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>40 year old here
I haven’t been a NEET and spent my life up until now desperately eeking out an existence through feast and famine.
In my experience, it’s never too late to change things around, but you will need to rearrange your expectations greatly. Using myself as an example, I have no problem dating 20 yo’s, but I know that the window for kids is about 5 years. Plus, I would need to have a house and life of ease to entice young women and not busted ham planets with attitude problems and addictions.
As others have said, you need to be desperate and take UNRELENTING action. I’m talking nonstop work. You are outgunned and outmanned, but you have a lot more to lose.
And just to add, forget about support system. YOU are the support system. Seek out stuff online to give you a boost, even if it seems like a parasocial relationship. I recommend listening to Rich Cooper (Entrepreneurs in Cars channel). His advice is solid and you’ll get his message after 4 or so messages. Plus, the car chats are comfy and inspiring.
