I want to look White aka like my identity. It's not fair to be a White man who doesn't look fully Euro and gets asked where he is from!!!
I'm 75% Euro 25% Arab. I have a Middle Eastern grandparent butt score more because my dad's Sicilian family is admixed. I look Mexican.
My dad is of mostly Sicilian descent and his family scores double digit Middle Eastern and matches Jews in Morocco and Algeria so I score 40% Middle Eastern on FTDNA. I am White because only 25% of my family directly comes from the Middle East but because my family from Sicily scores double digts I score in the 60s for Euro on tests like 68, 64, 60.