>>33614844
>the fact that only crushing loneliness awaits me?
The surest guarantee of that is assuming it's true. Engage with life as if the woman of your dreams was just around the corner, and there's a chance she might be. Assume she isn't there, and you won't even notice her when she comes along

>>33609772
Without even meeting you I can guarantee two things

1. You never reach oit to others, but wait for them to befriend you. Know this - from the outside, shyness and social awkwardness can look just like aloofness. If you don't occasionally make the first move, others will conclude that YOU don't like THEM, and they will try to respect what they think are your wishes by leaving you alone.

2. You walk around unconsciously broadcasting vibes of "I'm valueless. Don't waste your time on me." It comes through in your writing.

>>33551078
You learned an ENORMOUS lesson - you are not as unlovable as you thought you were. The thing to carry away from that is NOT "What was wrong with her that made her like me?" but "I did it before, so I can do it again."

At least 80% of inceldom comes from the incel ASSUMING he's unlovable and therefore unconsciously broadcasting vibes of "Don't bother with me - I'm not worth your attention." Stop broadcasting that message and I promise she won't be the last to notice you.

There was a tarot reading thread yesterday on /r9k/ and I asked a question, the answer was positive and now I'm worried it won't happen because I was seeking answers in a place that didn't come from God

How can I get rid of this fetish?

>>33417444
Even from your post it is obvious that you walk around broadcasting vibes of "I'm not worth your time. Look elsewhere" THAT is what chases them away.

>>33353541
I am 5'8" and have never lacked for girlfriends. Find some other excuse.

>>33339688
>I have a few mental issues with depression,
Without realizing it, you walk around broadcasting vibes of "Ignore me - I'm not worth your attention."

>>33313711
Sometimes the unhappiness you know is more comfortable than the happiness you don't.

>>33289066
Because you walk around unconsciously broadcasting signals of "Don't bother with me. I'm not worth your attention."

>>33248324
It is much more true the other way around. The happier you are, the better you look