Thread 11346821

Time Heals All Wounds edition

>related hentai
>greentext
>monster girls
>general lewdness
>doujinshi recommendations
>anime/manga recommendations
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
>cuteposting
>vocaroos

>What is Role Reversal?
Role reversal is exactly how it sounds. This is when the male in the relationship takes on the roles that are traditionally female such as looking after the home, household finances, cooking, cleaning, nest building and maintaining rather than being the breadwinner.

>What is Gentle Femdom?
Gentle Femdom is when the woman in a (generally sexual) relationship takes on a dominant role, and does so in more loving, tender, and gentle fashion then is usually seen in traditional, stereotypically BDSM style femdom.

Thread Question: Do you have a favorite position or way to hold or be held by someone?

FetLife Group
https://fetlife.com/groups/121948

Smolbrit's guide to getting your own gfd relationship:
https://pastebin.com/fv3PeGXF

Forum (it's dead lol):
http://gfdrr.freeforums.net/

Map (I hope that this works)
https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fgfd%2F+%2Frr%2F

I remembered the title this time around!

The last one of these was ~three years and one mod shakeup ago. Hopefully, the legitimately cancerous and toxic elements of the old threads have disappeared back to whatever /r9k/ thread they came from, while the qualityposters are still floating around

That said, I'm still posting this.

>DON'T make all caps or complaining posts about bait, this just provokes more while doing nothing, as much as that hurts your feelings, it's true.
>DON'T fall for the bait, even if you have a raging opposition to the poster's politics, left OR right, alt or not, it's still off topic to respond, especially when you just want to jerk your own opposition
>DON'T post with out a picture UNLESS you are putting down good textual on-topic contribution
>DO start dumping material - 10+ pictures is a good start
>DO start trying to revive a thread topic or genre that fits in the thread, even if the topic concedes to one side of the argument, e.g. conservative bread winner/gun owning waifus, or whatever goes for the alternative.
>DO ignore and report b8 and shitposters
>DO start asking ON-TOPIC questions in the thread for people to answer

tl;dr don't take the bait. Qts don't like that.

Keep this thread civil and on-topic!

Animated film:
>Garden of Words

Live Action:
>Angel-A
>Tramps like Us (Drama version)

Anime/Manga:
>Witch Craft Works
>Freezing
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>Infinite Stratos
>Accel World*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Amagami*
>Oji-san to Marshmallow
>Claymore
>Mizutama Honey Boy
>FLCL
>Rosario + Vampire
>Photon: The Idiot Adventures
>Bakemonogatari

Manga/Light Novel:
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Otoyomegatari
>Sensei Lock-on
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Natsuyuki Rendezvous
>Otomen
>Kimi wa Peto/Tramps like us
>Hokago play
>Game Over
>Takane no Hana Nara Ochitekoi!!
>Tsugumomo
>Ore x Yome
>Altina the Sword Princess
>Ane no Onaka o Fukuramaseru wa Boku
>Utsuro no Hako to Zero no Maria
>Waltraute-san no Konkatsu Jijou
>Jomungand
>Arms peddler
>Girls of the Wilds
>Green Boy
>Onihime VS
>The Legend of Maian
>Puppy Lovers
>Ookii Onnanoko wa Suki Desu ka?

Visual Novels
>Junipers Knot*
>Hustle Cat (Mason route)
*/gfd/ is not the main focus

>Hentai list
http://pastebin.com/jVY1dAeb
>Doujin list
http://pastebin.com/5w7qgrM6
>Vocaroo Pastebin:
https://pastebin.com/ua9DuVTb

Post anything you'd like added to the list!

GFD Story List:

Taiyakisoba:

The Dragon's Heart:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/6475483

Absorption:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5343203/chapters/12337505

The Vixen:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5202542/chapters/11990246

Under the Falcon's Wing:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/4653132/chapters/10613943

The Leprechaun's Charms:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3645492

The Sentimental Succubus:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3241379/chapters/7061726

A Taste for Christmas Cake:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/3145253/chapters/6822353

Takeover:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2779652/chapters/6235439

Wings of Desire:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2760794

In Her Argent Embrace:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2606318/chapters/5806514

Bringing the Heat:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2454164/chapters/5439332

Love-Love Umbrella:
http://archiveofourown.org/works/2219088

SifSub:

Until you are:
http://pastebin.com/KbnXtAbp

My manager is my mistress
https://web.archive.org/web/20170330000655/https://pastebin.com/TJAvFqgf

I don't bite
https://web.archive.org/web/20230228033427/https://pastebin.com/hWmZEyjb
Others:

Pretty Human (by Sea Foam):
http://seafoam.pbworks.com/w/page/77839289/Pretty%20Human

Love You to Bits! (By EnielWings):
https://web.archive.org/web/20170330000240/https://enielwings.deviantart.com/art/Love-You-to-Bits-Moge-ko-x-Male-Reader-601305872

Escape from the Bermuda Triangle
http://archiveofourown.org/works/5737978/chapters/13222708
Assassin (by DAGDAMMIT)
http://pastebin.com/yhxfhU8T
Rain, Rain, Go Away by Cynical_Writefag
https://pastebin.com/S2Pf0wF0
General Cynical_Writefag Pastebin
https://web.archive.org/web/20170317213920/http://pastebin.com/u/Cynical_Writefag
Bandagedboy
https://pastebin.com/u/bandagedboy

>>11346821 (OP)

I don't think the thread's going to revive if there isn't some type of détente between the sect that thinks of GFD as a more loving and less insulting form of Femdom BDSM and the sect that doesn't want any actual BDSM in their expression.

Without that, it's going to go straight back to "pain isn't gentle" vs "I love you, I paid the power bill, please give me an orgasm isn't Femdom" over and over and over again, no matter how long's it's been.

>>11347009

meant for >>11346823

>>11347009
I honestly don't think that some level of debate about what is and isn't gfd is necessarily a bad thing. The issue, as I remember it, was that this thread was a). literally incapable of not swallowing bait like their lives depended on it, and b). literally incapable of having any sort of discourse without it devolving into the most toxic shitflinging you'll see outside of 9k or b
I feel like if people can just behave themselves, things will go a lot smoother
>people behaving themselves in a gfd thread
I know. I'm very naive.

>>11347025

I'd be thrilled to see it go well, get everybody under a big tent, and push all the various forms of this kink forward, but I've been hoping that for a while.

I'd love to live a comfy life, making a girl happy and taking care of the house for her. Living such a pampered existence would be so beautiful.

>>11347025
I promise I'll try to behave as best as I can, anon! What is a good thread like?

I want nothing more than a girl to dominate and embarrass me by making me dress up as Astolfo and do lewd things in front of her while she teases me. She'll tell me to put the costume on and jerk me off slowly while telling me "good boys hold in their cum" and I'd try my hardest to hold it in until I'm a whimpering puppy in her arms until she finally lets me. Wish I could somehow safely find a way to live out this fantasy even if it's just jerking off on a webcam

>>11347055
>a good thread
Ppl would greentext their gfd experiences, talk about fantasies and things that they liked, post good images, and writefag.
I've been meaning to write something for a gfd thread for a while. My LDR gf just kinda broke up with me, so maybe I'll have the time now

>>11347064
Do you think you'd look qt as Astolfo?
If you can pull off the femboy look, I'm sure you could find a woman whose into it.

>>11347109
I'm 5'6 and pretty skinnyish so with makeup I can probably pull it off. Problem is finding a girl yet alone one who's wiling to do this with me

>>11347112
In my experience, personal ad subreddits and /soc/ are good places to try.
We also have a map for this thread, so if you want to be a guinea pig for that, its worth a shot, at least

So, how's everyone's week gone so far?
Anyone doing anything cool over the weekend?

>be a well-known and famous scribe/intellectual/writer of your empire
>naturally effeminate and cute
>influence countries and millions of people through your works and speeches alone
>even the empress herself is respectful towards you
>live a humble life always giving to the poor
>a proud citizen of the empire
>sought after a slew of suitors wanting you in marriage
>being too proud, you reject them all
>you think that the life of a househusband is not for you
>then a new war breaks out between your empire and an opposing one
>you work full time to boost morale and give hope
>lose the war
>your empire is in ruins, subjugated by an opposing empire
>you stand proud as ever as the soldiers take you away from your house and stripped of all belongings
>shackled and chained
>humiliated by being stripped of all your clothes and sold as a high-class slave to all the nobles of the new empire
>extremely fierce competition over your selling price
>going into the trillions
>suddenly the slave market is quiet
>the loud arguing of money stops as everyone in the market begins to bow down
>it's the empress herself
>the symbol of all that you hate
>refuse to bow to her due to your pride and stuborness
>apparently amused, she walks up towards you
>her robes hide her moderate bust, but being so close you catch a glimpse of her bare chest
>get a stiffy unwillingly
>her grin widens
>your cheeks turn bright-red from the shame of getting an erection,naked, in public
>she suddenly brings her lips to yours, violating your mouth
>her tongue begins to coat your mouth, marking you as hers
>you struggle against all your might, seething in anger
>yet the harder you resist, the deeper she kisses you
>she suddenly picks you up, carrying you princess style
>she drapes your naked body with her overcoat
>"You're mine now."
>With that she kisses you again
>this time on your forehead
>her body feels so wonderfully warm
>you try to escape from her arms but her grip is too strong to move freely

>>11347205
Not nearly as much as I'd like to. Studying some coding just for fun

bump
when i get home i have some old stuff i can post from a decade ago
welcome home /gfd/+/rr/

contributing

>>11347009
As long as you layabouts are going to wax poetic about being househusbands, here's a discussion I don't see on these threads much:

You fuckers can cook, right? None of yall oughta be whining about how nobody loves you and also living on Doordash and frozen tendies

>>11348507
... It's a work in progress

>>11348507

Know how? I went pro. People who think it's hard or expensive are just making excuses because they don't want to do it. Get a copy of Ruhlman's 20 (if you like theory) and/or The Four Hour Chef (if you're ADHD), an actual knife, a griddle, and a rice cooker and get started for less than $100.

Doesn't really matter, though, because I'm not here to wax poetic about about being a househusband, I'm here because I want to talk about the idea that a couple might want to engage in Female-Dominant BDSM because it's fun and they love each other. And maybe, God willing, share some media about it that isn't bog-standard industry ProDomme with a crunchy new age cult shell OR a bunch of crossdressing, shota, and pink cocksleeves masquerading as chastity devices.

I doubt I'm the only one, either, but there's little reason for any of us to participate knowing that all that awaits us is an endless stream of "Unlock your Creative Potential of Feminine One-ness by Joining my Patreon," "Waah, why don't I have a mommy I can fuck?", and a bunch of vanillas in denial claiming "BDSM is when both partners orgasm, anything else is abuse."

>>11348507
yeah
I'm pretty competent in the kitchen. cracking eggs with one hand always makes non kitchen types OwO

>>11349134
Aaand we're back to being toxic and dramatic for no apparent reason

>>11346821 (OP)
Been waiting for this thread to come back for a long time now.

I hope that I labeled these in order

>>11350154
This comic was always cute

But an a potential (gentle) hot take, femdom/FLR/gentle femdom/role reversal, call it what you like, the main thing that draws me to it isn't exactly the female "domination" (which honestly can fall heavily into the cringe territory) parts as much as it's the woman actually showing an aggressive/lusting instinct over the guy. The whole idea of someone actively pursuing you with clear intent is far hotter and more heart pounding then just the base that those offer. Not to say that some other fetish/kink elements would be fun to mix (would very much want that) but the idea of being someone's sole object of desire above all and that person taking the initiative to seek you out is the part that I think makes much of this attractive.

Almost none of what you guys posted has anything to do with GFD unfortunately... I wish this thread was a regular occurance on this board, but I guess this fetish is very niche. Well then, time to bring out the olives, I guess.

>>11350686
IDK, I think a decent amount of what was posted was gfd
Thank you for all of the images anon, you're the GOAT

>>11350732
That one's cute.

>>11350361
>the woman actually showing an aggressive/lusting instinct over the guy
>The whole idea of someone actively pursuing you with clear inten
>the idea of being someone's sole object of desire above all and that person taking the initiative to seek you out
I'd say that maybe its wanting to be claimed by someone instead of submitting to someone that makes it more attractive. I think it'd still be under the role reversal category, but there definitely some wiggle room there

>>11348465
>>11351117
what the fuck is this lobotomized cancer arstyle
looks like it was supposed to be some modern corpo advertisement type shit with the shitty proportions and oversimplified features
fuck out of here faggot

>>11350691

Dominant maids are so sadly underappreciated. Recently I had the thought of a maid who's employment contract included being a designated keyholder and I can't decide if I want to write a short story or a novel trilogy

It makes me happy to see a GFD thread! >>11346823 all sound like good guidelines to keep the thread afloat, ideally. My main issue with a lot of femdom threads is them degenerating into arguing and complaining about IRL sociopolitics, when I think most people would rather just talk about gentle femdom stories/scenarios/characters/art/etc. So be the change you want to see and all that

>>11346826
This list is a godsend, and I'm excited by how many things on here I'm not familiar with.

On the topic of recommendations, has anyone here read/watched Mato Seihei no Slave? I watched the anime a bit back and enjoyed it quite a lot - and thought it had pretty strong femdom overtones. It certainly felt like a /rr/ or /flr/ type thing, since the heroine is indisputably the one in command while the protag follows and supports her. But then I started reading some discussions online and saw people saying that the manga is more focused on domination loss rather than femdom. Which kinda hurt my soul deeply, since domination loss is basically the antithesis of femdom.

So I'm wondering if anyone who shares my inclinations has read the manga and can give me their take on whether it's worth it or not.

Unrelated pic of Fire Emblem's best Matriarchal archetype. Rhea did nothing wrong.

>>11348281
You drew that?

>>11346823
3 yrs ago?
Last time I went on /d/ I recall a GFD thread.
But haven't been here in a while.

>>11352124
Yeah, I think so
https://imgur.com/a/GJUPqpT

>>11352135
Assumed mods banned it for some reason.
I do know GFD threads tend to get pretty toxic for some reason

>>11352142
Most guys into this just have a lot of angst about most women hating this. and I used to as well but I just don't really give much of a fuck about 3dpd or what foids think anymore to care anymore. We also used to have attention whores come into these threads who would sometimes namefag and start fights too. Most people would say it was bitter incels that caused these threads to be "toxic" but I'd argue it was because of foids and normalfags scolding people more than anything.

And I ain't done yet

k8

There'll be another batch tomorrow
Also haven't posted anything for a while, is there an auto captcha that actually works these days? Joshi Koukousei v 0,60 seems to be broken for me

>>11352693
You deserve a medal

>>11352693
Thank you man, you're knocking it outta the park

>found my GFD folder
I'll add some to the mix, hopefully I don't repeat anything posted

>>11348507
You're the egg.

Here it comes

That's it for now
Btw do you fellas think that anal stuff in not really gfd because it's humiliating to a lot of men and it crosses into the degenerate fetish category?
Or can it be gfd and degenerate at the same time?
Cause when I was sorting through my stuff I thought "gfd is probably meant to keep your male honor intact as much as possible, so the anal stuff ain't it". Like, it's supposed to make you feel like a vulnerable one, but still, a man.
I personally don't mind it and even kinda into it, but if I had to strictly categorize anal play, I would probably put it into more common, bdsm femdom.

>>11353383
Another medal deserved - thanks for the continued goldmine.

I can only speak for myself, and everyone's outlook on gfd and what it constitutes/what the point is is going to vary, but my take:

1) I am perfectly comfortable with anal stuff being under the umbrella of GFD - either strap-ons or fingering or tongue stuff or what have you

2) For me, gentle femdom is almost more about being in a situation where 'preserving my male honor' is unnecessary and not expected, and I have a loving relationship with a woman despite that. (Or because of that, if it's a sort or role reversal setting)

I suppose I see it as roughly being a reversal of vanilla sex where the man is the more assertive partner. The man in this case is certainly going to be feeling more vulnerable and flustered - but only to the degree that a woman would in a stereotypical vanilla situation, where the man is taking the lead. I tend not to think of 'male dignity' or what have you playing much of a role - not sure how many other people do this, but I fairly often just imagine it being in a setting where sex roles are different and female assertiveness is just normal for whatever reason.

I actually feel like 'standard' BDSM femdom goes better with a proud, masculine man - it's easier to imagine a man kinda grimacing and "resisting" a dominatrix tying him down and whipping him, than it is a tough man blushing and letting a woman carry him or something like that. A standard domme kinda complements a masculine man, while gfd is more flipping the dynamic so that the woman is in the assertive position.

Just my take though. I'm sure /gfd/ is many things to many people.

>>11353383

It can be, but I don't think it has to be. For me, GFD implies:

1) a loving couple
2) an underlying respect for each other as people underneath whatever kink elements are being indulged in
and 3) some mechanism by which he yields to her direction.

And with that definition, lots of things *can* be GFD, if done in a loving, fundamentally respectful, female-led way, anal include. Simultaneously, it isn't necessary that it must be. The number of options on the BDSM menu is wide and vast, and that one is picked is much more important than which one is picked. That goes for the GFD sub-list just as much as it does for the whole.

>>11353383
a good observation
it's a completely subjective standard
>it's supposed to make you feel like a vulnerable one, but still, a man
a lot of people into gfd are drawn to it over baseline femdom because of masculinity insecurities. the distinction is completely arbitrary and people argue over it all the time because what sets off one person's insecurities might not set off another's
anal can be gentle or rough, but gfd isn't really about gentle vs rough. it's a subject that even the suggestion of makes a lot of people feel emasculated so I'd consider it not gfd

>>11353383
>can gfd be degenerate
Gonna lead with the disclaimer here that I feel I'm a switch (male) so expect a bit of a dual/slightly alternative perspective

But in short, everyone's dynamic in a BDSM power based play relationship (femdom or maledom and then to 24/7, TPE, weekend/bedroom only, D/s, M/s, etc...) is going to have some variations. You may have a couple who is 24/7, but the only sex they enjoy is "vanilla" or you may have a once in a bluemoon weekend but pull out every fetish you can think of when you engage in it.

Now personally I do think a lot of kinks/fetishes (impact, bondage, sadism/masochism, pegging, etc...) could be wrapped under "gentle" BDSM umbrella, but the defining element I see isn't much the actual play as its the under/overtone of it. If I were domming/topping someone, obviously assuming typical agreed consent, etc... I'd happily have my way with them and be very well be focused on what I want, but I wouldn't (unless wanted) ever deny my partner pleasure and ideally once im satisfied using her, I'd make sure she'd still get off, obviously by my hand or action whether that'd be during the scene or even during aftercare, but during that phase it would be laced with love bombing and basically just building them back up and reminding them how much they mean to me/they're the only person I want. And obviously same goes in reverse, if I let my partner dom me, I'd happily indulge in whatever it was agreed upon for her as long as afterwords I'm given that same treatment of being built back up/cherished/lovebombed into pleasure by her.

>vulnerability/role reversal/female assertiveness
>>11353565 makes a good point on this, the notion of the woman actually being more defined by the assertiveness and actually pursuing and/or trying to sweep the guy off his feet so to speak isn't necessarily the norm for femdom, but I'd say that isn't necessarily femdom in it's own right either

>>11353565
>>11353938
>>11354016
>>11354116
Thanks for the replies, it was very interesting to read what you guys think

Some animated ones as a cherry on top,

>>11353565
>2) For me, gentle femdom is almost more about being in a situation where 'preserving my male honor' is unnecessary and not expected, and I have a loving relationship with a woman despite that
I'd agree with that.
I think a more or less even, egalitarian relationship can have femdom or gfd vibes, as long as that's in place. I think the most important aspect is moreso that breaking down of male resistance to that idea of true equality.

>>11355484
>I think the most important aspect is moreso that breaking down of male resistance to that idea of true equality.
I think that's a very articulate way of putting it

>>11357203
How is he washing that down?

>>11346821 (OP)
>role reversal
nigga this shit is so astroturfed now it's not even /d/

>>11350687
God I wish that were me.

>>11350154
This is literally me and my gf anytime she eats my ass. Damn. Same fucking dialogue, almost word by word.

This was a good thread
We should do this again sometime
I kind of miss the discussions we used to have, it'd be nice to have something like that again
Assuming people could be civil

>>11361561
>Assuming people could be civil
This is my first time ever reading discussion about gfd, does it really get that bad? What do people even argue about? Whether pegging or chasitity disqualifies something as gfd?
In my eyes, gfd as a concept is so positive and inoffensive, I can't really wrap my head around why there would be toxicity around it.

>>11361811
There were arguments about what qualified as "gentle" or not, but where it tended to get really bad was arguments about gender roles. gfd and rr was generally viewed as an inversion of typically expected gender roles to some extent or another, which often led to debate on the societal interaction of the male and female sex. These debates didn't always go very smoothly, and the fact that a lot of the gfd posters came from r9k didn't help the situation.
There's also a lot of bitterness about the perceived "ratio", that male subs outnumber female dommes something like ten to one, and that most women wouldn't be into this at all (see >>11352280). Personally, the data I've seen leads me to believe the ratio isn't actually that fucked, and the number of women who are open to this sort of thing if you express interest in it is even higher than that.
I am firmly of the opinion that WAGMI.
Also, nice dubs

>>11353565
>preserving my male honor' is unnecessary
For me, I think that's it.
Gfd doesn't even HAVE to have a particular power dynamic, I think, and can run on more egalitarian levels. It's mostly just removing a lot, if not all of the baggage tied to "male", and the relationship or sexual activity takes place on that more level ground, of interchangeable roles.
It CAN have an actual power dynamic beyond that, and I think, in a situation where two people are considered to have interchangeable roles, small degrees of power are inevitably going to arise and sink, but that's more of an emergent property than a fundamental one, I think.

Just. Like. If you think about it in terms of a lesbian relationship, there would be pretty much nothing super unique about the idea of one girl kissing the other, tongue right down her throat, while fingering her. And the idea of them doing this, then swapping positions the next night, would similarly be completely unspectacular.
Shift that so it's a girl tongue fucking a guy while giving him a handjob, and I think it's under the umbrella of gfd a bit, even if they swap positions regularly, even though I think him tongue in her, fingering her isn't gfd anymore.

>>11354190
This would be great without the handjob from the dick inexplicably growing out of his abdomen.

>>11350697
Does anyone have any more gfd hypnosis stuff?

>>11353383
Male anal eroticism is not GFD

>>11347112
I met my wife working at McDonalds years ago.
>Chubby cutie would sit on my chest and hold my arms down and bite my neck
I have never once had a blowjob in 6 years but I love to eat her pussy whenever I can.

>>11367661
that sounds wonderful anon
I'm happy for you

HirarihaS sensei with yet another hot release

It was good to be back, bros

What's the hottest thing a /gfd/ female partner can do that makes you dizzy? Feel free to give details or real life experiences.

>>11369550
playing with your hair while you eat her out