>>81806324
You have to make foid's come to you.
I learned that from working in sales:
>have a product people might want (You)
>put it out there with ZERO PRESSURE to as many foids as possible
The modern foid loves no pressure. Aim for situationships (friends with benefits).
1)if you're a shy sensitive mamas boy (you probably are) you need to get competent fast.
2)first work focus on being objective orientated (goal chaser) you should be doing stuff to the point women aren't the main focus (I highly suggest ebay reselling since it's cheap, will get you out of the basement, it satisfies the hunter-gatherer urge more then any vidya could, and (most important) you will get real skill which boosts confidence).
3)get RIZZ (joyful confidence) no one likes a miserable downer doomer fuck. Esspecially foids.
4)learn to notices things via mindfulness, given a few months of regular practice it will allow you to override your social anxiety, state freight, and most importantly you'll start NOTICING the tone people talk in (not what just what they're saying, but HOW they'res saying it) and you can match that tone, instantly giving you the ability to be outgoing extrovert if you choose.
>inb4 I'm ugly
I'm literally a 5'9 260 pound ugly hapa, and don't have problems (granted I'm not swimming in girls either, but I get about 6 relationships a years).
