>>544909337
The best way to use discord is to lurk and say nothing but form parasocial relationships with your clubmates in your head and get a feel for their likes, dislikes, speech patterns, images they use, music they like, other games they play and the like. You don't speak but you have this much info on everyone that speaking after so long feels weird and you already know everything you can about everyone who posts so you slowly drift away and hide it in your dozens of folders until someone in game chat reminds you the discord exists but you have to find it.