>>715239387
i've had a genuine 9/10 gf for years. we loved each other deeply. it's still a lot of work. A LOT
the relationship lasted for many years, in the end it didn't work out
i'm only getting older and weaker, the room for improvement is mild
if you date a high value girl, i mean an actual 8-9-10 and not a girl next door you fetichize, you know they're absolutely hounded by other men. at some point the ideal man in her mind becomes an amalgation of all the best traits from all men courting her, and none of the drawbacks
good luck improving yourself to that level. at that tier you're either born with the looks floor required (<0.1%), or not, and there's nothing you can do about the latter
so the question you should ask is not "why can't you just improve yourself"
but rather "why do you think you are not deserving of the best"
there's many self-defeating beliefs like this in most men these days. like the girl next door shit mentioned above. but also the belief you should suffer, instead of getting a hot robot girlfriend for free
don't lament the robotlovers. if you love meat you should be happy there's more organic girls for you to court
