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>doesn’t want to sign a prenup
Retired psychologist here. When people say negative things about themselves either directly, or by "psychologizing" that is improper universalizing hence tacit self-inclusion/confession through projection/gaslighting ('EVERYBODY is out to take what they can' or as in OP post picrel), or simple implicit actions/refusals to act (as here), believe them.
She is honest, what libertarian author Robert Ringer calls a Type 1: She says she will screw you over, because she intends to and WILL screw you over.
She just told you she intends to divorce-rape you.
Believe her.
Don't try to fix, excuse, or convince her. She has in effect told you that anything she does/says from here on in is to screw you over. Her friends seem to confirm it and that she acts in a way that shows she devalues men as suckers prey to her psychologizing BS.
I repeat: She just told you she intends to divorce-rape you.
Believe her.
Good luck, OP.