FSR I've always done shit with my parents

(probably bc i'm asian)

Like just going to a restaurant and eating Chinese slop

But idk I feel like people should be going out and doing stuff with their bros

Like I do have bros / homies, but it's a long story and I've got like 3-4 disparate groups of bros and it's not like I can just hang out with em ALL

I'm a rising senior in college and a guy

>>937061167
>Do what your parents say and work hard to get yourself into a good school.

Where'd I ever mention I was still in HS / a minor?

I'm a rising senior in college now. I still live with my parents in a suburban house for the summer, but likely also for the semester since my school is close enough to commute.

I've lived off campus last year and loved it, but my parents forced me to get off the lease I originally had for this year since it was an attic room that though spacious, wasn't a legal bedroom (but the landlord didn't give a fuck at all).

They were up in arms about how "anon the lease says xyz". The lease also says not to party or drink, but people literally do it anyway. And they were bitching so hard about how "in American you must follow the law".

Think the worst part about this might be that I'm a CS bro who shouldn't even be having any of these financial issues since I'm in tech and a major metro area. Like I've had anons tell me to plan a move to a major metro area as if I don't already live and study in one. Yet I'm broke af since jeets took all the internships.

I just feel completely humiliated. Parents are acting all smug like "you'll thank us for this one day!", and think I'm an ungrateful shithead. This has gotten pretty intense, with screaming matches etc.

>>212673566
See my point? I'm ashamed my country's authoritarian. Sure it might've been "great" or "innovative" or whatever, but they've done stuff like killing people for writing down emperors' names, multiple ideological pogroms, female footbinding, and castration. And then when the Communists took over the whole country basically turned into an Orwellian dictatorship that I'd struggle to defend even on my most tankie of days.

>>212673693
It's not over by any long shot BTW. Recently they forced me to break a lease for this coming senior year because they found out living in an attic was technically not legal even though we're all broke college students and no one - even the landlord - gives a shit.

My parents FREAKED THE HELL OUT and refused to pay for it, which led to a multi-day argument. "OMG what if there's a fire?" And when I bravely volunteered to work a menial job this summer (and beyond) to rack up some of my own money so that I could pay for it myself, they even threatened to withdraw money from my bank account.

Had to apologize profusely to the dudes I was gonna room with and even they were like WTF. Ended up finding a replacement in time, which made me relieved, since I did NOT want to get involved in some shitty lawsuit my mom was forcing me into, and screw everyone over. (Even a LAWYER we consulted told mom to let her son screw around.)

>>509670203
My parents forced me to buy marinated pork butt at the Asian store for 7/4 since the marinated beef was too expensive

I stand out among the Americans for being Asian, as opposed to White or Black.

I stand out among the Asians for being Chinese, as opposed to Japanese or Korean.

I stand out among the Chinese for being Mainlander, as opposed to Hong Konger or Taiwanese.

I stand out among the Chinese for being Christian, as opposed to being Buddhist and/or Confucianist.

I stand out among the Christians for being Asian, as opposed to White or Black.

I stand out among the Americans for being collectivized, as opposed to being individualized.

I stand out among the Asians for being a B-class autist who can't succeed in this fucked up world, as opposed to being on my way to riches, med school, and/or the next scientific breakthrough.

I stand out among the Americans for being Chinese. I stand out among the Chinese for being American.

It's like I was fucking born to be fucked up / problematic.

(If I were woke, this would be the part where I bitch about "intersectionality", but wokism is literally neo-colonialism masquerading as tolerance, and there's just something about their explanation that doesn't seem quite right.)

Threaten to send him to a Christian private school if he doesn't man up.

>be me, almost 21, Asian cuck, HCOL state
>rising senior, CS major at big state school
>completely jobless, parents pay for tuition and housing because I'm not a wagie yet
>manage to find a house with a bunch of white fratboys for senior year
>was hyped to get out of the house for another year and not be a NEET
>get assigned the attic room since I was the last to join the lease
>whatever, a room is a room, has windows and a door, idgaf

>make mistake of telling Asian immigrant parents, and they have a COMPLETE FUCKING MELTDOWN
>"IT'S NOT A LEGAL BEDROOM ANON! WHAT IF THERE'S A FIRE? WHAT IF THE LANDLORD GETS SUED?"
>tell them it's like underage drinking, literally everyone does it and no one gaf
>they call me a "stupid idiot" for even agreeing to it, say they'll stop paying my rent and tuition if I don't back out
>"in American, it's important that you follow the law"

>shit gets so crazy they call a lawyer, who literally tells my mom on the phone to chill the fuck out and let me grow up
>thought I won, but they double down even harder after the call
>mom, known for being a drama queen (and was a covidian during COVID), starts literally crying about how worried she is, dad gives me the "I'm so disappointed" speech

>we argue for days, parents won't budge no matter what
>had to cave and tell the boys I couldn't move in
>found a replacement tenant last-second
>boys were cool with it, just irked af

>now it's fucking July
>all decent housing is gone
>I am now officially commuting from home for my entire senior year, my social life is dead on arrival

I feel completely humiliated. Parents are acting all smug like "you'll thank us for this one day!", and think I'm an ungrateful shithead. This has gotten pretty intense, with screaming matches etc.

Am I a retarded cuck who isn't ready to live on my own? Should I just suck it up and be grateful for the free ride? Or did my parents fuck my life over?