/adv/ - Advice

I am a spergy r9k woman who has bitched about how to get a boyfriend with stuff in common here before. Well I found a way on my own that worked with getting attention from these men so I decided to share it with you so you can use it with some changes as a man as well. Because Reddit doesn't allow please give me a gf/bf posts on most subs or even drybegging for it (while participating in the sub normal) I concocted a masterfully subtle I need a partner post by just mentioning how hard dating as someone with cringe spergy hobbies is while name dropping them. That had normies seething about me being a weird sperg while getting the weird spergs I want in my dms asking to date

I wanted to engage in prostitution for gay men because it pays very well as a side quest. However I had to cancel the first meetup because I couldn’t bring myself to do it. Any advice on how to overcome the disgust/repulsion/dread or ways to make money with similarly low effort?

I (m 30) have a coworker who is getting a bit too friendly with me. We get along well and honestly I like the attention and being around her, but I know it could never work and I have a wife and a kid.
My wife is understands my personal issues, let's me do stuff with my mates on the weekend, cooks great, let's me have my own free time and we never argue. I wouldn't want to divorce or cheat on my wife because I wouldn't want to ruin my son's life because of my own needs.
I got married young, so my wife is all I really know, so this new attention is nice, and I know I'm not mistaking my co-worker advances for general niceness. It's really testing me and I need some brutally honest advice.
Am I deluding myself if I believe I can maintain a friendship with this co-worker, like even hanging out with her outside of work? (doesn't work directly with me, theyre in another department)

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My mom can never admit when she is wrong and I've never been able to stand her. As soon as I became an adult I moved to another country to get away from her but we do call ocassionally (out of pity because she does worry about me)

At some point during our call today she started making negative comments and I told her she is proving me right by choosing to keep distance and she told me ''oh, maybe when you come back I won't be here anymore'' implying she could be dead, I called her out on her shitty comment so she decided to gaslight me and tell me ''oh, I meant I could be travelling somewhere else and not be there once you come back''

The gaslighting was really strong and longlasting I can see myself visibly developing split personalities when some time i feel nothing but utter disgust for her while other times I wish my mom was different

So my mom passed in 2019 and my dad lost his goddamn mind 3-4 months later. He started drinking heavily, became verbally abusive, self-destructive, got in trouble with the law, and more. I stopped talking to him at the end of 2020, when I realized no amount of kindness or understanding was going to help him out of that pit.

I just learned he had a heart attack. His new wife called my brother. I don't want to reach out, because honestly I still hate his guts.

Am I being too cold?

As a racially ambiguous brown man (25% Jewish, 25% Arab, like 40% Southeast Asian, 10% white) how come white and black women like me whilst brown women (sample size is mainly from latinas) don't like me?

How do I get the attention of my classmate while he has a gf?

Okay long story short. I think he’s really attractive and I know for sure he finds me attractive as well. During gym lessons in our uni, he always want to mess up with me. And sometimes very gentle with me as well.

Though, he has a girlfriend now, but his girlfriend is kind of fat and less attractive than me. What should I do to attract his attention more? Or should I just give up?

Is it normal to be annoyed by certain types of people?

I mean they even have an AI voice that has the type of voice I deeply hate with a passion, and I hear this AI voice used in ads and TikTok videos all the time.

I am trying to start a business using Shopify but have no idea how to drive traffic to my website. I appreciate any genuine advice.

Have a girl that we have mutual friends with, something is there but can't quite manifest anything and don't get a chance to see her that often. Basically need good energy to come through this thread. Digits, etc. inb4 schizo I did this one before and it worked

If she left me feeling guilty, how do I stop thinking about her?

Are let's plays, podcasts, Q&A's, accurate to irl interactions and conversations? I haven't talked to anyone for well over a decade, except for my brother, but he's doing most of the talking.

where is the best place to buy a house or live in general?

I know this has probably been asked to death but how can I meet women on my own without a group of friends? I was thinking i could go to the club but is it a bad idea to go alone? Atm I just work and dont go to school.

ITT we discuss effective methods to defeat the liquid poison known as alcohol.

Longest I've gone without drinking alcohol was 11 days in years. Need to quit because it's ruining my life but the cravings are something else.

Have any anons successfully defeated this demon?

This is not a brag, I'm kind of distraught and reaching some sort of anxious crisis about why I keep attracting married women who want to cheat on their husbands with me but NOTHING else.
The only attention I've got this year romantically has been five women, (one younger than me, three older than me within 15 years, the fifth an almost 70 fucking year old woman) that all wanted to cheat on their husbands with me and when I refused they all got furious, big blow up of emotions, projected blame on me, tried to ostracize me from social groups, one even threatened me with her walther purse gun if I didn't let her suck my dick.
Thankfully I was in a crowded place so I just ran the fuck off but I don't know why this keeps happening.
What vibe am I projecting that makes women think
>"I'll ruin my family for a chance to get validation from you"
but not
>"I want to start a family with you"
?

Does being single in your mid 30's = time for suicide if you are only interested in women 20-27? I could use a white pill and advice on what to do.

No height, little money, inheriting a house but pretty muscular, good hair, decent face.

so im bad with words, but inside my head i have beautiful concepts i can understand intuitively, i can ponder for something for half an hour and have a good answer to most problems when most fail to see they even exist.
this has led me a lot to philosophy and i have studied it on my on and ended on my own conclusion.
id like to share them with my friends, but i dont know how to explain them.

Why do people stay in toxic/abusive relationships and how can I make sure I never become like them? I've seen people with good heads on their shoulders go full retard over a partner that ruins their life, and I understand what causes people to go out like this when they know better.

There's a really cute blond zoomette at a drive thru I come to often. I'm 34 years old and she seems like she isn't interested. How do I make her interested? I really want to have sex with her!

Right now I'm using them as a supplementary thing to my irl hobbies. But having not too much luck, maybe I'm too much of a pussy to ask people out in person.They can make me feel low quick. But I was able to get my first date from it but she wasn't interested in a second date even after all the good chatting we had. Do you use dating apps?

If I ever moved to Europe, would I be considered white?
>pale skin (not irish level, but very close)
>dark blonde hair
>german surname
>british-sounding first name
>english as a first language and very neurotic about accent
>not poor, even by firstie standards
BUUUUUUT
>thirdie
>about 30% black caribbean DNA
>5'9"
>pitch-black T-50 eyes
I'm not even worried about racism itself, I'm worried about not being able to get laid.

I am a spergy r9k woman who has bitched about how to get a boyfriend with stuff in common here before. Well I found a way on my own that worked with getting attention from these men so I decided to share it with you so you can use it with some changes as a man as well. Because Reddit doesn't allow please give me a gf/bf posts on most subs or even drybegging for it (while participating in the sub normal) I concocted a masterfully subtle I need a partner post by just mentioning how hard dating as someone with cringe spergy hobbies is while name dropping them. That had normies seething about me being a weird sperg while getting the weird spergs I want in my dms asking to date

I'm quite new to 4chan. I chose this because there were no other places other than this site where I can anonymously post my problems.

My background, is that I am a 16 year old student living in a town in a country in Asia. I live with my parents, mostly at their 40's to 50's as usual.

My parents used to love me up until 2 months ago, especially my mom gave no reason whatsoever.

I am currently typing this secretly because if they see me, they will possibly put me into hypothermia, or even worse; kill me by hanging.

To this point, this is the worst part of my life ever.

I woke up from bed, normally sweating like a wet sponge. My mom came and slept me to make it worse. I then said "Mom, I'm sweating. Can you distance a few centimeters? And she insisted not to do that.

I told her again to move a few centimeters and she said "Fuck off you shit child, you would cry when i die"

What do I do now

I will continue this thread later.

I am in this media class, and I chose my topic on 4chan. I was wondering if I could talk to someone about why they post on 4chan.

What does high level gooning look like and how do I achieve it? I have creamy lube, a mouth/anus combo masturbator, and also a variety of penis enlargement devices. Should I add a honeypack or two? Viagra?

I want to break up with my gf but her mother has terminal cancer and only has a few weeks left according to the daughter.

We've been dating for 3 years and I'm getting fatigued of supporting her through the many disasters she has. I just want my life back.

How blackpilling for women is dating after 30?

>After age 30, a woman's fertility decreases every year
>Teenage girls prefer older men
>Women want established men with money, no money no honey
>Established men with money want younger women
>Good men with their shit together, life experience, hardships, pain, depression and money/resources won't want women with a past
>Feel invisible by the majority of tall men
>When hot guys compliment them, it feels undeserved
>When ugly men compliment them, or give them attention, it's sickening
>Women age like milk
>Makeup, filters, fake nails, it's all just a cope
>Alcohol, wine, weed, vapes, SSRIs, it's all just a cope
>Chad's not yours. It's just your turn
>Ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, baby mama drama
>You often see good men chased by dozens of women tripping over themselves for him, he's the prize and not her, and you are left settling for the ugly men that no other women want
>Female friendships are plagued by competition, envy, and jealousy
>No choice. You have to settle

How much would it cost to rent an off-season haunted house/ warehouse and several prostitutes for a night to fulfill my chase-and-rape fantasy?
Would I need them to sign a waiver or something?

>be me
>work for five years resenting each and every jobs for not paying enough for me to at least get away from my malicious parents and got fired or laid off from each one except for one where I just quit showing up
>file for disability under chronic fatigue which was true
>get disability 2300 a month for life
>parents open my mail and got pissed off about it for some reason saying that I should be working and I need to stop worrying about what the job can get me and moving out as those aren’t my main priorities my main priority is to focus on my job and work apparently forever on a unlivable wage another thing to note is they never ever say I’m wrong about never being able to survive it’s just that is to the irrelevant and I should just work like a dog for absolutely nothing and be homeless this mentality fucking destroyed my childhood too it’s a absolutely sick American boomer mentality that I frankly want to disown them over but didn’t have the money too until now
>file for public housing and I get approved and finally out of my parent’s house at 23 years old
>block my parent’s number and haven’t talked to them in three years now I have no idea if they are even still alive it’s pretty sweet I never imagined I would be free of them
So what am I supposed to do for the rest of my life?

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Left my job recently cause I hated management and told myself I was going to do a certification so I can move higher up in that field. I now work one day a week at a dead end job just to make ends meet and live with my parents.

I have all the time in the world, ressources at my disposal yet every single day, I do nothing. I don't feel depressed but for some reason I can't be productive. Maybe its adhd? Waiting on the results of that test but im getting frustrated. Its like no matter what I do, I can't seem to get my shit together.

I spend most of my days scrolling youtube, playing video games or reading books (fiction). Deep down I know I want to be better, I want to move forward and feel success, earn money and whatnot, yet its like my discipline is non existent. I just wish I didn't feel so empty.

Why do people get so mad when you're fine being alone?

We went to different elementary schools and met during sport every week. He and I had so much fun together and later went to the same high school together. I was shy and quiet, overwhelmed by the feelings I had for him. My friend tried to set us up and eventually we had a "trial" for two weeks to get to know each other and if it went well we would be boyfriend and girlfriend. Everything went well, I came out of my shell and he was amazed. I never felt so accepted in my life. He even protected me from a few obsessed guys that I wanted nothing to do with.

One problem was that my parents were contacted by a matchmaker and talked to the family of the other guy and obliged me to marry him. He would come to the high school while me and, well, my boy would hang out in library during that time. My boy confronted him and fought him. My parents scolded me to let that matchmaker guy come and talk to me. I did not want to talk to him but I needed to listen to my parents. One day while the matchmaker guy wanted to apologise to me and he held my hand to make his apology then he slipped a ring on my finger. My boy saw that and he became very angry at me and ran the matchmaker guy out of the library with a few hits.

My boy said some very strong words to me and I was very hurt. I panicked, I asked his ex-girlfriend and her friends for advice. I wrote him a letter which he dismissed, he thought that I wrote whatever they told me so I wrote a letter in front of him explaining that my parents were obliging me because of the matchmaker and the agreement with that guy's family. My boy was embarrassed and ashamed for his words and behaviour at me. He soon apologised and we would make love in the study room and the girls toilet. Funny thing was me and friend put makeup on him to sneak him into the girl's toilet.

I later asked for advice from his ex-girlfriend and her friends. I wanted to be sure that we would be girlfriend and boyfriend in the long term.

Continued

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wccRif2DaGs

Is it true, oldfags? Vienna waits for me?
Im still relatively young but I am worried I might not be able to make the most out of my life
But on the other hand I believe worrying is good because it might motivate me to work more

Hello /adv/, I'm working on organizing my belongings. This is a drawer with pull out baskets, and I keep it under my desk. I have color coded the cabinets in this diagram. Please tell me if this plan should be modified. Thank you.

In a few months, success is coming my way. It sounds dumb but after almost a decade of toiling at this, all the factors have been put in their place and I'll be established as a successful YouTuber, starting is as a career.

Any advice for what I'm getting into?

This isn't some one off 15 minutes of fame, I had many of those, but something very focused on my personality itself. I'll have my face as the center of it all, and it is really just the start.

I don't want to reveal who I am or what I exactly do, but if you're curious I'm happy to answer questions.

It has been a long and lonely road and I am hoping to get some outside perspectives, anyone went through something similar?

After all this time of being a loser, which I will miss and cherish at times, life is about to look totally different, and it took a lot of patience but the time is really coming now, and I can't wait to have things switch up. I can't prove it but from every angle the conditions are perfectly aligned for this in my view.

How do i get a woman like this that Will stat with me even After a Life changing incident instead of AN extensive sex Toy that pretends tò love me?

Im in my third day on my trip to Copenhagen and I love the city. Its expensive, but its got a calm vibe and looks great. However I feel kind of burnt out by now, like Ive seen everything that the city has to offer. This is my first foreign trip and I always travel solo and Ive noticed how good this city is compared to my hometown which isn’t exactly great. The difference in quality is very noticeable. A part of me wants the trip to end but another part of me feels that Im going to be miserable when I come home and realise how bad I have it as I like comparing places in my head. How do I overcome this?

You know how when you're walking somewhere and someone is approaching in the other direction, and when they see you, they immediately turn their head literally... LITERALLY... 90 degrees to the side in order to avoid making eye contact with you?

It's like they're pretending their head was like that before you saw them.

How do you even respond to that?

I have a friend that I've known for over a year, we both have great chemistry, he recently has revealed that his girlfriend is jewish, I didn't react. However I have very negative opinions about them and their "morals". I really enjoy his company but I can't stand the thought of having a jewish person in my circle, what to do? It's been living rentfree in my head since then.

>Found out all of my white coworkers are into swinging and cuck shit
>some of them swap wives and have orgies
Am I dumb for wanting to put in my two weeks notice and look for work somewhere else? It's a corporate job that pays well enough but this shit is way too weird.

Choose a method to commit suicide :)

don't engage in this behavior:

TOXIC FEMININITY:
-expecting people to read their mind
-delusions about people (men) they haven't fully met yet
-delusions about their ideal man
-low testosterone and lack of decision making skills
-screaming during an emergency
-worrying about people judging them when really it's other women who are judging them the most
-size queens who will never be satisfied and always go bigger and bigger
-never being satisfied in general
-harem psychology / going after the same small percentage of men
-pre-selection (harem pyschology)
- co-ruminating (hating on perceived low status men to reinforce harem psychology for focusing on the men of higher status)
-poaching men from other women (harem psychology)
-eternal daughter archetype
-devouring mother archetype
-femme fatale archetype
-nose ring theory made real
-false rape accusations
-double standards about anything and everything
-double standards about age gaps, constantly infantilizing women while no one questions younger men consenting to older women
-claiming it's wrong to lust for a woman who looks young or is small, which is body shaming
-young women that have a problem with age gaps but would absolutely drop their “principles” to be with a much older man that has fame and money
-anyone who uses development of the prefrontal cortex as a way to argue about raising age of consent is incredibly regressive and stupid. “entry level job requires experience”

I am shocked as found out my dad phone a picture of my gf

It seems like I have latent hyperopia.

It's been basically like 4 years that my eye muscles gave up trying to mask my far sightedness so I can't play chess anymore.

It seems like no optometrist wants to help, they've all been saying "fuck off, I don't want to deal with this" "you either get this prescription or fuck off". Basically no one seems to take me serious and wants to bother resting me with cycloplegic eye drops

Why does it feel like every woman I date is a floozy?
Not looking for anything serious, just here for fun, sex friend, etc.

I'm a very loving guy, and like most dudes also love a girl quickly.
OTOH, the girls I meet never seem to like me with any depth, they're just looking for some dick.
A (female) friend even told me that I've ended up with a sort of "reputation" as a fling.

It feels so unfair.
If I don't put out they lose interest, or even fight me. If I do then they call me a boytoy to their friends.
I need advice on this, I'm feeling really down since I'm going through the EXACT thing again with a girl I like...

>be me
>24 KHV
>dont care too much about it honestly
>not even really ugly, just awkward and literally never leave the house
>some old female friend hits me up out of nowhere (she lives several states away)
>we talk about random shit
>she asks if im a virgin out of nowhere
>tell her the truth
>she says she'll take my virginity if im still hot (kind of fucked up)
>she blatantly keeps aggressively flirting
>she does think im hot so she says we can meet up at a halfway state or i can just fly over there within this coming week since she has the week off from work
what the fuck is going on here? on one hand this might be my only opportunity to lose my virginity because despite being a virgin and super awkward she still isnt backing down but on the other hand this is really nerve wrecking and on super short notice that i cant help but think its a trap

for some extra context we do have some romantic history together but it was long distance and it was like 6 years ago but it never really got super serious, party because i was a retarded 18 yr old so it just kind of fell apart.

How do I feel satisfied in life? How do I feel comfortable with what I want to achieve? Is it possible to ever be fully content?