>>83102901
sure there are some people around that are 100 percent creeps, but i think mostly people in public just act on instinct when they look, and whether you keep on staring or not filters the creeps from the rest. Like imagine you see a lady with big breasts in a tanktop and without a bh. Her nipples are visible and the breasts bounce with every step. Ofcourse you instinctively look, its like watching at a big white paper with 2 black dots. Ofcourse your eyes are drawn to the two dots. Theres no thought behind that first glance. And then in a split second the realization comes that you look at breasts and thus it could turn sexual. and iffy people will think nice and normal people will redirect their glance and either think nice, or will try their hardest not to glance,. but in this situation even you would look at the breasts, just out of pure reflex, maybe even happened often enough but you just didnt remember because after the reflex you didnt have any following thought about it because you are straight. Same thing if you see a person with a very bright hat, you will look at it, the thoughts come after. So when people look at you in public, most of the time its just reflex, without any judging or rating or sexualising. Maybe keep that in your mind, maybe will help you chill out a bit. Except if you are in some sketchy country like india or egypt, there you can be sure that they stare at you with the vilest imagination possible lmao