>>81753923
Not quite sure I'm getting your analogy old prune. Do you mean you can't get past the argument stage with girls and weed dealers, and move to some sort of concept?

>>81717006
Why didn't you ask the Instagram girl if she wanted to go to the bar with you? Or better yet, ask her out to a movie?
The good thing about the movie date is that it's low-pressure, you don't have to worry about long awkward silences while you're sitting in a darkened theater watching a film. After the movie you can take her to a restaurant, cafe or bar and then talk about the movie you've just seen. The best bars for this are ones that aren't too crowded or loud, and alcohol is good because it helps you both to loosen up. I hesitate to recommend nightclubs because you don't seem like the type who likes to dance. If you can muster up the nerve to get out on the dance floor then by all means do so, girls love guys who can dance.

>>81690094
This is the best thread series I've seen on this board in years, and in just four days you've shown a dramatic improvement from day 1. You're an inspiration to every robot on this board, OP. I hope you inspire copycats.

But what happened to the femanon who was in the thread from day three? It seemed like you were going to meet up on discord or something. Did anything happen with that? It's not really important, it's far better to meet someone in real life anyway. Also, I seem to have missed the day two thread, can anyone post a link to it?

>>81681093
>Day 3
I guess I missed the Day 2 thread? I'm the guy from the Day 1 thread who told you about that episode of Louis Theroux's Weird Weekends where he gets coached on picking up women.

Anyway, you got the sequence wrong. You're supposed to compliment her first, then quickly introduce yourself, THEN ask a question to get a conversation going. You skipped the first TWO and went straight to the question. Also, and this is important, hitting on one girl a day is going to take too long. You have to do this with every cute girl you see.

Here's what should should have done.
1. Compliment - Say something nice about how she looks or how she acts, any random thing about her. "I love your outfit!" or "Those shoes are so cool!"
2. Introduction - The moment she says "Thank you" say "Hi, I'm anon" and you hold out your hand for her to shake it. Then you quickly go to
3. Question - The avacodo thing was good, but it could have been better. Instead of saying "You good at picking ripe ones" you should have said "So how can I tell when these are ripe? When I buy them they always go bad the next day."

The problem with asking "Are you good at picking the ripe ones?" is that it invites a simple yes or no answer and you risk the conversation dying. When you instead ask her "So how can you tell when these are ripe?" it invites her to explain how she knows which are the good ones. It even gives you the chance to flirt a little, because she'll probably tell you to give them a little squeeze to see if they're firm. You'd smile and say "Just a little squeeze?" Then you can compliment her again and say "Well you seem to know what you're doing. So what do you use avocados for anyway? Do you make your own guacamole or do you have them in salads?" etc., etc.

Now keep in mind that no matter how well you do there is no guarantee of success with any one particular woman. She may have her husband waiting for her in the car in the parking lot, or she may have just come from a funeral

>>81660747
Reading this reminded me of an old episode from Louis Theroux's tv show Weird Weekends. In the episode he talks to Ross Jeffries who was an actual pick up artist before that term got co-opted by hucksters who told you to wear a silly hat and use negging on women. By contrast, Ross Jeffries taught his students to be charming and disarming, and above all confident. Naturally the entire episode is on Youtube, here is the part most relevant to you.

https://youtu.be/hAKRZC86Jyk?list=PLy2wPAFZj_PoCTsyN53piqs_0zud-80k6&t=1604

Here's a clip from earlier in the episode where Ross explains why he doesn't try to pick up women in bars and discos. He explains "The music is too loud, I have to shout to be heard, and women go there to reject men and get free drinks." He then proceeds to pick up some attractive blonde woman at a cafe, seemingly effortlessly.

https://www.google.com/search?q=louis+theroux+ross+jeffries&oq=louis+theroux+ross+jeffries&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYQDIGCAEQLhhA0gEKMjUyNDdqMGoxNagCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#fpstate=ive&vld=cid:1d375ab4,vid:Xn_oqEOtLYU,st:0

I hope you find any of this useful in your noble quest, OP.

>>81586521
>some nobody writes "All men are bad" on reddit
>OP "OMG I hate all women!"
Can you not see the irony here?

>>81539610
Well to be fair, you didn't actually fall in love with an anon. You fell in love with a idealized fantasy perception that you have projected onto anonymous posts on an image board. You don't know this person's name, what they look like, their age, and you probably can't even be sure that all the posts you attribute to your fantasy anon were even written by the same person.

If you accept that your fantasy anon is just that, a fantasy that was never real it will be easier for you to move on and try and form a relationship with someone attainable in the real world. Good luck OP.