Thread 33608639

Really appreciate it if y'all could give advice without being too judgemental on this one.
I'm not really attracted to guys, I'm a lesbian. I made a deal with one of my male best friends, I'd be his wife in public but privately we'd do our own stuff.
Then we kinda caught feelings for each other in a real way, but as big as I'm into spending the rest of my life with him I just do not feel any attraction at all to his male body.
I feel like this ain't gonna work out but I thought I'd take a shot in the dark and ask a Mongolian basket weaving forum how I can make myself attracted to men?

>>33608639 (OP)
have you tried hetero sex?

I guess hit him with the sissy hypno.

>>33608639 (OP)
Sounds like you need to force him to transition.
I feel like this is something that you want with me and one of the things you keep chasing me with
Mike

>>33608639 (OP)
>I made a deal with one of my male best friends, I'd be his wife in public but privately we'd do our own stuff.
Can you please elaborate a bit here? Because this seems like this was all a long con on his part to eventually fuck you. I can't understand what benefit a heterosexual man would have "pretending" to be married to a gay woman. If you divorced him, you'd have a right to receive alimony and half his assets. Hell, if you had a bad day you could accuse him of marital rape and have him removed from his own house. All that and you don't even occasionally blow him? I smell a heaping pile of bullshit.

>>33608639 (OP)
idk how you caught feelings for someone romantically if you arent sexually attracted to then.

its not really romantic feelings then. you probably are just close with him and because all of this marriage talk youre confused maybe. idk what you mean by feelings you have to elaborate here

>>33608639 (OP)
Sounds like you're romantically bi but sexually lesbian. Unless you don't care about sex, idk how it'll work out well for you both

Get a third who's bi. You can still be physically close, even intimate, while having a sexual outlet who brings the whole thing together.

>>33608659
fpbp

human bodies are pretty gross until they're all over you

>>33608639 (OP)
Its hard to not be judgamental ngl. God damn that sound so stupid. But heterosexual relationships are more productive, homosexuality is literal dust and aids, zero family, zero late life planning just sex and lust in the moment for what? For getting old and dying alone and forgotten in the asylum. Having a family one day is incredibly useful because you cant go on forever so yeah embrace being hetero, date the guy whatever job he does just support him and support his promotions into better roles that pay more. Try to make it happen with him. It will improve everything. Finally you stopped being miserable for a moment there.

>inb4 op is a tranny thus infertile and very limited and just roleplaying
Dont introduce yourself just as "lesbian" if so, because how the fuck can you get advice specific to your situation if you just open up with that

OP has not replied to a single post, another boring larp

>>33608802
Not really into trans people so maybe not.
>>33608820
We're FWB but I mostly just let him hit while I look at porn on my phone. It scratches the itch but it isn't great.
>>33609433
I'd like to have kids with this guy and live with him into old age. I want to make a family together with him, but I'm just not sexually into him.
>>33609635
Feels depressing to think that's the best I can do.
>>33609585
Bi thing might work but I'm worried he and she might get involved so I'd rather keep them separate if that's something everyone can be on board with.

>>33610020
>Feels depressing to think that's the best I can do.

Well it is likely best u can do because the time to "shine" for a human being is actually really short and it happens under extraordinary circumstances, most human beings were not meant to revolutionize art, science, etc its just not like that especially when a lot of things have already been invented and we just have rehashes or optimizations of mechanisms we figured out long ago, all that is "innovative" now is AI nothing else is happening, sensors that shit humanity figured them out like more than 50 years ago, now there is AI that self drives cars for example booho, im not super impressed by it.

What i mean is yes in fact: having a family is meaningful because likely you are not the super genius you dreamt of being, having kids can carry your legacy & your features dats meaningful when it happens you will understand because you can educate them however you want, even politically its the best thing you can do long term whatever might be that you believe in and also as a means of having somebody to carry your stunted legacy, when you aint able to finish up a colossal life project your kids might. So trust me just build them up, and you fall in love with your creations too, its almost impossible you do not. You will see what I mean, the first years are the most tender ones. And its not depressing, what is depressing is missing out forever on this potential. Because survival on our own past our prime when we are just rotting away glooming at life gets boring so fast. Truth is for most of us this ends up being the best we did, very few of us end up being extraordinary like i said, we end up settling for being mundane because when all the opportuny windows are lost aging, the mundane ol things that just work are the ones dat satisfy the most, u never knew how great you had it until you lost it sorta deal when it comes to those physical capacities, etc.

>>33610020
think about this, you might have a daughter with that dude. This will improve things just do it. you can also roll a moid (male) ofc which i assume you dont like as much but who knows your perspective on males might change when it happens. Ideally you roll a female though, its obvious thats what you would prefer raising.

>>33608639 (OP)
You have probably entered your mid 20s, which means the social contagion and underdeveloped brain are wearing off that made possible your belief you are lesbian.

>>33610020
ok bro i wanna have kids with my best friend but i dont wanna fuck him. lol i think you just wanna be friends w him. idk tho you saying you let him fuck you while youre watching porn is crazy i wouldnt do that for my best friend but also thats bc im afraid of being gay probably, but thats also just like idk i would be grossed out by it so probably your sexuality is like idk some different shit but i think u guys should jus be friensd prolly if ur not getting enjoyment out of the sex. or maybe ur just asexual unless u like fucking chicks

>>33610020
>>33608639 (OP)
I'll never square "I'm a lesbian" with "Sometimes I let my friend fuck me while I watch porn and I hope we grow old and have kids together."

I think you might be sexually confused.

>>33608639 (OP)
what a cringe fucking meme

>>33611629
women be like that. lots of times women are bisexual just with a strong attraction to women bodies or some shit. idk i dont get women. maybe a man never had sex with her and satisfied her because a lot of men just go jack hammer on the pussy, they dont eat out or rub them up or gently pinch their nipples or fondle their breasts. Most of us dont know how to eat pussy.

>>33608639 (OP)
Aren't you just confusing "best friend" love with romantic love?

>>33608639 (OP)
whats in it for him? you get the marriage and appearances.
he gets... what? a sexless marriage? or is he gay? or has some other thing to hide?

>>33610020
Imagine having sex with someone while they look at porn and try to ignore you, that poor man. I honestly can't believe the way people can treat each other. Human beings are fucking awful.

>>33608639 (OP)
>m a lesbian. I made a deal with one of my male best friends, I'd be his wife in public but privately we'd do our own stuff.

Why? Why would you do this?

i mean if by "privately we'd do our own stuff" you mean the relationship will be open for him to fuck other women, then weirdly enough this might be the ideal scenario
1. married to a woman you can stand and enjoy spending time with
2. reproduce, so biological imperative fulfilled
3. can fuck any woman you want without fear of accusations

i'd take that deal.

>>33611629
wonder if she's on hormonal birth control or regular endocrine fuckery that caused her brain to be broken (lesbian)