>>507433958I have to give you an example,
Someone was talking mad shit to me, and wishing death on me etc.
I realized that they were just coming from a place of helpless rage and I just instinctively knew that and felt that.
I came up to them, repeated what they said to me and then told them I know that they didn't really feel that way and I forgive them for it, because I know they knew that was wrong.
I became their favorite person and they know I have it in me to forgive them for all the awful stuff they say and do, because I get it.
I've never heard another negative thing towards me from them.
It's about recognizing that hurt and pain that causes people to behave certain ways and forgiving them for it.
It makes everyone feel better, its about dropping your own baggage and picking up the other guy's and dropping it for them, or carrying it. It's light as a feather if you are in the right mode.
It doesn't involve any type of "Giving" or monetary exchange, just an emotional type of thing. It's hard to carry that mindset, it's like if someone bumps you at the grocery store and you're White and you both let it go.
You cannot always be like that. But sometimes the opportunity arises for you to be able to do that. I'm not a zealot that's going to excuse a nigger murdering my family member, BUT, you can just see that opportunity in small ways and enact it. You can try it once, if it feels right, over smaller things, and see if you feel it.
I only recommend the use of this practice for White people by White people.
Don't do it with anyone else, they will likely just take advantage of you.