>>509746123
>long time married
Marry someone ideologically close not picrel. Yes, her looks will change. So do yours. Marry a friend, we became best friends. It's a financial partnership and household managed like a business. Keep eye on bottom line. Don't live like a pauper but don't spend foolishly. Be DIY, cook, mend, repair, don't pay others for tasks you should know how to do. If you don't, learn. Buy used fully depreciated things including car. Use until used up. Pay cash whenever possible, don't finance. Home different, be smart. As large of a down as you can handle, pay extra to principal, refi to lower rate if one shows up. And don't fight over simple stuff or walk away mad. Be adult and figure it out as divorce is ruinous.