>>81817151
>>always super sweet, listening to their problems, complimenting them
red flag. not the compliments, or anything. but that you somehow felt that "being completely normal", was worth noting.
you were nice? you listened? you complimented her?
and...? that's what every single man before you also did. it's what every man after will do. its also what women, children, old people will all do this. it's called "being normal". what's next, she sneezes, you say bless you and now you expect a handjob? really going far, up and beyond the social norm there, buddy, sex will surely come pouring from the skies!
no. your broken at a fundamental level, treating the literal dead air filling conversation two people will have to fill idle time as somehow being "worth" something and somehow transactional.
That's a red fuckin flag.
