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building on this, there is a really interesting dichotomy on the internet at the moment where straight men are expected to not express plain sexual attraction, they must either jokingly admit to it (muscle mommy, dom me or "the male gaze is bad buuuuuttt") or present it in a safer form such as dojacat did with his gay music video.
this is all said while some women will gladly sell nudes or pictures of their feet for $$$ without shame and are allowed to be openly sexual since they are not in a position of perceived power (holding soft power instead).
it is almost like a inverse of the Madonna whore complex.
men are for the most part expected to be straight but to admit to it plainly is bad so they must do it veiled behind a joking or playful veneer like a chaste princess.
this also contributed to dojacat's video.