Thread 76514935

Does gym get you pussy?

i don't know i don't go to the gym

No, not near as much as sports do.
Women want a high value athlete, not a sad, lonely little gymcel.

>>76514935 (OP)
It's more likely to get you bussy or get your bussy stretched. It's mostly other men who are into this shit. I'm gay and I'm here for it, but oblivious straggots will never stop amazing me.

>>76514935 (OP)
outdoor sports are better
running, hiking, calisthenics, swimming in the pool

>>76514935 (OP)
Jim gets pussy

no

Very little, less than you think. I've fooled around with just two women from my gym. That's nothing

Ever exploit to get pussy gets shut down after a short amount of time lol

>mass message girls on social media
worked for like 2 years in the myspace days then women caught on
>pick up artistry
worked for like 5 years but now girls even know about negging and shit
>projecting status and wealth
worked for boomers and shit but now no girls gives a shit about your sports car
>roiding
it used to be really exotic and make you stand out but now half the fags at the local gym roid
>getting tattoos
It was once a powerful pussy magnet but now everyone has some shitty retarded tattoos and it is not cool

The list goes on and on. What is the next pussy exploit? You have to be in early to reap the benefits. I have no idea what it is but I would guess something to do with extreme virtue signalling. Like volunteering or some shit

>>76514935 (OP)
It can

>>76514935 (OP)
A great smile got me more pussy than anything.

>>76515216
This dude peed himself and came up with this cope lmao

>>76515261
But will it? I need a yes or no answer sir

>>76515272
You still have to try, don't expect women to approach you just because you're jacked

>>76515235
Kek, this.
Exploit early, exploit often. Being jacked in 2005 was probably a cheat code to life, nowadays with how popular it is, not so much but still better than being fat or a DYEL.
I feel like girls are heavily influenced by what is popular on Instagram, if you can catch it early on then you can farm, then it becomes obsolete as time goes on.

>>76515216
Speaking from experience, this is a real pain to deal with when you don't have a washer/dryer.

>>76514935 (OP)
Almost, some underclass drunk woman offered to suck me off if I walk her home

>>76514935 (OP)
No, but it will get you plenty of bussy

I went from incel at 30 to lots of pussy at 31 thanks to the gym. Had to work for it, wasn't getting fresh 18-20 year olds consistently but had some highlights that were beyond my wildest dreams just years prior.

>had 4 different women in a week without lying to any of them about what I want and how many women I'm messing around with
>multiple 3-ways with 2 different sets of women
>picked up a 49 year old with a perfect body at a Spartan Race, best night of my entire life
>slept with a girl I had a massive crush on 7 years prior but was far too much of a pussy to talk to
>had sex 8 times in one day with a chick who told me to use her as a cum drain
>did not have 1 negative experience the entire whoring period, all but one out of over a dozen came back for more

One of the FWB turned into my GF and we have a very active sex life 6 months into the relationship. I owe everything to the gym.

no it gets you cock, unfortunately, or fortunately I dont know your life

>>76515285
there are fads that give social capital but most of the game of social capital is the same since time immemorial: have passions, have vision, do things that are somehow important to the people around you, have friends, have a stable response to setbacks, have self-respect, do your best to get and keep options in life. and yes, being fit and good-looking also contributes. it's better to spread your stats then to dump them in any one thing. a guy who is not fat, has a small friend group, plays an instrument or dances or paints or likes film or works on cars or plays recreational sports or something, knows how to dress, is mentally healthy and makes enough money to support himself is wayyyy better than the stereotypical /fit/cel who dumped all his points in fitness and is a deeply damaged person with no interpersonal skills and abs.

>>76514935 (OP)
I don't care, I'm gay

>>76515472
>I went from incel at 30 to lots of pussy at 31
Congrats, how did you actually do it?

Because I am /fit/ for more than 8 years straight, lift and eat better than anyone around me. Never even kissed, let alone got laid

>>76515542
>Never even kissed, let alone got laid
Why not? Do you avoid women?

>>76515472
Based hopefuel anon. Tell us how'd you do it thou, did you use tinder, Instagram or just talked to girls irl?

>>76515523
>stereotypical /fit/cel who dumped all his points in fitness and is a deeply damaged person with no interpersonal skills and abs
This is literally me at 27yo, how do I make sure I make it before 30?

>>76515542
Had pretty much never touched a weight most of my life, was skinnyfat/skeleton mode. Got in a short but very intense, toxic relationship with a BPD woman that fucked me up pretty badly.

After the breakup I saw two distinct paths, either keep going down the same pathetic one I had my whole life where I was constantly anxious, depressed and lonely, or fix my shit so not only would I not go through that again, I could walk right in front of my ex and be far better than I ever was with her. I also wanted to be able to secure sex and companionship without mountains of rejection.

I used the fuel from the anger and betrayal as momentum to change my habits for the first 3 months. Along with doing full body 3x a week, I fixed my diet, took much better care of my appearance with clothing, grooming and getting a natural tan by being outside. I went from 6'1" 145lbs to 175lbs in roughly 3-4 months.

I read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover, which every man should read regardless if they have issues or not. I also found Psychhacks and hoe_math on YouTube and started absorbing everything they put out. After absorbing everything over the span of 6-8 months, I started understanding myself, relationships, women, sex and the world in general much, much better than I ever had. After that it was pretty easy to seal the deal.

>>76515564
I tried Tinder at the very very beginning before I consumed the content to understand women, but did not succeed. I had a few lucky breaks at the beginning; ran into a girl I knew from high school, met a friend of a friend at a cookout, etc. Once I scored a few times, started getting constant compliments from everyone I knew about my body changes and learned how women worked, I tried Tinder again and had good success.

>>76515550
>Why not?
Just went with the "dude chill don't worry it will happen" meme I guess. I don't avoid anyone, but obviously not exactly the most social extroverted person either
>After the breakup
Oh I thought you weren't in relationships beforehand. Congrats either way

>>76515640
other reply meant for >>76515590

>>76514935 (OP)
Not really.

>>76515590
This just seems so fake to me
All of the steps are there how you improved but then there are no steps on how you actually meet all those women

>>76515235
Good beard genetics and high paying *interesting* jobs

>>76515640
It was my 2nd relationship ever, 1st was a disaster years prior and this was with a BPD woman, more akin to a demon than a woman and more like a rollercoaster through hell than a real relationship.

Don't envy me.

>>76515694
I get it yeah, but wouldn't exactly call a man that had two gfs an "incel"

I had a blonde chick approach me 2 nights ago just to tell me I was handsome

>>76515574
get on dating apps, focus on what you like and how you can incorporate it into your life, meet new people. if you're satisfied with your work and you have material stability, that's a major win. therapy is also underrated

>>76515659
I explained a few at first, and I'm now with family so I can't be extremely detailed like before.

I ran into a girl I knew from highschool at the supermarket. Asked her out for a drink to catch up (she lead with "wow you look great, easy to follow up). Went to a friend's barbeque, hit it off with a girl there, told a quick story of how I transformed, she respected it, exchanged numbers that night, started hooking up after. After that it started to be easier to make stuff happen with very little initiation.

>>76515716
A very short term with almost no sex and I never made her cum, and again a BPD psychopath. Aside from a 250lb woman I slept with one night 10 years prior, I had a body count of 3 and an orgasm count of 0. From the ages between 14 and 27 I had sex 3 times. Between my 2 GFs I had 0 sex, 0 hugs.

Never claimed to be a KHV, but 99% of my life between 14 and 30 I was an incel.

>>76515753
I know it's pathetic of me to even write this, but you're definitely not involuntary celibate if you had two different gfs and a body count of 3.
Maybe you can could yourself a failed normalfag but that's it, miles better than any incel

>>76515807
Yeah he's full of shit, real incels don't even have friends with parties to go to or girls they know from highschool

>>76515235
With zoomers I think it's the performative male, from what I can tell

>>76515807
If I had time I'd love to include detailed stories of the times I tried and almost had sex but failed in the most embarrassing ways possible, but I'm not really worried that I dont win the incel Olympics in your mind. I wanted sex the entire time I was 14 to 30 and had close to 0 with no hope of it ever improving.

>>76515912
I know these days even a husband with kids is called an incel since the word lost all meaning, I'm just telling you that you definitely weren't celibate with two gfs and body count of 3.

Just because you wanted it badly while having sex not that often doesn't suddenly make you a virgin.

>>76515287
>when you don't have a washer/dryer
are you a fucking 3rd worlder or something?

>>76515216
big cock doesn't disappear from getting fit anon

>>76514935 (OP)
YES IT DOES NOW STOP ASKING THIS GAY QUESTION SAGE SAGE SAGE

>>76514935 (OP)
No body gets me these days...

>>76514935 (OP)
my gf tells me im hot when we shower together

if i was a fat pos idk if she'd say that or even date me

>>76514935 (OP)
No it gets me dick

>>76514935 (OP)
No, the gym doesn't give me any of its gussy

>>76515235
Tarot reading whilst being jacked.
Trust me this is the next imba meta

>>76516167
Depending on a country apartment might be so smol washing machine/dryer is communal or outsourced to private businesses through laundromats.

>>76515912
I for one appreciate your honesty anon. A lot of terminally online fags assume it's a binary, you're either a virgin who has never held hands, or you're a Chad who assfucks sluts on the first date,nothing in between. Real life,and success, is a lot more messy.

Really,the key to "getting it" is to make plenty of embarrassing, face-palm worthy mistakes and fumbles.

>>76515235
Yeah, this. As soon as a pickup technique becomes mainstream its worse than useless.

Take dance for example. In theory it's a great place to meet women because men are a minority and you get partnered up with several women throughout the night. In reality every woman knows what you're there for the minute you stumble through the door.

>>76514935 (OP)
no

>>76515912
I envy you. I’ve basically reached natty limit, got rich, got sexy hobbies (travel, music production(some even published), gardening) and worked alot (i’m now going back to uni)) elite in strenght with calisthenics skills and i’m very social.
Still 29 khhv. I need to find a gf because the inexperience is holding me back. I’m in the abyss, basically rotting in my bed all day. I even stopped pursuing my hobbies and tried almost full time to find a gf this month but got 10 rejections.
I even drove my friend with her gf and showed them some hiking trips and honestly it was both fun but incredibly humiliating. I waited for my turn for all my life but i fear that i might change life plan and go full hikkikomori

>>76518486
Sorry bro ,don't mean to be rude...
But based on the photo, your posing I can tell you are either a bit gay or effeminate with your mannerism/emotions. I am also a gym bro surrounded by other gym bros and is a dead giveaway when men train for confidence or when they become obsessed with themselves.

>>76515235
Current meta is having social media following and making stupid videos
You can just whip out your cellphone and pretend to make videos in the middle of wherever the fuck and women will be interested

no there is a voice in my head that says I'm a creep and I should keep to myself

>>76518780
I somehow believe this because in 2022 when I made fitness tik toks I had random bitches following me on insta

>>76514935 (OP)
it gets you a higher caliber of women on dating apps before you hit a certain age

>>76514935 (OP)
25% gym
25%aethetics
50% brains
That's the formula.

>>76514935 (OP)
no, you need surgery

>>76518766
Is there anything that i can do? I’ve already worked constructions and played metal.
Gays hit on me so you might be onto something but i’m straight.
I’m sensible and empathetic yes, i broke some teeth and bones beating people because they mistreated animals since i was a kid.
My t levels are on the high end and estrogen are a bit low/medium.
I think i was just born like this. Can it be changed or is it a curse?

>>76518486
Im the guy you're replying to, and I mean this in the most sincere and non insulting manner.

If you're wealthy, have that kind of body (far superior to mine and I'm lower middle class) and still haven't gotten laid, consider hiring an escort. Not only will you get experience, I guarantee the escort will at least somewhat enjoy herself because a lot of their clients are simply not attractive.

I lost my virginity to a solid 2/10 way before I got my first girlfriend. Because I went years after that without getting laid, I had convinced myself I was never having sex again. When me and my girlfriend attempted sex, Id be rock hard until I went to put it in, like I was having some kind of panic attack that shut my dick down. This lasted months and was absolutely demoralizing. One day, I broke through it and never had the boner problem again. It was purely a mental limitation id put on myself manifesting into reality.

I think if you got past the initial mental block things would be easier for you.

>>76515235
Hookers. Why play games when you can skip the bs

>>76518486
I genuinely think you just need to practice cold approaching women with compliments.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMr1ddukSQ4

>>76518486
>>76518885
I don't recommend cold approaching especially when you're already struggling in the area you are.

I highly, highly recommend watching everything from Psychhacks on YouTube he's made in the last 2 years, skipping some irrelevant videos in the process if needed. He touches on everything from how men and women think, to how sex/relationships work, to how to naturally attract and talk to women.

He helped me take the puzzle pieces I had and put them together.

>>76518933
based on the fact that he's pretty social, I think the honest to God issue is the fact that he isn't giving himself any opportunities.
fiz is good, so unless he has a busted ass face, opportunities should be able to be created.

>>76518933
I already watched some of his videos and i think i lack the “bad boy” factor and social status(got something but in niche)
Might start dealing weed.
I got 50-80k€ in budget for some surgeries and was thinking of doing leg lengthening (176/8cm manlet) so i can break the 6f barrier
>>76518968
Pic rel8

>>76519019
Brother you have a better face and physique than the vast majority of dudes out there. Do not get any surgeries, you will only mess yourself up and not fix the inherent problem which has nothing to do with your body or height, but your confidence.

>>76519019
no surgery, your face is fine. you're also 5'7" which isn't tall, but it isn't kys level of short. you're clearly just kinda mind raped by inceldom. get on a dating app and fuck a 6.5-7 to boost your spirits and then play ball with your new confidence

>>76519019
This guy
>>76519160
Said it perfectly. You're mind raped by inceldom, just like I had done to myself not being able to get it up because I'd told myself all day every day I'm never getting laid again. No physical surgery will fix it, only further the complex once you realize you've spent $10000s and disfigured yourself only to not fix the problem.

I like his idea; get on Tinder/Bumble, post pics of you with other people smiling doing your habits, include a good one of you shirtless, keep conversation fun and short, ask her out for coffee/dinner/drinks, go from there. Even if you don't fuck the first one, experience is experience.

At my new job my veiny arms causes the tall zoomer DYEL coworkers to bump my elbows and go fuarrrrrrrrrk, they're mirin. Roasties don't say anything except for the black lesbian one who got called sir by a customer.

>>76518824
not that anon, but you sound a bit autistic or just someone who doesn't have any real close friends/never talked deeply with somebody be it man or a woman. Next time you try to woo someone just be genuinely curious about them and honest, literally all it takes.
t. someone with 5/10 face but good body and no money and no job

>>76515216
>dicking so good she fell asleep during sex
hmmm...

>>76514935 (OP)
Gym does not guarantee pussy.
Being gross / fat guarantee's no pussy.

Gym is a scam, make your own home gym.
10 reasons why gym is a scam.

#1 Cost. Gyms cost more money then exercise equipment.
#2 Distance. By the time it takes to travel to the gym you could have done a whole home workout.
#3 Other people. Just because you paid to use the equipment doesn't guarantee that the equipment will be available when you arrive.
#4 Hidden fee's. Just because you pay on time every month doesn't mean you won't get hit with an annual fee, semi annual fee. A fuck you fee.
#5 Stop going , goes to collections. Signing up for a gym is the easiest way to get a hit on your credit score. You go in you sign up, you stop going you forget to pay, they charge you out the ass in debt and fee's to service the debt.
#6 Sex traps hoes. Lot's of gyms have really attractive attention whores who get mad when you give them attention. They're playing a game of trying to kill your gains by making you focus on their ass and their tits. But if you talk to them you're a creep.
#7 The manager: The manager will come by and say hey nice job working out and paying your membership but if you really want to lose weight you have to buy my special trainer sessions to see some big progress. It will cost a few extra hundred dollars and now you're paying him to be your friend. If you stop paying him the friendship goes away and he's mad at you for quitting on yourself.
#8 Bathrooms. There's too many people so you will have a difficult time hitting the shower and taking a shit and a piss. At home you can get buck naked take a shit while playing on your phone and then hit the shower. At the gym you take a shit / piss. You go to your locker you look around to make sure nobody is looking and you start changing. You might see someone's dick or balls or they might see urs and it'll be awkward. Or you can change in the shower and risk getting your clothes wet.

Gym life Over pay for everything.

>>76519568
ty chatgpt

>>76519160
>>76519019
177cm is almost 5’10, and I had multiple gfs at the same height, also your face is not kinda cute you can surely slay

>>76519511
>autistic
Probably.
>real close friends/never talked deeply
No. I might me too much deep. I got 3 very close friends who i shared my frustrations of being lonely and difficulty getting a gf. I’m very curious, tired to talk about butterflies and moths to a girl who had a butterfly tattoo (i love moths, saturnidae moths are so cool!).
I also invited an alt girl to a machine girl concert but in the end i went alone. I try to know girls but i guess i’m just doing it wrong.
Can’t i just being 100%honest? Like :
“Hey i suck at this can you teach me the basic?”

>>76519568
#8. Working out is free.
#9 Missing the point. Exercise isn't what gains you muscles. What gains you muscles is working out and supplementing. You need more protein and creatine and pre-workout and post work out supplements. The shit that gets you fired up and helps you recover from your exercise.
#10. Just stack gym equipment. It's better to stack gym equipment at home you can resell it if you get tired of it and get something new. Only broke people rent shit. Don't rent space you don't need, don't rent equipment. Own your space, own your equipment.

>>76515590
>No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover
Jesus the first few pages hit like a truck. Same feeling than when I read a thesis on schizoid disorder, I feel completely unveiled

>>76514935 (OP)
if by pussy you mean cats, yeah sure.

>>76519584
you have a lot more going for you than most guys for sure bar height. you are european right? im tall in the US but went i went to the netherlands i felt straight up average. i think maybe you could benefit from going to the US and playing up the european mystique. American girls will probably love it and you can excuse any autistic or just awkward conversation as a language barrier and laugh it off (assuming you arent native speaker). ANd remember height is important in some scenarios but woman dont really know actual heights, just wear some shoes or platforms that make you taller and go for women that are shorter

>>76519627
It's an incredibly well written book by a Dr. who used to suffer from it as well. Out of the 10 or so self help books including Atomic Habits and The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, his was the most helpful and easy to implement in my life.

>>76514935 (OP)
Kinda, but its not magic and wont compensate for abysmall personality

>>76515235
Next meta is being a decent and kind human being, hurry up before the girls catch on to our ruse

>>76519705
so virtue signaling like I said lol ez

>>76519584
yeah, bro, that can work just remember that it depends on the type of girl you talking to too

>>76519684
I might have scrolled through it a long time ago and dismissed it as PUA-adjacent bullshits, being very wary of personal development books. I will look the other as well, thank you.

>>76519815
It's most definitely not a PUA style book. It may have some of the same advice that some PUA guys give, which is generally some form of "be confident, be sure of yourself, possess and demonstrate value and competence".

The author has a YouTube channel called Integration Nation that largely touches what the book goes in-depth about if you want to hear him prior to going all in

>>76515235
>What is the next pussy exploit?
Just being yourself

>>76515235
>What is the next pussy exploit?
Talking to girls at work.

>>76518486
Don't waste your time, get a hooker.
Only subhumans hate hookers to use as experience until you find a quality girl.
Most girls are useless hoes so it will be a LOT of hookers until the quality comes along

>>76519568
Save money by Lifting at home while porn plays on your phone, that's the gym experience

Playing tennis and healthmaxxing (diet, sun, etc.) got me girls. Lifting/Running caused me to get obsessed, overdo it, then look stressed and shitty. Started losing my hair. Reversed after healthmaxxing.

>>76519725
Not the same thing

>>76519584
Samefag here, was hoping for some critique of my physique. Do I look like a douche? Please be honest.

For the avoidance of confusion, I'm the guy in grey shorts.

>>76520800
As stated by many before, your body is insane and I don't think you look like a douche. Id say top 5% or higher physiques I've seen

>>76518797
I can't even post shirtless pics on tinder

>>76521293
Why? I had them as my profile pic consistently.

Before any of you faggots share your advice your experience, preface it by sharing your height.

>>76515235
It breaks my heart all those guys on /htgwg/ on /adv/ who read Models and then got banned from their local supermarket because they cold approached every other girl who walked in. They were truly made for 20 years ago.

>>76515266
I forgot how to genuinely smile around people who aren’t my family. I just don’t care about other people at all anymore.

>>76519627
The schizoid wiki page sums up all I am.Might be self diagnosing into a self fulfilling prophecy but every time. I've tried approach to normalcy I fuck up. Cant tell if I'm truly happy alone or its because I've burned myself too often.

>>76518798
Not bad

>>76515472
millennials love to describe their sexual experiences in this incredibly gay way. why?

>>76514935 (OP)
Absolutely.

>>76518486
You sound like an anal wimp trying to control every single aspect of your life. That's probably one of the most off-putting things ever. Just kick back and trust the universe, faggot.

>>76521677
zoomoids dont have passion for anything even talking about fucking a hot girl they will try to be nonchanlant about it

>>76514935 (OP)
NICE THUMBNAIL, RETARD

PETITION TO ADD THUMBNAIL PICS AS BANNABLE OFFENSES - (YOU) HERE

>>76515472
what do these women think of you being a virgin at such a late age?

>>76521790
Basically i chilled out until 22.
I was an agonist swim and played guitar in a band in school and nothing. I need to focus 100% on a thing to make it happen. I can’t afford the luxury to just live life.

>>76514935 (OP)
Nope. Notice the ones they all pick just look naturally muscular not like they go to the gym (frauds).

>>76519019
You look like Taymour Ghazi aka Nick from Left 4 Dead 2.

>>76514935 (OP)
Never, I'm a 5'6" gymcel.

>>76515535
You have no idea how much bullshit and suffering you have been saved from. Consider yourself blessed, faggot.

>>76522446
>naturally muscular
aka cbum offseason

>>76522513
he has a dad bod

>>76520171
This dude gets it.

>>76515235
Unironically, going to college or a trade school. Bonus points Chad status hard mode. Become a massage therapist

>>76515235
That's why you should aim for things the average schmuck can't do, like leading a cartel or becoming a warlord or be a ship crew

>>76522446
dude ALL of those drawings look fucking retarded. this offers no information.

>>76522524
Last time I tried that I got rejected like 10 times (by same girl) without even asking her out

>>76522491
I'm just like you. Any advice?

>>76520171
>next

I was doing this before covid also this is the one where it can blow up in your face hard

>>76518486
You look great bro (no homo)
How did you get your quads so big?

>>76524400
Noce dubs (all homo)
Thanks.
I squat 200kg but i mainly train quads with front squats, bulgarian split squats, sissy squats and reverse nordic curls. I also do uphill sprints and hikes.

>>76524130
Nope, everybody knows shits fucked.

>>76519019
If that’s really you, you look good (no homo).
I had a decent share of pussy being 5’6 (married now).
Don’t do anything stupid. Is just lifting, taking care of your image and improving social skills.
Like I put here: >>76518798

>>76525249
NTA but how to improve and get a wife

>>76523833
Roidtranny cope

>>76525249
how old r u unc

>>76521708
People with glasses look like shit on purpose. Glasses are like carrying around a gigantic sign that says “I have shit genetics. I literally need a device to see. Mate with me and your offspring will inherit my shit genetics.” They know this and still wear them.

That guy would look very good with contacts, skincare and a better haircut. Because he wears glasses, we can assume he does not care about looking good.

I recently had a 2nd date with a 6ft tall nerdy girl.
Bring /fit/ helps tremendously.
You get a instant 1-2/10 rating bump.
Seeing women check you out head to toe is a nice ego booster.
If my weird ass can do it, anyone can.

Disclaimer:
I can only get girls who are retarded tall interested.

>>76514935 (OP)
It does to some extent. Women like when a man is not a fatass and looks athletic and strong.
It assists with getting some pussy, you still need to SOME decent level of money and some level of status.

Modern women want the holy trinity. Looks, money, status. You can maybe get away with not having 1, but if you don't have 2 you are fucked.

>>76526126
where did you meet her... fuark tall nerd
i need tall....

>>76526143
How do they feel about men with 0?

>>76521311
They ban you for some reason

As a thirty year old boomer who's been browsing since 2011, I can't really say what the dating game is like for zoomies. However I can say that throughout my youth and now into my old age, letting women know you go to the gym actively repulses them. You should always say you do shit like hike or something.

>>76526126
post detailed step by step instructions or you're a liar

>I lift
Women walk up to me
>I don’t lift
Women don’t walk up to me