>>715360097
Fuckin' tell me about it.
I got stuck with getting dubbed a golddigging GILF hunter because I want my partner to have a degree of emotional maturity and applicable real-world competence. Seemingly being functioning in basic household chores, being able to follow a simple cooking recipe, having a grip on finances so rent and other mandatory expenses are handled, communicating grievances so they don't explode in a sudden fit of anger,
What I'd always assumed to be basic adulting skills, I apparently shouldn't expect in people unless they're over 40.
I don't want a second mother, or a daughter I can fuck. I want a partner with their own autonomy and a basic level of being a functional human being. I don't mind helping her out with a good few things. Just not someone who's still as mature as a grade schooler at age 35.
I really thought that wasn't a big ask...