>>41400707
>get her off
Bad idea. Orgasms normally cause habituation between partners - lower dopamine response each time. This is why couples try to "spice things up" trying new things, because dopamine is all about novelty. It's a losing battle, however, which is why infidelity, porn use, etc. are the norm in marriages. Orgasms cause partners to irritate each other, initiate fights - it's the result of the dopamine and oxytocin falling, the hormones that are the foundation of your feelings of love. Couples who have more frequent orgasmic sex are more likely to break up than those who have less. After some years together nature intends for you to split and seek new partners to spread your genes - this is the evolutionary purpose of sexual habituation.
Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" which explains this in detail and the methods to avoid habituation, as well as methods to increase bonding with your partner.
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>>41382524
>give your woman as many orgasms as you can
Bad idea. Orgasms normally cause habituation between partners - lower dopamine response each time. This is why couples try to "spice things up" trying new things, because dopamine is all about novelty. It's a losing battle, however, which is why infidelity, porn use, etc. are the norm in marriages. Orgasms cause partners to irritate each other, initiate fights - it's the result of the dopamine and oxytocin falling, the hormones that are the foundation of your feelings of love. Couples who have more frequent orgasmic sex are more likely to break up than those who have less. After some years together nature intends for you to split and seek new partners to spread your genes - this is the evolutionary purpose of sexual habituation.
Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" which explains this in detail and the methods to avoid habituation, as well as methods to increase bonding with your partner.
>give your woman as many orgasms as you can
Bad idea. Orgasms normally cause habituation between partners - lower dopamine response each time. This is why couples try to "spice things up" trying new things, because dopamine is all about novelty. It's a losing battle, however, which is why infidelity, porn use, etc. are the norm in marriages. Orgasms cause partners to irritate each other, initiate fights - it's the result of the dopamine and oxytocin falling, the hormones that are the foundation of your feelings of love. Couples who have more frequent orgasmic sex are more likely to break up than those who have less. After some years together nature intends for you to split and seek new partners to spread your genes - this is the evolutionary purpose of sexual habituation.
Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" which explains this in detail and the methods to avoid habituation, as well as methods to increase bonding with your partner.
>>41319098
Learn Karezza techniques, which is sex that focuses on bonding and abstaining from orgasm.
Detailed in the book "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow".
Learn Karezza techniques, which is sex that focuses on bonding and abstaining from orgasm.
Detailed in the book "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow".
>>41297620
If you're not trying to have children, you should retain.
If this is someone you care about and you want to keep it that way, avoiding orgasm is the only way to go since the orgasms cause habituation to your partner - lower dopamine response each time. This is why couples try to "spice things up" trying new things, because dopamine is all about novelty. It's a losing battle, however, which is why infidelity, porn use, etc. are the norm in marriages. Orgasms cause partners to irritate each other, initiate fights - it's the result of the dopamine and oxytocin falling, the hormones that are the foundation of your feelings of love. Couples who have more frequent orgasmic sex are more likely to break up than those who have less. After some years together nature intends for you to split and seek new partners to spread your genes - this is the evolutionary purpose of sexual habituation.
Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" which explains this in detail and the methods to avoid habituation, as well as methods to increase bonding with your partner.
If you're not trying to have children, you should retain.
If this is someone you care about and you want to keep it that way, avoiding orgasm is the only way to go since the orgasms cause habituation to your partner - lower dopamine response each time. This is why couples try to "spice things up" trying new things, because dopamine is all about novelty. It's a losing battle, however, which is why infidelity, porn use, etc. are the norm in marriages. Orgasms cause partners to irritate each other, initiate fights - it's the result of the dopamine and oxytocin falling, the hormones that are the foundation of your feelings of love. Couples who have more frequent orgasmic sex are more likely to break up than those who have less. After some years together nature intends for you to split and seek new partners to spread your genes - this is the evolutionary purpose of sexual habituation.
Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" which explains this in detail and the methods to avoid habituation, as well as methods to increase bonding with your partner.
>>40881233
Happens like clockwork - part of the process of sexual habituation.
After several orgasms with a partner nature wants you to move on to a new partner to spread your genes, so it triggers people to engage in "distancing behavior". This phenomenon is well documented in the book "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow".
Happens like clockwork - part of the process of sexual habituation.
After several orgasms with a partner nature wants you to move on to a new partner to spread your genes, so it triggers people to engage in "distancing behavior". This phenomenon is well documented in the book "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow".
>>40842162
Many anons think that they will do SR, find a GF / wife and be cooming in her with no worries happily ever after.
Wrong. With every orgasm you are causing habituation - lower dopamine response each time. This is why couples try to "spice things up" trying new things, because dopamine is all about novelty. It's a losing battle, however, which is why infidelity, porn use, etc. are the norm in marriages. After some years together nature intends for you to split and seek new partners to spread your genes - this is the evolutionary purpose of sexual habituation.
Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" which explains this in detail and the methods to avoid habituation, as well as methods to increase bonding with your partner.
Many anons think that they will do SR, find a GF / wife and be cooming in her with no worries happily ever after.
Wrong. With every orgasm you are causing habituation - lower dopamine response each time. This is why couples try to "spice things up" trying new things, because dopamine is all about novelty. It's a losing battle, however, which is why infidelity, porn use, etc. are the norm in marriages. After some years together nature intends for you to split and seek new partners to spread your genes - this is the evolutionary purpose of sexual habituation.
Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" which explains this in detail and the methods to avoid habituation, as well as methods to increase bonding with your partner.
>>40801620
If you value your partner, it's really the only way.
Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow"
tldr: orgasms initiate relationship self-destruct sequence through the process of habituation.
Nature intends for you to split up after a few years to spread your genes. The neurochemical changes following orgasm are nature's tool to achieve this. Ancient cultures understood this and developed methods to avoid it.
If you value your partner, it's really the only way.
Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow"
tldr: orgasms initiate relationship self-destruct sequence through the process of habituation.
Nature intends for you to split up after a few years to spread your genes. The neurochemical changes following orgasm are nature's tool to achieve this. Ancient cultures understood this and developed methods to avoid it.
>orgasms let out the lovely magical feeling you have built up during intercourse. Plus they are such an addictive thing; the next day annoying feelings of being in the mood for more kept interrupting my thoughts. Sex without orgasm leaves such a long-lasting satisfaction as compared to sex with orgasm that it is almost ironic.
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>>40645252
>>40647459
everyone in this thread needs to read this book.
it's on libgen
tldr: orgasms initiate relationship self-destruct sequence. Makes you and your partner much more likely to fight, break up, cheat, etc.
Sex can and should be had, but without orgasm unless trying for procreation.
>>40645252
>>40647459
everyone in this thread needs to read this book.
it's on libgen
tldr: orgasms initiate relationship self-destruct sequence. Makes you and your partner much more likely to fight, break up, cheat, etc.
Sex can and should be had, but without orgasm unless trying for procreation.
>>40632788
>I'm limiting myself to coom once a month or better have real sex
Cooming with a partner initiates relationship self-destruct sequence. Don't do this if you want to keep her.
Everyone in this thread needs to read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow"
It's on libgen
>I'm limiting myself to coom once a month or better have real sex
Cooming with a partner initiates relationship self-destruct sequence. Don't do this if you want to keep her.
Everyone in this thread needs to read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow"
It's on libgen