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Thread 33377769 Archived
There's a guy at work who likes to poke me at work. If I'm peeing at the urinal when he walks into the bathroom, he'll poke me in the back and make a noise. I usually don't react because I'll see him ...
need advice with youtube trolls Archived
I have a fairly small channel that somehow hits viral view counts and whenever it does, i get those retarded youtube bots saying "My channel is better!" and when you access those channels they have so...
Boomermaxxing Archived
Well, it’s clear that the way humans have been conditioned to live in this day and age is unhealthy. I’ve thought about doing something I’ll call ‘boomermaxxing’; I always saw something very enviable ...
Thread 33382138 Archived
How do you get help from people when the problem is you're too anxious to talk to people?
I just tried to book a medical appointment for the first time. Didn't even make it into the actual call befor...
Fuck dating can we get some advice on how to get freinds Archived
Im someone who suffers from extreme social burnout so ive kinda just acepted ill die alone but i see super often advice here just goes "do it like with your freinds" well i dont have that so lets star...
How to not be a faggot? Archived
I'm not gay, I just mean in terms of what's been said here. I'm gen Z and I see a lot of people on here say we're all faggots, I've been told I am one by friends I used to have, and I see that in almo...
Thread 33380561 Archived
How to know if I'm hypomanic or is it just the setraline working?
Still I'd rather be hypomanic than in my normal anxious gay faggot state
I don't have bipolar
Thread 33382835 Archived
>search for advice reddit post
>tough shit. grow up, deal with it.
>search for advice reddit post (female)
>it's going to be okay. here's exactly what you need to do *good advice with clear instructi...
Today I fell for a hoover Archived
Like a bitch and now I'm the one ruminating while they have moved on
It was the reverse, prior
I'm now planning for the next call they'll make, or next time I'll see them, and it'll probably never c...
Thread 33373033 Archived
Is giving up on yourself sadder than losing? I think it is, do you?
Thread 33378299 Archived
As a teenager, I wrote music with disgusting lyrics for shock value to fit the genre's aesthetic. I didn't consider the impact on others or how it would shape how others see me. I doubt an explanation...
Thread 33378954 Archived
How come I don't watch anything? No TV shows, movies, sports.
I lift, do MMA, and play video games. I never understood watching something instead of doing it.
But I wish I had the ability to just co...
Expectations of women to men? Archived
I am a person who isn't particularly good with dating. I get caught up in thinking about what women expect of me as man. Mostly because I just have no idea what women want from me as a man. I feel unc...
Thread 33378681 Archived
Which dating site/app is the least shit for men? Bumble is trying to make me pay to see likes. Also, how do I get it to show me poorfag women? It keeps only showing me women with super nice sounding j...
How can I become more attractive to older women? Archived
I'm 25 but I've always had a thing for older women. I don't look particularly attractive, I have gotten some attention from girls my age at very specific moments in my life but never with an older wom...
I’m a liar and I wanna stop. How? Archived
So I’m a pathological liar and I know it’s bad but I just can’t stop. For example I lie abt my mom being dead because she was a narcissist all my life and it’s better to avoid the question and say she...
Should I try to kiss a FTM friend of mine? Archived
So basically, I have been talking to this biological girl for six months and I have had strange thoughts for a while and I'm not sure what they mean or even if they mean something at all. Despite this...
Existential crisis Archived
WARNING: Do not read this if you don't want to risk having an existential crisis like me.
WARNING: Again, read previous warning.
What is a decent philosophical method or logical way to discern wheth...
Thread 33382616 Archived
How do I cope with being mogged by my 7 year old cousin? Picrel is him. He already has a chad jawline and lots of friends at elementary school and plays soccer I guarantee he’s not a virgin by 15. Wha...
Is there actually anything you can do as a very ugly guy? Archived
I have a really ugly face, like almost deformed, just because I was born with unfortunate bone structure. I also had jaw surgery and braces but during the surgery my bones and gum at my front teeth we...
How do you guys keep going Archived
ive always been a loner ive had 0 friends before none of it is new but why does it burn my soul so badly now when i was a kid i had 1 or 2 freinds that i only would talk to on school and be terminally...
Thread 33379434 Archived
Why shouldn't I just be a sociopathic manipulative piece of shit in this dating market?
Being real, open, and authentic has gotten me nowhere, only dates that fizzled out and leave me alone. At least...
Thread 33377962 Archived
How should i communicate this?
The type of cake my parents got for my birthday is not one i like. I liked it when I was younger, but now I quite dislike it.. They didn't ask my preference and got it t...
Thread 33378987 Archived
How do I become more confident and not let women in relationships take charge?
I've realized that the reason I prefer more dominant women in relationships is because I'm autistic and doubt my decisio...
Thread 33377001 Archived
What do you do if you're 25yo and never held hands or hugged a girl romantically? Am I allowed to go after 18yo? I'm basically 18 romantically. In fact they might have more sexual experience than me.
Thread 33382787 Archived
Recently I met a freelance electrical engineer and shared an idea I have for a new invention. He says he can make it and will give me the right to sell it, but he needs a bit of money to get the proje...
Thread 33380612 Archived
Is it bad to be nice to your boss if it means getting your way? How to not look like a kiss ass?
Thread 33377840 Archived
what kind of people do you socialize with? how important is networkmaxxing to making it? some retards here claim it's nothing
I am tired of hanging around the bottom scraps of society, people who are ...
Thread 33378139 Archived
>sitting off by myself crying
>dad who never talks to me comes up "anon why are you crying?"
>"I miss (childhood dog who recently died)."
>"I know. We all miss (childhood dog who recently died)."
>lea...
psa: women are NPCs Archived
they don't know whether they're attracted to you until you actively try to fuck them. that's why your approach, game and confidence matter so much.
that's also why it's USELESS to look for hints, wai...
Thread 33379692 Archived
Young women(my age) do this thing where they speak with ebonics the more angry or funny they're trying to be. It's a huge turn off, how can I ignore it?
Femanon here Archived
I saw a girls name in my husbands phone, I thought it said tifannii, I am so freaking upset because I saw on linkin and one of the flight attendant in his company is named tiffannii, so there’s no way...
Is something wrong me ? Archived
I was taking a cold shower, and I was thinking about my parents being having a shitlife without them realized it. My aunt and uncle both are developing a Super rare case of dementia because of how you...
Disability Archived
>be me
>got ssdi 1290 a month, public housing, and food stamps
>I can survive but that’s about it
What do I do now!
Thread 33381987 Archived
I CANT FUCKING TAKE IT ANYMORE
THIS MENTAL ILLNESS INSIDE OF ME IS DRIVING ME CRAZY, OCD AND PSYCHOSIS IM IMAGINING TULPAS AND SHIT I CANT FUCKING TAKE IT I HAVE NO FUCKING PRIVACY
THESE OCD RITUALS A...
Thread 33377473 Archived
how to move to canada from middle of nowhere finland with no money and just a highschool diploma?
suicide note Archived
https://anotepad.com/notes/g4mh86ak
Thread 33358932 Archived
Is it rude to just blankly say "come on" to someone if we both reach the door from opposite sides and are waiting for each other give way?
Thread 33381054 Archived
I've been a neet since i was 18 and i'm 25 now and my parents told me they're kicking me out unless i pay them 1k every month starting next month.
wtf do i even do? i have no idea even how to go abou...
Thread 33382167 Archived
just failed my masters admission to get into a good uni, I feel like killing myself the questions were so easy but I didnt study
Should I take a year off and try again next year or should I go to the ...
WHY THE FUCK DO THEY ALWAYS CRY Archived
WHEN I SAY SOMETHING? I TRY SO HARD TO FLY UNDER THE RADAR AND THEY TEAR UP ANYWAY
SHOULD I JUST NOT SAY ANYTHING? IS MY NAME TRAUMATIZING TO THEM AT THIS POINT?
Thread 33382305 Archived
How do I stop being a narcissist? I have a kind and pretty gf who cares about me a lot but I constantly have to fight thoughts like "I'm better than her and can get better" but I'll just think the sam...
Thread 33381716 Archived
>be me, 13yo girlneet
>all girls sleepover with a bunch of friends,we're like 7 or so
>eventually we start talking about sex because uhhh hormones
>immediately excited by the subject, makin jokes abou...
Every woman I met is a loser Archived
Where do I meet the supposed women who 10 out of 10, have careers and go to the gym?
Every woman people try to match me with is either a fat goblina working at a restaurant for tips, a single mom who ...
Glow up tips Archived
Guys I don’t feel that I look my best so I wanna be prettier. I don’t know what to do though so any tips?
little brother beating on me Archived
hi, adv. here's my situation
i'm 18 and my brother is 17 in a week. he completely lacks respect for me as his older sister and that's probably the result of me babying him growing up (defending him f...
I love my foid and I think she's the one Archived
...but sex isn't good.
I'm a male with a high body count. This is not a brag, it's actually a grim reality that I have so many high sexual points to be nostalgic for, so it makes it harder to be jade...
Thread 33381568 Archived
Should only people who can honestly say they want nothing more than to be together forever get married? If there is any doubt as to whether you really want that, should they answer be "no"? Or will th...
What Women would date a White Man who doesn't look Fully European? Archived
I'm a White man who is visibly part non Euro. I'm only 25% Arab on my mom's so I should look Euro but I fucking look Mexican. My dad is Sicilian. I also have Southwest Iberian. I get some Sephardic Je...
Thread 33380025 Archived
Is ADHD real? Doesn't everyone have it then
Where do I cold approach? How do I do it? Archived
Hello /adv/, I'm a 21 years old male. For the first time in my life, I feel like I'm ready to date. I've got a car, I'm in good shape, I've got a full time job making okay spending money (I work wareh...
I fucked up Archived
A few months ago, I slept with an escort and from that moment on, I’ve been beating myself, knowing the stigma behind it - I’m clean but since that happened, I see myself as a monster. I wasn’t a virg...
Thread 33381912 Archived
What are some activities you can do outside by yourself? I'm lonely and a loner
Drugs that increase libido, penile sensitivity? Archived
I took finasteride and it chemically castrated me. Dick sensitivity, libido, and orgasm pleasure are down.bI can’t feel alcohol or caffeine as strongly.
My ability to enjoy life and experience pleas...
Thread 33381806 Archived
I'm a 19 year old and i've never had a woman show romantic interest in me.
I have the social skills of a rat who dwells in a solitary confinement.
Is it over for me?
Are social skills genetic too or c...
Thread 33372983 Archived
I used to think I was asexual, but my doctor put me on some stuff to help my low energy/mood, and I guess asexuality was a symptom bc I've had the dumbest crush on this guy from one of my classes and ...
Thread 33381973 Archived
How do you get a girlfriend as a 28 year old male? I have never so much as even held a girls hand. I just want a woman to love me so bad.
Thread 33381994 Archived
Why do women like other guys posts on social media when they already have a boyfriend they say they are loyal to and in love with??
Non goon program Archived
I'm trying this new method to not masterbate / at least not masterbating as much as I used to. By watching soft core porno, think of it like tolerance building. My question is, has anyone tried this b...
Thread 33379876 Archived
Can some of the experts of Incelology here explain how this guy gets mad pussy? He doesn't seem all that good looking but he has had multiple threesomes and one of them was with a lesbian couple. How ...
Thread 33377829 Archived
I've been wearing earplugs almost non-stop for the past 10 weeks. I only take them off for about 10 minutes every now and then when I'm at home and then I put them back on. I just fucking hate all sou...
Thread 33376830 Archived
Okay so last year, I was admitted into the hospital after a car crash. And I was unconscious for about five or six hours.
I woke up without my clothes but a hospital gown.
Do you think the female n...
Thread 33381758 Archived
What is the point of going to therapy because you were abused as a child? How does it actually help? It's not like it can undo what happened to you or make it less damaging, so what's the point?
help me with d pedo that text my sis. Archived
Hi, I'm from Brazil and I apologize if my English sounds weird, but a pedophile sent a message to my sister (who is only 12 years old) on TikTok, and I would honestly like to find out how to get his p...
Thread 33381430 Archived
Seriously, though, are there kinks I should feel bad about being turned on about? Even if it's happening to fictional people?
Do I need psychological evaluation?
Thread 33380999 Archived
Can I get disability if I'm perfectly capable of working but get debilitating stress diarrhea every time I'm going to a job interview?
Thread 33380158 Archived
Kd0aw
average breakup L Archived
okay been seeing this guy for like four years.
super incompatible but i have BPD so my ass was dedicated. lot of back and forth cheating after he cheated on me while i was on a psych ward, yeah? i ha...
Thread 33381500 Archived
Posted in GIOYC this morning but no one in that thread cares so I'm just moving it to its own thread.
>Lesbians ruined my life. I was diagnosed autistic very young and had so many fucking sped accomm...
How can I find peace? Archived
I have been through a lot of mental trauma and I'm always on fight or flight mode. Is it possible for me to find peace? I wish I could be in a cozy place like in picrel
Should I ask out my non-hijabi Muslim co-worker? Archived
I get along really well with a female co-worker and I'm pretty interested in her, but I've been hesitant to progress from basic frendliness to anything more forward after realising she's Muslim. I'm w...
Men Of God Archived
Im going out like samson. Hbu?
Girlfriend better than me Archived
Been dating a girl for about half a year, things have been going good, but the thing is I never really understood what she sees in me, and I can't help but feel like once the honeymoon phase ends and ...
Should I cut off my only friend Archived
We got along pretty well initially due to similar personalities and life stories. But over time I noticed that he embodies many character traits that I started to despise in myself, being the worst on...
/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything Archived
Previously: >>33376566
Girly ways to avoid being a loser #1 Archived
I haven't really found a way to identify myself with any of those...strictly chronically online terms, but I have a feeling there must be a term for me somewhere! I'm not exactly the type of a girl yo...
Ruining a pedo's life Archived
Is there any way to ruin the life of the person who groomed me for five years? I'm an adult now, we live in different countries and I have their ID number, address (probably different now), their uncl...
Thread 33381030 Archived
Is this all there is?
how to explain my mentality\motives Archived
I need a way to quickly, briefly, explain the moral and philosophical background ,of the behaviour I will start having; I'm EXTREMELY bitter\resentful\upset at the universe or reality, because I found...
Thread 33380553 Archived
If I have over 100 kids as a sperm donor, what exactly is supposed to motivate me to date girls? I'm 27 so what's the point of sharing my assets, dealing with someone who's had another dick in her in ...
Thread 33365963 Archived
I hate christians so much, especially when they preach to me when I didn't ask for it.
How do I tell them to fuck off without appearing rude?
Thread 33380358 Archived
This is so awful
- Be me be in kindergarten (1996) befriend rich person
> Anon you don't have to worry about bills (finding career)
find a degenerate off the streets yelling random things at them in ...
Thread 33377933 Archived
I've been scheming up my backup exit plan using helium for a while, but the parts are hard to get, well not really but I cba to go through hoops to get a flowmeter.
So I'm considering a charcoal stove...
Is it "weird" that I don't work a lot? Archived
I'm 33 and in a masters program for computer science. I work part-time teaching one class a semester at a local college. My finances are all taken care of and I have savings each month. Yet, I still f...
Job Offer, not sure if legit, not sure what to do Archived
I've been applying to jobs on Indeed with no success for the past three weeks, but got a direct job offer for a position I never applied to.
It is a position as a baker on a farm. Now I've worked in ...
New girl at work is being really nice to me, and I don’t know why. Archived
>be me
>27, virgin, no friends
>only leave house for work, church, family
>fit and decent looking, but really autistic and bad when it comes to women
>new cute girl starts at work
>asks me for help so...
One last chance Archived
>35
>NEET for basically entire life
>no high school or college education
>dropped out of school in 9th grade
>never worked
>have left house maybe 6times in past 15 years
>0 social skills
>obese
>neve...
Thread 33380853 Archived
How attractive is this girl out of 10?
Looking to get some opinions
what should I do? :( Archived
Hello everyone, ladies and gentlemen) My name is Alex and I have a huge problem: the thing is that 2 months ago in the World Talk app I met a wonderful girl, her name is Kayla, we talked on WhatsApp f...
. Archived
Should i start a fwb relathionship with an older guy, or should i wait till i find a boyfriend and lose my virginity to him? I am 18f, i am lonely and never go out really. I dont go to school and dont...
please tell me what to do Archived
i have been with my lover for over a year and a half now but there are a few things that have made me feel worthless or not special to him, even if i know that is not true...
>he likes loli
>he likes...
Thread 33380688 Archived
>god permeates everything and is benevolent
Then why does my life suck so hard?
Thread 33378524 Archived
Hello. I think I know the answer to this but I'd like some advice...
I've been recently interested in my coworker. We've been viking and talking and I make her laugh and she seems to flirt with me a ...
Advice for hopelessness Archived
Due to different factors I'm feeling completely disillusioned and hopeless about my life. I'm not gonna list those factors though, because they don't matter to my question. What I want advice for is j...
I might have fucked up Archived
In my country we have this obligated car check every couple of years and it's illegal to use the car on street if you miss the deadline. You'll get a fine and your car can be banned from circulation.
...
Homemade Weed Archived
i need to smoke man but i've got no weed available rn.... is there something i can smoke like that i can get from my kitchen or something?? don't waant to become another walter white just need to smok...
Thread 33380404 Archived
>21 year old chud
>entering senior year of college
>was a loser in high school
>in STEM so the only attractive girls I see are outside of my classes
>I don't have a pretense to talk to them
>sophomore...
Why do ALL women reject me? Archived
It doesn't matter how much a woman is into me initially. I have the same problem with women who approach me to tell me i'm good looking, ask me out, simp for me initially. They ALL lose interest in me...
Facing 20 to life imprisonment Archived
I was pulled out after driving over the speed limit. Once the police officer confronted me, I got out of my car, hijacked the cop car and drove off speeding. I hit a few cars and was eventually stoppe...
Thread 33378002 Archived
How to increase my iq? I scored about 125 in an online test by realiq
I was bad at visio spatial related questions
Thread 33375882 Archived
What’s to stop me from dressing like this?
I feel no love Archived
Only for my friends (no homo). I lost my virginity at 20 to this girl from Tinder because I didn’t want to get mocked/seen as weak by men/women since there’s a big totally cruel and unjustified stigma...
accidentally killed my own girlfriend.. Archived
you read the title. now i'm not no retard to just go throwing knives and shit and that's how she died, but i have several mental conditions. one of which is DID. (dissoactive identity disorder). DID m...
Recurrent miscarriages Archived
My wife and I had a son three years ago, it took us a year to conceive him and we were about to see a fertility specialist. We tried right away to have a second, but after 18 months we spoke to the sp...
Little sister dead Archived
My little sister (imouto) got hit by a fricking car. She had said that she felt funny the few days before it, and she was doing a lot of drugs.
I’m scared that this will be her legacy. Just destructio...
Thread 33380191 Archived
My life is agony. Suicide seem like a valid option. I'm a massive pussy so I fear pain. Any peaceful methods that are within the means of about 100 dollars
Thread 33378943 Archived
My(18F) autistic younger brother (14M) won't stop saying sexual things to me and pretending it's a joke. It's been several years that he constantly tries to walk in on me getting dressed and just gene...
Oh Archived
Nobody cares about me or loves me. Prolly my last year alive. The only girl i loved left me becuase i wasnt 100% and what sux is i know i could have kept her if i wasnt a retard. I really fucking love...
is there any point of dating a girl with giant ass when you have a small dick? Archived
Is it ever going to work? Can you have actual good sex or not possible?
Thread 33380261 Archived
How do I cope with being a male ISFP
Thread 33378656 Archived
hi advice, i know you won't think i'm a woman but whatever. anyone know how to get bigger tits? excercises / foods / etc. im so close and 10k dollars away from just getting implants but i want to try ...
Thread 33379854 Archived
Is working out worth it? Is it worth feeling so sore after and having to dedicate a couple of hours a few times a week? I'm about to be 29 and seems I might better off just staying thin with abs and p...
female friend won't stop violating me Archived
so ive known this girl for like a year and after she got like comfortable with me she wont stop pinching my butt in public spaces biting me also in public zero regard over my personal space ive had to...
Thread 33380139 Archived
I'm 26. Should I give it one more shot at self-improvement or accept that I'll always be a loser?
How to convince my friend he's wrong Archived
My friend and I were talking about dumb shit that we did when we were kids and he brings up this messed up story about how he rationalized his bad behaviour with animals back in the day.
He told me ...
Thread 33376364 Archived
When you’re a hopeless NEET with no aspirations, focus, drive or goals? What’s the age where people stop hoping and pleading you’ll “get it together” and just accept you’re a lost cause?
Should I switch law schools? Archived
I have two options, either:
1. I keep on in my current law school where one of my professors this semester seems dead set in tearing the skin off my face, or
2. Switch to a different law school in th...
STAY VIGILANT JANNIE Archived
If we catch you slacking off one more time we are gutting your pay you dumb maggot.
How to get over the fact most women my age are not virgins? Archived
I’m a 25 year old virgin male and in an ideal world I’d be dating another virgin. But we all know that’s impossible. Literally every woman I know has thirst trap pics on insta. I see that and I can te...
GIOYC – Get It Off Your Chest Archived
Thread 33377994 Archived
My GF started working on the same place as her lesbian friend that kissed her years ago
Should i be worried?
Thread 33379064 Archived
How to quit doing that weird arm hand thing I've been doing for like a week now, it seems like I do it with no conscience, its very embarrassing
Thread 33378938 Archived
alright another one of these job threads.
how do i get a job if:
> 18f, just graduated
> no prior experience
> no car, can't drive
> have applied everywhere i can and gotten no interviews
my mom has...
Fell like shit Archived
acident, a real bad one
me and father
2 weeks in the icu and one in the nursery
father dies in third week
left company with millions in debt
barely shows up there
sleeping like shit and wake up like ...
Thread 33379968 Archived
I’m infatuated with this broad at my uni and I’m moderately attractive, definitely in her league. But I can’t look her in the eyes or even muster up the courage to speak to her. It’s like when you fli...
Thread 33379744 Archived
Anyone here with aspergers managed to get a gf? How'd you do it?
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