In the past, I posted about my Amway obsessed girlfriend. As hard as it is, ive decided to breakup with her. I can't stand her secrecy and mistrust of me in favor of her "business" and "mentors" anymore.
Problem is, we are long distance. There isnt a "good" time to breakup until next year, becuase we are planning on doing stuff almost every month between now and then. I need to rip the bandaid off.
Should I visit her to break up? It will be difficult for us to even find time when we are both free for me to visit and then immediately leave, but I imagine its the most respectful thing to do, especially after 2 years of dating. If I tell her im visiting, she'll come up with ideas for things to do, though, and I dont want to waste her time.
I could also do it over video call, much easier for me but part of that feels wrong too.
What do you anons think?