>>40881233
Happens like clockwork - part of the process of sexual habituation.
After several orgasms with a partner nature wants you to move on to a new partner to spread your genes, so it triggers people to engage in "distancing behavior". This phenomenon is well documented in the book "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow".

>>40842162
Many anons think that they will do SR, find a GF / wife and be cooming in her with no worries happily ever after.
Wrong. With every orgasm you are causing habituation - lower dopamine response each time. This is why couples try to "spice things up" trying new things, because dopamine is all about novelty. It's a losing battle, however, which is why infidelity, porn use, etc. are the norm in marriages. After some years together nature intends for you to split and seek new partners to spread your genes - this is the evolutionary purpose of sexual habituation.

Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" which explains this in detail and the methods to avoid habituation, as well as methods to increase bonding with your partner.

>>40801620
If you value your partner, it's really the only way.
Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow"
tldr: orgasms initiate relationship self-destruct sequence through the process of habituation.
Nature intends for you to split up after a few years to spread your genes. The neurochemical changes following orgasm are nature's tool to achieve this. Ancient cultures understood this and developed methods to avoid it.

>>40645105
>>40645252
>>40647459
everyone in this thread needs to read this book.
it's on libgen
tldr: orgasms initiate relationship self-destruct sequence. Makes you and your partner much more likely to fight, break up, cheat, etc.
Sex can and should be had, but without orgasm unless trying for procreation.

>>40632788
>I'm limiting myself to coom once a month or better have real sex
Cooming with a partner initiates relationship self-destruct sequence. Don't do this if you want to keep her.
Everyone in this thread needs to read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow"
It's on libgen