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how to cope with jerking/not jerking off Archived
i dont want prostate cancer and i just stopped porn for a while. I dont want to jerk off without porn, theres too much pain and not enough intoxication to go with it. i literally dont want to go back ...
First date-- I wanna throw up Archived
I'm about to go on my first date ever with a guy and I want to throw up so badly. I can't sleep. I can't eat. I haven't showered. I've been over thinking about this, this whole week. Help me.
Breakup Archived
I kept telling her that I was feeling unheard and that I started to feel intimidated to talk about our issues with her and she kept telling me that she was not feeling the same and that we just have d...
Males Archived
I need a non normie northern euro man to love me and worship me and go to walks in nature with me (female)
Other than soc where do I look?
Thread 33383143 Archived
Is it weird to go to the library every day? I'm 34. I want to teach myself CS.
I posted on reddit and got mocked by thousands of people Archived
A few months back I posted about how I had an unhealthy obsession of arguing with AI about not being gay. The post didn't get that many responses, and I had forgotten about it until someone recently c...
/atoga/ — Ask The Opposite Gender Anything Archived
Cute baby edition
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Thread 33388836 Archived
How do I stop basing my self worth on physical appearance? I hate how I look but I want to feel good about myself.
Coding job Archived
I am an 18 year old young man, didn't finish high school but while neeting I got a passion for coding and digital systems design (went through the rabbit hole of modern firmware then got into game dev...
MY SHIRTS SMELL Archived
no matter what i do, i shave my armpits, take GOOOOD shower, scrub my underarm, wear DEODORANT, WEAR PERFUME, WASH MY CLOTHES GOOOD, went to google and they say applying aloe vera for like 30 minutes ...
Thread 33389029 Archived
feel like joining a boxing gym, are they worth it?
No one ever talks about how shit you still feel despite being on self improvement Archived
I'm
>going to the gym regularly
>eating mostly healthy
>socializing semi regularly
>sleeping relatively normal
Yet it doesn't make me feel better and shit outside of my control like the aging of my p...
Thread 33385320 Archived
How do you have confidence sober? I have a bit of a drinking problem, but I can't talk to people when I'm sober. I feel like I need alcohol to talk to people, and I want to cut alcohol from my life, a...
Advice for dealing with Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome Archived
Also known as PAWS. Specifically opioids. Thought the hard part was the withdrawals, but it's been weeks and I still feel awful. Pretty much only have the energy to work and that's it.
SSRIS ARE EVIL DEMONIC BULLSHIT Archived
These drugs are engineered by Satan to destroy your soul. Please never take them.
Thread 33379488 Archived
Where do I (m23) find an 18-20 year old girlfriend who wants to make me wear skirts and get topped by cute boys?
Thread 33388709 Archived
How do I even figure out my position in society?
Thread 33385337 Archived
I want to marry a white woman but so many of them are fat ugly retarded whores. Should I settle for an asian woman even though half-breed asians are uglier than white children? Asian women at least ap...
any kind of kits similar to sodium nitrite online? Archived
i’m looking for suicide kits but the only kind i can manage to dig anything up on is sodium nitrite, and that seems to be relatively difficult to get my hands on from the internet. is there any kind o...
Giving Advice on University Archived
Let's talk about univeristy and talk about it using facts.
Of all people who attend university less than 65% of them complete a 'four year degree' within 6 years and the average amount of time to get ...
I really want to kill myself but I’m too scared Archived
Title. My life has gone completely to shit in the past few years. I developed severe OCD, my bipolar disorder got worse, my only girlfriend I ever had cheated on me and left me, I’ve had zero luck wit...
Thread 33388497 Archived
My female boss pushed for me to go to an upcoming work conference with her. It really is only somewhat relevant I think to my job, probably more relevant to hers, but I rarely get to go to such things...
need advice on revege Archived
I need some advice on how to properly ruin a getaway holiday i had planned, but my ex decided to go with some white knight instead, because i was too "serious" and he's just so "casual".
So I got cuck...
Thread 33378380 Archived
When I was 11 I started jacking it to doujins about shotas and MILFS, as I got older my porn addiction(started at 7) devolved into bisexualish stuff like traps and trannies. As I aged I kept jacking i...
Thread 33380920 Archived
So if I'm living in a homeless shelter, and their hot water heater gets broken and people can't take hot showers but only cold showers, doesn't that shit count as inhumane?
Everybody walking around s...
spergout incoming Archived
22 year old ex-neet here
just returning from a TERRIBLE semester,both academically and socially. especially socially
turns out having sleep issues anger issues self image issues on top of being a fat ...
Thread 33386301 Archived
Context, I'm a single guy and this has happened a couple times recently
First a girl I met in a bar, started complaining about some other guy at the same event making her feel uncomfortable, then star...
Guilt from childhood Archived
When I hit puberty I tried to get my sister to suck my dick. She didn't, but I felt like a monster about the situation as I got older. We are grown adults now. Do I apologize, or will that just bring ...
Thread 33388296 Archived
How to flirt with a girl who seems to be austistic? Should I "flirt" at all? Considering she probably is neurodivergent then the approach needs to be less conventional I guess, I just don't know how. ...
Thread 33370940 Archived
I go on crystal cafe and it kills me when I read their stuff while they spin out of control. Sometimes I just want to give them a male perspective to let them know they are tripping but I’ll just be i...
Thread 33384979 Archived
I always took making coffee for your s/o to be a sign of love. I've been making my bf coffee the way he likes it every morning for a year now. He only takes it black, but I still brew it for him until...
Thread 33379464 Archived
Ever since my ex left me 3 years ago everything has just been going downhill. I crave human contact so bad it's driving me crazy, I just want to hold a girl's hand, teasing her, getting her lewd cloth...
HOW TO CLEAN OUT YOUR EARHOLES Archived
I just gave myself a great ear cleaning or "lavage" using my usual simple method, and now I can hear much better! I am going to give you some detailed and unsolicited advice on how to clean out your e...
suicidal over posting nudes Archived
To give a quick background, I’m a straight man that developed a crippling porn addiction after a bad breakup with a beautiful woman. This spiraled out of hand and warped my sexuality into autogynephil...
Facing 20 to life imprisonment Archived
I was pulled out after driving over the speed limit. Once the police officer confronted me, I got out of my car, hijacked the cop car and drove off speeding. I hit a few cars and was eventually stoppe...
Stuck on 4chan Archived
I can't stop lurking here, for the past two weeks, day in day out.. I just lay in bed rotting, refreshing 4chan over and over. I'm feeling internet fatigue but I don't even know what else to do. I go ...
How do I talk in groups of people? Archived
I always get super awkward in large groups, I get sucked up in it and fade away. I just stand there awkwardly and barely talk. Either way it feels like even when I do talk I get forgotten about. Any t...
Thread 33382323 Archived
What do you say to girls for cold approach when
>They're minding their business on their own (sitting and looking at their phone in public)
>When they're walking towards somewhere with purpose (like w...
advice Archived
Thinking of getting a cross tattoo.
Anyone got cool ideas or suggestions?
Thread 33388298 Archived
>take a shower incel!!1!!! that's why women don't want you!!!!
I love this argument used by normgroids, I am an incel that showers and use perfume everyday.
I also worked as a tattoo artist for a tim...
I dont know how I feel Archived
Been a kissless hugless virgin for a long time, finally got a girl who clearly likes me, we've kissed a few times, she's clearly into me and wants a relationship. Problem is i dont think i have that m...
Less stressful jobs Archived
I'm an engineer, specifically a Systems Engineer.
My current work environment is too stressful, far FAR too stressful.
I'm sitting here feeling like my head and heart are about to blow.
I'm very good...
Thread 33385461 Archived
8 people walked out at my company today, so now I work 7 days a week. What do I do to cope, /adv/?
Figuring out an unemotional relationship Archived
I'm in my late 20s, having my first real (long distance) relationship with a woman. I met her once for 12 day long trip, and we've been together for 3 months.
I found out the hard way that I can't re...
getting a room mate Archived
I was speaking to someone who apparently really needs to get into a new room, she seems chill.
I explained the rent where I am at, and a few things about bathrooms.
She seemed to almost immediately be...
Thread 33386435 Archived
I have to take a photo for my ID card but I am affraid that I'll be stressed and anxious so I won't be able to have my head stay fixed when so required. Should I drink alcohol before to avoid anxiety ...
Thread 33385352 Archived
How do I deal with online trolls? The ones which threaten you will all kinds of slurs and acts. I know it isn't something which will ever bother or affect me in day-to-day life, yet I can't help but f...
Feminist liberal women who want to marry rich Archived
I’m a white male mid-30’s. I have big debts from taking out loans to gamble on crypto but I make like $140k now. I went no health insurance for a while in my 20’s and actually current have no health i...
Thread 33384246 Archived
How do I stop being skinnyfat? I keep gaining weight around my belly and it looks stupid
my friends dont seem to like me Archived
i talk to two of them everyday, but thats because they respond. and its only a couple messages. the other one im distancing myself from for reasons.
theyre all irls so theyre all close to eachother ...
Thread 33384191 Archived
I have a good diet and exercise regularly, I'm not overweight, don't smoke, drink or do drugs, but I'm still depressed, suffer from constant pain and inflammation, and can't sleep. I'm 31 and that's b...
Thread 33384109 Archived
How do I know if I'm incapable of love
Thread 33387352 Archived
I've had this slampig a while, shes a mexican girl, I've been fucking her for years, and I'm thinking of just saying fuck it and dating her. Every girlfriend I get has been completely insufferable, to...
found potential gf, but shes a pedo Archived
for the longest time ive been a neet, practically trapped in my circumstances and no matter how hard ive tried to get out nothing works since im an autistic retard and normalfag hr assholes hate me
r...
Sexual intercourse between BF and GF Archived
I have a girlfriend, do you have any tips to I have sex with my grilfriend, I mean how I will convince my grilfriend to have sex with me?
Thread 33387400 Archived
How the fuck do people live? Every single day feels like a 12 hour aeroplane flight. I want to kill myself so badly it's fucking insane and I'm only 22. Please help me.
Mods please don't delete I'm f...
/atoga/ - ask the opposite gender anything Archived
Dying in wars edition
Last one hit the image limit
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Finding chicks like this: Archived
Use your imagination and give me some leads.
>pros and cons of this phenotype are also welcome
we’re all gonna make it
Do I have PCOS Archived
>chub
>hairy as shit body+face but thinning hair on my head
>always fucking tired, all I wanna do is imagine anime boyfriends sadistically fucking each other
>autoandrophilia
>disastrous periods. I wa...
Thread 33382745 Archived
If I hate the person I am and I'll always be myself what can I do?
Thread 33386914 Archived
>the average man has to fight and beg and go through humilation rituals for one crumb of mid pussy, and maintain this to keep that crumb of pussy
>the average woman has hundreds of dating options, mul...
insecure about my looks Archived
despite knowing that i’m not ugly at the very least, i’m never completely happy with the way i look. my boyfriend always compliments me but i always feel like i’m the opposite of what he finds attract...
Thread 33387240 Archived
How do I expose myself to more women?
I'm a decent looking guy. I'm pretty sure they'd suck my cock if they just got the chance to know me better.
Cat dying. Anything I could do? Archived
Cat is dying. Kidney failure. Euthanasia is tomorrow. I honestly don't know how to process this information.
She keeps switching between lying in bed and standing in front of her water bowl without be...
Yellow Pants Archived
I feel weird walking around in my yellow slacks. It feels like they aren't mine.
I just like standing out. I want people to see that I’m a ray of sunshine. Is that childish?
Thread 33385135 Archived
My grandmother passed away this February, and at that time, I didn’t know what or how to feel until I visited her. That’s when I started crying. It took a few days for the reality of what happened to ...
Should I kill myself? Archived
Thread 33384887 Archived
>Hey, you're hot. You should come to my place later.
Is this a bad pickup?
Thread 33378266 Archived
>birthday
>all alone
>never had a gf due to being 5'9 in scandinavia
Why are women so fucking hateable bros? Whats your advice for not wanting to smack one every time you see one
Is Music a Waste of Time? Archived
>be me
>early 30s
>tried STEM, tried med school
>didn't last, dropped out of both after a few years
>high IQ, low conscientiousness, excelled in high school with lower workload. classic university dro...
financially irresponsible Archived
I quit my job (didn't show up for the next few shifts) when I found out I could get an "advance" pay which is basically them paying you a certain amount of your hours worked immediately due to emergen...
I have a below average IQ Archived
Well.....this is it. I paid a handsome amount of money (600 USD) and took an IQ test. Sixty eight. Sixty motherfucking eight IQ. Do you morons realize how fucking devastating this is to my life? I am ...
Help Archived
Most vids i try to watch now say 404 or Error! Page not found, but other anons in thread are obv able to see them because theyre responding to them. So how do i watch the vids?
Do i have skin cancer? Archived
I'm going to a doctor on Monday, but in the meantime, tell me if this is cancer or not.
How do I get more hairy? Archived
I want those bear-esque limbs and mid section with so much hair that you struggle to spot the skin underneath it.
>But why anon?
I think of it as a symbol of superiority
jealousy and insecurity and anxiety Archived
how do i stop fearing that my boyfriend is going to cheat on me? he's really attractive and a lot of girls are interested in him, he also has a few female friends that i suspect are into him but it's ...
Thread 33386158 Archived
So there's this black girl I like. She usually wears hoodies, durags, dresses tomboyish.
I noticed when she'd get off the computer she'd throw something in the garbage, she'd sometimes glance at me.
...
Think I somehow developed slight agoraphobia? Archived
I don't know what happened, but I think over the past couple of years I've managed to develop a pretty bad fear of a lot of things that don't make sense. I used to go on long walks around my neighborh...
Thread 33383346 Archived
How do I want MORE? I struggle with desire. I lack ambition though I'd say I want to do and be better and have standards I want to reach. But when people ask me what I want, I don't know, despite bein...
Thread 33386228 Archived
I come from Romania, the country which supplies more than half of all prostitutes in the european union despite only being 2-3% of it's population.
I am almost 20 and in all my years of education I ha...
/ATOGA/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
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Thread 33372666 Archived
How do you prevent people from cutting in front of you without looking like a loser?
Girlfriend Archived
How do I get a girl to like me?
What are some necessitates for young women to buy? Archived
I'm out of neetdom and have my first paycheck. I've been seriously neglecting my hygiene/personal maintenance for so long that I don't know what I need. I have a hair clip, hair ties, shampoo, bar of ...
Thread 33385166 Archived
The most important thing about social skills is having a calm demeanor.
Thread 33378232 Archived
>Only when the Lord himself restores [you] can [you] ever be really happy again
UK lottery Archived
>play a game of Euromillions on Tuesday
>got the special number right
>earned nothing
What National Lottery game should I play for tomorrow?
I can’t get over aging Archived
From the age of 15,17 when I lost my virginity, to about 23, people just invited me places, girls wanted to fuck me, and I felt like the man. I had this thriving social life where I just had to show u...
How do I move on from hating Archived
My girlfriend is 13 weeks pregnant.
We never wanted to have children. However, she now wants to keep the child and I feel sick in my stomach any time I even think of seeing this child looking at me.
...
Thread 33385491 Archived
If you wanted to ruin someone's professional career, how would you do it? I'm talking white collar director level employee.
Thread 33375733 Archived
I'm going to start talking to girls, just anywhere. I'm currently on my way to the gym and basically, I'm just going to start talking to cute girls whenever and wherever I see them. You can't stop me.
Should have I just been nicer to people? Archived
I have a Sperger's syndrome and normie behaviors always seemed extremly hostile and alien to me. I always felt like I was succesfully avoiding being interrogated and manipulated by others by being rep...
Going to church while not being religious Archived
I would like to start attending church services and events, as it's pretty much the only option for regular social interaction in my area. I have no intention of being disrespectful toward their belie...
Which is more bearable? Archived
Be in a class but:
- Have a professor who constantly berates the students, and especially you, to test their limits, or
- Attend it with a girl you like but doesn't want to talk to you anymore as we...
Relationships Archived
Why don't guys like me?? I'm 17 years old and have never talked to a guy seriously. I know this sounds stupid but I feel like such a loser. All of my friends are getting into relationships, and I'm th...
Thread 33382880 Archived
Can someone help me find even the slightest bit of justice in this unfair world?
Thread 33383965 Archived
>father died
>Found out my adoptive sister was actually his bastard daughter
>Father and aunt always had a wierd as shit relationship
>Aunt goes mad after he died
>Cousin cried more than anyone
>Mo...
Thread 33384465 Archived
I've been stroking my dick to porn since I was 7. I'm 25 now, still never had a gf or reached any of the usual milestones that males ate supposed to reach. Porn is getting boring. But I don't find mys...
med Archived
I am in IT but realistically how hard is getting into med school? My mom is a Dr working at a hospital i never thought about medicine but honestly its probably the only job that you can get any meanin...
How to ask girl to lunch if she agreed Archived
Last night was at a corp dinner with my finance firm. Another competitor firm came in on the other side of the room and there was a girl there I recognised.
We had a great chat and I offered to get l...
Coming clean Archived
I feel it's time for a change and I want to admit my short comings and seek God. I have been gooning 5+ times a day to the most degenerate shit you could imagine. This includes but is not in anyway li...
Thread 33384258 Archived
I was the one who insisted on getting a cat, there's this stray cat who really likes/liked me, she was pregnant once and well we had to take care of her kittens. I insisted on keeping one and I didn't...
mental health Archived
>tfw bipolar 1
>been in and out of psych wards 6 times
>tfw only time im happy is when im having a manic episode
im so tired bros idk what to do at this point.
Am I evil? Archived
I sometimes get the thought of killing my wife and our 7 month old son. Idk why whenever I see her coddling him, I get so angry
Thread 33379343 Archived
How do I "get rid" of my fear of the dentist?
I have an extraction appointment in a week and I'm scared shitless of going, I already have done this once but I know I'll get extremely anxious and scare...
I fucked up by admitting to my husband I hate giving BJs Archived
So I’ve been together with my husband for 12 years, married for 4. We have a baby together.
Before my husband, I was never a big sexual person. I’m not a prude, but I felt certain sexual acts were de...
Thread 33385153 Archived
How do I learn how to handle cringe, public humiliation, and embarrassment and not get phased by it?
pls help me someone Archived
read if u want ig
https://anotepad.com/notes/g4mh86ak
Thread 33379024 Archived
How do you date as a non-Chad? Do you just take what you can get? I think I might rather go hermit mode
Thread 33385108 Archived
>get told something by an authority figure
>get pissed someone criticized you
>ignore advice and keep failing at whatever you're doing to try and frustrate the person who tried to give you advice
>or ...
I have no idea how to talk to women Archived
I want to start by saying I don’t think I’m a super ugly guy. I’m definitely no supermodel or anything but I wouldn’t say I’m absolutely hideously ugly. I made a bumble account last week and I have al...
idk what to do Archived
So i need some advice
not really tech savvy
downloaded a crappy vpn
go on non standard web
see bunch of onions
randomly clicking a few
not reading descriptions because im just messing around
click...
Thread 33383112 Archived
How do i learn banter? Someone is looking at you, and you just start, you know?
What's worth staying by? Archived
Hey /adv/ I'll try to keep this short as I can, bear with me.
I've been dating my gf for about 10 months. Throughout the duration of the relationship and a lot recently I've had doubts about how much ...
How do I cope? Archived
>worried about random bullshit for 15 years
>everything was fine
>did nothing with my life
>about to turn 30
>no real friends
What now? Was it really that bad?
Thread 33383428 Archived
My parents told me if you get a job you love you won't work a day in your life
I thought the guys who made Girls Gone Wild tapes had the right idea, getting paid to convince girls to take their tops o...
How do I draw with my ADHD being this bad? Archived
How do I actually force myself to draw? I've been wanting to draw for nearly 2 years now and have barely made any progress towards that goal. I've only done one Loomis face like 2 years ago and haven'...
Thread 33383582 Archived
Anons. Anons. Anons.
About 7 months ago, my toilet clogged. It's still clogged. The thing is, for autism reasons I never told anyone…and proceeded to shit in the clogged bowl, in the shower, the sink...
He do you know if your daughter is a failure? Archived
I don’t want flowery bullshit I want truth. I tried looking online if there are such factors and nothing. I definitely know this isnt true
Thread 33377423 Archived
Is my job trying to push me to quit?
Everything I do wrong is treated as a catastrophe, and it doesn't matter how small the issue is. Even looking away from the computer gets me lectured over teams.
a bit desperate Archived
lots of shit going on so i make it brief. im an ok looking twinky guy, i need money because ill kill myself if i dont leave my family soon, im southamerican. would only fans be the easy way out? would...
Thread 33383510 Archived
i’ve been on here complaining about dating a lot, so i finally bit the bullet and decided to download twitter. this is the first fucking profile i saw. my area is full of straight 2/10s who think bein...
/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
MKG Edition
ITT We ask the opposite gender anything. (With a few exceptions: see below).
Note: the clue is in the name. If you're not replying to another anon, your post MUST be in the form of a que...
Thread 33374930 Archived
Don't know where else to post this, here goes nothing
>be me 30 yo, live with my younger brother
>hook up with this girl, 25 yo, waitress
>we often meet at my house because she dislikes her family and...
Thread 33382675 Archived
>go outside
>hang out with people
>be spontaneous and impulsive
>laugh, make them laugh
>share yourself, and meet them when they share themselves
>have a good time
>come home
>mfw pic related
>feel l...
Men: Groups on Masculinity? Archived
I am building and researching Men-only groups for serious discussions on masculinity.
Testosterone, fitness, social impact etc. But not leaning anywhere close towards anti-feminist nor goon culture.
...
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