>>1791744
>but not too cool that it would remind them they're not him
That's kinda strange. Isn't the point of self inserting being able to become someone you never will be IRL in the first place? I mean, won't a harem make sense if the MMC is some multi-talented ikemen instead of bland motherfucker #832? It actually kind of ruins immersion when the protag looks too fucking ordinary/plain.