>>82191336
Deception is always done with the consent of the deceived. I've met both men and women in these kinds of relationships before and its always obvious to friends and family who the abuser is long before they actually start becoming abusive.
Even if they were some kind of machiavellian god, it doesn't change the fact that we live in a society where relationships are consensual, especially for women. In the modern dating environment a woman can literally have 1000 men to choose from at the click of a button. She could leave and find someone else at a moment's notice and she deliberately chooses not to.