>Heh, the joke wasn't about Astarion being raped, you misunderstood
Plausible deniability is no longer plausible when there is a pattern of the slopswine being hypocritical (1), being unable to admit fault, even for something as inconsequential as a semantic mistake (2), constantly repeating the aforementioned "joke" and bragging about it being "/bgg/ culture" (3), and spewing stupid headcanon, such as the companions having abusive parental figures revealing something about their writers (4).
(1) https://arch.b4k.dev/vg/thread/485847206/#485847883
Rambling about how BG3 is a game that makes people feel "seen," only to later joke about sexual abuse that might be sensitive for people is hypocritical.
(2) https://arch.b4k.dev/vg/thread/484983246/#485059081
(3) https://arch.b4k.dev/vg/thread/536542557/#536623396
(4) https://arch.b4k.dev/vg/thread/535069485/#535135868
The common denominator is an utter lack of care for who these characters are or what they might mean to some. So no, I don't think that "joke" was "accidentally" offensive. I think that when a pattern repeats itself over years, it indicates true colors - especially on an anonymous website, where there shouldn't be any need to posture as either a saint or a piece of shit. When the pig repeats a pattern for two years, it's no longer a gimmick or a persona - it's simply what it is. In this case, subhuman.