>>532513130
I don't know that just seems comforting if you put it that way, but if you realize that most of your losses are beyond your control it's hard to learn.
Learning to me isn't "I should have bought a better deck" or "played a higher tier deck".
In shadoba I can often reflect about minor things or just the overarching behavior I displayed during gameplay.
I notice a lot something like "hmm if I would have been more aggressive it would have forced them to slow down at this point and I would have increased my odds at pushing for victory with X or Y future draws".
After that I can adjust how I approach matchups and board states.
Sometimes face racing aggro can be sensible. Sometimes giving up a push or major life advantage for a future turn against another class is better.
This does happen in yugioh, but as you say it's rare if so many games are nongames.
It's poor solace that "well should have flipped the coin better lmao"...