>>718761906
If you have to "go places" and/or "improve" it's already over. Getting fit, rich or going to dancing lessons or whatever JUST to get women is a fucking lie of a living, those are things you should be doing by being interested of doing them by itself, meeting people, not just women, is merely a consequence of doing them.
That's what normalfags mean by "just b urself", it's bond to happen if the criteria meets, or never if it doesn't, pure luck also.
HOWEVER, chances are that you indeed did had some opportunities, the thing is that we are masters of fumbling shit hard. Women, more often than not, will "signal" that they like you early on, but will also EXPECT you to ask them out even if it's pretty obvious you are into them. And if you fail to do this early on they'll think you're gay, and you "interest" is just you finding them fashionable or miring their makeup or whatever.