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8/1/2025, 12:55:49 AM
>>33442013
If a woman in her late 20's told me she never had sex, i'd smack her in the mouth for lying, how does one even achieve this?
>>33442019
>I feel only repulsion, aversion, guardedness/defensiveness, and fear—it's as far from arousal as it gets.
Don't you think that this is your calling for somethinge else? Instead of running away from this degeneracy you try to embrace it, you try to fit in despite hating it. I myself am a virgin at 21 and i even took an oath not to talk to young women for a year to reflect on my degenerate lifestyle, and i can tell you - do not engage in degeneracy, destroy it.
>I would never consent to trying it. I don't hate men. I don't think they should be made to feel ashamed of normal anatomy or sexuality, especially from someone they're having sex with.
Once you admit that there is something morally wrong from using sex merely as a tool for pleasure and i'd say that you're about 2 inches from embracing Christianity, look at Our Lady, Mary, she would never consider engageing in this either and today she is venerated by billions for her virtue.
>>33442024
I guess what I want (...) is mentally stable, employed or in college, hygienic, nice, between (...) who knows well in advance what he's getting, is into it, respects my boundaries, (...).
Now you're overconstraining what people will see as a casual act, you're making a big deal out of it which reminds me of incels on men's side. There is a movie about this exact phenomenon called The Piano Teacher, but the difference between the protagonist there and you is that you still have a chance to break free of trying to fill your sexual urges and run from them which is a right decision. May God help you...
If a woman in her late 20's told me she never had sex, i'd smack her in the mouth for lying, how does one even achieve this?
>>33442019
>I feel only repulsion, aversion, guardedness/defensiveness, and fear—it's as far from arousal as it gets.
Don't you think that this is your calling for somethinge else? Instead of running away from this degeneracy you try to embrace it, you try to fit in despite hating it. I myself am a virgin at 21 and i even took an oath not to talk to young women for a year to reflect on my degenerate lifestyle, and i can tell you - do not engage in degeneracy, destroy it.
>I would never consent to trying it. I don't hate men. I don't think they should be made to feel ashamed of normal anatomy or sexuality, especially from someone they're having sex with.
Once you admit that there is something morally wrong from using sex merely as a tool for pleasure and i'd say that you're about 2 inches from embracing Christianity, look at Our Lady, Mary, she would never consider engageing in this either and today she is venerated by billions for her virtue.
>>33442024
I guess what I want (...) is mentally stable, employed or in college, hygienic, nice, between (...) who knows well in advance what he's getting, is into it, respects my boundaries, (...).
Now you're overconstraining what people will see as a casual act, you're making a big deal out of it which reminds me of incels on men's side. There is a movie about this exact phenomenon called The Piano Teacher, but the difference between the protagonist there and you is that you still have a chance to break free of trying to fill your sexual urges and run from them which is a right decision. May God help you...
7/25/2025, 10:55:42 AM
>>33410011
You're doing good work brother, it took me myself multiple such phases of 10-20 days before i could ultimately quit and abstain for months, going years.
>I do not like being bombarded by sexual thoughts about people I know and care about rooted with my insecurities.
While we can't prevent this from happening there is 1 hope, He is the man who said
"I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance."
So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.
Never engage in such thoughts when they appear to you, not even mentally, but pray that they don't appear.
It's also said that 91% of men consume porn on a daily basis, but something in you will always cling on to the hope of liberation from this immorality, indeed, Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.
You're doing good work brother, it took me myself multiple such phases of 10-20 days before i could ultimately quit and abstain for months, going years.
>I do not like being bombarded by sexual thoughts about people I know and care about rooted with my insecurities.
While we can't prevent this from happening there is 1 hope, He is the man who said
"I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance."
So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.
Never engage in such thoughts when they appear to you, not even mentally, but pray that they don't appear.
It's also said that 91% of men consume porn on a daily basis, but something in you will always cling on to the hope of liberation from this immorality, indeed, Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.
7/23/2025, 11:17:55 PM
>>17866746
Logical concept so well grounded that it's used in mathematics =/= mental gymnastics.
If your belief system isn't the ultimate logical conclusion why even bother?
No wonder that it was the christian clergy who founded the oldest and most prestigious universities in Europe and Americas, as edgy atheists usually don't see the point in engaging in such debates
Logical concept so well grounded that it's used in mathematics =/= mental gymnastics.
If your belief system isn't the ultimate logical conclusion why even bother?
No wonder that it was the christian clergy who founded the oldest and most prestigious universities in Europe and Americas, as edgy atheists usually don't see the point in engaging in such debates
7/6/2025, 5:34:13 PM
>>33324261
>I have never touched or been touched by a woman my entire life.
This doesn't mean that your life is over or even missing something, most of us here haven't either and we're all feeling you, but there is hope. One way of doing it is rejecting the modern world in almost its entirety.
Consider:
Nobody is having children anymore
Everyone is addicted to social media
Everyone wants to have as much as possible
Everyone wants to boast about what they have, be it material or romantic
Everyone is entangled in jelaousy and wants to ruin others becuase they feel bad (especially modern women)
Now ask yourself - Do i hate it becuase i am not a part of it or becuase something is telling me to be against it?
>People talk about sex and relationships all the time at my age and I HATE it.
Express yourself and they'll see you as pathetic since you're trying to engage but can't, but speak against it and those same people will hate you, becuase they cannot control themselves for being animals while you can.
>by the time I’ve become successful there might not be anyone left to meet because I wouldn’t relate or need to depend on anyone anymore
And this matters how? Many great people have also experienced it, Newton, Tesla, almost every monk-scholar like Aquinas, it means nothing if your spirit is high.
I myself speak from experience, since summer last year, i've not to even spoken to young women and so far i've been approached by some, half-naked ones who try to engage with me as i'm a skateboarder, but i've never engaged becuase lust does not sway me (they get very angry as expected).
When you pick up the cross and realise the degeneracy of the modern world, you will be unbothered by evil, and whores will hate you becuase they will not have power over you. Godspeed
>I have never touched or been touched by a woman my entire life.
This doesn't mean that your life is over or even missing something, most of us here haven't either and we're all feeling you, but there is hope. One way of doing it is rejecting the modern world in almost its entirety.
Consider:
Nobody is having children anymore
Everyone is addicted to social media
Everyone wants to have as much as possible
Everyone wants to boast about what they have, be it material or romantic
Everyone is entangled in jelaousy and wants to ruin others becuase they feel bad (especially modern women)
Now ask yourself - Do i hate it becuase i am not a part of it or becuase something is telling me to be against it?
>People talk about sex and relationships all the time at my age and I HATE it.
Express yourself and they'll see you as pathetic since you're trying to engage but can't, but speak against it and those same people will hate you, becuase they cannot control themselves for being animals while you can.
>by the time I’ve become successful there might not be anyone left to meet because I wouldn’t relate or need to depend on anyone anymore
And this matters how? Many great people have also experienced it, Newton, Tesla, almost every monk-scholar like Aquinas, it means nothing if your spirit is high.
I myself speak from experience, since summer last year, i've not to even spoken to young women and so far i've been approached by some, half-naked ones who try to engage with me as i'm a skateboarder, but i've never engaged becuase lust does not sway me (they get very angry as expected).
When you pick up the cross and realise the degeneracy of the modern world, you will be unbothered by evil, and whores will hate you becuase they will not have power over you. Godspeed
7/1/2025, 10:28:31 PM
>>33301886
The church is not a social club, you are there for Christ, not women, you should not live for the world.
It's a hard reality and many of church-goers don't see the difference, but ask yourself why parishes, nuns and monks exist, they live for the mother Church, not potential women, becuase they have rejected lust and they know that those who are of pure heart will see God.
The unity of which you speak is in structure, God's grace is unique to every person, it is up to us to search for it. It does not mean that people should jump up to you and be hyper-enthusiastic about your presence there, this life is a battle, and one should persist in belief in the Saviour despite no one supporting you - all but 1 of the 12 Apostles died a grusome death in their Belief in Christ, all were rejected like Christ. Doesn't mean that you should be asocial, just humble about your belief, and if no one inspired you, be different!
Godspeed and good luck, don't join a cult please.
The church is not a social club, you are there for Christ, not women, you should not live for the world.
It's a hard reality and many of church-goers don't see the difference, but ask yourself why parishes, nuns and monks exist, they live for the mother Church, not potential women, becuase they have rejected lust and they know that those who are of pure heart will see God.
The unity of which you speak is in structure, God's grace is unique to every person, it is up to us to search for it. It does not mean that people should jump up to you and be hyper-enthusiastic about your presence there, this life is a battle, and one should persist in belief in the Saviour despite no one supporting you - all but 1 of the 12 Apostles died a grusome death in their Belief in Christ, all were rejected like Christ. Doesn't mean that you should be asocial, just humble about your belief, and if no one inspired you, be different!
Godspeed and good luck, don't join a cult please.
6/25/2025, 8:37:57 PM
>>33273813
Never been to a gym my whole life, i skateboard, so /xs/ for me. And to be frank, i do actually plan on becoming a monk, as such i'm sorry for bringing up intercourse in an unserious manner. Either way there are greater things in life than lust, let go of it and you'll see how shallow people who seek it constantly truly are. I don't jack off not becuase of self improvement, but becuas eit's immoral, girls fornicating around is normal, i can only warn people of the dangers and encourage them to repent, but hardly prevent it. Mother of God was a virgin, and that's what matters, people see other girls and are envy, but never turn to Mary to see the beauty of virtue.
I can tell you one thing in experience, girls romanticise the fact that when they get an attractive partner, they are happy that he chose them from all others, that he had options. And this comes down to attraction of women.
So suppose an attractive women has no effect on a man, she already sees that he is different and will try her hardest to win his attention. This happens to me constantly, but my love is not lust, it's doing what is right in the sight of the Lord.
I am sorry again for being somewhat toxic here, but it's helpful sometimes to be provocative to engage in discussions.
Never been to a gym my whole life, i skateboard, so /xs/ for me. And to be frank, i do actually plan on becoming a monk, as such i'm sorry for bringing up intercourse in an unserious manner. Either way there are greater things in life than lust, let go of it and you'll see how shallow people who seek it constantly truly are. I don't jack off not becuase of self improvement, but becuas eit's immoral, girls fornicating around is normal, i can only warn people of the dangers and encourage them to repent, but hardly prevent it. Mother of God was a virgin, and that's what matters, people see other girls and are envy, but never turn to Mary to see the beauty of virtue.
I can tell you one thing in experience, girls romanticise the fact that when they get an attractive partner, they are happy that he chose them from all others, that he had options. And this comes down to attraction of women.
So suppose an attractive women has no effect on a man, she already sees that he is different and will try her hardest to win his attention. This happens to me constantly, but my love is not lust, it's doing what is right in the sight of the Lord.
I am sorry again for being somewhat toxic here, but it's helpful sometimes to be provocative to engage in discussions.
6/23/2025, 10:36:02 AM
>>33260052
Much deserved for being a sodomite. Repent before the LORD and never do it again.
Much deserved for being a sodomite. Repent before the LORD and never do it again.
6/20/2025, 7:23:27 PM
>>33249919
Disregard it as you may, but when most people call you out on something, consider that it may be true, i don't judge anyone, just point out that we can change for the better - rejecting it has no effect, except what your situation had already causes.
Disregard it as you may, but when most people call you out on something, consider that it may be true, i don't judge anyone, just point out that we can change for the better - rejecting it has no effect, except what your situation had already causes.
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