>>23180619
>Bringing such a complicated life form into the world that needs a present mother and father figure is delicate work and getting a divorce because you are both too weak to admit you need therapy is pretty pathetic as far as I can tell when the stakes are "maladjusted, miserable child" or "happy child"
the thing is, if a couple is at the point of either:
- get a divorce
- stay together only for the kids
then the kids are rarely going to turn out happy and well-adjusted
but yeah, it seems like kids tend to turn out better when the parents stay divorced
kids with miserable parents often wish their parents had separated later in life, even if it was for their sake