>>40829440
Only thing holding yourself back is you. I was making same excuses in the beginning of accepting myself, and now it might be too late for me. Don't let your change at life/happiness go down the drain. You have clearly given it alot of thought. It is not your parents life to live, its yours.

>Im too stupid to understand diy hrt. Ive tried reading up on it multiple times but my brain doesnt process the overload of information at all.
Im a dumbass about crypto and all that stuff, but it is still possible. You can find guides TransDIY subreddit etc. HRT directory has all basic info. It is good to write or take photos of crucial ones like dosing. All the stuff went out of my brain too. So try to simplify it to yourself and don't be ashamed of asking help if did not find all answers.
Injections are easiest. I was afraid of needles and almost fainted first time i was trying to inject. And succeeded second time without any issue. And not certain was i doing anything right
in the beginning despite done all research. Point is that it is possible if you truly want to, which you seem to. And maybe move out of parents home if must. Don't have defeatist mentality you only live once.

>>40637933
>I'm a feminist, so I hate my sister (and I'll go along with what pronouns you want to use just for the sake of being cordial) exercising her right to bodily autonomy and think she's just too stupid/brainwashed/traumatized to know that she's supposed to live her life how *I* say she should live it
This does not read as very feminist to me at all. Use of pronouns aside you just sound afraid the evil tranny is going to corrupt your sons the same way conservatives worry about gays turning other people gay as if it's the cheese touch.
Your sister made a choice for her own happiness and you can't even respectfully disagree without considering cutting her out of your family's life. You just seem selfish.
As for your sons they're going to find out about trans people one way or the other in 2025. Tell them or don't, they'll see something about trans people on the news or social media. We can't control your life but if you want to tell them that their aunt is an untermenschen degenerate then that's your choice.

Why did the conversation shift to "women's spaces" and not just the bathroom. Like I don't give a fuck about going anywhere else.
>uhh but why should it be women's responsibility for trannies safety faggot moid
neverminding ftms cause of course everyone forgets they exist unless they want to infantalize them, but if we're taking the "I don't care about anyone outside my ingroup" approach then why should trannies give a fuck about anyone outside their ingroup in that case. Excepting the hulks like lilytino what the fuck goes on in the mind of people who spend all of their time mad about potentially passing trannies using their bathroom. If anything it makes them more mad that they need to spend the extra time scrutinizing youngshits

>>40239544
I don't know what this means because trans people will inherently understand each other in a way cis people can't, even if we wind up being shitty and using that understanding to twist the knife to hurt each other's feelings
anyway tfw no tboy to love and support and workout with

>>40223305
why would you fuck someone like this