>>82267593
It also leads to being a fuckin boring nerd with no friends and certainly no gf ever.

>in b4

There's more to society than just a violent retard who drops out of a high school or a boring incel who's obsessed with homework and regular work. Most people are more than able to get good grades and then have friends and go on dates.

If you're unable to balance studies & work/social life, you're not the perfect human being you think you are.

>>33545310
>>33545382
>>33545496
>Your 20s are for ignoring your social life and women, and instead being a good worker at your job

>>33527012
>>33526987
>>33526785
Anyone can look good enough, face or body.

100% guaranteed OP's problem is that he doesn't know how to talk to women - probably people in general.

many such cases

>>33526898
>I put all my points in career and physique. I don’t really have time to “get to know her” and that shit
oh no
see what I mean?
bro will do everything to get a girlfriend except actually talk to girls

>>33508711
>no social life
>no friends
>no real lifestyle
>no real hobbies
>boring
>is only able to define himself through his job

This is why you don't have a gf. Every single time someone makes a "I have no gf" thread and the very first thing they post about themselves is their stupid job. Oh and you wear stupid clothes too, congrats. Way to stand out as an individual.

>>82192969
>no social life
>no friends
>no real lifestyle
>no real hobbies
>boring
>is only able to define himself through his job

This is why you don't have a gf. Every single time someone makes a "I have no gf" thread and the very first thing they post about themselves is their stupid job. Oh and you wear stupid clothes too, congrats. Way to stand out as an individual.

>>33498683
Money is a meme, dudes are getting girls in high school and middle school, unemployed slobs have more pussy than they know what to do with.

The worst thing you can do is become a careercel, thinking that women just fall out of the sky once you reach X amount of money in your savings or whatever.

>>33487037
>this meme again

>>33457130
>Life Goals

>>33395809
>get very rich and lifemaxx
not this again

>>510635712
>I only want a house
You get the house and you enjoy it for a while. "Wow, finally my very own place. I'm my own person now, this is where my life actually starts" you'll think to yourself. Then the thrill wears off. Then you get used to it. You'll notice that not much really changed, all your habits stayed the same, you stayed the same, you're just in a different place, except now you have the added responsibility of maintaining that place. Your job will stay the same and you'll come home tired and defeated and it won't matter where you come home to, you'll still eat the same food you did before and you'll still have to go to work tomorrow.

So you see, first it's
>I only want a house

Then it's
>I only want a loving partner

Then it's
>I only want a child

Then it's
>I only want to retire

You'll get used to the house. Then you'll post a thread about how you can't find a good mother to your children. Then you'll post about how you don't make enough to raise a kid.
Do you see? It's not just the house.

>>81787282
>women having unrealistic standards
May I see them?

>cue the generic incel bullshit about women only dating millionaires who are 7 feet tall with 5 engineering degrees and an 8 inch cock

>>33334344
I think most incels are just extremely anti-social, which is why the idea of going out to the movies on a date or going to bars to meet girls is just this completely dreadful insurmountable task.

For a normal guy, going to bars and to the movies and going out dancing is something they'd be doing anyways - so it doesn't feel like a punishment or humiliation ritual for them. They're certainly not gonna be keeping bills and making spread sheets and then coming up with a cope about how it's only logical to buy hookers because it's cheaper.

But yeah there's also plenty of incels that have just an endless list of demands for their future girlfriend
>she has to be a virgin
>she also has to be sex-craved and hungry for my cock
>she can't dye her hair
>she can't have any piercings
>she's not allowed to go out dancing with female friends
>she's not allowed to travel
>she can't be from a dating app
>she can't be on social media
>she can't have any male friends
>she can't have any female friends either
>she has to have a high school diploma but mustn't have any sort of college degree
>she's not allowed to wear two-piece bathing suits at the beach or swimming pool
>she's not allowed to go to the beach or swimming pool

it just goes on and on

and then there's the careercels/workcels who were misguided by other careecels/workcels into thinking that they need to like buy a million dollar mansion before being able to even start to think about going on their very first date.

but really I think the common thread is that most incels don't enjoy socializing - whether it's with women on a date or just having friends or some sort of social life in general.

>>33324469
>bro wants to talk about his sex life and dating
>first thing he introduces about himself is his fuckin job

people who work at taco bell or even live off welfare manage to have sex, your job has absolutely nothing to do with getting laid.

>At 30, I've mostly noticed women my age that are single wanting "a provider" and someone to provide offspring for them.
No they don't, they still want someone who's interesting and charismatic and can show them a good time.
>It's kind of annoying seeing that these same women wanted nothing to do with me at 20.
They still want nothing to do with you?

>>33324569
>OP said he only started getting attention in his 30s.
No he didn't. He said he thinks that women want to settle for a nerd provider, they don't.

Bro has never been on a single date his entire life it sounds like, don't think we should be taking his word on what women around him are like and what they want.