Thread 33845935

How come masterbation and cardio are the only 2 ways I can be happy? (Or at least not super depressed). Aren't normal people just like...happy and not depressed just because? How do they do it? I think it's because they all have partners and a vibrant social circle. Maybe I was just not meant to be happy the normal and correct way? How do you normal people do it?

normal people do not have the mental capacity to even think about these things. they are goycattle just living unconsciously. if you are here on this website communicating your thoughts you obviously have some measure of intelligence. so you've got that going for you.

when I was in my deepest darkest depressions I was just living off a credit card and jerking my dick all day. I didn't do anything important. eventually I found an outlet through my songwriting and made an album of music for myself. there was no point in it. nobody ever cared about it. but it gave me something to focus on and kept me alive. I suggest you find something in life that really lights you up; something you can truly get excited over. pursue it relentlessly.

stop watching porn. go outside. do something you don't usually do. wanna know what I used to do when I was just rotting in my apartment all day? I'd get in my car and drive to a diner 40 minutes away. I wasn't meeting anyone there. I just wanted to remove myself from my surroundings. try it and see how it feels.

you're gonna be alright, man. just keep going.

>>33846287
>normal people do not have the mental capacity to even think about these things. they are goycattle just living unconsciously.
Shut up and die, you. You're probably the nasty, serial thread hijacker who spreads as much poison as he can.

>>33846317
nigga what the fuck? I give genuine advice from my personal experience and thats your takeaway? go for a walk, man. the only poison here is your negative attitude.

>>33846328
I'm OP and not >>33846317

Yeah, I think your observation is correct. Most people like him are just dumb and either incapable or too scared of any deep thought or introspection, so they lash out whenever someone suggests they should actually do that

>>33846287
Imagine being called cattle buy a schizoid frogposter

>>33846558
>buy

>>33846287
>if you are here on this website communicating your thoughts you obviously have some measure of intelligence. so you've got that going for you
also
>>33845935 (OP)
Stop posting these juicy tits
it's probably her best pic and she never gets them out for the lads

>>33846965
Thanks for talking to me

>>33846973
aww you're welcome anon
I think a lot of us modulate between being bored and being stressed and both are bad for us. That other spastic was on the right lines (after that embarrassing first line), being bored and purposeless does make you depressed and one reason for that is you end up living too much inside your own head. You need something to shoot for, and if you don't know what you like or what you want then you have to expose yourself to new stimuli until you do.

>>33847055
Why does it feel like I need a gf and I need to get laid regularly in order to feel normal and feel good about myself?

>>33847135
You're not happy and you're looking at other people who are happy and making unconscious assumptions. Only you can make yourself meaningfully happy. If a gf was the only thing that could make you happy you'd be shit scared of losing her to the point nothing would be worth it. She wouldn't respect you if she knew. The whole thing is a non-starter. On the surface it seems counterintuitive but you have to make yourself happy - there has to be things you want to do for yourself that give you satisfaction. When you don't *need* a gf, it's much easier to be confident, which in turn makes you much more likeable.

>>33845935 (OP)
Talk to people. You’re a nobody in (I’m assuming) a big city. You really have nothing to lose you can always retreat to your hole anyways if things go south, but they won’t.

>>33846317
>>33846558
If you think goycattle NPCs arent real youve never been outside or watched TV

>>33845935 (OP)
you're right that having friends and romantic partners helps a lot with being happy, but also most people have dreams and goals. they're too busy chasing their goals to think about how they're feeling, and it's not really possible to feel depressed when you don't think about it.

>>33846287
I agree with you desu .
>>33845935 (OP)
When I was depressed as hell , I used to rot the entire day and feel lonely at times , but then after a few months this all passed and now my lifestyle is mainly the same except for reading books every now and then . I am yet to find anything passionate but i dont feel depression like I did earlier so giving yourself time might make it better as well. But finding sth you are passionate about might work wonders .

>>33845935 (OP)
Are you me?

>>33848237
Probably