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Thread 33392288 Archived
Do women fuck guys who don't go to college? I've realized as a 24 year old dude the dating market is getting very narrow out of nowhere because I don't have an interesting educational/career backgroun...
Career Advice? Archived
I've wanted to work on video games my entire life. Ever since I was a kid in the 2000s, games inspired me deeply, and my dream has always been to create something that could do the same for the next g...
advice Archived
I’m 26 years old and live really far from the civilized world, like the U.S. or Europe. In my country, my income used to be considered upper-middle class or just below wealthy. Last year, I had 4 surg...
a midwit that romanticizes science Archived
So I'm one of those fake-smart people. I had tiger parents who just pushed me down the study track so I pretty much had to delude myself into thinking "oh yeah I could totally do this , im just a litt...
I have an internet addiction Archived
Its clear to me I've been using this thing as a coping mechanism and crutch for failing in life / gives me a false sense of security.
has anyone ever chucked their computer out the window and not lo...
ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
ITT We ask the opposite gender anything. (With a few exceptions: see below).
Note: the clue is in the name. If you're not replying to another anon, your post MUST be in the form of a question, and di...
She threw up? Archived
Just got broken up with. M18, non-virgin, like maybe 6/10 looks. Start talking to this girl. F18, like 8/10 looks. Ok, she's cool, really into fashion, going to school for it. Tells Me she's autistic,...
Thread 33394021 Archived
Everyone talks about how our culture and media idealizes romance to an unhealthy degree, but almost no one ever brings up how it does the same to friendship. Arguably worse, since children are exposed...
Thread 33390158 Archived
Is it possible to get your first gf after 30 without any previous dating experience? I'm 32 and started therapy two years ago to work through my problems. While I've made a lot of progress, I still fe...
Thread 33394102 Archived
How do you get confidence when you feel like you're off putting to people, and spent your middle school mornings looking in a mirror saying "you speak when spoken to"?
Thread 33393775 Archived
How do I detox from the blackpill when everything about it seems right?
finish the degree or pivot to a trade? Archived
So I got laid off a while ago and I realize , you know I should probably get some education to pivot out.
Now I never got my degree the first time around in my early 20s due to life circumstances , ...
Thread 33386414 Archived
im a black guy with a small dick. what's the point in being black with a small dick? i have no value to anyone. should i just kill myself?
My Virgin Friend Archived
I have this friend who is 36 years old and a virgin. The point of this thread is I'd like to try to help him and need some advice on how to get through to him. I am the only one he has confided this t...
Thread 33393746 Archived
How do I actually force myself to draw? I've been wanting to draw for nearly 2 years now and have barely made any progress towards that goal. I've only done one Loomis face like 2 years ago and haven'...
Where do I go to find a shroom dealer? Archived
Wanna try shrooms. Unfortunately I'm new to this and I don't know where to get them or what kind of person sells shrooms. ( and yes I would grow them as it would give me something productive to do but...
Thread 33389190 Archived
Is it possible to get into a trade as an autistic weirdo? My only real interest is playing video games, do I have to get into sports? I'm really quiet and I don't know if I'd be able to handle the wor...
Thread 33393612 Archived
Was anyone here like age 26 and still had no great relationship experience yet, but you were also too traumatized and poor to start one?
I feel like by the time I'm ready to start dating, I'll be 30...
Thread 33391197 Archived
How true is this statement? As an incel, it bothers me because the only marker for happiness I can think of is having a girlfriend. I don't understand people who can be happy just by sitting in a lotu...
I'm watching an NPD/BPD relationship unfold in realtime Archived
A NPD live streamer is falling in love with someone who is so clearly a BPD. It is so interesting to watch the dynamic in realtime and to see how lovable the BPD's are to narcissists when the relation...
Thread 33390642 Archived
#1 Reason women aren't interested in me? I'm boring. How do you even fix that? I repressed all my autistic interests and can't bring myself to give a fuck about any normie shit like sports or alcohol....
Thread 33387791 Archived
Should I just give up on looking for love/sex? I'm a 28 year old virgin and I'm just tired of being jealous of sex havers and I just want to live my life. what are some ways I can just move on and ign...
Career advice Archived
Im in my last year of law school and I'm doing an internship for this lawyer that's friend of my parents. He's very nice to me and I think he will try to hire after the internship is over . The proble...
why don't I have the urge to jack off anymore Archived
I'm a 20 year old guy and ever since I was 13 I've regularly been jacking off but recently I haven't had the urge to do it. I don't want to do it anymore and whenever I force myself to do it it just f...
How to deal with trying to fix my life while also being uncontrollably angry Archived
I am 22 and I have been a sack of shit my whole life. I am working as much as I can right now to try and make some money so I can actually do shit with myself. I have saved up enough to be financially...
Thread 33386097 Archived
Is it considered gay if I like another man only because he is so much like me in every way possible and that I view him like an extension of me or a clone of me, and when I cuddle with him and fondle ...
Creative outlet Archived
I need a creative outlet.
I have my exercise routine down but I now need to introduce some sort of creative outlet in to my life.
I've been awake for 24 hours rn so I'm having trouble thinking clear...
I am so fucked and its all my fault. Archived
M18. Virgin. Meet this girl and she is literally 21, very very into me. very into freaky mommy role play. She cuddles me, makes me suck her tits etc etc. Who's a good boy and all that. Tells me she ju...
is it just projection? Archived
Is a huge part of how women treat men based on them projecting narcissistic fantasies onto men's actions and intent?
I get the feeling I am treated like a creepy stalker who is obsessed with women whe...
Should I continue going after a girl if I get extreme mixed signals from her? Archived
It started off with her grabbing my arm when she got drunk, complimenting me, she had me saved as hot in her contacts, we even had sex and she texted me we should do it again
Somehow things just kind...
Virgin Dillema Archived
I'm desperate to get laid, and there's a girl in a different department at work who I believe would put out for me. Her face is a 3 or 4, but her body is a 9.
She's also a little bit crazy. So worst...
Thread 33388931 Archived
Learn to code in 2025? Is it a mistake for total beginners?!
Should I stop solving my crushes lives? Archived
So I (27M) am an unassuming, closeted fag, and don't care about coming out because no man's ever been interested in me that way and I don't think I'm worth dating. My excuse is that I don't have time ...
Dumbell routine Archived
I sort of got handed a bunch of unwanted exercise equipment (pair of dumbbell handles, weight plates, and a pullup bar)
I've always been more of a cardio guy but I feel like this is a chance to up my...
I fucked up. Archived
22 years old. I was dating this girl, lets call her Jane, for a year. We had an amazing relationship. We were each others first love. We broke up because she simply didn’t want me anymore.
Naturally,...
Childhood Friend Archived
>be me have female childhood friend
>start dating in fifth grade
>in highschool I I am sure I am going to marry and spend my life with her and love her and she decides I'm not good enough for her anym...
GIOYC – Get It Off Your Chest Archived
Thread 33389871 Archived
Should a girl's past matter to you in a relationship?
Thread 33390976 Archived
My sister is a complete fucking miserable bitch, should I just cut her off completely? She's family.
Thread 33392587 Archived
I want to find this criminal.
The crime was committed in the state of Washington.
The vehicle used was a dark gray or black Volvo S60 (model year 2003–2004).
The suspect is a bald man or has very shor...
I'm about to turn 21 in <1 month and idfk what I'm supposed to do Archived
FSR I've always done shit with my parents
(probably bc i'm asian)
Like just going to a restaurant and eating Chinese slop
But idk I feel like people should be going out and doing stuff with their b...
How to get into a LDR Archived
What's the best way to get into a long distance relationship?
I'm from Switzerland and I'm pretty tired of searching for tall slavic girls here who want to date long-term. I fucking hate everything ab...
Help me find a rich sad loser to buy me nitro ;-; Archived
im in uni and just scraping by but going insane without small luxuries how do i bait some older guy to supply me with things,,, and im not at the low point of selling my feet yet;; HOW DO I FIND THESE...
Work for free Archived
Brother in law opened a business and I helped him with his company logo. I'm a graphic designer and I earn quite good but I did his logo for free because we get along and he has not much money. Now he...
How to get back at someone I live with Archived
My twin sister and I are both home from college for a few days. We hate each other's guts - I hate her because she was my parents' golden child growing up and used that to antagonize/attack me and get...
Thread 33390144 Archived
How do I become most of these things?
Thread 33392178 Archived
Anons who introduced sex toys into their sex life, how did it go? My girlfriend and I are thinking about getting some but we dont know what. We are visiting Japan next month and we are going to stay a...
How to "make" friends online? Archived
Thread 33378712 Archived
My mother is English/german and my father southern italian. i identify with my mother's family because i'm an asocial sperg but they think i'm too dark to be one of them so i'm stuck in the middle and...
Thread 33388570 Archived
So I'm working a retail job right now until I find a better one. The issue is management breathes down my fucking neck, they call me for everything as if I'm the only non-cashier on my shift (so carry...
What to do with your life when you don't care about it anymore? Archived
I've worked every conceivable job I could get as a HS graduate with no degrees or certs: fast food, gas stations, grocery stores, hotels, factories, workshops, warehouses.. I was even a government emp...
Seriously wtf do I do Archived
I’m so obsessed with this movie and its performance. Help me figure out how to get past this
Whats the foreign legion like? Archived
Im considering joining the Ukraine foreign legion once I've expended all other options here in the UK.
I just want to know how Ill get there? What should I bring? How is combat for someone with no m...
/atoga/ — Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
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Thread 33388084 Archived
What's a good medication that will fix all the mental illnesses/weird behaviors that growing up alone instilled in me? I've tried a lot of them and therapy, but they didn't do anything.
I'm not anxio...
Finding purpose Archived
I'm struggling with finding a purpose in life. I have everything. Im rich, attractive, have everything I want in life. I'm not sure what to do at this point, I've literally done it all. It's like hitt...
I want to stop being a weird girl Archived
Hi. I want to change my personality so I become less stupid looking. I'm not good with people and I just end up being really akward. Should I try to be a misterious girl? Like speaking just a little, ...
Thread 33388804 Archived
Just give it to me straight /adv/. Is it worth curing my 'depression' as a man in today's age? Society tells men that suffer builds character and strength. All these placebo pills and shit therapy don...
Thread 33388452 Archived
Why is dating in the west as a man of size (360lbs) a nightmare?
How can I get laid for free? Archived
southern maine in cabin
Where can I debate? Archived
I was watching this Jubilee debate and I found myself getting frustrated at the arguments the people were making. I have a lot of time on my hands and I really enjoy debating with friends. Where can I...
What is the point of living if you'll die a virgin? Archived
Whatever I accomplish or achieve will always be for me and me only without anyone by my side to share it with.
Even the greatest things I could do for the world would be just another soulless sigma gr...
Thread 33380147 Archived
I learned the hard way that co-workers are not your friends.
>be me
>work in factory basically
>make products
>job is chill besides making a few mistakes here and there and getting nagged by bitch l...
I feel like cheating on my girlfriend Archived
We've been dating for 8 years, I want to eventually live with her, and maybe have kids. But for now we don't live together, the situation will change but not soon.
Also, there's this girl at work that...
Learning from past mistakes with dating? Archived
I am 31 and a year ago I actually managed to get my first kiss with a woman I was dating at the time. Unfortunately things didn't work out and I didn't get to even call her my girlfriend. A year later...
Thread 33386941 Archived
How do I strike up a conversation with strangers at a bar? How do I tell if they're open to being approached/talked to?
BG Music Archived
I've decided to join the gooner industry as femboy vtuber.
Is there any recommended list for music to play in the background?
Something sexy and set the mood for masturbation and sex?
Thread 33390394 Archived
Talking to my mother about stuff. She starts telling me about one of her aunties and how she would occasionally live with them (and between my grandpa's other siblings) because never got married. She ...
Sad about age Archived
I'm 34. Recently I was bored and scrolling through Facebook which I haven't used in probably 5 years. All my high school friends are married, have been for 10 years. They've all been at their careers ...
Thread 33386360 Archived
I signed up for speed dating event tommorow(ages 30-40). Please advise on how to not fumble it.
Mildly mentally disabled Archived
What do I do if I'm mildly mentally disabled. I can still read and write but I can't do an exam to save my life or function in normal day to day life.
There are support systems in place for people wi...
Prevent brother from NEETing out Archived
i'm a dirty neet shut in and in general a sad sack of shit, but as time goes on i really start to notice how my younger brother goes down the same path.
he doesnt want to do shit, has no aspirations...
Thread 33383381 Archived
Would I look stupid wearing shorts like these?
Thread 33391571 Archived
Should I tell my little brother that I live on autism welfare?
So he's 15 and I'm 30, and he's coming to visit me for the first time, we rarely see each other so he never asked about my job. I could ...
I cant cope anymore Archived
Hi guys, Im currently dating a girl that I do not find sexually attractive. I like everything else about her, though, her personality, her energy etc. But she is just not my type at all. I love mascul...
Thread 33389660 Archived
I constantly have grandiose fantasies about somehow being an absolute monarch or God's messenger.
Thread 33387924 Archived
I’m a 20yo college student and I want to get a girlfriend. I’m not like physically deformed or anything but I’ve been here for two years and haven’t found anyone. I’m not retarded enough to use the ap...
Thread 33389194 Archived
How to get over events from my past?
This stuff happened over a decade ago but it still paralyses me for the future and makes me afraid if anyone were to find out
I just want to get on with my life ...
Should I give up on trying to find a relationship? Archived
I come from Romania, the country which supplies more than half of all prostitutes in the european union despite only being 2-3% of it's population.
I am almost 20 and in all my years of education I ha...
How do i give up Archived
I want to give up i dont want to improve i dont want to date i dont want anything to do with society i just want to bedrot and do whatever urges i feel most primal but my brain screams at me for conne...
Thread 33390035 Archived
How do I find literally whores?
I think one of the custodians at work is a whore, should I just pass her my number? I'd rather get it for free but that approach seems to be dead in the water if you ...
Thread 33390084 Archived
What are the side effects of saying the n word on the internet as a yt person?
Im so confused Archived
Me and this girl have sex and hug and stuff but in public she acts like she hates me especially if a certain crowd is around
what the hell is this about?
Thread 33387878 Archived
I'm genuinely torn between trying to get a gf or just getting a bf. On one hand, it feels weird to look at the entire trajectory of the human race up to this point, and say, "yeah, no thanks." On the ...
How to combine two audio sources to stream? Archived
I want to be able to stream my mic audio and a piano I have plugged into my LINE IN port on the pc.
Discord only lets you choose one input at a time, I downloaded OBS station but I dont know how to u...
Thread 33390886 Archived
are there any decent podcasts out there for life /adv/?
Is my mom trying to seduce me? Archived
>She rest her head on my shoulders
>Pees with the door open
>Seen her naked countless times
>Used to flash her tits at me at the beach when I was a kid
>Used to vent a lot to me when I was a child bec...
spilled the beans on females Archived
>first thing they're allowed to "date" older men without it being creepy on there end
>they're allowed to not have jobs and if they do use it as an excuse to not do anything with there life
>once a ch...
No Sex? Archived
.. im a 35 year old male, been with the same girl for 15 years.. we have sex like once a month sometimes every 2 months... it drives me fucking insane.. always innnitiated by me.. ive gotten to the po...
Giving advice on better ejaculation Archived
I've gooned non stop for the past 35 years. Here is my greatest tip for how to achieve even better ejaculation:
Your anus muscle, at all times as you goon, use it like in the way like you're about to...
Thread 33390225 Archived
I need a way to quickly, briefly, explain the moral and philosophical background ,of the behaviour I will start having; I'm EXTREMELY bitter\resentful\upset at the universe or reality, because I found...
Thread 33388687 Archived
Is it true the old saying about dating, for men its a desert and for women its a swamp, in both cases you cannot just have a fresh drink?
Daughter problem Archived
>be me, 25 y/o
>married young, good guy
>had a son first
>asked my husband one day, “do you think we’ll ever have a daughter?”
>he just laughed and said “maybe”
>a couple years later, get pregna...
International relationships? Archived
/adv/ I've been in Korea/Japan for about 7 years as a white American, thanks to work. I speak the language, understand the culture and all that. Obviously I like it here but I do intend on returning h...
cure for narcissism? Archived
my dilemma is that i hate average people and have very high standards for myself because of that. once i realized i was average too my life kind of spiraled out of control. now i'm a weird ascetic mis...
Girlfriend Archived
How do I get a girlfriend that looks like this?
Thread 33390818 Archived
This girl at work would send me stuff to do remotely. Then after some weeks I met her in person, she came and introduced herself. I thought she was friendly so after that I'd say hi to her whenever I ...
Thread 33388800 Archived
Should I go out drinking tonight with a cold? Im in Colorado and it’s a pretty big night in the small seasonal worker town im in. Im about half over it but im not sure if I’m still contagious or not
Do you need an expensive HiFi Music System for Dating? Archived
I am moving out of my parents house for the first time in my life. I would like to furniture the living room with a big chill couch, small couch table and a wooden board with a music system instead of...
Is the girl i'm talking to lying to me Archived
Met a girl on Hinge and we're talking for a week now. Said she met up with her brother for dinner and had coffee last Wednesday. She went to visit her parents this weekend which was a 9 hour bus ride....
How do stop feeling sorry for myself? Archived
So, basically I grinded hard, I am financially successful, I'm 5'11", tall for my country, slim, trying to gain some muscles. I'm 29 years old. I wanna settle down. Never had a gf, khhv.
Women do wan...
How to get off an external VPN Archived
Lets say you created Bitcoin when you were 16 or something like that where the FBI had to protect you and put you on a private VPN but because of the current state of corruption in the government some...
getting my personal info leaked by a friend Archived
i have this friend of mine which i trusted alot but randomly he decided to leak my personal info on the internet including my photos i really need help if someone can help me out please add my discord...
How to be cool enough to get a girlfriend? Archived
I’ve gotten compliments my entire life. Just today a girl who checked me out said I have pretty eyes. I really want a gf but don’t know how. 25m.
Thread 33384961 Archived
I'm a fat middleaged autistic woman. I don't have any friends and I'm estranged from family. My only social outlet is fucking men off of dating apps. Over the course of having sex with lots of men ove...
Thread 33388289 Archived
How do I quell my carnal desire for a woman who is a virgin like me? Most women seem to be whores nowadays
is there a guy out there who isn't so sex obsessed? Archived
like don't get me wrong, I think sex is important in a relationship down the line. but cmon now.. some guys start with "send nudes" or "pop a tit". what happened to hello????? how are you????
I just ...
Thread 33385884 Archived
How do I get invited to the fiesta ?
How do I deal with my gay panic Archived
Thread 33389380 Archived
Are there any benefits to being a Nice Guy?
Core Symptoms:
>Excessive People-Pleasing: A constant need to make everyone happy, often at their own expense. They bend over backward, sacrifice their ti...
How do you catch your wife cheating? Archived
My wife is currently out of town on holiday 'with a friend'. She wouldn't tell me the hotel. She tells me she's on her period without asking. Tells me she's sleeping on the sofa bed, again, without me...
How do I fix my attention span? Archived
I am currently at a point where I struggle to read long posts even on imageboard without losing some context along the way or having random unrelated thoughts popup.
My goal is to read longer books a...
Thread 33380982 Archived
Did any females here have/had anorexia? Or anyone else had experience with them? I wonder how such people operate day to day.
Thread 33386351 Archived
I have a question how to piss off any person, I don't know why but it's funny I like it, and how easy is it to achieve?
AMA, i'm Mr. Professor Archived
i'm a Professor, just ask me anything or tell me anything you wanna get advice from. I will guide you through all battles of your life
I hate that I’m a chud Archived
I grew up online and therefore have developed a “based” (for lack of a better word” perspective on things, but at the same time I’m an artist music guy so literally everyone I socialize with irl are l...
What should i mix with coffee so i die faster Archived
I'd like to hear some ideas from you guys. What should mix with my coffee so i die faster?
I'm not interested living this live. I wanted to end myself recently. I wouldn't hesitate to gulp sleeping p...
Thread 33388630 Archived
I keep seeing all these memes about how everyone in america is an idiot and no one has any basic knowledge of anything.
I'm pretty smart, not to toot my own horn. In every shitty office job I've had ...
Thread 33389720 Archived
so lets say hypothetically i fumble this amazing girl like crazy bad like insanely bad like i told her "your not gonna tell anyone about this right" after we did stuff together bad and after that even...
Thread 33388610 Archived
Just need to vent.
I was starting to feel depressed at my job due to the my jealous female manager that would get angry every time my co worker initiated a conversation with me.
He's a white guy, and ...
If you had to start over, where would you go? Archived
A few years ago I moved back to my hometown to reconnect with family and old friends during a lull in my career. I believe that was a mistake. I get along reasonably well with my parents, but my exten...
Advice on staying stable Archived
about a year ago i quit my last job. was the best one i ever had, then one day the management went to shit. not sure if it was a personal thing or if the higher ups were just coming down on those belo...
Thread 33381611 Archived
Men overestimate the importance of looks and severely underestimate the real determining factor in dating: personality.
Women crave a tough assertive man that gets what he wants and is never vulnerab...
Thread 33385164 Archived
I’m 19M, in usa, and broke. My biggest insecurity is I have gaps all over my teeth. I can't go outside without covering my mouth or looking away from people. I know this may seem trivial but look up "...
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