I’m liveblogging

>>33316319
>The guys here at least, work very hard to (over)compensate for our autism.
I think I'm reasonably well-dressed and I have good hygiene but I still don't talk to women outside of this thread.

>>33316308
Same here. Cringe comes with life sometimes and some things are legitimately worth cringing over, like saying something totally inappropriate without thinking. But the price to avoid cringe is way too high and a lot of the time it feels to me like
>but are those people not even aware of how bad they LOOK while having fun??
from people who don't realize you never remember the looks only the fun itself.

rare loot drop

>another Friday evening of seeing gigachads pick up girls in the city
Thank god I have gacha to soothe my soul or I'd go crazy

>>33316285
>porn was a mistake
maybe, but which do you think is easier?
>eradicate all porn
>make more porn, but with accurate labia

>>33316346
is it chadcock

>>33316332
What's fucked up is that when I was working in healthcare I wasn't very empathetic, but after I quit I ended up caring a lot more about other people.

>>33316324
Based boomer dragging his daughters to get some culture
In port at a deep south city, I'm guessing?
If it's a cover band and not a real band you have permission to insult them, though

>>33316349
in a way

>>33315829
maybe its because i can't have what i want

I just wanted to go to Sephora and a museum

>>33316329
I will now watch your anime

>>33316357
then go

>>33316342
I try to force myself to but I don't really get along with normies. Looking back it was kinda fun to get dressed up in blazers for dates but I was just wasting the girls' time. I wish there was a dating app for talking to introverted girls, that would be amazing.

>>33316357
what were you going to buy at the meme store? overpriced perfume?

>>33315500
You'll call me a crazy bitch if I put him in my sims game.

>>33316360
You should. It's unironically great.

>>33316365
No, but I'd call you a fat bitch

>>33316357
Maybe you should get a job and a car
And then you can go anywhere you want

>>33316303
o/

>>33316327
No thank you
I'll imagine your sexy sweaty body wearing nothing but panties later

>>33316368
Fuck you, fat shit.

>>33315492
Canadians are retarded and only good for fucking, that isn't even remotely surprising
>>33315500
This kid is a faggot and I really am concerned that I might have to be in a season of effeminate balless men until I die of a high speed collision at 53

>>33316361
My dad refuses to accept that I’m older now and never considers that perhaps I might enjoy shopping for clothes or makeup

As for the museum, it closed an hour ago. It was too far away to be worth bothering either of them over. I really wanted to go because it was on a college campus I wanted to visit. I tried hunting to them I wanted to go but I guess because neither of them went to college they don’t care much about collegiate culture

>>33316321
As opposed to what? Muscular spherical tits?
Boobs are boobs anon, you can’t go wrong

>>33316357
I wanna go to ulta and the museum.

>>33316372
\o

>>33316377
You WILL be his little princess forever
You WILL miss him when he’s gone

>>33316379
tits on obese women are indistinguishable from their belly fat rolls

I want to eat at waffle house at 3am then buy a gun out of the trunk of some dudes car in the parking lot

>>33316357
Surely you don't expect me to go to sephora with you

>>33316370
I had a job up until I got admitted to the psychiatric care unit and accumulated some personal savings. I didn’t want him to buy any makeup for me. It’s just that the Sephora and ulta and my home closed around when I got old enough to go to them

I can’t travel by car right now because I’m at a cruise port lmfao pay attention

Stop assuming all women just mooch off the men in their life

>>33316375
Eh, getting mad online is probably the closest thing to cardio you do. You should be thanking me, and yet instead you're acting like I've touched a nerve. Which would be really fucking impressive, given how much deeper than average yours are.

>>33316377
next time i mean. you're an adult. do shit you want.

>>33316385
I’m going to level with you, anon
I like women
I like touching women
Their soft skin feels wonderful
If it’s their belly or their tits, I don’t care

>>33316388
sign me up

Men and women, do you really find comfort in other people? Can they make you dismiss every judgement or insecurity? Can they make you feel normal?

>>33315655
No, I domt watch shoes because I don't live in the pod
TV shows is also an extremely shallow way to bond with a person you trust with your pets, home, and bank account

>>33316390
I just thought you were a neet sorry

>>33316388
i should get some male friends so we can do things like this together

>>33316395
stay away from me

>>33315684
We have reached the point where my mere existence is considered sexual harassment.

>>33316399
M
If I have a person around me then I can mirror them a bit and be more normal
The longer I'm alone, the weirder/worse I get
But that might just be autism

>>33316399
do you really find comfort in other people?
yes
Can they make you dismiss every judgement or insecurity?
no
Can they make you feel normal?
i'm not normal.

>>33316399
f, no, anything but solitude makes it worse

>>33316403
what, you think women don’t like waffles?

>>33315750
Sounds like most women I've talked to who want kids.

Women, rate your bush

>>33316404
Sure, but my 8 billion bros won’t
You were born into a body made of sex, and that’s just the way things are

>>33316414
2/10, I don’t know what the hype is

>>33315655
M
It's dumb
Television and movies are dumb and shouldn't exist

i just had my period two weeks ago why am i bleeding again

>>33316414
shaven

>>33316388
just a normal day in America I imagine
guns n' waffles
>>33316416
bro thinks there are 8 billion men on the planet

>>33316403
>acting like you can't do that with your girlies

>>33316419
Are you over or underweight?

>>33316399
How are these questions related?
Other people are great, and they solve some insecurities but create new ones too. Idk what “normal” is.

>>33316399
M. I don't know exactly what you mean, but to me "judgments and insecurity" are part of the journey to convincing people to be in your life. You have to suffer through their gauntlet, pass their tests, go through their judgments, and jump through their flaming hoops until you're good enough for them. Then, the mission is complete, and you can rest a little while (you still have to keep up whatever you've been doing, but that's not too bad). Someone like me (us?) will never be normal, but you try your best to mimick a normal person adequately enough to have them in your life for a while.

And it's good.

Some people are just wired differently and don't need anyone in their life. I envy those people more than anyone else in the world. Because money, height, good looks, success, charisma, none of it matters for a nanosecond if you don't want people in your life. The only way to be totally free of other people's judgments is to be entirely alone. To deal with people you will spend your life paying and suffering, and you have to accept that if it's what you truly desire.

>>33316427
normal

>>33316419
Maybe you stole mine, I am a week late already.

The reason women hate seduction and books about actual seduction (not pick up artistry, actual long term seduction) is because they rely on tests and trials to filter men and decide who is worth committing to. If you study, plan, and artificially create tension, release, interest, chemistry, etc then it's like your studying for their tests and are able to discern what answers will please or upset them. You can't seduce someone who isn't willing or has some level of attraction to begin with. Those types of women are indifferent to you, but hatred, disgust, contempt, admiration, curiosity, lust, etc all offer movement and you can proceed from there.

They hate knowing that they've been manipulated. They hate thinking guys out there are openly planning these things and view them as problems to solve but they love the results of focused attention, tension, storytelling, discovery, and resolution. If they could actually tell the difference then they wouldn't hate it so much. They hate it because it is effective and indirection is their language and they feel way more comfortable dealing with guys that are straightforward and in their power. When you attack their emotions, manipulate them, and use their own language and manipulations against them it really fucks them up and makes them do things they wouldn't normally do. They're immensely vulnerable to actual seduction.

>>33316086
>I admire you
Thank you
>your opinions matter to me a lot
but it shouldn't.

>>33316330
rock n' rolll
just looped the beautiful Akina Nakamori track also lol https://voca.ro/1engcLmmnFfk
have a nice friday night bro

>>33316419
Sad

>>33316417
It's hot

>>33316419
You’ve been afflicted with Anti-PCOS I’m so sorry

>>33316405
Sorry anon, i was in a bad mood when i typed that. I’ve cooled down now and you’re allowed to have sexual fantasies about me from a respectable distance.

>>33316419
You're being punished for shaving off your bush.
Stop it.

>>33316436
It’s hot how? It’s hair. Hair is gross

>>33316435
ƪ(˘˘) ƪ(˘˘)ʃ (˘˘)ʃ
you have a good one too

>>33316421
I was counting the men in the secret moon bases too

>>33316443
i do for hygeine not to appease moids i'll never fuck

>>33316429
>The only way to be totally free of other people's judgments is to be entirely alone
I think this has more to do with mindset and being in an enlightened state desu than how many people are in your life
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGgQkbWGOgA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7eYW0d_rRXA

>>33316444
>hair on head good
>hair on cooter bad
Who made these rules

>>33316419
Your body wants you to have children so it's increasing the rate at which you ovulate just in case. Best start listening to it or you'll start ovulating once a day.
Medical facts right here.

>>33316431
congrats on your pregnancy!!!

>>33316448
I hope it kills you

>>33316399
Anon i am not normal
I can take or leave people, enjoy their company so it's a fight between that and my enjoyment of being on my own

>>33316399
F, yeah, I very much do now. I would not say every single judgement or insecurity of mine is fixed by any given social interaction, but overall I also feel there is no single thought/insecurity/judgement I hold that no person would be able to move for me.

Others don't take away your insecurities by kissing your ass, if you do it right you just lose yourself in the connection and forget about yourself for a bit. It feels pointless to fret about yourself in the company of someone palpably enjoying you - the way you think, the company you offer.

I haven't always felt like this by a long stretch, though. I have had a depressive spell and back then other people definitely could not get through to me and I would typically avoid them because being around them made me feel even worse. No longer lonely but alienated and all that.

>>33316269
M. Because it's not that hard to imagine that other people might have feelings just like you do.

>>33316444
Cuz it is
Idk why god made me that way

>>33316448
>>33316453
You just love the quality time on /atoga/

>>33316433
I think that most seduction/pick-up artistry is complete bogus aimed at exploiting marginalised men, which doesn't work better than random chance. While women dislike the 'idea' of it working, I think they're worrying about a complete fiction.

>>33316449
don't reply to me with that rat bastard, he owes me like $15 for making me read his book.
and didn't the real Buddha literally walk out on his wife and kids once he became "enlightened"?

>>33316414
I like my bush and would rate it 8/10. Not 10/10 because I'm sure there is always better. But it's thick, it has nice full coverage without going all the way into thighs/buttcracks/belly so it's a nicely separated area. It looks impressive from afar. 8/10

>>33316450
Men

>>33316444
it's hot by proximity since it's near a woman's pussy

>>33316433
Well, yes. I don’t dislike that stuff because it’s wrong, I dislike it because it’s deeply unromantic. Flirting is no fun if you write it all down.

>>33316460
>You just love the quality time on /atoga/
I don't love hearing about women mutilating their bodies

>>33316458
Hair is obsolete now that we invented clothes
We already lost most of our body hair, only a matter of time before pubic hair gets phased out in the next update

>>33316450
i like hair everywhere desu i'ma freak nigga

>>33316377
It's like every post you make is calculated to be infuriating

>>33316463
Post on redtoga

>>33316417
You too

>>33316399
I think my fantasy of other people is very tenuously connected to the reality of other people, at best.

>>33316464
You mean jewish porn directors

>>33316463
impressive

you should be in sales

>>33316467
They don't like you either

>>33316460
my favorite posts are women saying “it’s validating to be called a retard on 4chan because men would never say that to my face”
our shitflinging brings the genders together

Men say they like bush and then squirm when they see a hairy butthole

>>33316480
i like hairy butthole too but im a freak

>>33316414
>Women, rate your bush
9/10. I keep it perfectly maintained, I just wish it wasn't so curly.

>>33316471
redtoga still exists? is it actually Q&A or just hornyposting?

>>33316442
Apology accepted. I'm sorry my existence makes you uncomfortable.

>>33316445
thanks buddy <3
gonna go hang with IRL people now lel
>>33316446
>secret
cat's out of the bag now
>>33316448
based hygienic anon
>>33316462
>owes me like $15 for making me read his book
lol his videos are free
bro has to pay the bills
>literally walk out on his wife and kids once he became "enlightened"?
tbf they were balling with loads of servants, it's not like he was going to get milk from the store
he must've smoked some good shit tho

>>33316480
hair on cooter good
hair anywhere else bad

>>33316480
yeah true
i don't want to feel like this guy >>33316295

>>33316480
F
I think it's a primordial fear of dingleberries

>>33316480
The only time a woman's butthole was too hairy for me was when she somehow had more hair back there than I do, and that was only an issue for eating her ass

>>33316480
I'll wax it for you.

>>33316475
Get your bush now. Yes you'll think, it's fucking hot, climate changes, what in the world? But if you wait until that cold starts creeping in, all the ones with the best coverage WILL be gone and that regret WILL be your reality. Do not see me as your salesperson but as a friend who gently advises you to consider your own best interests. A friend who feels a lot of warmth for you and wants you to have that warmth all throughout the seasons. A friend who has more in common with you than you think?

Interested? Make sure to sign up TO-day.

M
I have a lot of body hair
How would I go about shaving everything off from the eyebrows down

>>33316480
I plead guilty.

For the ladies:
What's going through your mind when you have a nightmare about you bf that goes like this
>we went to a party and you immediately slept with this blonde chick

Anons, which circle of hell do you think you'd go to?

>>33316491
i don't understand how anyone is afraid of that unless you're extremely dirty and don't clean your butt wtf

>>33316464
Don’t forget the dykes
They share some of the blame too

>>33316480
And?
Assholes aren't pussies

>>33316500
Pride, no question.

>>33316461
Seduction isn't pick up artistry. Pick up artistry is a numbers game. Seduction is tailored and focused. You have to know whether a woman wants to be a writer, whether she feels trapped in her daily life, whether she is insecure about her southern accent, whether she thinks people only value her for her beauty and secretly desires someone to engage her mind and compliment and desire her intellect, etc. You're specifically targeting things they miss or lack, and then you fulfill those things and make her rely on you while wanting to know more about you. Then you either cause pain or insecurity to make her weaker, or insecure.

It sounds bad, but tension and resolution and fulfilling fantasy and desires is deeply effective. It creates a feeling of really being seen.

The entire process is immensely different than pick up artistry which is lazy and flippant.

>>33316497
use a trimmer, the philips oneblade with the set of body guards works
just watch out, it will be prickly and itchy until the cut ends soften

>>33315480 (OP)
i've been alone since i was born, and maybe even before that too. i know i'm supposed to restrain myself, and that any admission of loneliness would just push you away. i learned that i should hide it, but that doesn't make the loneliness go away. i wish i had my first kiss, i wish i held someone's hand. this feeling of loss makes my heart and mind tremble, and i hesitate to reach out, i don't want to push you away. you, who were never near me to begin with. i know my wish is selfish, that it offends you, that you should be my compensation, i'm ashamed of it too.

i just wish i knew you...

ITS SO OVER I MISSED THE ALICE THREAD ON V

>>33316499
my hatred for blondes increases slightly

>>33316508
So prideful that you come up with a new circle, impressive.

>>33316506
Assholes naturally have wiry hairs on them
It's all or nothing bushfags

>>33316500
I want to go to the one with sexy demon girls but I'll probably be sent to the degenerate one to get sodomized

i got to you but there was nothing left

>>33316499
I've never had a dream like that. Having it in itself I would say typically mostly means you feel insecure, whether in your relationship or in general. Telling your partner about it even more so, probably hoping to hear him say he would never.

>>33316505
anon, i have to ignore dykes or I’d go insane. i already devote all my brainpower to ignoring men. remembering that some women also want to fuck me is just too much.

>>33316500
Am I supposed to have memorised a silly 14th century italian's fanfic model of hell?

>>33316509
>tall handsome guys write shit like this and think they're Casanova
>women pretend it worked on them because it's less humiliating than admitting they did everything he wanted because he's tall and handsome

>cockblock your son and your daughter throughout their most emotional and horniest years
What does this achieve besides turn your son into a lifelong virgin incel and your daughter into a massive whore or femcel?

>>33316526
>understands the reference, but doesn’t recall the details
that’s a yikes from me

>>33316497
Trim everything short first then shave. Use new razors. Wet the razors and use lots of shaving foam too. If your skin is sensitive, apply aloë vera after, or other ointment if you prefer.

Prepare for irritation. If you keep shaving diligently and taking good care of your skin, you will get less ingrown hairs over time, but it is expected at first.

>>33316500
M
Probably lust or maybe greed depending on how exactly "greed" is interpreted

I want to cry this is so stupid I want my meds

>>33316528
My parents thought I was gay after that lol

>>33316466
Seduction doesn't tell you to write down your flirting. It tells you to deeply study your targets, don't think about what your going to say, and instead focus on embodying your targets spirit and mood. You literally empty your thoughts and mirror her and then make her feel chemistry and connection before pulling back.

>>33316528
Traditionally I think a lot was inspired by being afraid of your son or daughter's life being tanked early by an unwanted pregnancy, when they're not mature enough to be parents yet, with a person they are wholly incompatible with.

>>33316528
It's jealousy, your parents are not your friends

>>33316497
Why would you?

>>33316534
What, you don't like country music?

Well, off to sleep, again wondering if I'll ever get the feeling of somone cuddling with me. When will it end?

>>33316537
yeah, you couldn't just do pill, abortion, "you're just insecure if you care i was the village bike" in the old days

>>33316496
Feeling very bullish about bush already.

>>33316540
shes probably listening to some gay ass morgan wallen nu country gay cowboy bullshit

>>33316528
My parents didn't teach me anything about interacting with women

>>33316480
Today I learned I'm a trans woman

>>33316480
I don't even like own ass hair

>>33316500
Heresy, Gluttony, Limbo, or Lust, probably. In that order of likelihood.

>>33316512
shit, I was playing it the other day too lol
we'll get em next time
>>33316534
deep breaths anon, the cuntry music will be over soon kek
it might be kinda fun though
>>33316499
tfw my ex was mad at me once and it was because she dreamed that I cheated

>>33316535
>>33316538
>>33316547
Truly, it's a massive sabotage.
>>33316537
Traditionally boys and girls would be wed and bred by 15. Compatibility is made, not "found". And if they aren't "mature" enough yet, that's what parents and grandparents are for.
This custom of cockblocking one's children until they have irreparable psychological damage isn't even 100 years old.

>>33316535
my mom also thought I was gay lol
she didn't cockblock me though she gave me condoms and told me to go get laid, I was just a nerd

>>33316527
>The incel says as history literally shows "gargoyle" - like, short, fat men cucking wealthy attractive husbands that left the seducers with their wives because they felt utterly safe doing so because there's no way their wives would fuck guys like them.
>The women write about the experience saying "I don't even remember what he said but I could feel seen and there was music to his voice, before I knew what had happened I longed to see him again and was thinking of him in my husband's bed, I had to see him again."

Gregory Rasputin fucked so many women it isn't even funny. This balding rapist looking motherfucker was balls deep in hundreds of women. Because he offered them spiritual repentance though sinning with him.

>>33316536
Those parts are fine, just not the ones where conversation with women is treated like an RPG dialogue tree
When that fails, men tend to blame women, not the script they were using

>>33316557
>boys and girls would be wed and bred by 15. Compatibility is made, not "found"
y'all niggas say the wildest shit here sometimes

>>33316556
The country music hasn’t even started they’re just firing cannons and I want to cry they’re so fucking loud

>>33316559
My dad straight up asked me if I was a 'fag' and now both of them are begging me to find a gf and have kids before they die. My sister has kids and they moved to her house to take care of them but they're obsessed with having a son and carrying the family name on lol so they're still upset that I haven't found anyone yet.

>>33316499
>we went to a party and you immediately slept with this blonde chick
Hot

>>33316500
>which circle of hell do you think you'd go to?
In the context of Dante, probably the fifth circle. I'm a very angry person.

>>33316503
>i don't understand how anyone is afraid of that unless you're extremely dirty and don't clean your butt wtf
Because wiping only does so much.

>>33316564
You're talking about pick up artistry. That's where it's tutorials on how to talk to women and make small talk and synch "the deal" or whatever. Seduction is much longer term and is primarily about the process of tension, release, and giving the target what they lack and then leading them into a journey of distraction from everything mundane.

>>33316565
The wildest but truest.
And it sounds wild to you only because you're too used to lies.

>>33316570
So your sister only has daughters? She needs to keep trying then

>>33316557
>Traditionally boys and girls would be wed and bred by 15.
This isn't historically accurate for most times and places. In times/regions where good quality food wasn't readily available for everyone, girls would get their periods a lot later than they do today and would only get married after. For big families, the incentive to keep a girl in the house longer and have a free live-in babysit was much bigger than to let her marry the first guy who ever showed interest.

In the past men would explicitly be encouraged even in some societies to live out their sexual urges with hookers so they could marry rationally and not wed the first girl they liked. Got this from Stefan Zweig's "World of Yesterday".

You are right that just how long a child is typically living at home and how much control a parent has over the private life of a child they don't live with, is relatively recent. But the parental urge to have their kids focus on sensible pursuits rather than sex and infatuation has been around for a long time.

>>33316573
i mean like use a bidet or wipes or just make sure there's no shit on your butt or idk rinse off in the shower if you can?

State Gender
Who is your favorite Naruto character?

>>33316570
My parents say they don't care if I live with them forever and even if I never get a gf as long as I'm happy
But I'm not happy, i wish i had a woman, and I would feel pathetic living with them after like age 22
I unironically wish they would kick me out like a couple of cruel old boomers
Maybe it'd teach me to be an adult

I can't make threads, I'd appreciate anyone's perspective on this:

I went on 3 dates with a girl and sent her a text saying I lost interest. For the reason why I stated that I was feeling a lot of pressure because she was calling me things like the love of her life already. I didn't even feel like I knew her yet, not even to mention if I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her.
She'd also go back & forth on being sexual, sending me suggestive texts or reels and then getting anxious about it being too much too soon. We had sex; I asked her a bunch of times if she really wanted it before we did, and she said yes. She got really anxious after and it scared me, as I got the feeling that I did something wrong.
She was a very impulsive person and I told her that it didn't fit me because I value discipline a lot.

Despite wanting to spend more time with her, I felt like I should cut off contact before she gets attached a whole lot more. I just wasn't developing feelings on the same pace as her.

My question is, was I too harsh? Did I do the right thing? I really did not want to hurt her, I'm terrible when it comes to rejection.

>>33316557
>>33316578
To add to this, the whole concept of a "spinster" which has become wholly outdated now, usually also boiled down to a child (typically the oldest daughter) who was basically unable to have a personal life of her own because her life first revolved around looking after her siblings and then looking after sick or aging family members. Every community used to have a person here or there who would simply never get to start a family of their own in that way.

Now I'm not defending that but you are delusional if you think parents obstructing the love life of their kids is a recent invention.

>>33316500
Limbo, even though it was shut down in 2007. I’m not baptized, but I haven’t done any evil so i would be hanging out in the neutral zone

>>33316578
This is bullshit. Don't fall for the made-up records by the jews.
Think about it, friend. When are humans the horniest and most fertile? In their teens. All it took for the boys to impregnate the girls was a couple of minutes alone, be it behind a barn or in the nearby woods or under the tall grasses.
You think they were waiting until fucking THIRTY, when women are almost menopausal, to have children?
Reminder that testosterone levels were way higher back then with no microplastics and poison in the water and the air and the food.
Who would fall for those obvious lies?

>>33316566
aw rip, well hopefully once the music starts it'll be more chill
maybe in future get some earplugs for such happenings
>>33316570
rip, yeah my mom wants me to have kids but tough shit desu
>>33316585
nah I think you did the right thing, better to nip it in the bud now rather than lead her on more. sounds like a recipe for disaster desu if you kept dating

>>33315659
Then you should date me

>>33316578
>posts the country with specifically the oldest marriage age
Disingenuous much?

>>33316580
M
Never watched Naruto, but I still know the characters. Sasori

>>33316585
F, your actions make total sense to me. She was a mismatch to your personality, you recognised that, and you quickly let her know to avoid wasting anyone’s time. It might feel bad in the short term, but it’s the adult thing to do.

>>33316585
I think you did the right thing mainly for the first point. As for your second point, her really wanting sex and her feeling anxious after aren't as conflicting as they might seem, a lot of people have a bit of a come down after sex in one way or another (men usually just lump it under post nut clarity). And her being impulsive when you aren't is possible but not a given, people can both enjoy being similar or appreciate the other person all the more for offering a wholly different perspective, changing you, making you grow in a different direction.

Buuut her putting that much pressure on you both does not bode very well and it means if you would continue dating her, you would have to go through the whole "am I leading her on already?" spiel a lot.

>>33316579
I have a bidet for this reason, but you can't really trust other people's hygiene

>>33316580
>Who is your favorite Naruto character?
F
Obito

>>33316588
But anonie the romulans are there!

>>33316515
Keeping in spirit with the reference material.

>>33315480 (OP)
Got offered another wagie job because a manager saw me working hard. It's $2more an hour.

Let's fucking go!!!

Hey, women, anything you are watching or watched that you enjoyed?
It will probably not be my taste but i'm interested to know what kind of stuff women watch these days

>>33316589
That they got married late doesn't mean they didn't have sex. People in the past did not have BC but they did have home remedies and they knew about pulling out. It also used to be a lot more common to pass unwanted newborns off as your mom's or older sister's if necessary to keep your decent image alive. Historical clothing was not figure hugging and you were supposed to hide a pregnancy in the first place so there was more leeway there.

>>33316592
It is just one I remembered seeing. Here's another one, less dramatic but still a far cry from fifteen year olds marrying.

Need to fuck a woman in a disrespectful way before filling her with my cum

>>33316574
i think it's just a different kind of esoteric hogwash that men tell themselves to feel more confident

>>33316598
Isn’t that a Star Trek thing?

>>33316603
I would say for series Fleabag and for novels All Fours (Miranda July) both were huge for female audiences. Watched/read both and also personally really loved them.

>>33316580
M
Shikamaru

>>33316576
My sister has a son and daughter, but my parents want me, their only son, to have children. It is what it is. It's also not high on my priority list right now because I'm more worried about money and finishing my degree.
>>33316583
But you seem to know what you want, what's stopping you?
>>33316590
Yeah.
>>33316580
M
Zabuza

Women, why are you like this?

>>33316605
Now you're moving the goalposts.
First it was "nooo they didn't have sex nor babies nor marry reeee", now it's "w-well, they d-did have sex and babies, b-b-but they didn't marry!!! so you're wrong!!!".
What do you think the purpose of marriage is, retard? It's to ensure the kids are taken care of and the parents remain together. It's nonsensical for the horny teens to have sex and children but not marry.

>>33316528
Idk
When i was in college I didn't think I was in position to get a gf
Now I'm 30 and still don't feel like I'm in a position to get a gf

>>33316614
nag but I think it's because when they say "I hate this man" what they mean is "I am thinking a lot about this specific man because I like him, but he does a lot of things which drive me up the wall and I also think I rationally shouldn't like him. But I do". In other words it's the girl version of when a guy decides to stick his dick in a girl he called "crazy".

>>33316602
based dude, get that moneyy

>>33316614
Not all of us, I've never been with anyone I didn't like, let alone anyone I hated.

Still though I feel a lot of the time women claim to hate a guy it is just a preemptive thing because where they know they like him and try to play it cool. Note how often a playful or exaggerated "I hate you" is used as a retort to banter or sexually charged teasing.

Hell I have had a male friend who did the same, any time he would assure me a girl he knew was "pretty insane" I knew he was attracted to her and trying to pretend he wasn't.

>>33316613
I know what I want, I have no way or idea how to get it

>>33316528
Perhaps some cocks SHOULD be blocked.

>>33316585
She sounds crazy but the state of women in 2025 is really bad, so you may have to resort to worse options and regret losing that one.

>>33316606
No, what you need is your balls cut off. No one wants to read your coomer shit, go to /b/ or something you little goblin

>>33316611
>All Fours
I'm not sure I want to look this up

>>33316616
>Now you're moving the goalposts.
I said from the start your premsie that throughout human history it was the norm for fifteen years olds to marry, is historically delusional.

No interest in going further if I just get called a retard. Read a book on history if it actually interests you beyond wanting to use it as an argument.

>>33316589
Waiting until 30 is modern, but people did make their kids wait until 19/20.
Impregnating/getting impregnated by some idiot when you're 14 is a bad idea, period.

>>33316614
Because it’s fun to take a man i hate and mold him into someone fuckable.

>>33316602
congrats anon!

>>33316627
I mean the novel is pretty explicit overall but the premise isn't, it's just about a woman having a midlife crisis basically and asking her self what makes life worth living. It's also just really funny.

>>33316589
Pregnancy complications in teenage mothers is really common and it was really hard to handle them before modern medicine. Teens are far less likely to have fully developed pelvic bones that can support a babies giant head, before c section the mother would literally die with no option for saving her and rarely the baby. Being pregnant as a teen often harms your long term health because the resources your body needs to mature are being diverted to the fetus.

The idea that you’re most fertile as a teen only arises from the fact that women can’t create more eggs for themselves after birth so probabilistically it’s impossible for fertility to increase after menarche. However that doesn’t mean that’s the right time to give birth

Btw the reason most girls are precocious now is because of childhood obesity. Puberty starts when your body thinks you’re big enough to start being an adult. There is no internal clock that ticks down to the day you turn 10 or 13 or 16 or whatever. That’s the same reason menopause and erectile dysfunction is happening at younger ages. Society isn’t taking care of children’s health the way it ought to. Arguably the childhood obesity epidemic is making children in the 5-15 age bracket collectively far less healthy than our ancestors were at that age.

>>33316607
I'm seducing an art hoe and over the last few months I've spent time learning about her world and characters paying attention to the themes and how her characters and ideas reflect her. I've recorded our conversations and after the fact have used a journal to record thoughts and observations and then timed being busy over the past few weeks to make her insecure and worried. Then as it was her birthday (she turned 26) and is getting closer to 30 I predicted she would be feeling down and thinking about her future and reflecting on her life. I waited until she reached out (she did) and I gave her a poem I wrote her as a birthday present. This was a bait gift as after her birthday she said my gift was her favorite and then I surprised her saying it wasn't the actual gift and I gave her a small video game I made using her art and characters because I knew paying attention to those aspects of her character instead of her beauty and other stuff would mean way more especially combined with her anxiety during the period.

It fucking worked, hard.

>>33316596
i cannot trust other peoples butthole hygiene now
ANONS YOU ALL HAVE NON POOPY BUTTHOLES RIGHT?? YO UBETTER.

>>33316578
>>33316605
From the very wikipedia article you're using:
>In Greece females married as young as 14 or 16
>In Roman law the age of marriage was 12 years for females and 14 years for males, and age of betrothal was 7 years for both males and females
>In the 12th century, the Roman Catholic Church drastically changed legal standards for marital consent by allowing daughters over 12 years old and sons over 14 years old to marry without their parents' approval, which was previously required, even if their marriage was made clandestinely
>The minimum age requirements of 12 and 14 were eventually written into English civil law. By default, these provisions became the minimum marriageable ages in colonial America
>In France, until the French Revolution, the marriageable age was 12 years for females and 14 for males.
>In medieval Eastern Europe, the Slavic traditions of patrilocality of early and universal marriage (usually of a bride aged 13–15 years, with menarche occurring on average at age 14) lingered
And the Netherlands case, where age was supposedly 30? It was made that age SPECIFICALLY to LOWER BIRTHRATE. In other words, it was NOT NATURAL but an external population control measure.
Your next cope will be that of your pic, namely, that only rich people married young and everyone else waited until menopause.