> be me, 26yo never girlfriend haver
>hot 30yo fit babe messages me online dating
>meet, even hotter in person
>start seriously dating
>marry after 3 years
>me 30, her 34, still hot
>she wants kids after plandemic, about 2 years later
>time comes, she says, 2 more years
>she starts acting cold
>sex slows
>she starts saying she's unhappy
>wants couples therapy
>she moves out for space to "grow our relationship"
>she says she's never moving home unless couples therapy
>I say not going, tell her to come home
>she starts claiming I'm abusive
>she rewrites history, claims our fun sex wasn't, claims I pressured her into it
>she divorces me
>surprised me
>sad me
>confused me

I know on a certain level she did me a favor, she wasn't getting any younger nor any more pleasant to be around...the opposite actually. But man it still hurts like hell after almost a year being divorced. Women, man, need I say more?

>>512825906

I met my wife when she was 30 and I was 27. We married 3 years later, all the while she told me before marriage that she wanted at least 2 kids and to start trying for them after 2 years. Well 2 years came and went, but her excuses didn't. She slowly lost interest in sex and started blaming me for the relationship going cold. She eventually left and demanded we get therapy or else, I realized she had been the problem and wasn't going to therapy. At 37 she was still saying, "we'll try for kids in 2 years", when you're almost 40?! She then divorced me citing abuse she imagined so that her family would support her leaving. I know I should feel like she did me a favor and like I'm free to meet someone younger now, but I just feel sad and like death even almost a year later. Some of these women are so heartless that they'll leave you feeling nothing but your own heart beat.

>>510072910

Thanks, Fren. I'm neither the first nor the last, but this kind of pain you go through entirely alone. The most anyone could do is sit there in silence with me.

I believe this is more painful than death. Because once you die the pain is over, but every day I live I relive that death. She carved herself out of me in the worst possible way.

I had a dream not long after the divorce was finalized where we were in our bed, the very one I was asleep in, and I woke up just in time to see her repeatedly stabbing me in the heart. I said to her, in this dream, "I'm sorry" as I died and she held the knife in the air while crying and smiling. I don't know what to make of that, but I know I walk around everyday feeling like I'm being stabbed to death by the one I loved.