That is exactly why i'm not playing multiplayer games. I don't want to have anyone telling me how to play. Vidya is my "me time" that means if i want i want to stand around and look at a fucking chair for 10 minutes i will do just that or if i want to mess around in menus instead of rushing from A to B i will also just do that. And especially i don't want to hold up the action for anyone else same as i don't want anyone doing stuff that pisses me off.
That is one side of the coin. The other is the fact that i'm in EU. That means i get matched with everyone from east coast NA all the way to east russia and from fucking finland down to morocco. Which means that the chances of anyone speaking english is very slim. People either don't have mics at all, or if they do they speak their own language, if they don't just forget to enable push to talk and have the TV or somebody else talking in the background.
All that is why pic related.