>>40441354
Love is like any other feeling: its whole is greater than its parts (i.e. it is holistic in nature).
I can tell you how I loved someone because she was kind to me, but that wouldn't be enough, it would be reductive.
I could say that she had eyes so beautiful I was scared to look at them, but that wouldn't be enough. I could keep giving you reasons for my love for an eternity, but that wouldn't be enough.
The only way you could describe it is through poetry and symbols, and then hope you pick up the right feeling from them.
And even then there's the issue of Mary's Room.
>guy
If you are visual like any other guy, probably look at the most good looking dude and capture that feeling of how his beauty is breathtaking. How your heart sinks. How you get lightheaded. Try to hold onto it as much as you can. If you can make it live rent free in your head, then that is love, at least in the most superficial of meanings.