>be minimum wagie in job I enjoy. >Decide to go casual/on-call since manager at workplace is a bitch and my other rcoworker is lazy so not only do I do more than my fair share, I also get berated by m...

>lots of ambition in life >eating well, sleeping well, getting exercise and sunlight >plans >well-structured paths to attaining those plans >try to work >summon all the willpower in the world >can't ...

I lived in japan for a year as a military brat and I want to go back. What’s the best pathway for an American to live in japan and not be miserable? Would following my father’s footsteps and joining...

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dose capsaicin get into cum? I should know this as I am a pepper head but after particularly hard meals of hot food usually more than a few over a few days my cum feels spicy. is this a thing or am I...

This close on giving up on dating and women all together. I'm not as handsome or as tall as the guys they gawk over so why should I even try? My younger brother is already taller than me and had girlf...

Hi frens, I'm in a bit of a pickle and need some advice. I have to play guitar & sing at a wedding next week in front of maybe 70ish people.. 3 instrumentals and 4 songs to be sung & played. This is g...

How do I assemble a team?

I have this weird thing where I always get obsessed with a certain thing, dedicate the entirety of my time to it and then after some time I completely lose interest in it and forget about it. Then I g...

I'm very unhappy doing the hobbies I have now, sometimes being with my friends I'm starting to feel nothing the only thing that makes me feel a little joy is the thought that someday I'll meet someone...

I am afraid that I might have herpes - if so how bad is it and how long does it take to find out? Maybe I'm just paranoid and I don't really know what other way there is to avoid it outside of just li...

I don't really know what I'm doing here. I think it's a mix of wanting to be heard and wanting advice. Regardless, I've got one hell of a situation for anyone who cares to read it. (All names hencefor...

I have a ton of good venues for my career but I can't bring myself to pursue anything. For two years, I've been sitting on my ass, playing videogames and just rotting. How do I find the strength to ac...

My relationship of 3 years is in its death throes. She's been pulling away and growing increasingly distant, giving me weird roundabout answers when I ask her what's wrong, not responding to my texts....

The story goes >do your best so you can after a trillion years become the best, and then your job would be to make other go through that same cycle >"what if i just don't care because it's lame and wi...

Need some advice as it comes to gf Catch her liking and saving Instagram reels of various models and hollywood actors, all more attractive than myself and look nothing like me (picrel) She attempts ...

What do I do if I witnessed a food service employee use the restroom and then not wash their hands and instead went right back to working in the kitchen and handling food?

Picrel is literally me. I've been on hormones for literally 2 years now but I still can't present fem or even grow out my hair. I've been hiding my body under layers of thick clothes and I hate it. It...

Did you do this? What happened?

My OCD is making feel like I'm a sex offender for liking anime girls and boys and liking moe despite I knowing that it's not true. Now, I'm finding it hard to enjoy anime or manga anything, this spaw...

I searched videos about how to use condom. But a uk video said like this 'change the condom for the next round'. I think it is very fair. But I'm just wondering that how I put the new condom without ...

I dont love my fiance. I like her a lot and think shes a very good person and an excellent marriage choice and mother to future children, but I have never felt the tidal wave of emotion and passion th...

should i even keep talking to her if there's a greater than 80% chance that she's had two or more doses? there are other things like she seems to hold political views that are probably intolerant of m...

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How do I stop feeling like shit, sleepy and groggy after a nap? I also feel like shit even when I cannot take a nap because I have chronic fatigue, I just feel tired and sleepy but cannot rest. I once...

This board used to be helpful. Now it's full of gaslighting, obtuse, confrontational toxic shitheads. What happened?

Where the fuck do you find a woman to date and eventually marry and start a family with? I'm 31 and despite my best efforts, I've never been able to find anyone to date. I've put myself out and there ...

Any advice on handling conflict better? Whenever I find myself in an argument, I get too emotional and lose the plot. Or if someone is obviously bullshitting me, I don't realize it till after the fact...

I'm fine with spending money honestly. I just have to get laid. Preferably by meeting online. My standards are so low I'd fuck any woman. Any advice

how to be happy with chronic illness? it’s all just dissatisfaction, misery and waiting

Can a bug enter one ear and crawl into the other? Yesterday my left ear was in pain and clogged and now today my right ear is in pain and clogged.

Anyone know a good place to beg for Bitcoin?

Sup, /adv/, so I decided last week to approach this girl at work, but it didn't go exactly as planned My original plan was to go by her desk every day and say hello in a way that's not suspicious but...

I'm a man and I'm currently 21. My goal is to be married by 25, but I haven't had a girlfriend in 3 years. I'm trying to get a gf by the end of this year. How do I accomplish that?

I deserve a girlfriend, I deserve love, and I deserve sex. help me get these things before I kill someone

>24 and about to graduate college >Parents always insisted I never needed a job as long as I was going to college and living under their roofs >Spend 1 year in CC >Covid hits and spend two year in onl...

Why is it that none of my friends ever ask me to go anywhere and whenever we do something it is me who has to organize everything? Anyway i still see them on social media doing stuff without me and wi...

> live 1 hour from city, 8 lane roads sprawling for hours in any direction > no social life, nowhere to go outside > walking distance from house: Petco, fuel station, Soup 'N Sand, a Mexican restauran...

More than a year ago, I spent a few months getting much less sleep every day. Although I feel a lot better now, I still feel unwell. Is there anything I can do to make up for that period?

how do you guys balance a gym life and a full time job? I’m going crazy over here I have like an hour to myself at the end of the day

Is it just me or does having sex/doing sexual things just… not feel that nice? Like yeah, it feels fine but it’s nothing crazy. I don’t even really want any relationships because I know that it’ll mea...

To all the short kings and manlets on dating apps who do well, what do you do? Just have a handsome face?

I have an issue: I tend to overfocus on one thing, and dismiss everything else. Say, I liked a game. Suddenly, all I can think about is playing this series, and everything else looks like shit, can't ...

I'm probably fucked. I don't have the money to repair a damage of that magnitude. The mechanic will analyze the car only tomorrow or Thursday. Do I try the fundraising way? Anyone have any advice?

How do I cope with being a retard who has to use guides in video games, doesn't understand the plot and major themes of movies, and can barely even talk to people irl?. I can't even have a meaningful ...

I had a weird girlfriend, we broke up a few months ago and I went on a date for the first time since then, and holy shit I’m so fucking autistic. Even with like quirky arthoe types I’m so undersociali...

I've started at this company recently, a pretty good deal for someone with relatively low qualifications. Its demanding, but not stressful, let me just put it that way It would be all great if it was...

Everybody wanting me to improve myself only makes me want to become worse out of spite.

Any advice for a guy dating a girl miles out of his league?

2023-2025, switched from pursuing med to studying to get a science degree to a law degree and it's not working out. i hate doing law but was forced to get into it. now, i'm thinking of doing somethin...

Is it eating disorder if I sometimes stop eating to lose weight? I could easily go back to eating but won't.

I go outside and I feel like I’m the main character, everyone is such an NPC with their normal greetings and their hellos and happiness like it pisses me off. Im young and have lots of cash (for someo...

I'm nocturnal >Society demanding I be awake during day >Go to nocturnal job >Everything is shut apart from the pub >Parents think I have no life even when I live on my own just because I stay up at 1...

>on holiday in UK >coworker I like tells me she has a bf >probably the first woman I have truly loved, beyond a crush >become alcoholic wreck >two days later visiting St Pauls cathedral >not religiou...

I think one of the family friends I see occasionally might have a crush on me, but she's like 14. I'm a decade older than her; am I gonna be fine if I never bring it up? I feel like a conversation lik...

I'm a white guy, look fine. I would like to try a relationship with a girl of another white nationality or race. What would you advise, where is the best place to look for them, and so on?

I am never going to make things right with some people, and have nightmares about it for the rest of my life, and I have to accept that... don't I?

I've had an unfulfilling life so far. Although I think it's better to spare you guys from another blogpost similar to the ones posted here everyday, after some inteospection I concluded that my dissat...

I'm very concerned about my relationships with the opposite gender. I feel like I'm being too pushy and open-minded, and as a result, I'm either forgotten or always chosen over someone else. Despite t...

17M here. There’s a girl on my team and I can’t stop thinking about her. Not sex, just this feeling of being close, sharing something real without words. We barely talk but it’s stuck in my head for d...

I punched a hole in the wall earlier out of frustration because I failed that days wordle and now my landlord is evicting me with the full support of my roommates. What do I do? I can’t afford to get ...

Where can I buy a pendant or a swastika charm like this?

Why is it "not appropriate" to talk to your coworkers just because you're younger? I started an office job a few months ago, and while it's not a bad job, it's also lonely, and I've hardly talked to ...

finally mustered up the courage to talk to my crush at work. Who has been exchanging glances with me.. But I think I did it in the most dorky way. I told her "Hey I don't think we've been properly int...

Something I’ve noticed is that women seem to want guys to do all the work. Even the ones that try to get my attention eventually want me to initiate every time. I always second guess whether or not th...

I bought a vape last week and I just can't get enough of it. I used to smoke socially regularly in my younger years but was never addicted. I'd do 10 cigarettes on a Friday night and that was it. When...

Uh, hello? I need advice on what to do in a situation where you can't get through to roblox support? I had a situation where the refund verification is not confirmed at all. I was transferred to the s...

>dropout (compsci (no I didn't because of AI, everything went to shit during coof and I wasn't going to keep paying into that) >look for jobs (no internships because retarded) >tech jobs won't reply b...

It’s been almost five years I finished school and I still only think about revenge. I went to an all-girls secondary school and was bullied relentlessly. I was already spergy when I started so I don’t...

ITT We ask the opposite gender anything. (With a few exceptions: see below). Note: the clue is in the name. If you're not replying to another anon, your post MUST be in the form of a question, and di...

Between pocket pussys chatbots and IDF what can i get from a woman that i cant replace with a trinket from our techno overlords if om going to give up why cant i just ignore the other sexes existence ...

I want to try some natural supplements like 5htp and St. John's Wort to remove my anxiety but I also tend to drink two, three times per week and I heard that combining them is bad. If I only take them...

My guy friend of 4 years has a gf as of recent. We stopped talking for about a year but we always had a bond that could pick up again whenever and we met up a few days ago to check in on each other. ...

I'm 33. My only girlfriend was a single mother of three who I dumped within a week of being with her because I knew I could not raise another man's kids (and these kids each had a different dad) and s...

I've fallen into an extremely depressive hole over the last 3 months and can't get back out again. >29/M/LA >marriage dissolving >wife basically put me through a con act lasting years >going to have t...

I would like to offer advice to people on /adv/. Come ask me a question that doesn't have it's own thread and I'll do my best. To the guy spamming the board at moment: my advice is to kill yourself

How do I make sure thst women don't feel like they are suffering in silence?

Need a job that requires diploma but doesn't check. I also don't have a license so I can't do delivery jobs. Wagie jobs like Mcdonalds and walmart don't wanna hire me. I'm 18+ tho and working on getti...

I am 20 and this started happening when I was 16/17. No other male in my family started balding until their late 50s, and it began with their hairline receding. My hairline is at norwood 0. No doctors...

I have an intense fear of talking to women. I was never very self-confident because I grew up isolated during the pandemic, and I was also obese. Now I'm just overweight, but I still struggle with sel...

hello people, i'm trying to deal with a conundrum right now. i'm like very, very attached to this person i met online. it's the kind of wholesome relationship you have with a person, she's the best pe...

Any anons in here with genuine OCD? Ask a brother for advice. I can genuinely help you. t. saw two expensive pros and had an insane journey. OCD for 35 years. Seize the opportunity.

Any point in proposing a strictly sexual arrangement with a girl who shot down my attempt at a relationship? For context - we've hooked up here and there, and it's always been a good time.

I'm really attracted to Latinas. How do I get a Latina gf? I'm white and live in Texas.

>me and my best friend engaged in cocsa when i was 10 and he was 11 in 2015 >60% him 40% me >he taught me how to masturbate and essentially had anal sex with me >for context, we both watched porn at a...

So I was on Facebook dating andthis cutie in pic related had her snapchat on there and I added her. She has been responsive and hasn't ghosted (a rarity). The problem is she has two new borns so she w...

No fap Real or gay?

Just killing myself at this point seems pretty blackpilling because i see humans losing the zeitgeist in every outcome except total collapse. I want to fight for the humans and save one life. How do I...

This questions for the guys. I moved in with my bf recently, and he has this weird smell in his apartment and idk what it is. My brother had the same smell in his room and it's a kind of astringent sm...

Hello, I have a bad feeling about my relationship. Worst case if we do break up, how can I cope without having a mental breakdown? This is my first relationship, 2 years, I'm 28.

My whole life I did things because I was either supposed to or to avoid doing something I didn't want to do. I never was particularly happy with my life choices but I just accepted it as life and it's...

To clarify I'm not an incel. I managed to have few long term relationships through my life and have no intention of doing hookups or one night stands. Reasons why I don't want to keep on having rela...

I'm worried that I'm starting to like this site more than any other social media. I got into a stupid fucking argument on Twitter today, and it completely ruined my mood. I've also been using 4chan a...

I'm 35 and currently living off an inheritance, which I’ve fully invested into a portfolio consisting of 70% S\&P 500 and 30% bonds. Based on my calculations, this setup should provide me with around ...

How the fuck do I sleep? Whenever I try to fall asleep I get headaches that feel like a stroke and my heart is racing, I literally cannot sleep for more than 4h and wake up multiple times, I feel like...

is nofap a meme or does your life actually get better somehow when you don't touch your ween? discuss.

I dont want to fight and die for a nation that thinks i am worth less then dirt and i dont want to be expendable but the military if the only path left for people like me to actually have some form of...

As an awkward incel in his mid twenties how do I go to a bar or a club if I never went to one before? I don't know what to do but I'm just going to risk it and ask as many women as possible (who aren'...

so i don't become too socially retarded and awkward? i don't really want anything i guess i'd kinda like sex but i feel zero romantic interest or love (only arousal) and in my heart i believe in chris...

ever since birth ive never tried coffee as a comorbid result of autism, negligence, and seeing adults in miserable states while drinking it. when i heard it referred to as an addiction i started inten...

It's genuinely fucking over for me. When I was younger, I was raped by a family member who was someone I thought was doing good for me. Years later, Ive come to terms that it has affected my sexual we...

i don’t want to post this on reddit, i fear it is too bad to post there. i don’t know. i want to be anonymous , for context i was raped a little over a year ago, when it happened i decided i wasn’t go...

>partner and I talk about how relationship isn’t doing too well >fuck >i already knew this after you raped me >and choked me until I passed out >partner says I have Stockholm syndrome >duh >why’d you...

> be me >only have one friend and he’s online. Constantly moving so can’t keep a real relationship > really close. First thing I do is text him every morning and last thing I do is tell him good nig...

I hate this shit I had them since forever and this is how they look with makeup on. But I heard lower blepharoplasty has a chance of vision loss , need to do more research but Google says it is rare. ...

Is it better to have a toxic gf than to be single? At least the guy with the bad gf has a girlfriend

This is possible the hundredth or so time I'm posting a thread like this over the course of several years. I cannot maintain a schedule due to insomnia caused at least mostly by OCD. I cannot work a 9...

Four years ago when I was 14 I had to go to the doctor for an examination and her 12 year old daughter saw me completely naked after my mother signed a consent form for her to spectate after the docto...

>be me >16 at the time, socially awkward nerd >obsessed with trying to get gf, though was never successful >had spent half my life at that point on that, forgot how to think abt other things >go to ch...

What's worse, a 30+ year old trying to cling to and recreate the past or a 30+ year old who tries to fit in with the youth culture of the current generation?

Simple question, I just feel a lot of my energy drain from vapid social interactions which indludes pointless small talk, etc. Even more productive discussions, unless I', on a pretty similar waveleng...

i go through this start to feel like absolute shit self isolate then reach out 99% of the time i have nobody to reach out to and fuck it its definitely my fault but then i guess i get to the anger sta...

These past few days it’s been hard to eat, every food disgusts me and recently I haven’t been feeling hungry, I only eat when my head starts to hurt and my stomach aches as if I’m about to throw up. W...

I have a good job, exercise regularly and a pretty gf but inside me I feel the urge to do things that I know will fuck me over eventually. Last weekend i was invited to a birthday in a club by cowork...

how do I cope with the fact that I've lost the ability to do the one thing I was put on this earth to do? I was supposed to be a novelist, but a few years back I had a stroke and completely lost the a...

My bf is 27 and has zero friends I’m not exaggerating. He has a good government job, few hobbies but no close friends. I don’t know how it’s possible, he has a leadership role at his job and somehow...

Should I go to work as a courier or a taxi driver, instead of getting higher education?

A little scumbag took over my epicgames account. I got my account back and I now know his email address after I requested all account data including its history. What can i do to fuck him up? Its a @r...

My first GF ended up cucking me and giving her virginity to the man that stole her and I think it has permanently scarred my psyche. It's been two years and I still periodically think about the despai...

I’ve noticed that Reddit comment sections, especially the top-voted or Google-searchable ones, often backed decisions that turned out poorly. I remember when it strongly pushed people to cancel their ...

I live in a small town where anything that isn't a gas station or church is a 40+ minute drive if the traffic's ok. While I am moving someplace sometime in December where shit like that isn't as bad, ...

I am 23 years old, I'm studying at university and I still live my parents. They cook for me, they send me money every month, they give me a ride anywhere in town when I need to, they pay for my doctor...

Started to grow out of anime and manga and now I have nothing else to do. Even video games. What do I do for fun now when I like being myself in my free time? I'm 32 btw if that helps

How do I smoke a bong in an apartment where I'm not supposed to?