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Thread 33404277 Archived
finally mustered up the courage to talk to my crush at work. Who has been exchanging glances with me..
But I think I did it in the most dorky way. I told her "Hey I don't think we've been properly int...
Are woman just passive by nature? Archived
Something I’ve noticed is that women seem to want guys to do all the work. Even the ones that try to get my attention eventually want me to initiate every time. I always second guess whether or not th...
Is vaping retarded? Archived
I bought a vape last week and I just can't get enough of it. I used to smoke socially regularly in my younger years but was never addicted. I'd do 10 cigarettes on a Friday night and that was it. When...
Roblox? Archived
Uh, hello? I need advice on what to do in a situation where you can't get through to roblox support? I had a situation where the refund verification is not confirmed at all. I was transferred to the s...
Thread 33403106 Archived
>dropout (compsci (no I didn't because of AI, everything went to shit during coof and I wasn't going to keep paying into that)
>look for jobs (no internships because retarded)
>tech jobs won't reply b...
How can I let go of my grudges? Archived
It’s been almost five years I finished school and I still only think about revenge. I went to an all-girls secondary school and was bullied relentlessly. I was already spergy when I started so I don’t...
ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT We ask the opposite gender anything. (With a few exceptions: see below).
Note: the clue is in the name. If you're not replying to another anon, your post MUST be in the form of a question, and di...
Why not give up on women Archived
Between pocket pussys chatbots and IDF what can i get from a woman that i cant replace with a trinket from our techno overlords if om going to give up why cant i just ignore the other sexes existence ...
Thread 33400132 Archived
I want to try some natural supplements like 5htp and St. John's Wort to remove my anxiety but I also tend to drink two, three times per week and I heard that combining them is bad. If I only take them...
Mind control Archived
My guy friend of 4 years has a gf as of recent. We stopped talking for about a year but we always had a bond that could pick up again whenever and we met up a few days ago to check in on each other.
...
Thread 33394332 Archived
I'm 33. My only girlfriend was a single mother of three who I dumped within a week of being with her because I knew I could not raise another man's kids (and these kids each had a different dad) and s...
Where do I go from here? Archived
I've fallen into an extremely depressive hole over the last 3 months and can't get back out again.
>29/M/LA
>marriage dissolving
>wife basically put me through a con act lasting years
>going to have t...
The doctor is *IN* Archived
I would like to offer advice to people on /adv/. Come ask me a question that doesn't have it's own thread and I'll do my best.
To the guy spamming the board at moment: my advice is to kill yourself
Thread 33404117 Archived
How do I make sure thst women don't feel like they are suffering in silence?
jobs that don't check for diploma? Archived
Need a job that requires diploma but doesn't check. I also don't have a license so I can't do delivery jobs. Wagie jobs like Mcdonalds and walmart don't wanna hire me. I'm 18+ tho and working on getti...
Thread 33400336 Archived
I am 20 and this started happening when I was 16/17. No other male in my family started balding until their late 50s, and it began with their hairline receding. My hairline is at norwood 0. No doctors...
I'm a 18-years-old loser who's afraid to talk to women Archived
I have an intense fear of talking to women. I was never very self-confident because I grew up isolated during the pandemic, and I was also obese. Now I'm just overweight, but I still struggle with sel...
how do i stop loving a person? Archived
hello people, i'm trying to deal with a conundrum right now. i'm like very, very attached to this person i met online. it's the kind of wholesome relationship you have with a person, she's the best pe...
I've solved OCD. Archived
Any anons in here with genuine OCD?
Ask a brother for advice. I can genuinely help you.
t. saw two expensive pros and had an insane journey. OCD for 35 years. Seize the opportunity.
Thread 33402715 Archived
Any point in proposing a strictly sexual arrangement with a girl who shot down my attempt at a relationship? For context - we've hooked up here and there, and it's always been a good time.
Thread 33395358 Archived
I'm really attracted to Latinas. How do I get a Latina gf? I'm white and live in Texas.
Thread 33403385 Archived
>me and my best friend engaged in cocsa when i was 10 and he was 11 in 2015
>60% him 40% me
>he taught me how to masturbate and essentially had anal sex with me
>for context, we both watched porn at a...
Thread 33401843 Archived
So I was on Facebook dating andthis cutie in pic related had her snapchat on there and I added her. She has been responsive and hasn't ghosted (a rarity). The problem is she has two new borns so she w...
Thread 33384931 Archived
No fap
Real or gay?
how can I end myself the right way Archived
Just killing myself at this point seems pretty blackpilling because i see humans losing the zeitgeist in every outcome except total collapse. I want to fight for the humans and save one life. How do I...
Thread 33403459 Archived
This questions for the guys. I moved in with my bf recently, and he has this weird smell in his apartment and idk what it is. My brother had the same smell in his room and it's a kind of astringent sm...
First Heartbreak Archived
Hello, I have a bad feeling about my relationship. Worst case if we do break up, how can I cope without having a mental breakdown? This is my first relationship, 2 years, I'm 28.
Is it possible to learn ambition as an adult? Archived
My whole life I did things because I was either supposed to or to avoid doing something I didn't want to do. I never was particularly happy with my life choices but I just accepted it as life and it's...
I might hate women Archived
To clarify I'm not an incel.
I managed to have few long term relationships through my life and have no intention of doing hookups or one night stands.
Reasons why I don't want to keep on having rela...
Thread 33400485 Archived
I'm worried that I'm starting to like this site more than any other social media.
I got into a stupid fucking argument on Twitter today, and it completely ruined my mood. I've also been using 4chan a...
Thread 33403450 Archived
I'm 35 and currently living off an inheritance, which I’ve fully invested into a portfolio consisting of 70% S\&P 500 and 30% bonds. Based on my calculations, this setup should provide me with around ...
Thread 33400342 Archived
How the fuck do I sleep? Whenever I try to fall asleep I get headaches that feel like a stroke and my heart is racing, I literally cannot sleep for more than 4h and wake up multiple times, I feel like...
Thread 33403093 Archived
is nofap a meme or does your life actually get better somehow when you don't touch your ween? discuss.
Who can i serve really Archived
I dont want to fight and die for a nation that thinks i am worth less then dirt and i dont want to be expendable but the military if the only path left for people like me to actually have some form of...
Thread 33400225 Archived
As an awkward incel in his mid twenties how do I go to a bar or a club if I never went to one before? I don't know what to do but I'm just going to risk it and ask as many women as possible (who aren'...
should i regularly go on dates Archived
so i don't become too socially retarded and awkward? i don't really want anything i guess i'd kinda like sex but i feel zero romantic interest or love (only arousal) and in my heart i believe in chris...
do i take the mochapill? Archived
ever since birth ive never tried coffee as a comorbid result of autism, negligence, and seeing adults in miserable states while drinking it. when i heard it referred to as an addiction i started inten...
Need help Archived
It's genuinely fucking over for me. When I was younger, I was raped by a family member who was someone I thought was doing good for me. Years later, Ive come to terms that it has affected my sexual we...
is it wrong to expect my boyfriend to travel to come to court with me? Archived
i don’t want to post this on reddit, i fear it is too bad to post there. i don’t know. i want to be anonymous ,
for context
i was raped a little over a year ago, when it happened i decided i wasn’t go...
How do I recover from this plz Archived
>partner and I talk about how relationship isn’t doing too well
>fuck
>i already knew this after you raped me
>and choked me until I passed out
>partner says I have Stockholm syndrome
>duh
>why’d you...
Thread 33402385 Archived
> be me
>only have one friend and he’s online. Constantly moving so can’t keep a real relationship
> really close. First thing I do is text him every morning and last thing I do is tell him good nig...
I want lower blepharoplasty but kinda scared Archived
I hate this shit I had them since forever and this is how they look with makeup on. But I heard lower blepharoplasty has a chance of vision loss , need to do more research but Google says it is rare. ...
Thread 33401980 Archived
Is it better to have a toxic gf than to be single?
At least the guy with the bad gf has a girlfriend
Jobs Without a Schedule Archived
This is possible the hundredth or so time I'm posting a thread like this over the course of several years. I cannot maintain a schedule due to insomnia caused at least mostly by OCD. I cannot work a 9...
Thread 33401039 Archived
Four years ago when I was 14 I had to go to the doctor for an examination and her 12 year old daughter saw me completely naked after my mother signed a consent form for her to spectate after the docto...
Thread 33402314 Archived
>be me
>16 at the time, socially awkward nerd
>obsessed with trying to get gf, though was never successful
>had spent half my life at that point on that, forgot how to think abt other things
>go to ch...
Thread 33399014 Archived
What's worse, a 30+ year old trying to cling to and recreate the past or a 30+ year old who tries to fit in with the youth culture of the current generation?
How do I make social interactions less exhausting? Archived
Simple question, I just feel a lot of my energy drain from vapid social interactions which indludes pointless small talk, etc. Even more productive discussions, unless I', on a pretty similar waveleng...
I am the crab in a bucket Archived
i go through this start to feel like absolute shit self isolate then reach out 99% of the time i have nobody to reach out to and fuck it its definitely my fault but then i guess i get to the anger sta...
Why can’t I eat? Archived
These past few days it’s been hard to eat, every food disgusts me and recently I haven’t been feeling hungry, I only eat when my head starts to hurt and my stomach aches as if I’m about to throw up. W...
Urges to self sabotage Archived
I have a good job, exercise regularly and a pretty gf but inside me I feel the urge to do things that I know will fuck me over eventually.
Last weekend i was invited to a birthday in a club by cowork...
Thread 33398960 Archived
how do I cope with the fact that I've lost the ability to do the one thing I was put on this earth to do? I was supposed to be a novelist, but a few years back I had a stroke and completely lost the a...
Thread 33398137 Archived
My bf is 27 and has zero friends
I’m not exaggerating. He has a good government job, few hobbies but no close friends.
I don’t know how it’s possible, he has a leadership role at his job and somehow...
Thread 33401371 Archived
Should I go to work as a courier or a taxi driver, instead of getting higher education?
Got his email Archived
A little scumbag took over my epicgames account. I got my account back and I now know his email address after I requested all account data including its history. What can i do to fuck him up? Its a @r...
I got cucked. How do I heal? Archived
My first GF ended up cucking me and giving her virginity to the man that stole her and I think it has permanently scarred my psyche. It's been two years and I still periodically think about the despai...
Thread 33398874 Archived
I’ve noticed that Reddit comment sections, especially the top-voted or Google-searchable ones, often backed decisions that turned out poorly. I remember when it strongly pushed people to cancel their ...
How do I start living, like really living. Archived
I live in a small town where anything that isn't a gas station or church is a 40+ minute drive if the traffic's ok. While I am moving someplace sometime in December where shit like that isn't as bad, ...
Thread 33401847 Archived
I am 23 years old, I'm studying at university and I still live my parents. They cook for me, they send me money every month, they give me a ride anywhere in town when I need to, they pay for my doctor...
Thread 33400638 Archived
Started to grow out of anime and manga and now I have nothing else to do. Even video games. What do I do for fun now when I like being myself in my free time? I'm 32 btw if that helps
Thread 33401020 Archived
How do I smoke a bong in an apartment where I'm not supposed to?
Thread 33398127 Archived
I had someone falsely accuse me of serious shit recently.
Now I wonder how the fuck big creators online get away with shit and then drop off the face of the earth not to even be spotted irl or anythi...
Thread 33401637 Archived
So my little sisters were begging me to watch the Harry Potter movies with them and well, the idea of a Luna Lovegood gf would be actually fire to be honest.
Do these women exist? Where do I find the...
ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
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Should I just give up on dating and relationships? Archived
My sister just recently moved in with me. We had regular sex until we were about 20 and we decided it was best to try dating other people. It's been over 10 years, we're both in our 30's now, and my d...
Thread 33398614 Archived
Has anyone here ever beaten social anxiety? How did you do it?
I've tried therapy on and off, found out that my social anxiety probably stems from trying to please my super strict religious parents w...
Thread 33398227 Archived
I love women, specially women like pic rel. Why can't I just tell them how beautiful they are and how much I want to look and talk to them without them getting scared and repulsed?
Thread 33400873 Archived
Is it worth it to rent an apartment just so you can take women there?
Thread 33401176 Archived
Should I lock in my 14.5 cent kWh electricity rate for 3 years? I'm in the south and I'm not sure if prices will go up or not.
Thread 33400760 Archived
>you need to just be yourself, people can tell when you're not being genuine; nobody like a fake
But what if I dislike who I truly am and am trying so hard to be a better person?
how to make normal friends? Archived
im a relatively normal guy but i cant seem to make any normal friends
the only people i can have a real connection with are terminally online jobless crackheads that stay up for weeks playing videogam...
Thread 33399849 Archived
What if I told you there was another outcome rather than opening the pickles or not opening the pickles?
What to do with a Comp Sci degree Archived
I'm going to graduate with a Comp Sci degree in December. Unfortunately, the tech market is utter trash right now, and despite the fact that I have had two internships, I doubt I will be able to land ...
Thread 33400991 Archived
My mother is English/german and my father italian. i identify with my mother's family more but they think i'm too olive skinned to be one of them so i'm stuck in the middle and belong nowhere.
what d...
buying a house, crisis, life expectancy Archived
How retarded would it be, for me to buy\TRY to buy at least, a house (meaning apartment, or house per se)? Im 30 yo, I'm constantly remindful of my own mortality as many close people have died "before...
Thread 33398004 Archived
How do I start my own business
Thread 33400702 Archived
Any visual artists here?
>what kind of work do you do?
>how do you get your work out there?
>who do you draw inspiration from?
Gf asking me for a fade but I don't want to Archived
she sent me these pictures as examples. My hairline looks nothing like that, and I've had a shaved head before and it looked terrible. I explain this to her and she doesn't care.
How do I change my habits Archived
It seems like I've tried everything, from Atomic Habits to Tiny habits, to GTD, but no system has worked for me. I can't seem to get myself to change my habits.How do I at least get myself to change o...
How do you accept the end? Archived
I've been paying close attention to what's happening in the world: AI, geopolitics, the environment, and the overall direction of humanity. Honestly, I don’t think we’re going to make it. Whether it’s...
Electrician anons, help! Archived
Hello, I just received a notification from my electricity provider.
In 8 months I've somehow used more than 2500 kWh of electricity, which is unexpectedly high. There are very few electric appliances ...
Thread 33396251 Archived
i told my friend i dont like trannies and despite not being one hes very very vitriolic. i dont know why he is offended, because im not racist or homophobic, i just dont like them, hes stopped talking...
Not an incel, not an alpha, just a guy you don't see. Archived
Being an unattractive guy in today’s world feels like you’re either invisible or shoved into some box: incel, try-hard, loser. And if you try to speak up about it, people either mock you or tell you t...
Thread 33400513 Archived
>Watching some gymnastics tutorial.
>16 yo girls talking in their dumbass teen girl gibberish
can't they just speak proper english?
Confused Archived
A girl ended it with me but then asked me to stay the night and said she wanted to kiss me. She said sex was off the table. I declined and left, because wtf is that?
I simply cannot make sense of her...
Thread 33396984 Archived
I am interested in acquiring a girlfriend. How would one go about accomplishing this task?
Thread 33398653 Archived
My gf broke up with me and is now dating a 6'1 black man that plays football for a university. Her bsf recently made a tiktok where you can hear him clapping her cheeks in the next room with the capti...
I'm about to turn 21 and have no idea what I'm supposed to do. Any ideas? Archived
FSR I've always done shit with my parents
(probably bc i'm asian)
Like just going to a restaurant and eating Chinese slop
But idk I feel like people should be going out and doing stuff with their b...
Thread 33397549 Archived
How do I cure internet addiction?
I try to detach from it, by reading books or whatever but the entire time my mind is just begging to go back on here, or X or whatever.
I can't do a non internet task...
Restraining order Archived
My ex got a restraining order against me. How will this realistically impact me? I don't plan on going for any jobs with clearances or working with children/vulnerable populations. It won't expire for...
Thread 33392147 Archived
Twice this year I have emotionally confused two girls that I consider literal 10s, causing them to break down emotionally and seek comfort elsewhere and "finding their soul mate".
I'm currently cryin...
Thread 33400427 Archived
Why is the whole world set up to reward the efforts of people born on third base with a silver spoon in their mouth over those who have overcome their evil nature through great effort in the arenas of...
Thread 33394653 Archived
How are you supposed to approach women when clubbing?
Thread 33398646 Archived
what did I do wrong? why is he so angry? how do I fix this :(((
How to Actually be Unbothered? Archived
Basically, I have a coworker who goes out of his way to highlight my mistakes and underperformance either through lashing out on me or trying to make me look stupid.
Thing is I know the answer to this...
Thread 33388391 Archived
How come I'm not interested in having a social life?
Thread 33385405 Archived
What am I supposed to do with my life when the only things I want are so far out of reach, they aren't worth pursuing?
Cat fishing Archived
Should I stop actively cat fishing people online?
I have gone to far and now know people under alternate identities. I don't do it often but when I am lonely I'll go back and start up at it again.
I...
Should I pretend to like what my girlfriend likes? Archived
My girlfriend gets mad whenever I critize anything she likes. Like for example she picks a movie we'd watch together and when she asks what I thought about it at the end and I respond truthfully, sayi...
Can you help me understand what she wants Archived
About four months ago I was dating a girl I met through my university, we stopped and didn't see each other for a while and now she's texting me out of the blue.
When I first met her we went out toge...
Thread 33397357 Archived
This is going to sound deeply unhealthy psychologically and that's probably not wrong but I'm hoping for a little advice anyway.
I got run over by a car when I was little. When I woke up after a lot ...
Apathetic about living Archived
I don't want to die, nor am I suicidal. But if I were told that, say, I'll die in a week, I genuinely wouldn't give a fuck. I simply do not care.
I am not depressed—I have always been like this. My li...
Thread 33398889 Archived
Will getting a motorcycle impress girls and lose my virginity? I'm a 32 year old virgin and I have a lot of money saved since my life is just working and nothing else, I might buy myself a $40k Kawasa...
Insecure Archived
I just found out that I wasn't the first to cum inside of my gf like I thought because she lied. It's making me insecure and rethink how I feel towards her. Another man owned my gf more than I ever ha...
Any way to lighten strech marks? Archived
Are there any ways to make strechmarks look better at home?
How do I change my life? Archived
It seems like I've tried everything, from Atomic Habits to Tiny habits, to GTD, but no system has worked for me. I can't seem to get myself to change my habits.How do I at least get myself to change o...
Wanting to plan an event but I have doubts abt it Archived
So I discovered a service where you can make your own events and advertise them in your area, and so i've been thinking about using it to make more friends and find like minded people (basically other...
How do you find out which careers actually have a shortage in your state? Archived
I have seen a lot of fake job postings on Indeed, where most of the time they don't even send a "sorry, fuck off" email.
Every time I look into it, it seems to be deliberately vague. I try to find s...
Cry for help Archived
>35
>NEET for basically entire life
>no high school or college education
>dropped out of school in 9th grade
>never worked
>have left house maybe 6times in past 15 years
>0 social skills
>obese
>neve...
Femdom Archived
How do I get rid of a femdom fetish?
My old ex was extremely "dommy" and assertive in bed, she was also my first.
Since then I've never met a woman that would willingly do that sort of play. AT BEST ...
No friends. No family. Archived
What did we do to deserve this?
Pakistani women Archived
>meet Pakistani woman on campus
>start chatting with her online
>the only thing I know about Pakistan is that they have the worst reputation in Europe
>the immigrants, crime, hygiene, their India tier...
how do i fix burnout Archived
i am in my first year of university and it is absolutely kicking my ass.
i used to have a lot of motivation at the beginning/middle of this year, i could write an entire essay and multiple drafts in...
Thread 33398994 Archived
The idea of self improvement when done for the sake of attracting a partner is merely a way to distract a man with trying to reach some unquantifiable "enough" until the point he is too old to do anyt...
Thread 33399508 Archived
Just got employed for the first time at Maccas
For people who have worked in customer service or fast food, do you guys have any general advice which helped you do well (or get through it)?
scared of getting older Archived
im 21 now and bio female but terrified of getting older. ive spent years trying to prepare myself for social interaction and looksmaxxing growing up as a frumpy autistic outcast but now i'm worrying t...
Dealing with the fact that I and other present/future generations will have never live in 1992 Archived
1998 early zoomer here.
I had a great childhood growing up in the 2000s and wouldn't trade it for the world. It was such a unique period to grow up in as consumer technology rapidly got better and bet...
considering reconnecting with groomer Archived
i was groomed and sexually abused by the same guy from 11 to 16. he was older than me and took advantage of the fact that i was incredibly depressed, lonely, and autistic with no friends. i've been di...
Thread 33398292 Archived
How do I make a tinder to swipe on peoples profile without them seeing mine?
Thread 33398742 Archived
How do I get a chubby gf? I'm not asking for an obese gf, just a chubby one. I can't use online dating as I have no pictures
Thread 33399342 Archived
I want to leave 4chan so bad. This sounds stupid, like obviously I could just close this tab and never come back. But I'm addicted to the misery here.
I'm addicted to getting into arguments with anons...
Thread 33384365 Archived
I’m a neet. I go to the same cafe almost everyday and order the same coffee
Do you think they think I’m some loser with nothing better to do?
Thread 33396160 Archived
>friend went to college
>suddenly started hating everyone, calling them bigots
>threatened one person
>went full lib on facebook
What the fuck happened to him?
Does tinder unban you eventually? Archived
Thread 33382152 Archived
Should I move to a larger city just to meet more people and develop a social life?
Current city: ~20,000 pop, rural/farms, tweakers, country bumpkins.
Proposed city: Minneapolis/St.Paul metro area o...
Thread 33380719 Archived
Is it possible to find a loyal girl when you are ugly?
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